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By *ornycouga OP Woman 2 days ago
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No not me... I'm talking about when someone you have never interacted with messages you on here and straight off the bat tells you what they want to do to you sexually (or - possibly even worse - what they want you to do to them). It makes me throw up a little in my mouth and frantically hit the delete or block button. But does this approach work for any of you lovely folk? |
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I'm as much of a hornbag as the next guy, but I do find that approach a bit off-putting too.
Then my neurospicy brains getstechnical, like what if the stuff they want to do to me is not of my liking? What if they're not that great at it? What if there's no sexual chemistry? What's the context? |
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"I'm as much of a hornbag as the next guy, but I do find that approach a bit off-putting too.
Then my neurospicy brains getstechnical, like what if the stuff they want to do to me is not of my liking? What if they're not that great at it? What if there's no sexual chemistry? What's the context? "
Yeah, we’d just gag and tie you up.
You can have all the doubts you like as long as we can’t hear you  |
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"I'm as much of a hornbag as the next guy, but I do find that approach a bit off-putting too.
Then my neurospicy brains getstechnical, like what if the stuff they want to do to me is not of my liking? What if they're not that great at it? What if there's no sexual chemistry? What's the context?
Yeah, we’d just gag and tie you up.
You can have all the doubts you like as long as we can’t hear you "
Is that a promise? 😍
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By *ornycouga OP Woman 2 days ago
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"I'm as much of a hornbag as the next guy, but I do find that approach a bit off-putting too.
Then my neurospicy brains getstechnical, like what if the stuff they want to do to me is not of my liking? What if they're not that great at it? What if there's no sexual chemistry? What's the context? "
There speaks the voice of experience  |
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I used to be really flattered by someone complimenting me right off the bat, although I've never had the message of what they'd do to me straight away. But I've become a bit desensitised to those sorts of comments as they're generally just talking about my body rather than who I am as a person. Being told by someone I know what they'd do to me on the other hand...  |
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By *ornycouga OP Woman 2 days ago
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"It’s worked for me once.
But………..she asked me what I’d do to her if I was there right now. She was impressed by my suggestions, I was invited round to make good on the promise.
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If you told me you were going to clean my oven and descale my kettle (neither are euphemism) I'd invite you round pronto to put your money where your mouth is! |
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"I'm as much of a hornbag as the next guy, but I do find that approach a bit off-putting too.
Then my neurospicy brains getstechnical, like what if the stuff they want to do to me is not of my liking? What if they're not that great at it? What if there's no sexual chemistry? What's the context?
There speaks the voice of experience "
Or of a deranged mind who can't accept a compliment or see an opportunity. Your call. 🙃 |
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By *eliWoman 2 days ago
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It'd work for me if it was from Tom Hiddleston.
I don't know if it's something I could ever make work. Almost tempted to try it.
It's just quite... well I feel oft it's a copy and paste exercise and I'm a fleshlight. A faceless void for their cum and lust fuelled fantasies. Hardly arousing.
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"I used to be really flattered by someone complimenting me right off the bat, although I've never had the message of what they'd do to me straight away. But I've become a bit desensitised to those sorts of comments as they're generally just talking about my body rather than who I am as a person. Being told by someone I know what they'd do to me on the other hand... "
This.
It’s really off-putting if it’s someone I don’t know or have any connection with.
But sharing a fantasy with someone I do know and want…. That’s a different story altogether |
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By *ornycouga OP Woman 2 days ago
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"I used to be really flattered by someone complimenting me right off the bat, although I've never had the message of what they'd do to me straight away. But I've become a bit desensitised to those sorts of comments as they're generally just talking about my body rather than who I am as a person. Being told by someone I know what they'd do to me on the other hand... "
Particularly when they are on the way to do it 😏
Oh and just so you know I don't just objectify you... I'd Taskmaster the fuck out of you JB!! |
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I love exchanging fantasies and scenarios with people...if I'm comfortable with the person first. I'd never lead with that kind of thing and if someone decided to go with that kind of thing in message 1 I would be very surprised if I would be comfortable with that. |
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By *ornycouga OP Woman 2 days ago
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"It'd work for me if it was from Tom Hiddleston.
I don't know if it's something I could ever make work. Almost tempted to try it.
It's just quite... well I feel oft it's a copy and paste exercise and I'm a fleshlight. A faceless void for their cum and lust fuelled fantasies. Hardly arousing.
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I'll fight you for Tom in a vat of jelly... Ever since I saw those hip moves on Alan Carr Chatty Man 😈
But yes, my sentiments exactly. If I could make one change on here it would be to stop the ability to cut and paste |
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We aren't into sexting over messages at all, so its always a big put off when the conversation gets started like it
We do however like to share and give little teasing videos or pics via snapchat to our friends with benefits or those we do flirt with  |
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I'm with you HC it makes me vomit a little in my mouth, reeling off a load of shit about what "they want" to do to me having never seen my face or know the slightest but about me is just cringe.
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"I used to be really flattered by someone complimenting me right off the bat, although I've never had the message of what they'd do to me straight away. But I've become a bit desensitised to those sorts of comments as they're generally just talking about my body rather than who I am as a person. Being told by someone I know what they'd do to me on the other hand...
Particularly when they are on the way to do it 😏
Oh and just so you know I don't just objectify you... I'd Taskmaster the fuck out of you JB!! "
I like the way you think, 5 points to HC! Bonus points are of course on offer too 😉 |
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If depends very much on the details and their style.
It's incredibly rare someone can turn me on instantly, before I've got to know them.
But those odd occasions do have a warm fuzzy place in my memory. |
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"No not me... I'm talking about when someone you have never interacted with messages you on here and straight off the bat tells you what they want to do to you sexually (or - possibly even worse - what they want you to do to them). It makes me throw up a little in my mouth and frantically hit the delete or block button. But does this approach work for any of you lovely folk? "
Fucking hell yes.. Great profile... Oh ok. Backspaces quickly. |
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It sort of works for me every time because, when you reach my level of youthful advancing vintage, I become susceptible to most forms of flattery and fawning.
Therefore anything off the bat makes them 'open season' for my charm and intentions to bed them. |
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By *8on33Man 2 days ago
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"No not me... I'm talking about when someone you have never interacted with messages you on here and straight off the bat tells you what they want to do to you sexually (or - possibly even worse - what they want you to do to them). It makes me throw up a little in my mouth and frantically hit the delete or block button. But does this approach work for any of you lovely folk? "
Couldn't tell you I've certainly never approached a stranger and suggested sex .
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"I'm as much of a hornbag as the next guy, but I do find that approach a bit off-putting too.
Then my neurospicy brains getstechnical, like what if the stuff they want to do to me is not of my liking? What if they're not that great at it? What if there's no sexual chemistry? What's the context? "
My autistic brain always goes....I have no frame of reference as to whether I like them doing whatever it is they want to do. Vague and no context and my brain forgets being horny. lol!
Also it takes the fun out of the exploration and experimenting and discovering together!! |
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"I’m autistic, I can appreciate and like pictures of people but I need a face to face before I could begin to think of them sexually
Messaging what they want does next to nothing "
same... Also how can I approach first off so sexually explicit to someone when I've never even seen their body or know what they like.
Too self-conscious to think of potentially offering something that a person doesn't like....cringe...vom. |
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I find it refreshing when I get a message saying what they want to do, I get soooo bored of the small talk about that half the time I have moved on.
After all this is a sex site not a dating site. |
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Loathe it. I struggle to connect with someone sexually if we’ve not yet met. It’s only once I have a sense of the person that’s it’s anything other than abstract.
Plus it’s a red flag for them only being interested in their own enjoyment and often indicates someone who’s not looking to actually meet. |
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Its not something I do when I speak to people.. I think the only time it's appropriate is when you whisper it in their ear.. if you know them.
A lot of the time it's a rundown of whatever porn fantasy they have running through their mind, and they just substitute the message recipient in as a set of body parts/orifices. |
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