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I ignore them. If they're vacuous enough for sending terse opening remarks then I'm not going to entertain them.
Occasionally I •will• entertain them, for my amusement, and just paste them a copy of the Red Hat Enterprise Linux administrator's guide.
(I can do this because it's open source and all ©®™ are acknowledged) |
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I don’t mind getting a very short first message, it’s a tester to see if I’m interested in replying.
I actually prefer an honest “hi how are you” to a long copy and paste talking about “you guys” (I’m not a couple), offering me their gf (my profile is clear that I’m straight) or demanding I Domme them (again, if they read my profile they’d see I’m sub) |
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By *WANDTGCouple 11 weeks ago
Borough of Greenwich |
"I don’t mind getting a very short first message, it’s a tester to see if I’m interested in replying.
I actually prefer an honest “hi how are you” to a long copy and paste talking about “you guys” (I’m not a couple), offering me their gf (my profile is clear that I’m straight) or demanding I Domme them (again, if they read my profile they’d see I’m sub) "
We've had a few copy and paste messages, I normally ask how they've got on with them so far ?
As it's failing with us . |
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I'm generally reading the situation, including that they will probably put the same interest and commitment to me, that their messages have invested in them. It's more than likely that I'll ignore the almost 0 effort contact types. Potentially, as a hypocrite, I'm more likely to respond to a wink than a two words message. Though experience shows that many of them aren't followed through with a good message. |
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By *riciaWoman 11 weeks ago
Blaydon |
"I don’t mind getting a very short first message, it’s a tester to see if I’m interested in replying.
I actually prefer an honest “hi how are you” to a long copy and paste talking about “you guys” (I’m not a couple), offering me their gf (my profile is clear that I’m straight) or demanding I Domme them (again, if they read my profile they’d see I’m sub)
We've had a few copy and paste messages, I normally ask how they've got on with them so far ?
As it's failing with us . "
it is Einsteins theory of insanity:- “The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results.”
I have on occasions asked whether they have had any success with a "hi" or cut and paste message, just out of interest. So far no one has come back and said they have been succesful! |
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By *WANDTGCouple 11 weeks ago
Borough of Greenwich |
"Most messages I get are one word ‘hi’ messages.
The last ‘hi’ message I received I entertained them and replied back with ‘hi’, I then got a response of ‘hey’"
Next time respond with " Ho"
You may get a song out of it 😁 |
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"Is it just me that ignores /deletes the one or two word messages that scream out I couldn't be bothered to read ya profile"
I think it’s going to be a landslide result that you’re not alone with this. |
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"I just got one with more than a couple of words.
"We wild old soe photos to be take"
Anyone want to take a guess at what it means?"
Now I would surmise that the message potentially was to say ‘ We shall take some splendid photographs of our exuberant activities’?
But most likely..
‘We Would like some photos to be taken’!
Regards from your Jibberish Translator
Chad ThunderCock
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By *oomlMan 11 weeks ago
Fareham |
"I just got one with more than a couple of words.
"We wild old soe photos to be take"
Anyone want to take a guess at what it means?
Now I would surmise that the message potentially was to say ‘ We shall take some splendid photographs of our exuberant activities’?
But most likely..
‘We Would like some photos to be taken’!
Regards from your Jibberish Translator
Chad ThunderCock
👌🍺👍
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Thanks. I was thinking it was something like that myself. It made me giggle but I won't be replying. |
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I think everyone here has there own response to a 1 or two word message If you choose to have a profile with nothing to show then your chances of getting a reply back is very slim.
Same can apply though if you have pics and a bio written. Myself I don't particularly see anything wrong with a "hey how are you" message.
I understand not everyone here is always confident enough at delivering an opening message, so a simple message may be the best way for them to start one.
If they send a face pic, I say that's a bonus at least they are willing to show, so you know what they look like at least.
It does however help to have something written on the profile at least enough to capture the viewers attention. |
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I find I get most responses from a single sentence message. Usually commenting on her/their pics.
Paragraph messages with a few comments about their profile, and what I'm looking for usually get ignored.
Maybe longer messages give off the copy/paste vibe |
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By (user no longer on site) 11 weeks ago
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"Is it just me that ignores /deletes the one or two word messages that scream out I couldn't be bothered to read ya profile"
Why would you make an effort when it's obvious they haven't 🙄🙄 |
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By (user no longer on site) 11 weeks ago
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We delete them and if they message a second time(which they usually do again with no effort) block them. Its so lazy. We have enough info on our profile about what we're after. We wouldn't dream of reaching out to anyone and not putting some effort in. |
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We have had a guy message us for 3 our 4 times a week for 3 weeks. incidentally that's how long he has been on the site.
Message consists of hi,wanna meet,can accommodate now,do you reply,and other 2 to 3 word shite.
Obviously in 3 weeks he has never had the decency to read our profile.
Single male profile with a couples profile name.also not one pic either on his profile or sent.
So yep we just delete but don't block unless they get abusive. |
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"Is it just me that ignores /deletes the one or two word messages that scream out I couldn't be bothered to read ya profile"
I guess it's the equivalent of applying for a job, without bothering to read which skillset is required or what the job is. Then moaning it's not what you wanted |
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