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Like nearly all men, I love receiving a blow job. Thing is, I’ve never actually cum from just a blow job alone. It feels amazing but I’ve never managed to get to that where I cum…I’ve reassured partners in the past that they aren’t doing anything wrong and that it feels incredible, but I just haven’t cum from one.
Has anyone else had this experience? |
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See I to me it feels amazing and that familiar feeling of me about to cum starts but then it seems to subside. It never actually gets over that point of no return where I feel I’m actually about to cum |
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I've met three women in my life that could get me there without any effort from me.
I think dicks are as complicated and individual as any part of a woman and I've found that as I get better at communicating how I like to be touched, the better my experience is. |
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I have no doubts about my technique nor am I ever lacking in genuine enthusiasm. I fucking love sucking dick.
There's someone that over a period of about 9 months I've only managed to make cum using only my mouth once, and I was super proud of myself that day. But I don't think that means every other blowjob I've given him was rubbish. He's just not generally wired that way. And that's okay. Just as long as I still get to swallow it when we get there with other methods 💜 |
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I have some really nice ones where i couldn’t cum but they were enjoyable nonetheless.
I find for me there is a technique which works everytime and it’s a combination of things not just sucking away in the hope I will cum.
If i feel they won’t get offended, i will guide them and they are pleased they get the desired response (as will be the next guy).
I am the same when giving oral to a woman, everyone has their niches and i am happy to be guided in the right direction. |
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I was a bit hesitant to post about this but I’m glad I did. Now I know that I’m not the only one who has this response to it. Like I said I love the feeling of it and I would love nothing more than to cum from one just once but it doesn’t take away from the pleasure either way. |
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By *inaTitzTV/TS 7 weeks ago
Titz Towers, North Notts |
I must be amazing at blow jobs, because they normally always give me a big load fairly quickly. The only exceptions are in clubs where someone has already cum not too long before and in this case, that's on them, not me  |
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My best tip (if you’ll excuse the crass pun) and as Mika once sang: Relaxxxxx (take easyyyy)
Remove the pressure you place on yourself to ejaculate; rather, simply enjoy the sensation and do not pay mind to how long it may take etc.
Focus solely on the sensation.
Close your eyes (the over-excitement of the visual stimuli may actually in some cases serve to thwart your orgasm).
You may also find it beneficial to have your partner alternate between masturbating you and sucking.
Good luck 😃👍🏻
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By *ornycougaWoman 7 weeks ago
MOROCCO Wherever I lay my hat |
"Not had a woman good enough as yet !! Needs to be someone who actually loves it !you can sense the difference I think "
This is true. I need to know that a guy adores my cunt to get me off. I can see it's the same for guys |
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"It depends. It’s not a goal in itself. I wonder why people can’t just enjoy themselves without putting weird pressures on themselves or their partners? "
Maybe they can enjoy themselves but would simply like to enjoy a new experience and are not putting pressure on themselves or others at all. |
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I'd like to think I'm fairly adept at giving a bj... I also confess its my favourite thing to do .. but some guys need more than just a mouth..
Most guys I enjoy getting them off quite quickly with my mouth... yet others ( Mr being one of them) takes me ages.
I am never upset if a guy can't from just oral. It's rare I can cum from just oral so I get it
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Sometimes I do.
Sometimes I don’t.
Much depends on the visual and mental stimulation at the time as opposed to technique alone.
For example… I have cum a number of times when receiving oral in foursomes whilst Henriette is ‘busy’ with the other guy and I've heard her making sex noise and looked across to them.
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"Like nearly all men, I love receiving a blow job. Thing is, I’ve never actually cum from just a blow job alone. It feels amazing but I’ve never managed to get to that where I cum…I’ve reassured partners in the past that they aren’t doing anything wrong and that it feels incredible, but I just haven’t cum from one.
Has anyone else had this experience? "
Try a glory hole blow job.
Another level entirely |
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"I have no doubts about my technique nor am I ever lacking in genuine enthusiasm. I fucking love sucking dick.
There's someone that over a period of about 9 months I've only managed to make cum using only my mouth once, and I was super proud of myself that day. But I don't think that means every other blowjob I've given him was rubbish. He's just not generally wired that way. And that's okay. Just as long as I still get to swallow it when we get there with other methods 💜"
Best thing I have read all day  |
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"To be totally honest I get little or nothing from them.
It’s not a technique thing or anything else. I just don’t get much from them and so therefore don’t really need them "
Me too with oral...
I think some people may like the animalistic side to it..
I'd rather be kissed on the lips on my face. |
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I truly believe, you just haven't met your right pair of lips yet. One of my hothusbands couldn't cum from bjs, not even with his wife. 25 years of not being able, to tip over into orgasm from oral, until we met. Keep sifting OP you will get there, someone has the magic touch for you  |
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I can count on one hand, the number of times I have cum from receiving a blowjob, and I have two fingers spare  The last time was 2017.
It is a nice feeling, receiving that oral pleasure, the visual aspect of your cock in someone’s mouth, them looking you in the eye as they give you that pleasure…….but I just don’t reach that point of ‘no return’, and usually, the woman will either give up, or just want my cock inside her, which isn’t the worst thing in the world obviously…..
I do get tired of hearing “It’s just a line”, when you say you don’t cum from a bj though……  |
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I never believe these forum post when they come along - for me, a blowjob is the most intimate and intense pleasure I can receive from a partner - I have a bigger problem holding myself back, no problem cumming!
So I always assume it is men hoping that some naive woman will say “I give great BJs, you won’t fail with me!” (Nice try, guys).
But maybe I’m wrong and they are genuine?
Contrary to the stereotype, I have had bad ones where women suck too hard, too much teeth, etc. but never felt the inability to communicate and make it better “Gently, faster/slower, oh my God, yes!” That sort of thing.
Maybe I’m just lucky? |
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"But maybe I’m wrong and they are genuine?"
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Yes, you are wrong.
They are genuine.
I've already said up ⬆️ there that I don't climax from a blow job. That's not a call to arms for Fab's battle-hardened women to beat a path to the door of my cock. ♥️ |
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"But maybe I’m wrong and they are genuine?
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Yes, you are wrong.
They are genuine.
I've already said up ⬆️ there that I don't climax from a blow job. That's not a call to arms for Fab's battle-hardened women to beat a path to the door of my cock. ♥️"
Yes, I don’t doubt you - that was my point, admittedly, badly phrased. But then there are probably things that quickly release the safety catch on your trigger, which they wouldn’t on mine. |
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"I never believe these forum post when they come along - for me, a blowjob is the most intimate and intense pleasure I can receive from a partner - I have a bigger problem holding myself back, no problem cumming!
So I always assume it is men hoping that some naive woman will say “I give great BJs, you won’t fail with me!” (Nice try, guys).
But maybe I’m wrong and they are genuine?"
Yes, you are wrong. We’re not all ‘blessed’ with a hair trigger like you  |
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"Most women give mediocre to terrible bjs "
In my defence... I have a small jaw/mouth and it gets tired easily....
I have to use my hand and I find giving a blow job after I've had multiple orgasms easier.....more relaxed mouth, jaw..throat....etc..
I find doing it lying down, sitting etc easier than the old kneel-down technique.
I don't tend to look men in the eyes during sex. That's too emotionally intimate for my autistic brain when I'm trying to stay single.
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I used to be like this when I was young and lacked confidence, but in recent years I've really learned to relax and get into the moment, so that if a woman has some skills and patience, and wants me to erupt in her mouth, she can usually get me there |
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By *eliWoman 7 weeks ago
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Lots of men haven't OP; you're not alone.
I don't think it's down to the art of the blowjob necessarily. It's about so many factors. I've met someone before who couldn't come through oral. Penetrative sex though? A minute or so. We all have different triggers.
This has been really interesting reading! |
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"Like nearly all men, I love receiving a blow job. Thing is, I’ve never actually cum from just a blow job alone. It feels amazing but I’ve never managed to get to that where I cum…I’ve reassured partners in the past that they aren’t doing anything wrong and that it feels incredible, but I just haven’t cum from one.
Has anyone else had this experience? "
Yep. Can't remember when I last came from a bj... Well for that matter can't remember when I last had a bj but... Like em.. Just dont make me come. No harm no foul. |
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By *hilloutMan 7 weeks ago
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Yes, I can always climax from a blow job, especially if the person is enthusiastic and clearly enjoys the act.
Most of the time I can choose when to climax or hold it back which can be fun.
At times it's more pleasurable to finish this way than through intercourse 🔥 |
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"I think of the best things i have ever had in my mouth when i do it ...... and that works . Like licking ON THAT oo god yes MMMMMmmm. "
Oooooft this sounds like heaven
LLLLlick it like a lollipop |
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"I never believe these forum post when they come along - for me, a blowjob is the most intimate and intense pleasure I can receive from a partner - I have a bigger problem holding myself back, no problem cumming!
So I always assume it is men hoping that some naive woman will say “I give great BJs, you won’t fail with me!” (Nice try, guys).
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I can’t tell how long you have been in here, or read how many veris you have, as your profile is hidden, but I can tell you; the only offers you will receive from a blowjob thread, will be from other men. You would be naive to think any woman would respond to such a challenge, indeed, nothing makes the ‘BJ Queens’ run and hide quite as effectively as a “I never cum from a bj” thread….. |
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I don't think you're alone OP. I have never cum from oral alone. I have had some truly amazing blow jobs but think there is probably some form of mental block, exacerbated by the understandable reluctance to spend hours down there trying in (possible) vain.
*And no this isn't that age old ploy to get willing volunteers to be 'the one'. |
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By (user no longer on site) 7 weeks ago
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"I think of the best things i have ever had in my mouth when i do it ...... and that works . Like licking ON THAT oo god yes MMMMMmmm.
Oooooft this sounds like heaven
LLLLlick it like a lollipop "
Yes best lollipop i have ever had in my life it work never let me down . |
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Interesting subject
My ex from many years ago wouldn’t give them at first but started to buy only with a condom but wouldn’t ever swallow. When I got with my now wife she liked swallowing and asked to suck me to completion and I really struggled to relax and let go. She got me there in the end. After that I’ve never looked back. She’s 100% the best I’ve ever had |
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"I never believe these forum post when they come along - for me, a blowjob is the most intimate and intense pleasure I can receive from a partner - I have a bigger problem holding myself back, no problem cumming!
So I always assume it is men hoping that some naive woman will say “I give great BJs, you won’t fail with me!” (Nice try, guys).
I can’t tell how long you have been in here, or read how many veris you have, as your profile is hidden, but I can tell you; the only offers you will receive from a blowjob thread, will be from other men. You would be naive to think any woman would respond to such a challenge, indeed, nothing makes the ‘BJ Queens’ run and hide quite as effectively as a “I never cum from a bj” thread….. "
Yes, that’s my point, lol |
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I can understand that for some this would sound like some sort of hook to get someone to say “go on get me to cum then” but I haven’t sent or received any such requests and to be fair the response is mainly from guys who also have the same experience which is what I found reassuring.
If I meet someone and they are able to do it then great! But I don’t need to go searching for it or trying to dupe anyone into doing it either, I’ve been enjoying my self life for this long without it so I don’t need to fret about it happening any time soon. It was nice though to get the same feedback from others around me. |
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Absolutely. I've only ever cum once from a BJ which was during a shower and I was extremely horny/it had been a while since I'd cum.
I prefer BJs before and sometimes during sex, I feel as hard as rock and it takes me much much longer to cum after one. |
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"I never believe these forum post when they come along - for me, a blowjob is the most intimate and intense pleasure I can receive from a partner - I have a bigger problem holding myself back, no problem cumming!
So I always assume it is men hoping that some naive woman will say “I give great BJs, you won’t fail with me!” (Nice try, guys).
But maybe I’m wrong and they are genuine?
Contrary to the stereotype, I have had bad ones where women suck too hard, too much teeth, etc. but never felt the inability to communicate and make it better “Gently, faster/slower, oh my God, yes!” That sort of thing.
Maybe I’m just lucky?"
I’ve had mates say they think BJ’s are overrated. I just think ‘you’ve never been sucked off by my mrs’ 😂 |
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From a female perspective, I love giving them.
I don’t have any expectation, obviously it’s nice to swallow, and then go for round two but I enjoy giving them regardless if there’s an orgasm involved or not.
I do recall forewarning a couple that I don’t usually cum via oral myself, then having one of my most intense orgasms that way.
I think sometimes it’s down to the mood, the setting and just not putting pressure on yourself, and I’d assume that’s the case whatever your gender and whatever kind of orgasm we’re talking about. |
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"From a female perspective, I love giving them.
I don’t have any expectation, obviously it’s nice to swallow, and then go for round two but I enjoy giving them regardless if there’s an orgasm involved or not.
I do recall forewarning a couple that I don’t usually cum via oral myself, then having one of my most intense orgasms that way.
I think sometimes it’s down to the mood, the setting and just not putting pressure on yourself, and I’d assume that’s the case whatever your gender and whatever kind of orgasm we’re talking about."
Spot on with that |
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