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over a year ago
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If this has been done please don't shoot.
Reading some of the threads it feels a bit like everyone knows each other in here? How can one rectify and become a part of the fun please? |
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just keep joining in like you are in the forums ..you'll soon feel like you've been here forever ( echoes of Hotel California float by ) 
and get to one of the fabulous socials .... maybe try the Valentines one being organised by OldKingCole - its going to be great !!
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I understand where the original poster is coming from. Nearly all the posts on these forums get hijacked by the same group of people who turn it into a love in amongst themselves and whether it's meant or not it does come across as very clique. Personally I have the confidence to jump in and add my two pence worth, but it can be hard going. It's not unique to this site, but as a newbie I've noticed it...just saying how it is from my perspective x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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we been to both chams and barnsley socials and loved them both for different reasons, so yes get yourselves off to the social events, you will enjoy them... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"The whole site is a varied bunch
All the socials and parties we've been to have been great fun  "
Maybe we should put our name to a few and see for ourselves then |
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"The whole site is a varied bunch
All the socials and parties we've been to have been great fun "
for me the socials have been perfect ...totally unpressured , but held at places where if the mood takes you you can let it ..either at the venue or back at your hotel room . Sometimes i've played and other times not ...and both ways i've had great fun meeting and chatting to people x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I understand where the original poster is coming from. Nearly all the posts on these forums get hijacked by the same group of people who turn it into a love in amongst themselves and whether it's meant or not it does come across as very clique. Personally I have the confidence to jump in and add my two pence worth, but it can be hard going. It's not unique to this site, but as a newbie I've noticed it...just saying how it is from my perspective x"
What you say is true and as a newbie it can be daunting,but remember everyone of those posters had to make their first post once and probably felt the same........I know I did and most not all I have to say will make newbies feel welcome to the forums
If we did'nt have new posters it would become really boring,I like to see new faces on here,well maybe not faces but bums boobs ect |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I understand where the original poster is coming from. Nearly all the posts on these forums get hijacked by the same group of people who turn it into a love in amongst themselves and whether it's meant or not it does come across as very clique. Personally I have the confidence to jump in and add my two pence worth, but it can be hard going. It's not unique to this site, but as a newbie I've noticed it...just saying how it is from my perspective x
What you say is true and as a newbie it can be daunting,but remember everyone of those posters had to make their first post once and probably felt the same........I know I did and most not all I have to say will make newbies feel welcome to the forums
If we did'nt have new posters it would become really boring,I like to see new faces on here,well maybe not faces but bums boobs ect "
Oh dont get me wrong I've been made to feel very welcome and I've had some lovely messages and difference of opinions with regular forum posters. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"you dont want to see my bum, hes busy ironing 
Good man!
Very good man! Can he do ours too? Z xxx"
Why not, he is keen to be seen doing the right things at the moment, keen to impress mmaybe |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" Oh dont get me wrong I've been made to feel very welcome and I've had some lovely messages and difference of opinions with regular forum posters. "
You seem to have been here ages now,I forget you're a relative newbie so its nice that you feel you have been made welcome |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I understand where the original poster is coming from. Nearly all the posts on these forums get hijacked by the same group of people who turn it into a love in amongst themselves and whether it's meant or not it does come across as very clique. Personally I have the confidence to jump in and add my two pence worth, but it can be hard going. It's not unique to this site, but as a newbie I've noticed it...just saying how it is from my perspective x"
We understand what you mean.
Especialy when a thread descends into "ping pong" between the same 2 or 3 people for about a dozen or more posts,none of which have anything to do with the original thread. 
It can look extremely cliquey to regulars let alone newcomers,plus it can also ruin what started out as an interesting thread. 
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"I understand where the original poster is coming from. Nearly all the posts on these forums get hijacked by the same group of people who turn it into a love in amongst themselves and whether it's meant or not it does come across as very clique. Personally I have the confidence to jump in and add my two pence worth, but it can be hard going. It's not unique to this site, but as a newbie I've noticed it...just saying how it is from my perspective x
We understand what you mean.
Especialy when a thread descends into "ping pong" between the same 2 or 3 people for about a dozen or more posts,none of which have anything to do with the original thread.
It can look extremely cliquey to regulars let alone newcomers,plus it can also ruin what started out as an interesting thread.
XXXX"
Just add a post relating to the original post to get it back on track! Z |
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forums are a laugh as long as you dont take things seriously or personally and remember it is just for fun.
You will find a good mix on here
assholes..has been known on occasions
rebels...soon evicted by those who see all
Lovies...fill the room with...well love
comedians....watch them, they come and go...depending on wether there is a sense of humour failure on patrol lol
debaters...always good to get your teeth into.
and the list could go on...jump in and enjoy. |
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By *ebzStarWoman
over a year ago
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"If this has been done please don't shoot.
Reading some of the threads it feels a bit like everyone knows each other in here? How can one rectify and become a part of the fun please? "
Just join in my lovely - we are all lovely in here - and the more new peeps the merrier!!!!
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I understand where the original poster is coming from. Nearly all the posts on these forums get hijacked by the same group of people who turn it into a love in amongst themselves and whether it's meant or not it does come across as very clique. Personally I have the confidence to jump in and add my two pence worth, but it can be hard going. It's not unique to this site, but as a newbie I've noticed it...just saying how it is from my perspective x
We understand what you mean.
Especialy when a thread descends into "ping pong" between the same 2 or 3 people for about a dozen or more posts,none of which have anything to do with the original thread.
It can look extremely cliquey to regulars let alone newcomers,plus it can also ruin what started out as an interesting thread.
XXXX
Just add a post relating to the original post to get it back on track! Z"
I do! Just look back at this thread and you'll see what we mean lol x |
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"If this has been done please don't shoot.
Reading some of the threads it feels a bit like everyone knows each other in here? How can one rectify and become a part of the fun please? "
Hey welcome guys
only just started posting in here myself but they aint a bad bunch really honest
Steve |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I only post occaisonally these days..
Do what you feel comfortable with, as others have said the socials are good to get to know people.
Good Luck and welcome (from a lurker!).
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By (user no longer on site)
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Just add a post relating to the original post to get it back on track! Z"
Agreed,this can sometimes work but most times the perpetrators are so loved up and single minded that all else is ignored and the thread is lost.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If this has been done please don't shoot.
Reading some of the threads it feels a bit like everyone knows each other in here? How can one rectify and become a part of the fun please?
Just join in my lovely - we are all lovely in here - and the more new peeps the merrier!!!!
XXXXX"
will try hard to ease ourselves in yes thank you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I treat the forums as a bit of fun for banter, debate and inuendo lol ... There are some really cool people here and generally a good mix of swingers and nutters |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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welcome and enjoy the forums...
and apologies was watching waterloo road as I fancy giving denise welsh one...
can seem cliquey, apologies if it does to yu...... banter away, debate away, chat away.... whatever suits you xx
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"I treat the forums as a bit of fun for banter, debate and inuendo lol ... There are some really cool people here and generally a good mix of swingers and nutters "
Looking forward to meeting the cool and the swingers might miss the nutters out though unless nice with it |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Just add a post relating to the original post to get it back on track! Z
Agreed,this can sometimes work but most times the perpetrators are so loved up and single minded that all else is ignored and the thread is lost.
XXXX"
Spot on |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Dont forget you will need a visa to get into Yorks lol
what about getting out?  "
you dont...lol...
my other half originally from london, went to the barnsley social and hasnt gone back...lol... |
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Just add a post relating to the original post to get it back on track! Z
Agreed,this can sometimes work but most times the perpetrators are so loved up and single minded that all else is ignored and the thread is lost.
XXXX
Spot on "
What was it about again? sweety ... |
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Just add a post relating to the original post to get it back on track! Z
Agreed,this can sometimes work but most times the perpetrators are so loved up and single minded that all else is ignored and the thread is lost.
XXXX"
Yes that does happen I must admit but so what? Start another thread? Z |
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"once you're in oyu may not want to get out! Z
Are we going to need a police escort out? hence the words "may not want to" not "need to"...lol...
 Must learn to read and read again before quoting"
lol - took me a while - sorry - we'll also see if we can get to this one at barnsley |
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Just add a post relating to the original post to get it back on track! Z
Agreed,this can sometimes work but most times the perpetrators are so loved up and single minded that all else is ignored and the thread is lost.
XXXX
Yes that does happen I must admit but so what? Start another thread? Z"
I think you're missing the point and being a little dismissive. |
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"once you're in oyu may not want to get out! Z
Are we going to need a police escort out? hence the words "may not want to" not "need to"...lol...
Must learn to read and read again before quoting
lol - took me a while - sorry - we'll also see if we can get to this one at barnsley"
well its on the doorstep to sheffield(dont know if thats a good thing tho..lol..) but as you know sheff well known for the full monty and a little birdie tells me they're at the social that night...lol.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Just add a post relating to the original post to get it back on track! Z
Agreed,this can sometimes work but most times the perpetrators are so loved up and single minded that all else is ignored and the thread is lost.
XXXX
Yes that does happen I must admit but so what? Start another thread? Z"
So what?
So that is what gives the impression and adds credence to the forums being cliquey,in answer to the O.P!
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"we'll also see if we can get to this one at barnsley
We may tag onto you pair seeing as you're familiar with the immigration procedure lol "
No problem - Steve's a Yorkshire man so you'll be ok with us! |
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"once you're in oyu may not want to get out! Z
Are we going to need a police escort out? hence the words "may not want to" not "need to"...lol...
Must learn to read and read again before quoting
lol - took me a while - sorry - we'll also see if we can get to this one at barnsleywell its on the doorstep to sheffield(dont know if thats a good thing tho..lol..) but as you know sheff well known for the full monty and a little birdie tells me they're at the social that night...lol.."
Done deal then - def going! Z |
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"I treat the forums as a bit of fun for banter, debate and inuendo lol ... There are some really cool people here and generally a good mix of swingers and nutters "
Who you calling a nutter?
Is innuendo a double entendre?.
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In your endo lol |
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"No problem - Steve's a Yorkshire man so you'll be ok with us!
That's our escort sorted Zoe "
Ok - no problem - but hey - we're hijacking the thread and may mortally upset someone - so once again to the op - the forums are lovely places to make friends and chat and perhaps debate and se whos who and whats what - love to you all!!!! Z |
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"Ok - no problem - but hey - we're hijacking the thread and may mortally upset someone
We noticed and are trying very hard not to bite "
Not us, was on the phone anyway |
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"Ok - no problem - but hey - we're hijacking the thread and may mortally upset someone
We noticed and are trying very hard not to bite
Not us, was on the phone anyway "
Certainly not me: mortified to have interupted arrangements for your Barnsley meet. Will skulk off now and make a cup of tea x |
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"Ok - no problem - but hey - we're hijacking the thread and may mortally upset someone
We noticed and are trying very hard not to bite
Not us, was on the phone anyway Certainly not me: mortified to have interupted arrangements for your Barnsley meet. Will skulk off now and make a cup of tea x"
shall we start our own clique lol?
joke x |
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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago
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As a female member of this site who uses the forums you are already a member of the most famous clique on here........
The Pussy Posse........
We serve only to batter the Doris's into their rightful places......
Under our killer heels.
All hail the Pussy Posse
(from the High Priestess who's meant to be having a break for a couple of months but her understudy seems to have bogged off to shag rather than keeping the boys under control!!) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I attended 2 socials and went to 2 clubs, A&G and Barnsely in Oct 09, and Chams in Darlaston in Dec 09.
Put quite a few names to faces/boobs/cocks/whatever
And I'll be going to another social at another club in Feb 10
I took a deep breathe and jumped right into the forums, posted my first post, and never looked back!
All these in a few months because I took a deep breathe and jumped right into the forums, and posted my first post
So jump right in and don't be shy! We don't bite, honest! |
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(from the High Priestess who's meant to be having a break for a couple of months but her understudy seems to have bogged off to shag rather than keeping the boys under control!!) "
Na she just scared and hiding lol xx |
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By *adchickCouple
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(from the High Priestess who's meant to be having a break for a couple of months but her understudy seems to have bogged off to shag rather than keeping the boys under control!!)
Na she just scared and hiding lol xx "
Now look here soapy......
Just cus Les is doing the baking cus you can't reach the gas rings, don't think you can come on here spouting your Doris twatitude......
go do something useful.......
Ooohh I forgot, you is a blokey and only have one useful bone on ya body!! |
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(from the High Priestess who's meant to be having a break for a couple of months but her understudy seems to have bogged off to shag rather than keeping the boys under control!!)
Na she just scared and hiding lol xx
Now look here soapy......
Just cus Les is doing the baking cus you can't reach the gas rings, don't think you can come on here spouting your Doris twatitude......
go do something useful.......
Ooohh I forgot, you is a blokey and only have one useful bone on ya body!! "
Yeah whatever mad one lol xx
Ohh 2010 is gonna be good lol xx |
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(from the High Priestess who's meant to be having a break for a couple of months but her understudy seems to have bogged off to shag rather than keeping the boys under control!!)
Na she just scared and hiding lol xx
Now look here soapy......
Just cus Les is doing the baking cus you can't reach the gas rings, don't think you can come on here spouting your Doris twatitude......
go do something useful.......
Ooohh I forgot, you is a blokey and only have one useful bone on ya body!!
Yeah whatever mad one lol xx
Ohh 2010 is gonna be good lol xx "
Oi Craigster.......
You've hijacked the thread......... bad bad boy |
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hey welcome to forums....as honeypot said quite well. we were all new at one time. couldnt think of a better ice breaker than yours to start off a big hug fest
greetings from liverpool....hubcaps also if your interested |
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I agree with this, and I also just jump in and say what I want to, in the hope that I'll get to know some of you better. As a single parent, getting to socials is a bit difficult, but I'm hoping to get there one day!
"I understand where the original poster is coming from. Nearly all the posts on these forums get hijacked by the same group of people who turn it into a love in amongst themselves and whether it's meant or not it does come across as very clique. Personally I have the confidence to jump in and add my two pence worth, but it can be hard going. It's not unique to this site, but as a newbie I've noticed it...just saying how it is from my perspective x"
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"As a female member of this site who uses the forums you are already a member of the most famous clique on here........
The Pussy Posse........
We serve only to batter the Doris's into their rightful places......
Under our killer heels.
All hail the Pussy Posse
(from the High Priestess who's meant to be having a break for a couple of months but her understudy seems to have bogged off to shag rather than keeping the boys under control!!) "
Thought you had fucked off and were in hiding  |
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By *ebzStarWoman
over a year ago
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(from the High Priestess who's meant to be having a break for a couple of months but her understudy seems to have bogged off to shag rather than keeping the boys under control!!)
Na she just scared and hiding lol xx
Now look here soapy......
Just cus Les is doing the baking cus you can't reach the gas rings, don't think you can come on here spouting your Doris twatitude......
go do something useful.......
Ooohh I forgot, you is a blokey and only have one useful bone on ya body!!
Yeah whatever mad one lol xx
Ohh 2010 is gonna be good lol xx
Oi Craigster.......
You've hijacked the thread......... bad bad boy "
Craig - NEVER???
Oh - and i know who is she shagging!!!
HEHEHEHE
I dont blame her for not being here!!!!
PHWARRRRRGGGGGGGGHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!! |
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By *adchickCouple
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"As a female member of this site who uses the forums you are already a member of the most famous clique on here........
The Pussy Posse........
We serve only to batter the Doris's into their rightful places......
Under our killer heels.
All hail the Pussy Posse
(from the High Priestess who's meant to be having a break for a couple of months but her understudy seems to have bogged off to shag rather than keeping the boys under control!!)
Thought you had fucked off and were in hiding "
I've got the flu and I'm bored.
And you know me........ can't keep my nose out for long! |
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