I think if you have it on your profile there's no need to send one. There are some people who insist you follow the rules of their requirements exactly do if you feel inclined you could attach to your message for them

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By *tongue_4_bbwsMan 23 weeks ago

Bewdley

It's nice to show them where they can take a seat!

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By *enelope2UWoman 23 weeks ago

Fife

I don't send one unless I'm actually trying to meet them. Otherwise it's pointless. I hate living in the keyboar pen pal world

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple 23 weeks ago

Leeds

If it's there for all to see I don't think you need to attach one.

Mrs

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By *eroLondonMan 22 weeks ago

Mayfair

Oh, let's not be bashful — always send another one.

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By (user no longer on site) 22 weeks ago

Send whatever you fancy and see what works? Demanding profiles and rules put me right off, especially when they’re asking for stuff they aren’t willing to do themselves….

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple 22 weeks ago

Coventry

There's no need to send one in this case but I don't think it really matters if you send one as well.

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