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Tell us all about your worst ever fab experience. Obviously keep it anonymous and don't include enough detail to identify people. Don’t kink shame and keep it fun!
It can be a ridiculous exchange you had with someone, a horrible social, terrible sex or having to put up with my general presence in the forums  Fill our Thursday evening with amusement people.
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Woman came to my house, after we had sex, she wanted a drink from the kitchen. I said sure.
30 minutes pass by, thought she's taking bloody ages. She'd helped herself to my fridge and started making food in the kitchen. I was too shocked to even be angry. And just stood there like a lemon. |
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My first ever fab meeting. It was a MF couple and they guy over stepped my boundaries as soon as we got to the bedroom. The wife was lovely but he was a dirty pervert in a non fun way.
I only stayed and tried again because I was naive and thought I was in love with the guy who I was doing it for…what an idiot 🙄 |
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Guy turned up and when he got his cock out, it was clearly a fake photo on his profile.
I gracefully did not say anything and started making a lot of lustful noises while giving him a good BJ.
He said, slow down or he'll cum.
I replied, well you may as well cos your cock pic is fake, you have a tiny cock and five minutes to leave. |
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Turned up at a lady’s house early evening and had been chatting for a while beforehand. I shit you not, the living room was around 3ft deep in takeaway wrappers, empty cartons, cups, plates and god knows what else. Not a single bit of floor to walk on and stank to high heaven. I left straight away and then got abusive messages saying I was a snob! No, I just have standards and value my health! |
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By *inaTitzTV/TS 21 weeks ago
Titz Towers, North Notts |
Nothing too heinous, but years ago, I did meet a couple and they'd clearly not discussed their boundaries beforehand and when I said to him, if you want, you can fuck me, he asked her and she said yes in a voice that really meant only if he wanted to be found slain soon afterwards and that really killed the mood.
Same with when I've met a couple and it's turned out she arranged me as a present for him, when she was going out with the girls.
The Tgirl who wore a rubber doll mask was very different and also a bit off putting, plus I'd made a big effort and all she did was don a mask.
Plus a few people who keep messaging me about meets.  |
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"Woman came to my house, after we had sex, she wanted a drink from the kitchen. I said sure.
30 minutes pass by, thought she's taking bloody ages. She'd helped herself to my fridge and started making food in the kitchen. I was too shocked to even be angry. And just stood there like a lemon."
Ha! What did she make? Did she offer you any of your own food? |
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"My first ever fab meeting. It was a MF couple and they guy over stepped my boundaries as soon as we got to the bedroom. The wife was lovely but he was a dirty pervert in a non fun way.
I only stayed and tried again because I was naive and thought I was in love with the guy who I was doing it for…what an idiot 🙄"
Don’t beat yourself up. I’ve heard so many stories about the same kinda thing when people are new. Lesson learned huh 😊 |
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Very first fab meet over 8 years ago.
Met a woman socially twice and the third time was in an hotel.
Completely out of the blue once I was naked she punched me full in the face.
When I asked wtaf? She replied that it was her kink and she wanted me to retaliate.
I told her she had picked the wrong guy and if I had known beforehand I never would have agreed to meet again.
She apologised profusely and admitted she should have said something beforehand so I didn't leave at that point.
A short while later as I walked out the bathroom she was standing to one side of the door and drove her knee into my balls.
I got dressed and left even though I had paid for the room.
I left fab a couple of days later thinking everyone was a loon like her.
I wasn't in any physical danger but I often wonder what would have happened if the roles had been reversed and even though I didn't raise a finger there was always the risk she could report me and that was only ever going to go one way.
That's why I don't meet anyone now without chatting for quite a while and I'm not afraid of asking questions. |
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By *oxy jWoman 21 weeks ago
somerset |
not had a bad meet in 15 years and thats because im very very picky who i meet and everything gets cleared before with messaging messaging .... go back before that the only bad meets i can remember was jealous couples mostly the guys but not always..
the only other thing ill say is ive turned guys away after agreeing to meet because they have lied / used old pics or indeed other peoples pics |
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"Very first fab meet over 8 years ago.
Met a woman socially twice and the third time was in an hotel.
Completely out of the blue once I was naked she punched me full in the face.
When I asked wtaf? She replied that it was her kink and she wanted me to retaliate.
I told her she had picked the wrong guy and if I had known beforehand I never would have agreed to meet again.
She apologised profusely and admitted she should have said something beforehand so I didn't leave at that point.
A short while later as I walked out the bathroom she was standing to one side of the door and drove her knee into my balls.
I got dressed and left even though I had paid for the room.
I left fab a couple of days later thinking everyone was a loon like her.
I wasn't in any physical danger but I often wonder what would have happened if the roles had been reversed and even though I didn't raise a finger there was always the risk she could report me and that was only ever going to go one way.
That's why I don't meet anyone now without chatting for quite a while and I'm not afraid of asking questions."
Holy shit! That’s quite a story and I admire your restraint. I hope your balls recovered 😣 |
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By (user no longer on site) 21 weeks ago
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No meets compared to those above. The worst I have had was in a MacDonalds, because the lights there are florescent tubes, the chairs are attached to the tables, conversation can be overheard, and it really was just a crap social meet. What is wrong with a nice country pub, with a roaring fire, or in this case, a pub next to the River Thames, where I had a wonderful meal with the friend of the person I met in MacDonalds! |
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I’ve had a number of bad experiences but this one is right up there. I got chatting to a nice local woman and we met for a coffee in town. We got on and she whispered she wanted to ‘chat’ in my car for a bit. That ended with a romantic nosh in the multi storey car park so I obviously wanted to see her again.
We arranged for her to come round one evening that weekend. When she turned up she had three holdalls with her - mild alarm bells but it turns out at least one of them was her sexy lingerie and toys. Bravo!
Anyway, we sit and chat for a while at which point she drops the bombshell she has invited another guy. Yep - another guy who I have never met, seen or spoken to is on his why to my house that very evening, the address of which she had given out without asking me.
Like a certain poster above, I was actually too shocked to be angry but I told her to tell him to fuck off and not give my address out. I still can’t work out what she thought gave her the right to give out my address and invite another guy!! Madness.
But not done….
She jumped on me so I kind of allowed myself to be seduced and we went upstairs whereupon I started munching at her minge. The whole time she was talking and asking me questions and I had to keep stopping to answer.
When we finished having sex she dropped the second bombshell of the night that she was staying over. Ermmm…. No! Right, time for you to get dressed and fuck off.
Believe it or not she actually arranged a second fab meet as she was packing her shit up and drove straight off to see someone else.
Not my finest hour. |
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By (user no longer on site) 21 weeks ago
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^^ OK, unlike Felix I had a lucky escape. I did arrange to see a woman, had offered to pick her up, but she said she would make her own way, wanted my address, so I told her the street, the nearest tube and bus stop, and a side road she could park in if driving.
She said said it would be nice to eat too and that she liked sushi (I don't), but I went and got sushi in, then having made arrangements she then said that it would be good to have a third person, a bloke could come after we had sex.
I said no bloke was coming round to my house. I was glad that I had not given the address of my house because I am sure she would have passed it on.
Before the appointed hour of the meet, I went out with my dog, so that I would look like an ordinary dog walker, and give me the opportunity to see how she turned up (whether a bloke came with her and was either going to wait til she'd got in to the house, or come in with her.
I stayed out for half an hour, but luckily she did not turn up. I think I dodged a bullet and I have blocked her on Fab. |
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"^^ OK, unlike Felix I had a lucky escape. I did arrange to see a woman, had offered to pick her up, but she said she would make her own way, wanted my address, so I told her the street, the nearest tube and bus stop, and a side road she could park in if driving.
She said said it would be nice to eat too and that she liked sushi (I don't), but I went and got sushi in, then having made arrangements she then said that it would be good to have a third person, a bloke could come after we had sex.
I said no bloke was coming round to my house. I was glad that I had not given the address of my house because I am sure she would have passed it on.
Before the appointed hour of the meet, I went out with my dog, so that I would look like an ordinary dog walker, and give me the opportunity to see how she turned up (whether a bloke came with her and was either going to wait til she'd got in to the house, or come in with her.
I stayed out for half an hour, but luckily she did not turn up. I think I dodged a bullet and I have blocked her on Fab."
Now that’s thinking with your head and not your winkie - I’m impressed! What happened to the sushi? |
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"Woman came to my house, after we had sex, she wanted a drink from the kitchen. I said sure.
30 minutes pass by, thought she's taking bloody ages. She'd helped herself to my fridge and started making food in the kitchen. I was too shocked to even be angry. And just stood there like a lemon."
I want to know what food was being prepared . I'm terrible for rustling things up, off the cuff but wouldn't dream of way laying someone's plans |
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Some corker stories here.
I picked up a lady to take to VA, but when I picked her up she was pretty hammered from beingv with her mates, so I went along with it as she may sober up on the way to the club. We got there and straight back on the drinks, then she started gobbing randomly at a guy at the bar who didn't even know her and then she threw bar snacks aggressively at him when he wasn't looking.
Had to apologise profuesly to the gent and management, get her out the door into the car as she raged anout the clubs crap standards and drop her off at her place. Was a very silent trip to drop her off as she fell asleep thankfully, sadly ruined the night for a few people.
But reminder to us all, these experiences are very rare versus the good times we have on here.
Be awesome fabsters. |
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My worst experience was on another site.
Most of my negative experiences with Fab have been via message. I did have one social where the guy looked nothing like his photos. He asked for a verification, I refused and he got quite irate.
I actually bumped into him a few weeks ago in a club. I was in the hot tub and didn’t even recognise him until he said something about us having been on social and I had to have a good think to place him as he’d changed even more. I do wonder if he’s using the same photos! |
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"Woman came to my house, after we had sex, she wanted a drink from the kitchen. I said sure.
30 minutes pass by, thought she's taking bloody ages. She'd helped herself to my fridge and started making food in the kitchen. I was too shocked to even be angry. And just stood there like a lemon.
I want to know what food was being prepared . I'm terrible for rustling things up, off the cuff but wouldn't dream of way laying someone's plans"
She made bacon and eggs with chips. I just said to her, you know you could have just asked right 😂😂 |
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"Woman came to my house, after we had sex, she wanted a drink from the kitchen. I said sure.
30 minutes pass by, thought she's taking bloody ages. She'd helped herself to my fridge and started making food in the kitchen. I was too shocked to even be angry. And just stood there like a lemon.
I want to know what food was being prepared . I'm terrible for rustling things up, off the cuff but wouldn't dream of way laying someone's plans
She made bacon and eggs with chips. I just said to her, you know you could have just asked right 😂😂"
Bloody hell, that’s not a simple ham sarnie!!! |
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By *andSxxCouple 21 weeks ago
Birmingham |
We met a married couple in London five years ago. They came to us in all black clothes. We asked what their job was. They said they were funeral directors. 🙄 We talked a bit and then started playing.. After 3-4 moves the hubby finished with cum. 🍆💦 Then they stood up and said they were going. 😵💫 It was the craziest and shortest meeting of our lives.🤣 |
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By (user no longer on site) 21 weeks ago
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Was chatting with a couple, even did a video verification. We were all getting on really well, so we arranged a meet, we booked a very nice hotel (£250 for the night) close to them (90 mile drive) and then the day before they accused us of being fakes and blocked us 🤦♀️😫 |
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By *oxy jWoman 21 weeks ago
somerset |
ive had a stalker long time ago now who damaged my car and parts oh the garden walls lucky for us we have cams covering every part of the house and garden he was caught on cam and silly fool was driving his work van ..police involved he had to pay for the damage caused he lost his job on the southwest largest building project his wife in wales found out via police in wales she left him ... and hes still on here with 5 or 6 different accounts |
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"Was chatting with a couple, even did a video verification. We were all getting on really well, so we arranged a meet, we booked a very nice hotel (£250 for the night) close to them (90 mile drive) and then the day before they accused us of being fakes and blocked us 🤦♀️😫"
What a pair of utter morons!!! |
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I've had a couple of meets where the conversational chemistry hasn't transferred to the physical.
But i did see one guy and the meet went well, we had a nice chat and the sex was good. (Not brilliant but had good potiental to be built on on future meets)
But after he got weird, got grumpy about me having other fwb, even though i have always said im not monogamous. Also starting saying stuff like supposedly he was contacted by guys on the site asking him stuff and supposedly i was an easy lay etc. He kept sayong stuff like this saying hewas trying to help a make sure i was safe on the site etc. Then went on to say that my actions (basically just meeting other guys) had ruined the site for him etc.
So that was a block and report case. |
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Male friend and I had agreed to meet a couple at a club. (She was bi, he was straight)
Chatted, had a drink, discussed all the usual likes and limits etc. Head to a room. She and I have quick little fumble, before he suggests she gives my friend an oily massage, which she was very eager to do.
I go to play with him and it's clearly he isn't interested, virtually pushing my hands away. He is however very interested in my mates cock.
After sitting there like a lemon for a few minutes, I left and went to make use of the sauna and steam room. Wandered back about 30 mins later and they hadn't noticed I'd gone.
Unsurprisingly, last time he or I ever met up.
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Sadly it was with Nell, just after the last MLS. She strung me along under the almighty deluge of Manchester's azure sky, raining cats and dogs with fire and brimstone. We ended up in VIA after taking her up the Canal (Street).
(She clueless with Google™ Maps Street View)
The next day we met for brunch (like the unsuspecting sucker that I am) where she bought me an iconic cherry pie before devouring it for herself, leaving me with the breadcrumbs of our fragile friendship.
Never again. Wench. |
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By *irthandgirthMan 21 weeks ago
Camberley occasionally doncaster |
Ummm. Definitely the exchange I had with a lady on here. We had been chatting for a couple of weeks, and I was at mine on a Friday night, imbibing in some pirate juice. The conversation was getting fruity (she knew I was drinking), and she was angling at coming over.
Then she sent me some pictures. She was a he (using a females pics/profile). In one of the pics he was getting anally fisted. He thought I was intoxicated and horny enough I might decide to not be straight.
I was fucking disgusted. It was so predatory. I sent a tirade of abuse as a reply but he went unlos before I could report him. |
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"What’s your worst fab experience OP? "
I was going to tease you then but I haven’t got it in me, I’m just too nice 🤭
Scroll up darling, mine is about halfway up. Sad to say there are a few more I haven’t mentioned |
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"What’s your worst fab experience OP?
I was going to tease you then but I haven’t got it in me, I’m just too nice 🤭
Scroll up darling, mine is about halfway up. Sad to say there are a few more I haven’t mentioned "
Ooh ok darling - sorry I didn’t see that 😘 |
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"Sadly it was with Nell, just after the last MLS. She strung me along under the almighty deluge of Manchester's azure sky, raining cats and dogs with fire and brimstone. We ended up in VIA after taking her up the Canal (Street).
(She clueless with Google™ Maps Street View)
The next day we met for brunch (like the unsuspecting sucker that I am) where she bought me an iconic cherry pie before devouring it for herself, leaving me with the breadcrumbs of our fragile friendship.
Never again. Wench."
Sassy AF |
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"Sadly it was with Nell, just after the last MLS. She strung me along under the almighty deluge of Manchester's azure sky, raining cats and dogs with fire and brimstone. We ended up in VIA after taking her up the Canal (Street).
(She clueless with Google™ Maps Street View)
The next day we met for brunch (like the unsuspecting sucker that I am) where she bought me an iconic cherry pie before devouring it for herself, leaving me with the breadcrumbs of our fragile friendship.
Never again. Wench.
Sassy AF"
Isn't he just? |
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"Woman came to my house, after we had sex, she wanted a drink from the kitchen. I said sure.
30 minutes pass by, thought she's taking bloody ages. She'd helped herself to my fridge and started making food in the kitchen. I was too shocked to even be angry. And just stood there like a lemon."
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I've got one story that's too vile to share I think
Another time I met a gorgeous guy for a social. All went well so I invited him back to mine. All was going well until he asked me to rim him. He wasn't at all clean and had left skid marks all on my bed. He didn't seem even slightly embarrassed  |
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"I've got one story that's too vile to share I think
Another time I met a gorgeous guy for a social. All went well so I invited him back to mine. All was going well until he asked me to rim him. He wasn't at all clean and had left skid marks all on my bed. He didn't seem even slightly embarrassed "
Durty bugger!!! 😆
And that’s not the vile one? Oh please DM me with the full gory details 🤞 |
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I arranged a social with someone whilst I was away on a training course. They sent a pin location of where to meet them. Being the trustworthy fool I am, I never questioned the location. As I pulled up I thought nothing of it at the time. As I got out of my vehicle, they jumped me before I even had a chance to say hello. They then proceeded to man handle me into the back of the vehicle and stripped me naked. I'll spare you the details of what followed...😏 |
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By *irthandgirthMan 21 weeks ago
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"I've got one story that's too vile to share I think
Another time I met a gorgeous guy for a social. All went well so I invited him back to mine. All was going well until he asked me to rim him. He wasn't at all clean and had left skid marks all on my bed. He didn't seem even slightly embarrassed "
*goes to use mouthwash just to get the thought of the smell if that out of my mind, |
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"Sadly it was with Nell, just after the last MLS. She strung me along under the almighty deluge of Manchester's azure sky, raining cats and dogs with fire and brimstone. We ended up in VIA after taking her up the Canal (Street).
(She clueless with Google™ Maps Street View)
The next day we met for brunch (like the unsuspecting sucker that I am) where she bought me an iconic cherry pie before devouring it for herself, leaving me with the breadcrumbs of our fragile friendship.
Never again. Wench.
Sassy AF
Isn't he just? "
It’s his new nickname. SAF. Although tbh with mentioning cherry pie he did score 10 points 🤷♂️ |
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By (user no longer on site) 21 weeks ago
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Without sounding boring but I've enjoyed all the meets I've had off here, going back about a good 10 years when I first originally signed up.
I think when you talk to people before hand it leads to a good meet, my experience anyway! |
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"Sadly it was with Nell, just after the last MLS. She strung me along under the almighty deluge of Manchester's azure sky, raining cats and dogs with fire and brimstone. We ended up in VIA after taking her up the Canal (Street).
(She clueless with Google™ Maps Street View)
The next day we met for brunch (like the unsuspecting sucker that I am) where she bought me an iconic cherry pie before devouring it for herself, leaving me with the breadcrumbs of our fragile friendship.
Never again. Wench.
Sassy AF
Isn't he just?
It’s his new nickname. SAF. Although tbh with mentioning cherry pie he did score 10 points 🤷♂️"
That’s good because he loiters in saf london 😆 |
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"Woman came to my house, after we had sex, she wanted a drink from the kitchen. I said sure.
30 minutes pass by, thought she's taking bloody ages. She'd helped herself to my fridge and started making food in the kitchen. I was too shocked to even be angry. And just stood there like a lemon."
Was she a good cook though? |
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This user seemed familiar but he swore he didn't know me. Obviously I was having a blonde moment.
It didn't work the first time, but it's one of those moments when you ask the same person to leave twice 🤣 |
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"This user seemed familiar but he swore he didn't know me. Obviously I was having a blonde moment.
It didn't work the first time, but it's one of those moments when you ask the same person to leave twice 🤣"
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"Turned up at a lady’s house early evening and had been chatting for a while beforehand. I shit you not, the living room was around 3ft deep in takeaway wrappers, empty cartons, cups, plates and god knows what else. Not a single bit of floor to walk on and stank to high heaven. I left straight away and then got abusive messages saying I was a snob! No, I just have standards and value my health!"
Different area of the country but this exact same thing! Looked like one of them houses off a hoarding show on TV. Stank like piss. Never left so quickly. Bizarre thing was she had plenty of good verifications. Made me realise how desperate some blokes really are |
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"Was part of a couple at the time, had MFM...The other guy started fcking me then after about 6 seconds got off, said he didn't like been judged & left!!!.
No, score cards were used..  "
That is special!! 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 |
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By (user no longer on site) 21 weeks ago
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"I've got one story that's too vile to share I think
Another time I met a gorgeous guy for a social. All went well so I invited him back to mine. All was going well until he asked me to rim him. He wasn't at all clean and had left skid marks all on my bed. He didn't seem even slightly embarrassed "
Oh you need to share the vile one now! |
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By *mf123Man 21 weeks ago
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Losing what i found but those dark days are in the past now my guilt over my reaction is the last ghost that haunts me from them but iv found a way to move forward with a smile |
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"I've got one story that's too vile to share I think
Another time I met a gorgeous guy for a social. All went well so I invited him back to mine. All was going well until he asked me to rim him. He wasn't at all clean and had left skid marks all on my bed. He didn't seem even slightly embarrassed
Oh you need to share the vile one now! "
Trust me, you don’t want to hear it 🤢🤮 |
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"Turned up at a lady’s house early evening and had been chatting for a while beforehand. I shit you not, the living room was around 3ft deep in takeaway wrappers, empty cartons, cups, plates and god knows what else. Not a single bit of floor to walk on and stank to high heaven. I left straight away and then got abusive messages saying I was a snob! No, I just have standards and value my health!
Different area of the country but this exact same thing! Looked like one of them houses off a hoarding show on TV. Stank like piss. Never left so quickly. Bizarre thing was she had plenty of good verifications. Made me realise how desperate some blokes really are"
Perhaps it's her visitors who arrive with all the stuff, shag and leave her to sort it. She maybe gets fucked senseless°, and can hardly walk,, before the next one turns up.
°or whatever other terminology they used |
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"I've got one story that's too vile to share I think
Another time I met a gorgeous guy for a social. All went well so I invited him back to mine. All was going well until he asked me to rim him. He wasn't at all clean and had left skid marks all on my bed. He didn't seem even slightly embarrassed "
Nooooooooo whaaattttt |
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By *arrow36Man 21 weeks ago
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Was meeting a girl regularly and went round one night and we were both discreet, she’d had a couple round earlier and said it was a disaster, arrived and they were still there! The wife was fine and okay to talk too but the husband had gone weird or something, didn’t ask the details, anyways they had gone and we had started getting it on with each other etc, I Thaught I’d heard a few noises and after a while I was right and the guy had snuck in and had been watching us, no wife though ! Was dead off putting and kinda ruined the night for both of us aha |
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"I've got one story that's too vile to share I think
Another time I met a gorgeous guy for a social. All went well so I invited him back to mine. All was going well until he asked me to rim him. He wasn't at all clean and had left skid marks all on my bed. He didn't seem even slightly embarrassed "
It should be mandatory to shower, after taking a crap, before a meet. Years ago I made the mistake of meeting a guy who said he was freshly showered. He'd omitted that he'd been to work and likely taken a dump, since his morning showerm. My nose was uncomfortable as soon as he dropped his trousers.
I'm now obsessive about having them reveal when they see showered, I probably seem like a hygiene freak, or something. I typically have white sheets and duvets and don't want them soiled by the wrong stuff. |
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Responded to a meet post for a gangbang by s couples profile. All verified including meet verified for previous gangbangs.
Sent a message and was instantly invited in their reply. Was informed there is a contribution required for the airbnb of £50 and given the address.
Turned up and she was the same girl as in the photos.
Very quickly realised she was working. If you know what i mean.
Was a very awkward situation and i wasnt sure how to react. Made an excuse of wanting to buy some rum and witnessed her attempt to jump infront of a bus.
When the man was out of earshot i asked if theyre a couple and she gave me a breakdown of what was actually going on… yes exactly what youre thinking.
Shortly after i received my money back and left
Such a shame. She was smoking hot but i couldnt bring myself to do anything with her |
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By (user no longer on site) 21 weeks ago
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Now that’s thinking with your head and not your winkie - I’m impressed! What happened to the sushi?"
I did eat the sushi, but really it is a pointless food type. Give me Thai or Malaysian any day. |
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By *sbbWoman 21 weeks ago
Blantyre |
It’s not as wild or downright scary as some of the stories already posted, but it’s thankfully one of my few stories from this site.
I had not long been on the site, so I was a bit shy and hesitant, being completely new to the scene. Eventually, I worked up the courage to go on my first social with a guy who seemed very sweet and willing to take it slow. We went out for drinks and had a blast. We ended up meeting for about 4-5 months. Throughout that time, I was regularly on Fab, and we’d talk about the site every time we met or when texting, so he was well aware that I was talking to others.
One day, he tried to arrange another meet, but I told him I couldn’t that day because I was meeting someone else. Man, did his personality do a 180° change. He went instantly cold and got snippy until, the day after, I found out he thought we were dating the entire time. Not once did he ask or confirm this with me, and there was nothing to indicate any feelings towards me at all.
I felt like I was cheating in a relationship I had no idea I was in. Safe to say, his personality change was off-putting, and I stopped seeing him a while after that.
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By (user no longer on site) 21 weeks ago
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A social meet in Costa, message me what drink she liked. Turned up, Nothing like her photos,but I was polite, she chatted rubbish about her bf, left and never message back lol. |
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"It sounds like straight guys aren’t good at wiping themselves clean eek
I have wet wipes by the sink in the toilet and point them out incase they need to have a clean "
There are men on the internet (yes I know, not all men, calm down) who believe that cleaning one's butthole means you're gay. Some say wiping is gay.
If that's so, I like my men just a little gay, because skid marks on my sheets are double plus ungood |
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By (user no longer on site) 21 weeks ago
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I’d met this sexy young man with a WE cock we’d had fun once before, we decided to attend a club together.
At first everything was great at the club I’d been drinking so was pleasantly tipsy, we had sex in the club then after chilled in the club lounge.
In the lounge two couples started chatting with us and we all proceeded to go upstairs I just followed being tipsy.
I found myself in a bizarre predicament one of the women jumped on the guy I came with and her partner was busy with the other couple so you could say I was the gooseberry.
After a surreal while I approached her husband but his wife she failed to tell me he had erectile dysfunction, here I am trying to get him to erection all attempts failed so I admitted defeat. We left and I told the young guy I wasn’t happy and I decided to never see him again or attend the club, I think I have ptsd now when I think of that club. Plus I’ve not met anyone since. |
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It can be a ridiculous exchange you had with someone, a horrible social, terrible sex or having to put up with my general presence in the forums Fill our Thursday evening with amusement people.
Aaaaaaaaand…… GO!"
Not fab but this is by far the worst most disturbing:
Yahoo messenger, chatting to a girl who said she was into BDSM and invited me over. I thought GREAT, I can be Dom with her... but no. Once there, she told me she wanted me to punch her full force, beat her up and violently r*pe her.
While there, her boyfriend rand and she had him on speakerphone. He sounded caring and sweet. She proceeded to smoke and swig JD until she fell asleep. I noted the fuck out of there after writing her a note apologizing for not being what she wanted.
After my drive home, the ramifications of what COULD have happened really hit me. There would be news reports of a young lady in Wigan, brutally beaten and r*ped in HER OWN HOME with a living boyfriend and MY DNA everywhere!
Can you imagine my defence of "She was asking for it" would've gone down? "No didn't mean no"?
I'd have been banged up for an extremely long time and on a register for life!
Another was an older lady who, after meeting told me about her gangrenous foot. Nothing kills the mood more than a rotting appendage! Also told me her son fucks her...
Nopety noooooope |
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By *irthandgirthMan 21 weeks ago
Camberley occasionally doncaster |
Worth telling again. I was living in Lincolnshire and got chatting to a lady. Organised a social and she asked me to pick her up as she didn't drive. No problem. Get to her door and when she answers... she is in an electric wheelchair, and has other obvious physical issues. None of this was mentioned on her profile. I was a little shell-shocked. She invited me in for a cuppa (obviously my car couldn't accommodate her travel needs). Her living room was also her bedroom, dominated by a large hospital bed/hoist.
We chatted for a while before I left.
Oh, did I mention her hobby was amateur taxidermy? Yeah, there were buckets of animal remains around the room. I had to wash my clothes repeatedly to get rid of the smell |
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"Tell us all about your worst ever fab experience. Obviously keep it anonymous and don't include enough detail to identify people. Don’t kink shame and keep it fun!
It can be a ridiculous exchange you had with someone, a horrible social, terrible sex or having to put up with my general presence in the forums Fill our Thursday evening with amusement people.
Aaaaaaaaand…… GO!
Not fab but this is by far the worst most disturbing:
Yahoo messenger, chatting to a girl who said she was into BDSM and invited me over. I thought GREAT, I can be Dom with her... but no. Once there, she told me she wanted me to punch her full force, beat her up and violently r*pe her.
While there, her boyfriend rand and she had him on speakerphone. He sounded caring and sweet. She proceeded to smoke and swig JD until she fell asleep. I noted the fuck out of there after writing her a note apologizing for not being what she wanted.
After my drive home, the ramifications of what COULD have happened really hit me. There would be news reports of a young lady in Wigan, brutally beaten and r*ped in HER OWN HOME with a living boyfriend and MY DNA everywhere!
Can you imagine my defence of "She was asking for it" would've gone down? "No didn't mean no"?
I'd have been banged up for an extremely long time and on a register for life!
Another was an older lady who, after meeting told me about her gangrenous foot. Nothing kills the mood more than a rotting appendage! Also told me her son fucks her...
Nopety noooooope"
Pretty scary stuff!! |
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By *KentMan 21 weeks ago
Cardiff |
A while ago I was invited over to meet a woman at hers, got there only to be met with an absolute state of a house. Dirty dishes all over the place, and stank of smoke.
If you’re inviting someone over, at least clean and make it look a bit hospitable. |
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It can be a ridiculous exchange you had with someone, a horrible social, terrible sex or having to put up with my general presence in the forums Fill our Thursday evening with amusement people.
Aaaaaaaaand…… GO!
Not fab but this is by far the worst most disturbing:
Yahoo messenger, chatting to a girl who said she was into BDSM and invited me over. I thought GREAT, I can be Dom with her... but no. Once there, she told me she wanted me to punch her full force, beat her up and violently r*pe her.
While there, her boyfriend rand and she had him on speakerphone. He sounded caring and sweet. She proceeded to smoke and swig JD until she fell asleep. I noted the fuck out of there after writing her a note apologizing for not being what she wanted.
After my drive home, the ramifications of what COULD have happened really hit me. There would be news reports of a young lady in Wigan, brutally beaten and r*ped in HER OWN HOME with a living boyfriend and MY DNA everywhere!
Can you imagine my defence of "She was asking for it" would've gone down? "No didn't mean no"?
I'd have been banged up for an extremely long time and on a register for life!
Another was an older lady who, after meeting told me about her gangrenous foot. Nothing kills the mood more than a rotting appendage! Also told me her son fucks her...
Nopety noooooope"
Oh, fucking hell, what's gotten into some people!  |
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Met a cpl many years ago who asked us back to theirs but they had already said their 16 yr old daughter was sitting the little one, when we said we don't think that's for us they replied it's ok she knows about this..
Drink finished, said bye and walked.. |
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Was chatting to (what I though) was a nice couple, seem to be chat from both partners in the messages, we were getting on fine, talked about our kinks and boundary’s, seemed like she was up for meeting, the guy just wonted to she her used really, this was only the second person I arranged a meet with, came to the time, it was at my place, opened the door and it was just the guy, asked where his partner was got some excuse about him thinking we would just play solo talking about her etc but I said not and he left saying he will go get her, needless to say he did not come back, after that I decided not to give out my address or use it for fun |
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Premature ejaculators. The worst bit is mumbling stupid excuses and leaving me there like a lemon. 🍋
Never encountered that in the “real” world.
It’s putting me off meeting new people in all honesty.  |
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"Met a cpl many years ago who asked us back to theirs but they had already said their 16 yr old daughter was sitting the little one, when we said we don't think that's for us they replied it's ok she knows about this..
Drink finished, said bye and walked.."
Jeez I imagine it’s bad enough having to listen to your olds bang, let alone them being banged by strangers *shudders* |
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I've recanted this story before, so will keep it brief
It was with a guy who locked me in his house and had a room with one wall full of fish tanks just full of water, but no fish
There's more to it than that but it unnerves me to this day |
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"I've recanted this story before, so will keep it brief
It was with a guy who locked me in his house and had a room with one wall full of fish tanks just full of water, but no fish
There's more to it than that but it unnerves me to this day "
You can’t leave it at that dude!!! |
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"I've recanted this story before, so will keep it brief
It was with a guy who locked me in his house and had a room with one wall full of fish tanks just full of water, but no fish
There's more to it than that but it unnerves me to this day "
Not even a solitary large piranha? |
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By (user no longer on site) 21 weeks ago
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"A coffee social around late 2018
He had the dirtiest fingernails I’d ever seen, nasal hair that you could plait and dried blood around his nostrils
That social was cut short "
Good god ! |
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"I've recanted this story before, so will keep it brief
It was with a guy who locked me in his house and had a room with one wall full of fish tanks just full of water, but no fish
There's more to it than that but it unnerves me to this day
You can’t leave it at that dude!!!"
Stop fishing ! 🤣🤣 |
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By *iss E99TV/TS 21 weeks ago
Near Taunton Somerset |
I went to meet a couple at their place, nice couple but when I arrived they had the football on in the living room, England v Italy, which they were really into.
I hate football.
When we eventually went to the bedroom, they had another telly with football on there as well.
It was just weird, after a while I made my excuses and left. |
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"Reading this made me never want to meet anyone again.
What about if we all promise to tidy up, clean ourselves and not shit the bed?
Too late, Felix! "
I nearly went to check my own bed then!! 😆
Suit yourself, I was going to let you make me breakfast from the contents of my fridge. |
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In the very early days when I had just joined fab a guy wanted to meet me with his wife. He wanted my full address. I didn’t give it, just the area. Just before the appointed time he came on again saying he was close. I asked if his wife was with him. He said no- her period had just started but what was my address. I said we’ll cancel and rearrange for next week. He wasn’t very happy- and needless to say, didn’t get in touch again. |
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By (user no longer on site) 21 weeks ago
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"I've got one story that's too vile to share I think
Another time I met a gorgeous guy for a social. All went well so I invited him back to mine. All was going well until he asked me to rim him. He wasn't at all clean and had left skid marks all on my bed. He didn't seem even slightly embarrassed
Oh you need to share the vile one now!
Trust me, you don’t want to hear it 🤢🤮"
Oh but I do! Strong stomach! |
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"In the very early days when I had just joined fab a guy wanted to meet me with his wife. He wanted my full address. I didn’t give it, just the area. Just before the appointed time he came on again saying he was close. I asked if his wife was with him. He said no- her period had just started but what was my address. I said we’ll cancel and rearrange for next week. He wasn’t very happy- and needless to say, didn’t get in touch again."
Sadly so common. Have a very large book of excuses why the F of a MF couple couldn’t make it along. Never make it past the entry video phone |
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I’d had a first meet with a guy late one night. It went well so we’d arranged to meet again. He’d told me he was in the middle of a separation - they’d met on here but were monogamous during their marriage. We had our second meet - this time at his place which was a ground floor annexe. It was a warm summers evening and I asked him to open the window after we’d finished. There was then a knock at the door. It was his wife 🤦🏼♀️ She came to the now open window and rightly tore him a new one. She was nice to me though which was a relief. They’d meant to have met that night to try reconciling their marriage. He’d cancelled saving his marriage to meet me! Shocking! She stormed off. He had to drive me home. Was one of the quietest drives home ever! |
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"I’d had a first meet with a guy late one night. It went well so we’d arranged to meet again. He’d told me he was in the middle of a separation - they’d met on here but were monogamous during their marriage. We had our second meet - this time at his place which was a ground floor annexe. It was a warm summers evening and I asked him to open the window after we’d finished. There was then a knock at the door. It was his wife 🤦🏼♀️ She came to the now open window and rightly tore him a new one. She was nice to me though which was a relief. They’d meant to have met that night to try reconciling their marriage. He’d cancelled saving his marriage to meet me! Shocking! She stormed off. He had to drive me home. Was one of the quietest drives home ever! "
What a colossal bellend!! |
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By (user no longer on site) 21 weeks ago
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It's generally tended to happen in clubs rather one to one meets and socials. Either I've been when I haven't been in the right headspace, or I overthink when it comes to chatting to people and feel overwhelmed by everyone chatting, going off and having sex, and generally making it look easy while I'm stood to one side like a plum wanting the ground to swallow me whole.
And then it being compounded by trying to approach people who won't give you the time of day because they assume that I, as a single guy, only want to chat to them because I want to fuck them. I have a bit of a love/hate relationship with clubs for that reason, really. |
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"Tell us all about your worst ever fab experience. Obviously keep it anonymous and don't include enough detail to identify people. Don’t kink shame and keep it fun!
It can be a ridiculous exchange you had with someone, a horrible social, terrible sex or having to put up with my general presence in the forums Fill our Thursday evening with amusement people.
Aaaaaaaaand…… GO!"
Had arranged for a guy to come to our house. We only ever give postcode not the house number until we can see them in the street.. Anyway.. We waited and waited and no message.. We thought he was yet another no show..it was at that point we realised our Internet had crashed and we had to reset it..
Anyway an hour or so later we got a really nasty message off the guy saying we were time wasters.. We gave our upmost apologies we felt really bad for him as he had made the effort and travelled and we hadn't got his message due to Internet problems.. Said we would reimburse his fuel money etc...however he got really nasty.. I understand he was a noted but he started to say he would post images all around our street and our village.. Luckily we have no face pics but even still.. He even sent death threats..
Had to inform fab amd in the end the police as the messages continued days later from new accounts he kept making just to send us nasty messages.. It stopped in the end but was a very scary upsetting time for us.. Definitely our worst experience on fab |
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We got talking to a couple while we were on holiday and was invited to theres after a few messages we agreed to go got there and the flat was packed with clutter could barely move in there and the lady clearly knew nothing about us turning up she was shocked but went along with him we did separate room. Where she admitted her partner had forced her into so we dressed and left |
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By *anae21Woman 21 weeks ago
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I met a guy on here a few times several years ago. We got on well, sex was great, if a bit more dom than I was expecting.
Couple of weeks later, he rings me, asking if I'd be a character witness for him in court. 😱 (Er, I've only known you a few weeks, nope).
A month or so later, I see on the internet he's been convicted of sexually abusing a minor and was given a custodial sentence.
I had a lucky escape. Made me very wary.
(He's out now, and back on Fab. I've reported his profile but Fab haven't acted). |
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By (user no longer on site) 21 weeks ago
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"I met a guy on here a few times several years ago. We got on well, sex was great, if a bit more dom than I was expecting.
Couple of weeks later, he rings me, asking if I'd be a character witness for him in court. 😱 (Er, I've only known you a few weeks, nope).
A month or so later, I see on the internet he's been convicted of sexually abusing a minor and was given a custodial sentence.
I had a lucky escape. Made me very wary.
(He's out now, and back on Fab. I've reported his profile but Fab haven't acted). "
Good fucking lord |
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By *oobaaMan 21 weeks ago
South Shields |
Ive posted the full length of this meet on another thread of a similar title, some of you may remember it, but heres the shorter version.
Arranged a meet with a Lady when I was staying in a Hotel.
Lady arrived and we had a drink before taking a bottle of fizz up to room.
Lady excuses herself and goes to bathroom.
Lady comes back and sits on bed before the most disgusting smell follows her.
I go into bathroom and find that she had filled the toilet,used all the toilet roll....and not flushed.
There was a brown liquid trail from the toilet to the bath. she had wiped herself on a white hand towel.I was sick in the bath.
Heard the Lady leave and went to open window when I noticed a massive shit stain on the bed.
I managed to get the toilet emptied after various flushes
Then had the embarrassment of trying to explain to hotel staff why I needed a complete change of bed sheets despite me not having slept in it yet |
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Caught crabs off one of the ladies on here. Not great trying to work with infested bollocks. Took 2 treatments to get shut
She's still active too with recent verifications, god help them!!!!
Oh and no I'm not saying who it was, not even a clue....I can do without the fallout (she's not on my veris, was on my old account) |
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"I've got one story that's too vile to share I think
Another time I met a gorgeous guy for a social. All went well so I invited him back to mine. All was going well until he asked me to rim him. He wasn't at all clean and had left skid marks all on my bed. He didn't seem even slightly embarrassed
Nooooooooo whaaattttt"
That is revolting, I’m so anal about keeping my bum clean. |
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By *avinaTVTV/TS 21 weeks ago
Transsexual Transylvania |
Without going into excessive detail, I was put off being spanked by a guy who really laid into my backside in the throes of passion and wouldn't stop when I said it was sore.
And I had a meet where the guy abused and shouted at me and I wound up in my bra and stockings in tears in the middle of the bed.
😕 |
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"Without going into excessive detail, I was put off being spanked by a guy who really laid into my backside in the throes of passion and wouldn't stop when I said it was sore.
And I had a meet where the guy abused and shouted at me and I wound up in my bra and stockings in tears in the middle of the bed.
😕"
☹️ that’s awful |
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Had some dire meets way back when I was very naive on here
More than once I was I feel pressurised into sex when I felt zero attraction as I had put myself in an uncomfortable position to be able to say no
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I have seriously got off lightly on here, some horrendous stories
Mine is very mild- profile on less than 20 words and zero photos sent me an unsolicited list of 15 or so conditions before he would "agree" to fuck me (wear this, say this, act like this etc) and had the cheek to be incredulous when I told him to jog on.
That and fake female profiles are the bad experiences I've had on here
Probably as for those we do meet I always have a social only meet and would never play in someone's home. |
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By (user no longer on site) 21 weeks ago
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If I hadn't had, in the last week, my first two, extremely pleasant, meets, reading this thread would make me delete my profile immediately.
I am not very impressionable, but I'm actually shocked at the lines (personal AND legal ones) being crossed. 🤬 |
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By *avinaTVTV/TS 21 weeks ago
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"Without going into excessive detail, I was put off being spanked by a guy who really laid into my backside in the throes of passion and wouldn't stop when I said it was sore.
And I had a meet where the guy abused and shouted at me and I wound up in my bra and stockings in tears in the middle of the bed.
😕
☹️ that’s awful "
I'm very circumspect about meets these days.  |
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"Ive posted the full length of this meet on another thread of a similar title, some of you may remember it, but heres the shorter version.
Arranged a meet with a Lady when I was staying in a Hotel.
Lady arrived and we had a drink before taking a bottle of fizz up to room.
Lady excuses herself and goes to bathroom.
Lady comes back and sits on bed before the most disgusting smell follows her.
I go into bathroom and find that she had filled the toilet,used all the toilet roll....and not flushed.
There was a brown liquid trail from the toilet to the bath. she had wiped herself on a white hand towel.I was sick in the bath.
Heard the Lady leave and went to open window when I noticed a massive shit stain on the bed.
I managed to get the toilet emptied after various flushes
Then had the embarrassment of trying to explain to hotel staff why I needed a complete change of bed sheets despite me not having slept in it yet"
Good lord, maybe the fizz didn’t agree with her |
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"I've got one story that's too vile to share I think
Another time I met a gorgeous guy for a social. All went well so I invited him back to mine. All was going well until he asked me to rim him. He wasn't at all clean and had left skid marks all on my bed. He didn't seem even slightly embarrassed
Nooooooooo whaaattttt
That is revolting, I’m so anal about keeping my bum clean. "
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"Without going into excessive detail, I was put off being spanked by a guy who really laid into my backside in the throes of passion and wouldn't stop when I said it was sore.
And I had a meet where the guy abused and shouted at me and I wound up in my bra and stockings in tears in the middle of the bed.
😕"
So sorry this happened to you. Something similar happened to me quite a few years ago but wasn't due to a meet on here.. Spanked so hard that I had huge swellings, the bruises were like hard lumps under the skin.. He wouldn't stop even though I was crying and the sick barsteward recorded the whole session.. |
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By *avinaTVTV/TS 21 weeks ago
Transsexual Transylvania |
"Without going into excessive detail, I was put off being spanked by a guy who really laid into my backside in the throes of passion and wouldn't stop when I said it was sore.
And I had a meet where the guy abused and shouted at me and I wound up in my bra and stockings in tears in the middle of the bed.
😕
So sorry this happened to you. Something similar happened to me quite a few years ago but wasn't due to a meet on here.. Spanked so hard that I had huge swellings, the bruises were like hard lumps under the skin.. He wouldn't stop even though I was crying and the sick barsteward recorded the whole session.. "
That is disgusting. Some guys feel entitled to do whatever they like in pursuit of getting their rocks off. I also had bruises, but yours sounds worse, and at least there was no recording. |
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"Without going into excessive detail, I was put off being spanked by a guy who really laid into my backside in the throes of passion and wouldn't stop when I said it was sore.
And I had a meet where the guy abused and shouted at me and I wound up in my bra and stockings in tears in the middle of the bed.
😕
So sorry this happened to you. Something similar happened to me quite a few years ago but wasn't due to a meet on here.. Spanked so hard that I had huge swellings, the bruises were like hard lumps under the skin.. He wouldn't stop even though I was crying and the sick barsteward recorded the whole session..
That is disgusting. Some guys feel entitled to do whatever they like in pursuit of getting their rocks off. I also had bruises, but yours sounds worse, and at least there was no recording. "
To be fair it was probably karma as I was cheating on my ex... But to explain the bruising I threw myself down the stairs when I got home |
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By *avinaTVTV/TS 21 weeks ago
Transsexual Transylvania |
"Without going into excessive detail, I was put off being spanked by a guy who really laid into my backside in the throes of passion and wouldn't stop when I said it was sore.
And I had a meet where the guy abused and shouted at me and I wound up in my bra and stockings in tears in the middle of the bed.
😕
So sorry this happened to you. Something similar happened to me quite a few years ago but wasn't due to a meet on here.. Spanked so hard that I had huge swellings, the bruises were like hard lumps under the skin.. He wouldn't stop even though I was crying and the sick barsteward recorded the whole session..
That is disgusting. Some guys feel entitled to do whatever they like in pursuit of getting their rocks off. I also had bruises, but yours sounds worse, and at least there was no recording.
To be fair it was probably karma as I was cheating on my ex... But to explain the bruising I threw myself down the stairs when I got home "
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This last meet I had.
I got overexcited about seeing someone I REALLY fancied (had met him before, at mine and his respectively, meh meets but the guy makes me wet just from looking at him haha), but since both options were unavailable I went ahead and booked a £200 hotel room.
He came within 2 minutes of me touching his cock. That is not the bad part. We had hours, HOURS, where we could have chatted, had something to eat, enjoy the hotel spa facilities…give it another go, but nooooo. He mumbled some stupid excuses that he had to leave so he did. I was fuming. Then I discovered that I had left my cossie at home so I couldn’t even enjoy the spa myself! 😡
0/10 He’s blocked now. The eye candy is not worth the hassle haha. |
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On my first Fab profile about 6 years ago, I was working in Clackmannanshire and I got a message from a man not far from where I was. I agreed to meet him on my lunch break at his farmhouse after we discussed boundaries, do's, and don'ts.
I got there and he was man mountain: 6ft+, huge muscles, and hands the size of my head. He led me to his bedroom and I asked to use his toilet (I wanted to freshen up a bit because I'd been sitting in a van most of the morning on a building site). He came in and saw me washing myself and said "that's okay, my mouth will clean it". This should've been the first red flag but I was inexperienced and it was my first ever meet with a man: I was nervous and just went with the flow.
As soon as I went back to his room he tried to kiss me - one of my definite no-no's at the time - and I turned my head. I think this angered him and he pushed me onto my knees. I was there because I wanted to try sucking cock for the first time so I wasn't too worried about it and he got his huge cock out, which he started gagging me with, I asked him to take it easy and he laughed and said OK. The thing is, his willy wasn't particularly fresh - I could smell ball sweat - but I was a bit intimidated and thought I'll just do this then leave.
He picked me up, lay me on the bed and sucked me then moved to my balls, then lifted my legs. I enjoy rimming but I was self-conscious because I'd been working all morning and he said he didn't care, that he'd clean me good. He then started to finger me - another of my DON'Ts - and when I asked him to stop he postioned himself as if he was going to fuck me - my biggest, triple underlined DON'T. I wriggled off the bed and he got aggressive so I basically sucked him till he came in my mouth - another NO! - then as I was leaving he said to message him any time.
It was fucking horrible and I didn't meet anyone for a very long time after. |
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"Woman came to my house, after we had sex, she wanted a drink from the kitchen. I said sure.
30 minutes pass by, thought she's taking bloody ages. She'd helped herself to my fridge and started making food in the kitchen. I was too shocked to even be angry. And just stood there like a lemon."
I'd feed anybody.
If they're hungry then let them eat. |
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"On my first Fab profile about 6 years ago, I was working in Clackmannanshire and I got a message from a man not far from where I was. I agreed to meet him on my lunch break at his farmhouse after we discussed boundaries, do's, and don'ts.
I got there and he was man mountain: 6ft+, huge muscles, and hands the size of my head. He led me to his bedroom and I asked to use his toilet (I wanted to freshen up a bit because I'd been sitting in a van most of the morning on a building site). He came in and saw me washing myself and said "that's okay, my mouth will clean it". This should've been the first red flag but I was inexperienced and it was my first ever meet with a man: I was nervous and just went with the flow.
As soon as I went back to his room he tried to kiss me - one of my definite no-no's at the time - and I turned my head. I think this angered him and he pushed me onto my knees. I was there because I wanted to try sucking cock for the first time so I wasn't too worried about it and he got his huge cock out, which he started gagging me with, I asked him to take it easy and he laughed and said OK. The thing is, his willy wasn't particularly fresh - I could smell ball sweat - but I was a bit intimidated and thought I'll just do this then leave.
He picked me up, lay me on the bed and sucked me then moved to my balls, then lifted my legs. I enjoy rimming but I was self-conscious because I'd been working all morning and he said he didn't care, that he'd clean me good. He then started to finger me - another of my DON'Ts - and when I asked him to stop he postioned himself as if he was going to fuck me - my biggest, triple underlined DON'T. I wriggled off the bed and he got aggressive so I basically sucked him till he came in my mouth - another NO! - then as I was leaving he said to message him any time.
It was fucking horrible and I didn't meet anyone for a very long time after."
Fucking hell that's awful I'm sorry that happened to you x |
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I met a couple and we all hit it off really well.
They wanted me to spend the night.
He got more progressively d*unk and wife was getting a bit annoyed with him.
We had a good time but then he was getting more intense with me and saying please don't let this be a one night thing.
Please meet again.
I don't remember so much afterwards, I've got a feeling he put something in my drink as really groggy in the morning.
He was cuddled up to me and he had wet the bed.
I slid out, got dressed and left the house.
Set the alarms off as I did though. |
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"On my first Fab profile about 6 years ago, I was working in Clackmannanshire and I got a message from a man not far from where I was. I agreed to meet him on my lunch break at his farmhouse after we discussed boundaries, do's, and don'ts.
I got there and he was man mountain: 6ft+, huge muscles, and hands the size of my head. He led me to his bedroom and I asked to use his toilet (I wanted to freshen up a bit because I'd been sitting in a van most of the morning on a building site). He came in and saw me washing myself and said "that's okay, my mouth will clean it". This should've been the first red flag but I was inexperienced and it was my first ever meet with a man: I was nervous and just went with the flow.
As soon as I went back to his room he tried to kiss me - one of my definite no-no's at the time - and I turned my head. I think this angered him and he pushed me onto my knees. I was there because I wanted to try sucking cock for the first time so I wasn't too worried about it and he got his huge cock out, which he started gagging me with, I asked him to take it easy and he laughed and said OK. The thing is, his willy wasn't particularly fresh - I could smell ball sweat - but I was a bit intimidated and thought I'll just do this then leave.
He picked me up, lay me on the bed and sucked me then moved to my balls, then lifted my legs. I enjoy rimming but I was self-conscious because I'd been working all morning and he said he didn't care, that he'd clean me good. He then started to finger me - another of my DON'Ts - and when I asked him to stop he postioned himself as if he was going to fuck me - my biggest, triple underlined DON'T. I wriggled off the bed and he got aggressive so I basically sucked him till he came in my mouth - another NO! - then as I was leaving he said to message him any time.
It was fucking horrible and I didn't meet anyone for a very long time after.
Fucking hell that's awful I'm sorry that happened to you x"
Thanks. I'm over it now, and I'm normally a mouthy don't-take-shit type of guy, but in that moment I was just trying to do whatever I needed to get out without it turning nasty.
My next meet was 5 months later and it couldn't have been more different. |
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Nothing too bad, but two years ago I was talking to a lady with similar interests BDSM, music, books etc. Swapped pictures chatted in the phone, all good. She was about a size 16 going by the pics and finally we arranged a social, walking into the Costa she'd said she was already there and I walked right past her. The pictures she'd sent were obviously old and she was no longer a size 16, more like a 24-26. I did the gentlemanly thing and had a cuppa with her, and on leaving apologised but said I didn't feel any spark at all |
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One of our very first meets.
A social in a pub with a couple.
Late afternoon around 4pm, nice pub and a quiet time.
She shows up a a red PVC number about 2 sizes too small, sure she squeaked when moving.
She was pissed up, could hardly stand, loud with a wiff of booze and fags.
He looked like my grandad, suit that had never visited a cleaners, suffed shoes and a racking smokers cough, bad teeth, musty and cigarette smell.
He was quite subservient and she was demanding and loud, constantly demanding drinks.
Thank god the place was quiet.
We had a drink and said we had to leave, she seemed quite put out and asked, in her words "where the fuck are you two off to?"
We thought everyone in swinging was as bad as this so visited clubs instead and only had great times.
Our only saving grace was the fact it was a social, can you imagine if we had taken their initial offer of meeting them in their house. |
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"On my first Fab profile about 6 years ago, I was working in Clackmannanshire and I got a message from a man not far from where I was. I agreed to meet him on my lunch break at his farmhouse after we discussed boundaries, do's, and don'ts.
I got there and he was man mountain: 6ft+, huge muscles, and hands the size of my head. He led me to his bedroom and I asked to use his toilet (I wanted to freshen up a bit because I'd been sitting in a van most of the morning on a building site). He came in and saw me washing myself and said "that's okay, my mouth will clean it". This should've been the first red flag but I was inexperienced and it was my first ever meet with a man: I was nervous and just went with the flow.
As soon as I went back to his room he tried to kiss me - one of my definite no-no's at the time - and I turned my head. I think this angered him and he pushed me onto my knees. I was there because I wanted to try sucking cock for the first time so I wasn't too worried about it and he got his huge cock out, which he started gagging me with, I asked him to take it easy and he laughed and said OK. The thing is, his willy wasn't particularly fresh - I could smell ball sweat - but I was a bit intimidated and thought I'll just do this then leave.
He picked me up, lay me on the bed and sucked me then moved to my balls, then lifted my legs. I enjoy rimming but I was self-conscious because I'd been working all morning and he said he didn't care, that he'd clean me good. He then started to finger me - another of my DON'Ts - and when I asked him to stop he postioned himself as if he was going to fuck me - my biggest, triple underlined DON'T. I wriggled off the bed and he got aggressive so I basically sucked him till he came in my mouth - another NO! - then as I was leaving he said to message him any time.
It was fucking horrible and I didn't meet anyone for a very long time after.
Fucking hell that's awful I'm sorry that happened to you x
Thanks. I'm over it now, and I'm normally a mouthy don't-take-shit type of guy, but in that moment I was just trying to do whatever I needed to get out without it turning nasty.
My next meet was 5 months later and it couldn't have been more different. "
I'm glad you're OK now, must have shaken you up at the time.. so glad the next meet was better x |
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"I've got one story that's too vile to share I think
Another time I met a gorgeous guy for a social. All went well so I invited him back to mine. All was going well until he asked me to rim him. He wasn't at all clean and had left skid marks all on my bed. He didn't seem even slightly embarrassed "
Please send me the other story! |
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worst I've had is being stood up once and someone lying about their age and using out of date pics.