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Please can I ask a general question especially for the guys on this site. Why do you not read people's profiles? Does it not make it easier to know what the person is looking for and also to not get rejected. We have profiles for a reason to write what we like and don't like as we all have personal preferences so why do people not read them.
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Don't forget any contact is what is seeked on here, some get off on having 10 women looked at them, some love any sort of message. unless you block, your profile is available for all to see and contact you, in which ever way they see fit. Sifting through unsuitable profiles to find your gems, is a way of life on here.
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By *aven.Woman 13 weeks ago
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Men join this site for sex.
Men see text and boobs. They look at the boobs, little Mr gets excited and they message without reading.
Seems pretty logical to me.
Also, some people's bios are bloody boring. This isn't aimed at you op as I didn't read yours, I just looked at the pictures.
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"Please can I ask a general question especially for the guys on this site. Why do you not read people's profiles? Does it not make it easier to know what the person is looking for and also to not get rejected. We have profiles for a reason to write what we like and don't like as we all have personal preferences so why do people not read them.
I'm so confused. 🤔🤔🤔🤔"
Because these arseholes expect results with minimum cut and paste effort, they just try the ‘message cannon’ approach (“Hey, maybe someone will eventually respond”). Why the fuck would they bother reading what you want. |
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I think guys do read profiles, well some do I can't speak for all the same can apply to women and whomever. I'm pretty sure women have just gone onto a guys profile and messaged them without taking a single glance at there profile. Sure it may not be so common but it does happen. Myself I like to hope there's something at least that will capture my attention not just the pic. If I find something that's within my own interests I'll message them if I don't get a reply I just leave it move on. |
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Thank you for your comments. It's definitely giving me a better understanding. I make a point of reading peoples because you may not be what I'm looking for so I'm not going to waste mine or your time.
I understand it's couples and singles that don't read. |
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The very act of 'profile reading' is a dying årtform, rarely invoked, rarely appreciated and mostly overlooked.
It's renaissance was during the first wave of COVID, where people had very little to do except write garrulous pieces of biographical text with the vain hope that, once lockdown was lifted, it would lead to dates and courtships with like-minded Fabbers of a certain calibre. Alas, this outcome never materialised. By the way - what was your question...❓❔ |
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By (user no longer on site) 13 weeks ago
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"Please can I ask a general question especially for the guys on this site. Why do you not read people's profiles? …..
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But I do …..
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What makes you think everyone doesn’t? |
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"Please can I ask a general question especially for the guys on this site. Why do you not read people's profiles? Does it not make it easier to know what the person is looking for and also to not get rejected. We have profiles for a reason to write what we like and don't like as we all have personal preferences so why do people not read them.
I'm so confused. 🤔🤔🤔🤔"
Fab for lots of people is a numbers game.
Ask enough, eventually someone says yes.
Reading 50 profiles and sending individual messages doesn’t necessarily guarantee you anymore success than sending 50 generic ones. So why would you take all that extra time and effort for the same result?
I do take the effort to read and message accordingly but I can understand why people don’t and it’s not just exclusive men who don’t. Women and couples do it also. |
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I always look at the profile and see as some people like to put in a special word that must be in the returning email also it tells you if your compatable with said profile but then you see a lot of empty profiles or i'll fill in later lol |
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Some see pics and that's it, they don't bother reading the words.
It doesn't matter what length your profile is either, I've had shorter and it still wasn't read by some men.
There are couples and women who do the same, I blocked couples as I have no interest in them and stated that in my bio, they still messaged me.
Think of it as a good filter. |
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By (user no longer on site) 13 weeks ago
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I always look at peoples profiles as I like to see who the fakes are as well as the time wasters on here.
But also to see if people are what I am looking for or have the same wants and desires.i am starting to realise though that i am one of very few on here that do that xxx |
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It's not just men, it's all variances on here.
However, there does seem there is a majority - not all, of course - of that demographic who sign up for this site thinking it'll be a easy way to get a hookup like Tinder or the like, and they'll quickly get a shag without too much fuss or effort. Obviously, it'll work for a tiny proportion but not the majority. |
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"Please can I ask a general question especially for the guys on this site. Why do you not read people's profiles? Does it not make it easier to know what the person is looking for and also to not get rejected. We have profiles for a reason to write what we like and don't like as we all have personal preferences so why do people not read them.
I'm so confused. 🤔🤔🤔🤔"
That's a rather sweeping generalisation. |
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By *agatoXXXMan 13 weeks ago
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"Please can I ask a general question especially for the guys on this site. Why do you not read people's profiles? Does it not make it easier to know what the person is looking for and also to not get rejected. We have profiles for a reason to write what we like and don't like as we all have personal preferences so why do people not read them.
I'm so confused. 🤔🤔🤔🤔"
I don't read profiles before contacting people, because I don't contact people. Saves everyone some anguish. |
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By (user no longer on site) 13 weeks ago
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"Men join this site for sex.
Men see text and boobs. They look at the boobs, little Mr gets excited and they message without reading.
Seems pretty logical to me.
Also, some people's bios are bloody boring. This isn't aimed at you op as I didn't read yours, I just looked at the pictures.
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Was there text? |
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By (user no longer on site) 13 weeks ago
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"Please can I ask a general question especially for the guys on this site. "
That was the first question - though I think it was quite specific.
"Why do you not read people's profiles? "
That was a second question - I think you probably have enough answers from others on here, but frequently it is either (a) TLDNR or (b) nice pictures (was there text too?)
"Does it not make it easier to know what the person is looking for and also to not get rejected. "
Third question - guess we do not believe that people do not like dick pics, like their blokes to be single, and do not enjoy 420 - but I would not know cos that would entail reading a profile.
"We have profiles for a reason to write what we like and don't like as we all have personal preferences so why do people not read them."
I feel you may have used up your quota of questions, that was a fourth one, even though it was lacking a question mark.
"I'm so confused. 🤔🤔🤔🤔"
Join the club. This is Fab, a place for confused (but happy) punters. |
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"The way we look at it, if someone can't even be trusted to read a profile, we definitely wouldn't trust them between the sheets. "
What if you half read a profile?
Checked out the hot pics though...  |
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"Please can I ask a general question especially for the guys on this site.
That was the first question - though I think it was quite specific.
Why do you not read people's profiles?
That was a second question - I think you probably have enough answers from others on here, but frequently it is either (a) TLDNR or (b) nice pictures (was there text too?)
Does it not make it easier to know what the person is looking for and also to not get rejected.
Third question - guess we do not believe that people do not like dick pics, like their blokes to be single, and do not enjoy 420 - but I would not know cos that would entail reading a profile.
We have profiles for a reason to write what we like and don't like as we all have personal preferences so why do people not read them.
I feel you may have used up your quota of questions, that was a fourth one, even though it was lacking a question mark.
I'm so confused. 🤔🤔🤔🤔
Join the club. This is Fab, a place for confused (but happy) punters."
A salute to you sir 🫡🫡🫡 |
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@op. I didn't read all your post (or any of the replies) but I get the gist. I think it's down to return on investment..... Why would anyone want to read all that nonsense when they're gonna get blanked anyway. If we just read the profiles of women that reply we have so much more time to dazzle forum readers with our insiteful gems. #obviously |
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"@op. I didn't read all your post (or any of the replies) but I get the gist. I think it's down to return on investment..... Why would anyone want to read all that nonsense when they're gonna get blanked anyway. If we just read the profiles of women that reply we have so much more time to dazzle forum readers with our insiteful gems. #obviously"
BUT... if people only message profiles that were receptive to them, then their success rate WOULD be higher.
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By *lfa RomeoMan 13 weeks ago
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"Please can I ask a general question especially for the guys on this site. Why do you not read people's profiles? Does it not make it easier to know what the person is looking for and also to not get rejected. We have profiles for a reason to write what we like and don't like as we all have personal preferences so why do people not read them.
I'm so confused. 🤔🤔🤔🤔"
That's an easy one OP, men are visual creatures, so most men see a pair of tits or arse, and that's all it takes . They really aren't interested in what written on your profile |
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By (user no longer on site) 13 weeks ago
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Because a lot of women put very little effort into their bios knowing they'll get messages regardless of what they write. So when they make their photos the outstanding feature, they can't have the shocked Pikachu face when message about their photos. |
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"Because a lot of women put very little effort into their bios knowing they'll get messages regardless of what they write. So when they make their photos the outstanding feature, they can't have the shocked Pikachu face when message about their photos."
I got messages about photos even when I didn't have any  |
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"Because a lot of women put very little effort into their bios knowing they'll get messages regardless of what they write. So when they make their photos the outstanding feature, they can't have the shocked Pikachu face when message about their photos.
I got messages about photos even when I didn't have any "
Were they "Do you have any photos?" |
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"Because a lot of women put very little effort into their bios knowing they'll get messages regardless of what they write. So when they make their photos the outstanding feature, they can't have the shocked Pikachu face when message about their photos.
I got messages about photos even when I didn't have any
Were they "Do you have any photos?" "
They were telling me I was gorgeous and asking if I wanted to meet . |
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"Please can I ask a general question especially for the guys on this site. Why do you not read people's profiles? Does it not make it easier to know what the person is looking for and also to not get rejected. We have profiles for a reason to write what we like and don't like as we all have personal preferences so why do people not read them.
I'm so confused. 🤔🤔🤔🤔
That's a rather sweeping generalisation. "
That's my personal experience |
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"@op. I didn't read all your post (or any of the replies) but I get the gist. I think it's down to return on investment..... Why would anyone want to read all that nonsense when they're gonna get blanked anyway. If we just read the profiles of women that reply we have so much more time to dazzle forum readers with our insiteful gems. #obviously
BUT... if people only message profiles that were receptive to them, then their success rate WOULD be higher.
Cal"
Thank you that's my point. People know what they are attracted to the same as I know so I would not be messaging someone who clearly says for example they only want slim women or blonde. Because I'm not that |
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"Please can I ask a general question especially for the guys on this site. Why do you not read people's profiles? Does it not make it easier to know what the person is looking for and also to not get rejected. We have profiles for a reason to write what we like and don't like as we all have personal preferences so why do people not read them.
I'm so confused. 🤔🤔🤔🤔
That's an easy one OP, men are visual creatures, so most men see a pair of tits or arse, and that's all it takes . They really aren't interested in what written on your profile "
But they want ladies to make an effort dressing up and looking nice. |
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"I always read them ,but is there any point ? You lot are too high up on your pedestals thinking no one's good enough for you
It's called personal preference we all have it"
Well said.
We know what we want and don't feel need to compromise. |
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"I always read them ,but is there any point ? You lot are too high up on your pedestals thinking no one's good enough for you
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You're right. It's why I'm still a virgin."
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And long may you remain so, your lådyship. We need someone pure and sacrosanct within the Fab vestry. † ⛪ |
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"I always read them ,but is there any point ? You lot are too high up on your pedestals thinking no one's good enough for you
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You're right. It's why I'm still a virgin.
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And long may you remain so, your lådyship. We need someone pure and sacrosanct within the Fab vestry. † ⛪"
This is the way. |
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By (user no longer on site) 13 weeks ago
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"I always read them ,but is there any point ? You lot are too high up on your pedestals thinking no one's good enough for you
It's called personal preference we all have it
Well said.
We know what we want and don't feel need to compromise. "
But surely it's easier for you to rule them out then because they obviously didn't read your profile. Delete them and move on instead of rehashing one of the eleventy bajillion threads on why men on here are shit. |
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"Some see pics and that's it, they don't bother reading the words.
It doesn't matter what length your profile is either, I've had shorter and it still wasn't read by some men.
There are couples and women who do the same, I blocked couples as I have no interest in them and stated that in my bio, they still messaged me.
Think of it as a good filter. "
This is my experience. Men are very visual and many on here seem desperate and lacking in online social skills.
This results in messages based solely on them liking the photos. On the positive side it has resulted in the occasional nice chat.
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At times maybe I am one of those but it's not often based on the pics. Maybe there is something in the profile I find intriguing or share an interest. Or if completely new maybe just to wish good luck or offer advice.
Also though here as TV, I can and have done things as male. |
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