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By *ootyliciousC OP   Woman 10 weeks ago

Buckinghamshire

Please can I ask a general question especially for the guys on this site. Why do you not read people's profiles? Does it not make it easier to know what the person is looking for and also to not get rejected. We have profiles for a reason to write what we like and don't like as we all have personal preferences so why do people not read them.

I'm so confused. 🤔🤔🤔🤔

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By *obilebottomMan 10 weeks ago

All over

Reading skills in this country are attrocious. Numeracy too not much better either

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By *ootyliciousC OP   Woman 10 weeks ago

Buckinghamshire

I think so 🤣 🤣

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By *eilde HoarWoman 10 weeks ago

In a wax coated bubble

Don't forget any contact is what is seeked on here, some get off on having 10 women looked at them, some love any sort of message. unless you block, your profile is available for all to see and contact you, in which ever way they see fit. Sifting through unsuitable profiles to find your gems, is a way of life on here.

Hope you find what you are looking for OP

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By *urbo TedMan 10 weeks ago

Stansted

Short attention span and I'm easily distracted..

Look, just found a shiny coin.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple 10 weeks ago

Leeds

It's not just guys.

Mrs

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By *aven.Woman 10 weeks ago

Not the North West...

Men join this site for sex.

Men see text and boobs. They look at the boobs, little Mr gets excited and they message without reading.

Seems pretty logical to me.

Also, some people's bios are bloody boring. This isn't aimed at you op as I didn't read yours, I just looked at the pictures.

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By *illy IdolMan 10 weeks ago

Midlands

Because they're either dog shit or negative.

The pictures are usually the best bit so I skip straight to them.

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By *iker JackMan 10 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

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By *insdaleMan 10 weeks ago

By far away.

I always try and read the profiles of ppl even if i am just perving the pic, its nice to know the different groups of folk here.

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By *iker JackMan 10 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

Whilst this question is “especially for the guys” I would like to add this is not solely a male thing to do.

It happens across all the groups on here

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By *exxyyDy11Man 10 weeks ago

North West

People think with their dicks and just bombard anyone willing to notice.

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By *he Silver FuxMan 10 weeks ago

Uttoxeter


"Please can I ask a general question especially for the guys on this site. Why do you not read people's profiles? Does it not make it easier to know what the person is looking for and also to not get rejected. We have profiles for a reason to write what we like and don't like as we all have personal preferences so why do people not read them.

I'm so confused. 🤔🤔🤔🤔"

Because these arseholes expect results with minimum cut and paste effort, they just try the ‘message cannon’ approach (“Hey, maybe someone will eventually respond”). Why the fuck would they bother reading what you want.

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By *eliWoman 10 weeks ago

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Because they don't want to.

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By *orningcoffee9Man 10 weeks ago

Manchester

I think guys do read profiles, well some do I can't speak for all the same can apply to women and whomever. I'm pretty sure women have just gone onto a guys profile and messaged them without taking a single glance at there profile. Sure it may not be so common but it does happen. Myself I like to hope there's something at least that will capture my attention not just the pic. If I find something that's within my own interests I'll message them if I don't get a reply I just leave it move on.

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By *viatrixWoman 10 weeks ago

Redhill

Thing is that you are speaking to the converted here on the forum… most people would read profiles on here. We’re a nosy lot! 😂😂

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By *ootyliciousC OP   Woman 10 weeks ago

Buckinghamshire

Thank you for your comments. It's definitely giving me a better understanding. I make a point of reading peoples because you may not be what I'm looking for so I'm not going to waste mine or your time.

I understand it's couples and singles that don't read.

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By *icecouple561Couple 10 weeks ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

It's not just men. Couples are really bad for not reading profiles. I think they do read them but think we'll make a difference for them. 🤷

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By *ootyliciousC OP   Woman 10 weeks ago

Buckinghamshire

I think so sometimes. Unfortunately I don't meet couples privately unless I have met them at an event.

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By (user no longer on site) 10 weeks ago


"I think so 🤣 🤣"
Nice figure

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By *ootyliciousC OP   Woman 10 weeks ago

Buckinghamshire

Thank you

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By *eroLondonMan 10 weeks ago

Mayfair

The very act of 'profile reading' is a dying årtform, rarely invoked, rarely appreciated and mostly overlooked.

It's renaissance was during the first wave of COVID, where people had very little to do except write garrulous pieces of biographical text with the vain hope that, once lockdown was lifted, it would lead to dates and courtships with like-minded Fabbers of a certain calibre. Alas, this outcome never materialised. By the way - what was your question...❓❔

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By (user no longer on site) 10 weeks ago


"Please can I ask a general question especially for the guys on this site. Why do you not read people's profiles? …..

“…..🤔"

But I do …..

🤔

What makes you think everyone doesn’t?

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By *hunky GentMan 10 weeks ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Were not all complete neanderthals.

I'm only a neanderthal on Monday and Wednesday

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By (user no longer on site) 10 weeks ago


"Were not all complete neanderthals.

I'm only a neanderthal on Monday and Wednesday "

#notallneanderthals

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By *enk15Man 10 weeks ago

Evesham

Wait... there's text in profiles?

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By *ngel-ishandtheswingersCouple 10 weeks ago

Colchester


"Reading skills in this country are attrocious. Numeracy too not much better either "

It's true. 37% of people can't add up and 77% can

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By *tticusukMan 10 weeks ago

Formby


"Please can I ask a general question especially for the guys on this site. Why do you not read people's profiles? Does it not make it easier to know what the person is looking for and also to not get rejected. We have profiles for a reason to write what we like and don't like as we all have personal preferences so why do people not read them.

I'm so confused. 🤔🤔🤔🤔"

Fab for lots of people is a numbers game.

Ask enough, eventually someone says yes.

Reading 50 profiles and sending individual messages doesn’t necessarily guarantee you anymore success than sending 50 generic ones. So why would you take all that extra time and effort for the same result?

I do take the effort to read and message accordingly but I can understand why people don’t and it’s not just exclusive men who don’t. Women and couples do it also.

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By *onglinerMan 10 weeks ago

Northants

I always look at the profile and see as some people like to put in a special word that must be in the returning email also it tells you if your compatable with said profile but then you see a lot of empty profiles or i'll fill in later lol

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By *tticusukMan 10 weeks ago

Formby


"Because they're either dog shit or negative.

The pictures are usually the best bit so I skip straight to them. "

Amen sister

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By *hunky GentMan 10 weeks ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"Reading skills in this country are attrocious. Numeracy too not much better either

It's true. 37% of people can't add up and 77% can"

😆 🤣

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By *hunky GentMan 10 weeks ago

Maldon and Peterborough

I try my best to thorough read profiles, but then I get......

Oooo boobs.

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By *issmorganWoman 10 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

Some see pics and that's it, they don't bother reading the words.

It doesn't matter what length your profile is either, I've had shorter and it still wasn't read by some men.

There are couples and women who do the same, I blocked couples as I have no interest in them and stated that in my bio, they still messaged me.

Think of it as a good filter.

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By *ensuallover1000Man 10 weeks ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

I canny reed….

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By *wiss Army KnifeMan 10 weeks ago

Second star to the right…

When you are sending over 100 messages a day until you exhaust the site from the Shetland Isles to the Isle of Wight.

Who has the time to read profiles?

It’s a copy and paste bonaza 🙄

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By *issBlackedCouple 10 weeks ago

Glasgow

Never fret, gents. If at first you don't succeed, try another few messages throughout the day, visit their profiles religously and repeat the cycle every three days...

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By *eneralKenobiMan 10 weeks ago

North Angus

I quite often read profiles 🤷🏻‍♂️

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By (user no longer on site) 10 weeks ago

I always look at peoples profiles as I like to see who the fakes are as well as the time wasters on here.

But also to see if people are what I am looking for or have the same wants and desires.i am starting to realise though that i am one of very few on here that do that xxx

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By *elix SightedMan 10 weeks ago

Cloud 8

#notallmen

I can do well good reading. Innit.

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By *ndyp81Man 10 weeks ago

essex

I always read the profile and I’m always respectful when I message someone

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By *allipygousMan 10 weeks ago

Leicester

I love reading profiles, especially those with a long list of don'ts and what they want but not even a hint of what they have to offer. They're definitely the bestest.

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By *endalshaggersCouple 10 weeks ago

Kendal

It's not just men, it's all variances on here.

However, there does seem there is a majority - not all, of course - of that demographic who sign up for this site thinking it'll be a easy way to get a hookup like Tinder or the like, and they'll quickly get a shag without too much fuss or effort. Obviously, it'll work for a tiny proportion but not the majority.

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By *r Mrs FuckableCouple 10 weeks ago

Stoke

The way we look at it, if someone can't even be trusted to read a profile, we definitely wouldn't trust them between the sheets.

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By *ootyliciousC OP   Woman 10 weeks ago

Buckinghamshire


"The way we look at it, if someone can't even be trusted to read a profile, we definitely wouldn't trust them between the sheets. "

Great way to be. Need to do that from now on. Thank you

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By *he Silver FuxMan 10 weeks ago

Uttoxeter

TL:DR

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By *ootyliciousC OP   Woman 10 weeks ago

Buckinghamshire

Thank you to all that have commented. It definitely has given me a better understanding and what I need to do moving forward. I'm glad it's not just me.

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By *ig_eric_tionMan 10 weeks ago

IPSWICH


"Please can I ask a general question especially for the guys on this site. Why do you not read people's profiles? Does it not make it easier to know what the person is looking for and also to not get rejected. We have profiles for a reason to write what we like and don't like as we all have personal preferences so why do people not read them.

I'm so confused. 🤔🤔🤔🤔"

That's a rather sweeping generalisation.

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By *agatoXXXMan 10 weeks ago

Mordor


"Please can I ask a general question especially for the guys on this site. Why do you not read people's profiles? Does it not make it easier to know what the person is looking for and also to not get rejected. We have profiles for a reason to write what we like and don't like as we all have personal preferences so why do people not read them.

I'm so confused. 🤔🤔🤔🤔"

I don't read profiles before contacting people, because I don't contact people. Saves everyone some anguish.

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By (user no longer on site) 10 weeks ago

If i like them i read it. Some say very little .. 9/10 A cock pic ..

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By (user no longer on site) 10 weeks ago


"Men join this site for sex.

Men see text and boobs. They look at the boobs, little Mr gets excited and they message without reading.

Seems pretty logical to me.

Also, some people's bios are bloody boring. This isn't aimed at you op as I didn't read yours, I just looked at the pictures.

"

Was there text?

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By *JB1954Man 10 weeks ago

Reading

I read profiles . Have found though .If I see on a profile that does not be compatible with mine . No contact. Yes some couples and females do not read also. Recently message from a couple to me. I read theirs and saw that we were not compatible . Informed them of this. Reply came back that they only looked at my photo’s and yes not that far from them.

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By (user no longer on site) 10 weeks ago


"Please can I ask a general question especially for the guys on this site. "

That was the first question - though I think it was quite specific.


"Why do you not read people's profiles? "

That was a second question - I think you probably have enough answers from others on here, but frequently it is either (a) TLDNR or (b) nice pictures (was there text too?)


"Does it not make it easier to know what the person is looking for and also to not get rejected. "

Third question - guess we do not believe that people do not like dick pics, like their blokes to be single, and do not enjoy 420 - but I would not know cos that would entail reading a profile.


"We have profiles for a reason to write what we like and don't like as we all have personal preferences so why do people not read them."

I feel you may have used up your quota of questions, that was a fourth one, even though it was lacking a question mark.


"I'm so confused. 🤔🤔🤔🤔"

Join the club. This is Fab, a place for confused (but happy) punters.

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By *lowloadandgocoupleCouple 10 weeks ago

ferrybank


"The way we look at it, if someone can't even be trusted to read a profile, we definitely wouldn't trust them between the sheets. "

What if you half read a profile?

Checked out the hot pics though...

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By *eneralKenobiMan 10 weeks ago

North Angus


"Please can I ask a general question especially for the guys on this site.

That was the first question - though I think it was quite specific.

Why do you not read people's profiles?

That was a second question - I think you probably have enough answers from others on here, but frequently it is either (a) TLDNR or (b) nice pictures (was there text too?)

Does it not make it easier to know what the person is looking for and also to not get rejected.

Third question - guess we do not believe that people do not like dick pics, like their blokes to be single, and do not enjoy 420 - but I would not know cos that would entail reading a profile.

We have profiles for a reason to write what we like and don't like as we all have personal preferences so why do people not read them.

I feel you may have used up your quota of questions, that was a fourth one, even though it was lacking a question mark.

I'm so confused. 🤔🤔🤔🤔

Join the club. This is Fab, a place for confused (but happy) punters."

A salute to you sir 🫡🫡🫡

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By (user no longer on site) 10 weeks ago

^ just being my normal idiotic self

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By *ockdownlickdownMan 10 weeks ago

Crewe

@op. I didn't read all your post (or any of the replies) but I get the gist. I think it's down to return on investment..... Why would anyone want to read all that nonsense when they're gonna get blanked anyway. If we just read the profiles of women that reply we have so much more time to dazzle forum readers with our insiteful gems. #obviously

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By *alandNitaCouple 10 weeks ago

Scunthorpe


"@op. I didn't read all your post (or any of the replies) but I get the gist. I think it's down to return on investment..... Why would anyone want to read all that nonsense when they're gonna get blanked anyway. If we just read the profiles of women that reply we have so much more time to dazzle forum readers with our insiteful gems. #obviously"

BUT... if people only message profiles that were receptive to them, then their success rate WOULD be higher.

Cal

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By *ockdownlickdownMan 10 weeks ago

Crewe

Woosh! 😆

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By *lfa RomeoMan 10 weeks ago

southeast , Herts, Beds


"Please can I ask a general question especially for the guys on this site. Why do you not read people's profiles? Does it not make it easier to know what the person is looking for and also to not get rejected. We have profiles for a reason to write what we like and don't like as we all have personal preferences so why do people not read them.

I'm so confused. 🤔🤔🤔🤔"

That's an easy one OP, men are visual creatures, so most men see a pair of tits or arse, and that's all it takes . They really aren't interested in what written on your profile

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By *eordieJeansCouple 10 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

I was elected to lead, not to read.

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By *ockdownlickdownMan 10 weeks ago

Crewe

Damn what's your 45 degree sled 1RM?

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By *agic johnsonMan 10 weeks ago

morden

I always read them ,but is there any point ? You lot are too high up on your pedestals thinking no one's good enough for you

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By *oeBeansMan 10 weeks ago

Derby

Because a lot of women put very little effort into their bios knowing they'll get messages regardless of what they write. So when they make their photos the outstanding feature, they can't have the shocked Pikachu face when message about their photos.

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By *acey_RedWoman 10 weeks ago

Liverpool


"Because a lot of women put very little effort into their bios knowing they'll get messages regardless of what they write. So when they make their photos the outstanding feature, they can't have the shocked Pikachu face when message about their photos."

I got messages about photos even when I didn't have any

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By *oeBeansMan 10 weeks ago

Derby


"Because a lot of women put very little effort into their bios knowing they'll get messages regardless of what they write. So when they make their photos the outstanding feature, they can't have the shocked Pikachu face when message about their photos.

I got messages about photos even when I didn't have any "

Were they "Do you have any photos?"

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By *acey_RedWoman 10 weeks ago

Liverpool


"Because a lot of women put very little effort into their bios knowing they'll get messages regardless of what they write. So when they make their photos the outstanding feature, they can't have the shocked Pikachu face when message about their photos.

I got messages about photos even when I didn't have any

Were they "Do you have any photos?" "

They were telling me I was gorgeous and asking if I wanted to meet .

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By (user no longer on site) 10 weeks ago


"I was elected to lead, not to read."

….. I love Simpsons references

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By *ootyliciousC OP   Woman 10 weeks ago

Buckinghamshire


"Please can I ask a general question especially for the guys on this site. Why do you not read people's profiles? Does it not make it easier to know what the person is looking for and also to not get rejected. We have profiles for a reason to write what we like and don't like as we all have personal preferences so why do people not read them.

I'm so confused. 🤔🤔🤔🤔

That's a rather sweeping generalisation. "

That's my personal experience

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By *ootyliciousC OP   Woman 10 weeks ago

Buckinghamshire


"@op. I didn't read all your post (or any of the replies) but I get the gist. I think it's down to return on investment..... Why would anyone want to read all that nonsense when they're gonna get blanked anyway. If we just read the profiles of women that reply we have so much more time to dazzle forum readers with our insiteful gems. #obviously

BUT... if people only message profiles that were receptive to them, then their success rate WOULD be higher.

Cal"

Thank you that's my point. People know what they are attracted to the same as I know so I would not be messaging someone who clearly says for example they only want slim women or blonde. Because I'm not that

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By *toC Thats MeWoman 10 weeks ago

Sheffield

Most don’t, you just get used to it. Only a very small amount of people use the forums to answer your question.

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By *ootyliciousC OP   Woman 10 weeks ago

Buckinghamshire


"Please can I ask a general question especially for the guys on this site. Why do you not read people's profiles? Does it not make it easier to know what the person is looking for and also to not get rejected. We have profiles for a reason to write what we like and don't like as we all have personal preferences so why do people not read them.

I'm so confused. 🤔🤔🤔🤔

That's an easy one OP, men are visual creatures, so most men see a pair of tits or arse, and that's all it takes . They really aren't interested in what written on your profile "

But they want ladies to make an effort dressing up and looking nice.

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By *ootyliciousC OP   Woman 10 weeks ago

Buckinghamshire


"I always read them ,but is there any point ? You lot are too high up on your pedestals thinking no one's good enough for you"

It's called personal preference we all have it

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By *acey_RedWoman 10 weeks ago

Liverpool


"I always read them ,but is there any point ? You lot are too high up on your pedestals thinking no one's good enough for you"

You're right. It's why I'm still a virgin.

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By *herrybakewellCouple 10 weeks ago

Staffordshire


"I always read them ,but is there any point ? You lot are too high up on your pedestals thinking no one's good enough for you

It's called personal preference we all have it"

Well said.

We know what we want and don't feel need to compromise.

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By *eroLondonMan 10 weeks ago

Mayfair


"I always read them ,but is there any point ? You lot are too high up on your pedestals thinking no one's good enough for you

·

You're right. It's why I'm still a virgin."

And long may you remain so, your lådyship. We need someone pure and sacrosanct within the Fab vestry. † ⛪

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By *acey_RedWoman 10 weeks ago

Liverpool


"I always read them ,but is there any point ? You lot are too high up on your pedestals thinking no one's good enough for you

·

You're right. It's why I'm still a virgin.

And long may you remain so, your lådyship. We need someone pure and sacrosanct within the Fab vestry. † ⛪"

This is the way.

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By *eordieJeansCouple 10 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne


"I was elected to lead, not to read.

….. I love Simpsons references "

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By *r SproutMan 10 weeks ago

the middle

I looked. Seen a load of CAPS and left without reading any of it.

It probably doesn’t answer your question, but here we are

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By *oeBeansMan 10 weeks ago

Derby


"I always read them ,but is there any point ? You lot are too high up on your pedestals thinking no one's good enough for you

It's called personal preference we all have it

Well said.

We know what we want and don't feel need to compromise. "

But surely it's easier for you to rule them out then because they obviously didn't read your profile. Delete them and move on instead of rehashing one of the eleventy bajillion threads on why men on here are shit.

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By *imply DeeWoman 10 weeks ago

Wherever

I prefer if they don’t read. The easiest filter ever existed and you don’t even have to do anything.

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By *acey_RedWoman 10 weeks ago

Liverpool

Someone once bribed me to read all of theirs with the promise of cookies and then never delivered. I don't think I've ever really gotten over it.

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By *r Mrs FuckableCouple 10 weeks ago

Stoke


"I always read them ,but is there any point ? You lot are too high up on your pedestals thinking no one's good enough for you"

Cracking filter that comment, thank you

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By *uenevereWoman 10 weeks ago

Scunthorpe


"Some see pics and that's it, they don't bother reading the words.

It doesn't matter what length your profile is either, I've had shorter and it still wasn't read by some men.

There are couples and women who do the same, I blocked couples as I have no interest in them and stated that in my bio, they still messaged me.

Think of it as a good filter. "

This is my experience. Men are very visual and many on here seem desperate and lacking in online social skills.

This results in messages based solely on them liking the photos. On the positive side it has resulted in the occasional nice chat.

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By *idssissyTV/TS 10 weeks ago

Birmingham

At times maybe I am one of those but it's not often based on the pics. Maybe there is something in the profile I find intriguing or share an interest. Or if completely new maybe just to wish good luck or offer advice.

Also though here as TV, I can and have done things as male.

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