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Do guys think of sex on the first date?
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By *hagTonight OP Man 18 weeks ago
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I saw a fun quote about it and I would say that, yes of course we do, because of the testosterone.
I do that, do you and ladies, what do you think about it, do we think about sex on the first date?  |
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"I saw a fun quote about it and I would say that, yes of course we do, because of the testosterone.
I do that, do you and ladies, what do you think about it, do we think about sex on the first date? "
I’m thinking of sex even before I saw their profile picture.. |
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"I saw a fun quote about it and I would say that, yes of course we do, because of the testosterone.
I do that, do you and ladies, what do you think about it, do we think about sex on the first date? "
Other hormones do exist OP. And some of us ladies also think about sex on a first date. It’s not unique to men 🤷♂️ |
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I try to avoid sex on the first date. But obviously you go with the flow.
Dates are for getting to know someone. Let’s spend hours getting to know one another. Let’s feel that connection. Let’s feel that growing desire. Let’s hold on to that and enjoy the excitement.
But I’ll be real, whenever I’ve been invited back on a first date I’ve not said no. But I would ideally keep it me PG on a first date. |
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By *eliWoman 18 weeks ago
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I definitely think about sex on the first date (if I'm attracted to them). There's only been a handful of times (including one on one socials etc) that I've actually done it. I quite like the anticipation, how that chemistry can intensify things.
I don't think it's a male exclusive thing because of testosterone. |
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"I definitely think about sex on the first date (if I'm attracted to them). There's only been a handful of times (including one on one socials etc) that I've actually done it. I quite like the anticipation, how that chemistry can intensify things.
I don't think it's a male exclusive thing because of testosterone. "
Socials don’t count as dates |
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By *eliWoman 18 weeks ago
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"I definitely think about sex on the first date (if I'm attracted to them). There's only been a handful of times (including one on one socials etc) that I've actually done it. I quite like the anticipation, how that chemistry can intensify things.
I don't think it's a male exclusive thing because of testosterone.
Socials don’t count as dates"
Date dates that number is a couple of fingers. Two. 😁
And no, socials aren't dates are they? I'm not sure what the exact distinction is but they're definitely different. |
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"I definitely think about sex on the first date (if I'm attracted to them). There's only been a handful of times (including one on one socials etc) that I've actually done it. I quite like the anticipation, how that chemistry can intensify things.
I don't think it's a male exclusive thing because of testosterone.
Socials don’t count as dates
Date dates that number is a couple of fingers. Two. 😁
And no, socials aren't dates are they? I'm not sure what the exact distinction is but they're definitely different."
Exactly. You get it. |
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"Is this a trick question?
Guys get excited if someone smiles at them, agree to go on a date with them and they've mentally banged you every which way before walking out the door.
#allguys
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How about tall guys? |
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"Is this a trick question?
Guys get excited if someone smiles at them, agree to go on a date with them and they've mentally banged you every which way before walking out the door.
#allguys
How about tall guys? "
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By *hagTonight OP Man 18 weeks ago
From the land of haribos. |
"I saw a fun quote about it and I would say that, yes of course we do, because of the testosterone.
I do that, do you and ladies, what do you think about it, do we think about sex on the first date?
I’m thinking of sex even before I saw their profile picture.."
That is good |
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By *hagTonight OP Man 18 weeks ago
From the land of haribos. |
"I saw a fun quote about it and I would say that, yes of course we do, because of the testosterone.
I do that, do you and ladies, what do you think about it, do we think about sex on the first date?
Other hormones do exist OP. And some of us ladies also think about sex on a first date. It’s not unique to men 🤷♂️"
Hi little, you are right there, other hormones do exists and yes, some ladies slso think about it too |
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By *aiseiMan 18 weeks ago
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"I try to avoid sex on the first date. But obviously you go with the flow.
Dates are for getting to know someone. Let’s spend hours getting to know one another. Let’s feel that connection. Let’s feel that growing desire. Let’s hold on to that and enjoy the excitement.
But I’ll be real, whenever I’ve been invited back on a first date I’ve not said no. But I would ideally keep it me PG on a first date. "
Pretty much this.
I think when you’re younger, it’s a bit better to pace it and give it time due to lack of emotional maturity (for some).
When you’re older, you’ve ’been there enough’ for it to be far less of an issue if things happen straight away. |
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"I saw a fun quote about it and I would say that, yes of course we do, because of the testosterone.
I do that, do you and ladies, what do you think about it, do we think about sex on the first date? "
Everyone thinks about sex don't they🤷♀️
Doesn't mean you are going to do it, but surely if you're not thinking about sex then they are friend zoned??
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By *ay6eeMan 18 weeks ago
Torfaen / South West |
Nothing wrong with skipping ahead to finding out if you enjoy the intimate/messy part!
Another vote for 'prepared but not expecting' ... if there's mutual attraction then things can escalate quickly.
And if you can, why would you not. |
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"Is this a trick question?
Guys get excited if someone smiles at them, agree to go on a date with them and they've mentally banged you every which way before walking out the door.
#allguys
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Thought crime is alive and well |
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Yes most definitely if there's attraction. That doesn't necessarily mean that sex is my immediate aim, simply that I'm attracted to them and they'd be someone I see my self having sex with. Which is surely a good thing right? That's not to say all I've got on my mind is sex or have no patience for when the time is right (be it 30 minutes later or weeks down the line). The desire and consideration of sex is perfectly normal, what can be problematic is how people handle it or prioritise it.
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Before I actually meet them I consider if I am attracted to the personality in the messaging and physically from their profile pics - if I can’t picture cumming over their face* in Nandos car park then it’s probably just good friends
* tits is also acceptable |
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By *hilloutMan 18 weeks ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
Of course I do😅😆
I will, however, have no expectations of anything and prefer to see how things play out. It is very satisfying when the interaction is so good that both know where it'll lead without explicitly stating 🔥 |
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"I saw a fun quote about it and I would say that, yes of course we do, because of the testosterone.
I do that, do you and ladies, what do you think about it, do we think about sex on the first date? "
Yeah I think I would. Then it subsides on the date then the attraction (if any) brings it back |
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"I saw a fun quote about it and I would say that, yes of course we do, because of the testosterone.
I do that, do you and ladies, what do you think about it, do we think about sex on the first date? "
Sure it pretty common if your on a date with a woman you like and find attractive to have the thought run through your head at some point even if it just momentary (which for me personally that’s all its ever been) unless your particularly horny or in close contact, like maybe dancing or something. Everyone has different experiences though but I can’t say I’ve ever turned to a date really horny personally. Always figured it wouldn’t be a good mindset to go with or make a very good impression lol. I’d rather go relaxed and open minded and not worry or focus on anything other than getting to know them a bit better lol. Though naturally momentary thought pops into all our heads from time to time lol |
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By *hagTonight OP Man 18 weeks ago
From the land of haribos. |
"I try to avoid sex on the first date. But obviously you go with the flow.
Dates are for getting to know someone. Let’s spend hours getting to know one another. Let’s feel that connection. Let’s feel that growing desire. Let’s hold on to that and enjoy the excitement.
But I’ll be real, whenever I’ve been invited back on a first date I’ve not said no. But I would ideally keep it me PG on a first date. "
That is good, yes, it is about to get to know someone too |
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On an actual date with romantic intentions, then, like others have said, if im not thinking about it at least a bit then i know theyre not for me. But i do also enjoy the anticipation and letting the flirting build while getting to know each other 
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The blokes that can't get a date are thinking about sex. The blokes that had sex the night before a date aren't thinking about sex - they are having sex. Thinking about sex isn't having sex. Do blokes (tall blokes included) think about having sex when they are having sex?
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Within moments of meeting someone you know if they are someone you would want to have sex with, even if it never happens. So yes, within seconds I might be thinking of sex with someone. By the first date I am thinking how I can make that happen. |
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Only ever been on two dates with two potential partners and married both of them, not at the same time obviously.
First time 25 years ago, I don't think we did the deed until about 3rd date in and second time, we met on here but was a view to dating not just shagging, I remember saying to him (romance was not and still not my thing, I just came back from the loo) "I have a hole in the crutch of tights, wanna go into the car and get frisky?"...we tried but it wasn't until a month later we actually had sex. |
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Depends on the date, and the communication we’ve had until that day. If we are familiar with each other and meeting face to face for the first time, I will think about sex if I feel chemistry. If it’s a person I’ve barely spoken to beforehand, I will be too nervous to think about sex |
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By *hagTonight OP Man 17 weeks ago
From the land of haribos. |
"Depends on the date, and the communication we’ve had until that day. If we are familiar with each other and meeting face to face for the first time, I will think about sex if I feel chemistry. If it’s a person I’ve barely spoken to beforehand, I will be too nervous to think about sex "
Hi sweet, yes, you are right there, it depends on the date too |
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"I saw a fun quote about it and I would say that, yes of course we do, because of the testosterone.
I do that, do you and ladies, what do you think about it, do we think about sex on the first date? "
Yes!
And in other news bears DO shit in the woods.
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By *rispyDuckMan 17 weeks ago
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A fab date: yes I go prepared, high possibility might end up having sex  😈
Vanilla date: No I don’t go with sex on my mind, I go with ‘this is just a social’ mind set, if I’m horny I drop off the kids before I leave the house 😂🤣 |
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By (user no longer on site) 17 weeks ago
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What I think about and what actually happens are 2 different things. Of course if I have got to the stage of wanting to meet, the meet is to see how we connect and test the chemistry. This helps both parties to decide if there could be anything sexual. So yes going back to the question, it’s on my mind for sure. |
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So....I'm poly. This will be relevant in a moment.
So yes, I do think about aex in the first date.
I met my wife 28 years ago on a blind date. Had spoken for 4 hours on the phone the night before. No camera phones or photos over the Internet back then.
Litterally spent 4 hours talking to a stranger that night who personality wise I clicked with and I so wanted her to be hot.
Second I saw her...oh yes I wanted to smash. She did too but we waited till the 3rd date. Still happily married to this day and yes, we have a couples account on here as well.
I am however encouraged to date other women and do. Was dating someone earlier this year but disnt work out in the end. Assuming I find someone else who wants to date, yes, I will think about sex on the first date as well. Its an important part of a relationship to me. Why not think about it? I don't date to make platonic freinds.
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"I saw a fun quote about it and I would say that, yes of course we do, because of the testosterone.
I do that, do you and ladies, what do you think about it, do we think about sex on the first date? "
In general yes I would think about it. If I'm meeting someone from fab then very much yes, that's the only reason I'm meeting them. |
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By *irthandgirthMan 17 weeks ago
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I try to get most of the 'thinking about sex' out of the way before a date, unless the conversation goes that way.
I'm mostly trying not ignore that little inner voice that's says 'this is a good idea'.. because it usually isn't, Im also moderating my dark sense of humour, probably thinking about holding in a fart, trying not to say anything too stupid, pay attention to what she is saying as well as working out how to get the word floccinaucinihilipilification into a normal conversation. |
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"I saw a fun quote about it and I would say that, yes of course we do, because of the testosterone.
I do that, do you and ladies, what do you think about it, do we think about sex on the first date? "
Do many of your first dates lead to sex? |
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