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By *enk15 OP Man 9 weeks ago
Evesham |
Some colleagues were having the "who in the office would you shag?" chat, and one suggested me (go me!) but added "Even if he is too nice"
Is it a preconception that nice people aren't a good shag?
Because frankly, I'm excellent 
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"Some colleagues were having the "who in the office would you shag?" chat, and one suggested me (go me!) but added "Even if he is too nice"
Is it a preconception that nice people aren't a good shag?
Because frankly, I'm excellent
Discuss"
You can be a decent person and a good ride. |
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"I thought those chats were left behind in the 80s especially in an open office forum "
No, far from it. I believe that a traditional 'phwooooar' whilst holding the bicep and doing an imaginary bicep curl is still very much in vogue in Norfolk.
If you can capture this with someone concurrently playing the penny whistle you are quids in I hear. |
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"Some colleagues were having the "who in the office would you shag?" chat, and one suggested me (go me!) but added "Even if he is too nice"
Is it a preconception that nice people aren't a good shag?
Because frankly, I'm excellent
Discuss"
No I don't think it is  . |
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"I've been told I'm too nice many times. I didn't realise that also meant I'm rubbish in bed.
I mean, I might have been rubbish but I'd guess that is partly down to whoever I was with... "
Nothing wrong with being nice. It's not really my style but it really doesn't translate to anything in the bedroom, or at least something that good comms can't sort out.
As you say, it kind of takes two to tango. |
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"Some colleagues were having the "who in the office would you shag?" chat, and one suggested me (go me!) but added "Even if he is too nice"
Is it a preconception that nice people aren't a good shag?
Because frankly, I'm excellent
Discuss"
Was this discussion around the photocopier!! |
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Is it a preconception that nice people aren't a good shag?"
If that is the case,then going of my recent experience here,i must be one hell of a Nice person.Yep im TOO Nice.
Infact i'd be the one who would win the nicest person award in a Nice person contest   |
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"Some colleagues were having the "who in the office would you shag?" chat, and one suggested me (go me!) but added "Even if he is too nice"
Is it a preconception that nice people aren't a good shag?
Because frankly, I'm excellent
Discuss"
Nice guy syndrome- woman don’t fantasise about sex with nice guys. They want the rogue with animal lust in his eyes, knowing full well that he’d have their knickers torn off and bent over the photocopier in a instant if they gave the sexy side eye.. |
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By (user no longer on site) 9 weeks ago
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"It's the nice ones ya need to look out for... Perverts, the lot of em! 
I came to say this 🤣"
I, for example, recycle with care, never kills slugs and slow when passing cyclists and yet somehow am an utter filthbag. |
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By (user no longer on site) 9 weeks ago
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Tbh ..no guy wants to be in the " nice " bracket when it comes to women & Sex , she wants to rip your clothes off ,she's not gonna do it to a " nice " guy , she has to want & have that animalistic way & unfortunately that doesn't happen to what they think is a " nice " guy , how many guys would love to get it on with a woman they have the hots for but it's never gonna happen simply because she thinks he's too " nice " ....it's only my tuppence worth but that's the way l think ,same way with guys..if they had a choice of having sex with a sex kitten or a " nice " woman...chances are it's the sex kitten he'll go for .. |
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I guess I'm not really a hardcore Fabber but I couldn't have sex with a woman unless I liked her. All my best meets have been with very nice ladies who were also incredibly demanding sexually as well as giving and non-possessive.
Maybe I'm too vanilla but I find it incredibly sexy sitting on the sofa having tea together, knowing that 20 minutes later we're going to be naked and writhing around in bed... |
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By *enk15 OP Man 9 weeks ago
Evesham |
"Some colleagues were having the "who in the office would you shag?" chat, and one suggested me (go me!) but added "Even if he is too nice"
Is it a preconception that nice people aren't a good shag?
Because frankly, I'm excellent
Discuss
Was this discussion around the photocopier!!"
Christmas party |
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"I’m curious about this actually as I’m a (has a laugh with everyone) type of fella.
Do they think when it gets to the bedroom I’ll be like “my I penetrate you my dear”"
I think so. Being polite in general seems to make women think you wouldn’t ravage |
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"I’m curious about this actually as I’m a (has a laugh with everyone) type of fella.
Do they think when it gets to the bedroom I’ll be like “my I penetrate you my dear”"
I don't use quite those words but I do always ask politely... And it seems to be incredibly arousing for women, and they then fuck like there's no tomorrow. I think it must be the contrast between politeness and courtesy in words and what they can usually see is going to be a good hard pounding! 😋 |
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By *r.SJMan 9 weeks ago
Wellingborough |
"In my experience I have always had a sentence start with
You are a nice guy but..........
I am who I am so if nice guys finish last then so be it!"
Exactly this... though tbh it wears thin  especially when it ends up procluding activity and just being that nice bloke that chats and listens. |
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"I like fucking nice men. Not those who are self proclaimed nice men but the ones who are genuinely nice. Nice is a rather boring descriptor though, they tend to be so much more than nice. "
Oh god, never actually say you’re nice, that’s for others to do. |
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By *ib.Man 9 weeks ago
Hampshire |
"Some colleagues were having the "who in the office would you shag?" chat, and one suggested me (go me!) but added "Even if he is too nice"
Is it a preconception that nice people aren't a good shag?
Because frankly, I'm excellent
Discuss"
It means they want to bang. Stop being nice and flirt (if you want to see them naked). |
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By *enk15 OP Man 9 weeks ago
Evesham |
"Some colleagues were having the "who in the office would you shag?" chat, and one suggested me (go me!) but added "Even if he is too nice"
Is it a preconception that nice people aren't a good shag?
Because frankly, I'm excellent
Discuss
It means they want to bang. Stop being nice and flirt (if you want to see them naked)."
If I want to see someone naked I should definitely not attempt to flirt with them. |
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By *ib.Man 9 weeks ago
Hampshire |
"Some colleagues were having the "who in the office would you shag?" chat, and one suggested me (go me!) but added "Even if he is too nice"
Is it a preconception that nice people aren't a good shag?
Because frankly, I'm excellent
Discuss
It means they want to bang. Stop being nice and flirt (if you want to see them naked).
If I want to see someone naked I should definitely not attempt to flirt with them. "
Haha! I know that feeling. |
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"Tbh ..no guy wants to be in the " nice " bracket when it comes to women & Sex , she wants to rip your clothes off ,she's not gonna do it to a " nice " guy , she has to want & have that animalistic way & unfortunately that doesn't happen to what they think is a " nice " guy , how many guys would love to get it on with a woman they have the hots for but it's never gonna happen simply because she thinks he's too " nice " ....it's only my tuppence worth but that's the way l think ,same way with guys..if they had a choice of having sex with a sex kitten or a " nice " woman...chances are it's the sex kitten he'll go for .."
And don’t want to be responsible for hurting a really nice woman , they deserve the really nice , maybe a bit boring guys. |
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One of my partners is absolutely the nicest person I've ever known. Never a bad word to say about anyone, actually genuinely sweet and super considerate, just a wonderfully nice and pleasant person to be around.
I still want to rip his clothes off and ch0ke on his cock just as much as (if not more than) my more not actively seeking to harm anyone but full of snark and sass partners. |
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By (user no longer on site) 9 weeks ago
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"I like fucking nice men. Not those who are self proclaimed nice men but the ones who are genuinely nice. Nice is a rather boring descriptor though, they tend to be so much more than nice. "
Indeed. Biscuits are nice, people are, in most cases, far more nuanced |
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"Nice guy energy reminds me of the line about Mark Darcy in Bridget Jones: ‘Is it true that he always says “I’m sorry but I think I’m going to cum’?”
Wait… are we not supposed to say that?"
Hang on I thought posh people were more...
I'm arriving, I'm arriving, I've arrived |
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"I’m curious about this actually as I’m a (has a laugh with everyone) type of fella.
Do they think when it gets to the bedroom I’ll be like “my I penetrate you my dear”
I think so. Being polite in general seems to make women think you wouldn’t ravage "
Would me lady mind ever so much if I caressed her bean with my tongue” (tips hat) |
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"I’m curious about this actually as I’m a (has a laugh with everyone) type of fella.
Do they think when it gets to the bedroom I’ll be like “my I penetrate you my dear”
I think so. Being polite in general seems to make women think you wouldn’t ravage
Would me lady mind ever so much if I caressed her bean with my tongue” (tips hat)"
I hope that's a bowler, too many of the hoi palloy on here for my liking (╭ರ_•{¬zIE=¬}) |
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"Nice in public nasty in the bedroom 
So basically we all want a lady in the streets but a freak in the sheets."
I prefer to think a Princess on your arm as you walk down the street, a domestic goddess in the kitchen, and a whore in the bedroom |
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"Nice in public nasty in the bedroom
So basically we all want a lady in the streets but a freak in the sheets.
I prefer to think a Princess on your arm as you walk down the street, a domestic goddess in the kitchen, and a whore in the bedroom "
Anything less than a bowler in a “tips hat” situation should be illegal.
And I’ve never had a partner that can cook, it’s always been me so I can carry on missing that out, it makes no odds over here. |
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By (user no longer on site) 9 weeks ago
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Nice is alright for day to day life stuff and passing something down from the high shelf in a supermarket to a granny.
But if most people are honest, no one wants "nice" all the time in the bedroom!
I'd be more happy to be known as a sarcastic bitch personally.
Bitches can be insatiable in the bedroom and ride until they die. 😇🤣 |
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I think the term 'nice guy' has negative connotations. Men who describe themselves as such are often expecting to be rewarded with sex for being nice and turn nasty if refused.
This is very different to being a nice person. That's something to aim for I think. I connect it with decency and respect. |
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By *8on33Man 9 weeks ago
winfrith |
"Some colleagues were having the "who in the office would you shag?" chat, and one suggested me (go me!) but added "Even if he is too nice"
Is it a preconception that nice people aren't a good shag?
Because frankly, I'm excellent
Discuss"
We only have your word for it and quite frankly the proof is in the pudding and can't see you've had any pudding. |
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