While I have met people with less than yours on their profile, having some wording on there that wasn't written by fab might be a start? What kinda people you are seeking? What you enjoy? That kind of thing. Good luck. |
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Let's review:
"I am a 30 year old man and I'm looking to meet women, couples."
First thing I notice is that your profile age says you're 32, implying that you haven't updated this in 2 years. It's also the absolute bare minimum of information about you that's already present in other parts of the profile. In effect, your bio says nothing. I have no idea who you are as a person, and what you're looking for besides their gender.
Good move not having a gallery of cock pics, but you may get more engagement from your face photos if you put some up where you're smiling. You look relatively annoyed in the ones you have up currently.
Your age settings imply a lazy approach as well; are you *really* willing to throw down with a 99-year-old? A lot of people will be put off by a lack of defined settings like that.
What sort of messages are you sending? What about your profile do you think should currently entice people to respond, that sets you apart from the tens of thousands of other guys on here? |
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"Let's review:
"I am a 30 year old man and I'm looking to meet women, couples."
First thing I notice is that your profile age says you're 32, implying that you haven't updated this in 2 years. It's also the absolute bare minimum of information about you that's already present in other parts of the profile. In effect, your bio says nothing. I have no idea who you are as a person, and what you're looking for besides their gender.
Good move not having a gallery of cock pics, but you may get more engagement from your face photos if you put some up where you're smiling. You look relatively annoyed in the ones you have up currently.
Your age settings imply a lazy approach as well; are you *really* willing to throw down with a 99-year-old? A lot of people will be put off by a lack of defined settings like that.
What sort of messages are you sending? What about your profile do you think should currently entice people to respond, that sets you apart from the tens of thousands of other guys on here?"
Basics really - wholeheartedly agree |
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"I meant what should I put haha"
One of your photos is from 5 years ago, does it still reflect you?
One of your photos looks like you’ve punched a hole in the behind you which would be a red flag for me and a reason to not meet incase you lost your temper.
The profile pic you have, you’re not smiling. Smiles are good to see in a profile. |
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"I meant what should I put haha"
You should work that out for yourself.
If you write what everyone tells you to write, you’re not describing you.
Look at guys profiles and find some that are well written. Get a few ideas of how they approach it. Write a profile out on paper for yourself, read it and ask “would you meet yourself if you read it”.
Pictures - smile. You look like an angry young man in all of your current photo’s. A friendly looking face will attract more interest. |
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"Where am I going wrong?
No one ever replies "
…. A question that’s asked a hundred times or more.
What is it they want? Less or more?
A face pic? Some banter, poetry or just ‘hello’?
What should we write? Does anybody know? |
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"Where am I going wrong?
No one ever replies
…. A question that’s asked a hundred times or more.
What is it they want? Less or more?
A face pic? Some banter, poetry or just ‘hello’?
What should we write? Does anybody know? "
A wise couple told us early on to add our interests and dislikes as helps someone make a decision (not the tick box ones). the fab world definitely changed for us from then on as there was a point of discussion upon contact. also I feel that because we are clear in it we don’t waste anyone’s time as the information is all there (albeit a little long for those who just want a fuck and go!) xx  |
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From what I gather from being on the forums most men have the same problem. As women get bombarded with messages. I read profiles I send proper messages with face pics and they don’t get read or a response. Just hang in there I suppose and keep trying. God loves a trier lol |
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