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By *eliWoman 15 weeks ago
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Find someone you'd like to date (sometimes you can even find them on Fab!).
Talk to them.
Ask them on a date.
Plan said date (I tend to plan dates and it works well).
Go on the date and hopefully they turn up and at the very least you have a laugh.
First dates don't have to be big things OP, I hope you're able to enjoy one soon.  |
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I hope you get a date soon OP.
I love dating. I love dates. The apps are good for that. And also I enjoy doing it with people I’m seeing. I still date my fiancé. And I like to do date things with my partner.
I think my last date was a few weeks ago. |
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By *eliWoman 15 weeks ago
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"I've still never been on a proper date. Ever. I think it might be nice. Meli makes it sound so easy. I'm not sure it is. Sorry no answers OP.
Hope you find someone x"
Ach Scarlet, really? I think for me generally it is quite easy but not all dates have a/lead to a romantic connection. It's more two people seeing if there's that spark.
I probably sounded a bit glib, apologies OP. There are apps, Fab, the old fashioned way of talking to someone face to face. I hope you find that date soon Op, x |
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By *bi HaiveMan 15 weeks ago
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"Find someone you'd like to date (sometimes you can even find them on Fab!).
Talk to them.
Ask them on a date.
Plan said date (I tend to plan dates and it works well).
Go on the date and hopefully they turn up and at the very least you have a laugh.
First dates don't have to be big things OP, I hope you're able to enjoy one soon. "
Pretty much this.
Anything from a coffee, an evening drink, a movie, bowling, a trip to a car boot sale, a charity shop rummage or just an afternoon on a sofa talking crap and playing scrabble.
I've done all of the above in the last few months and all were great fun.
Sometimes there was sex too.  |
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I volunteer to take men or women on dates. For the experience. Is romance in the cards? Unlikely but sometimes you go on dates just to get out there not because you want to marry or fuck the person.
I’m hoping this will get me through the eye of the needle. 🙏🏾🤲🏾🧎🏾➡️ |
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By (user no longer on site) 15 weeks ago
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Ok, I'm definately no expert... but my advice, from a straight male view anyway (as many women get drawn to other things that aren't just looks) is get comfortable just talking to strangers. Male, female, old, young, doesnt matter, but it get you out your comfort zone and before you know it, striking up conversation with a stranger becomes more natural and less akward.
Its easier then to go from a chat to date. This doesn't really work on here though, and women dont reply! Haha
Tip on how to do this is via a shared observation. For example, in the coffee shop the other day, a woman turned to me and said "is that guy talking very load or what?". Its a shared observation so felt more natural and not wierd, we chatted for 20 mins just from that one question.
Hope this helps, good luck! |
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By (user no longer on site) 15 weeks ago
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In Suffolk and Norfolk there are great beaches, forests, historical villages and towns, big arse skies and of course little ol’ me
So if anyone would like to go on a date……  |
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"Find someone you'd like to date (sometimes you can even find them on Fab!).
Talk to them.
Ask them on a date.
Plan said date (I tend to plan dates and it works well).
Go on the date and hopefully they turn up and at the very least you have a laugh.
First dates don't have to be big things OP, I hope you're able to enjoy one soon.
Pretty much this.
Anything from a coffee, an evening drink, a movie, bowling, a trip to a car boot sale, a charity shop rummage or just an afternoon on a sofa talking crap and playing scrabble.
I've done all of the above in the last few months and all were great fun.
Sometimes there was sex too. "
Finding just someone to do those things with us proving somewhat impossible. I listen to how easy everyone tells me it is then think OK it's clearly me then. Makes me feel so much better knowing that!😂 |
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"Find someone you'd like to date (sometimes you can even find them on Fab!).
Talk to them.
Ask them on a date.
Plan said date (I tend to plan dates and it works well).
Go on the date and hopefully they turn up and at the very least you have a laugh.
First dates don't have to be big things OP, I hope you're able to enjoy one soon.
Pretty much this.
Anything from a coffee, an evening drink, a movie, bowling, a trip to a car boot sale, a charity shop rummage or just an afternoon on a sofa talking crap and playing scrabble.
I've done all of the above in the last few months and all were great fun.
Sometimes there was sex too.
Finding just someone to do those things with us proving somewhat impossible. I listen to how easy everyone tells me it is then think OK it's clearly me then. Makes me feel so much better knowing that!😂"
Go on a dating app |
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"I volunteer to take men or women on dates. For the experience. Is romance in the cards? Unlikely but sometimes you go on dates just to get out there not because you want to marry or fuck the person.
I’m hoping this will get me through the eye of the needle. 🙏🏾🤲🏾🧎🏾➡️"
1000% this |
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By *nnCeeWoman 15 weeks ago
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"Find someone you'd like to date (sometimes you can even find them on Fab!).
Talk to them.
Ask them on a date.
Plan said date (I tend to plan dates and it works well).
Go on the date and hopefully they turn up and at the very least you have a laugh.
First dates don't have to be big things OP, I hope you're able to enjoy one soon.
Pretty much this.
Anything from a coffee, an evening drink, a movie, bowling, a trip to a car boot sale, a charity shop rummage or just an afternoon on a sofa talking crap and playing scrabble.
I've done all of the above in the last few months and all were great fun.
Sometimes there was sex too.
Finding just someone to do those things with us proving somewhat impossible. I listen to how easy everyone tells me it is then think OK it's clearly me then. Makes me feel so much better knowing that!😂"
I'll take you out for a coffee, even though you're not looking for a ladyfriend. I'll take you on a date |
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id like one too pick her up in the bmw dressed in my glad rags smelling good go to a fancy restorant in a quircky little town maybe a walk round a lake feed the duck chat some shit go for a few drinks and plan the next meet what more would a lady want |
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"I've still never been on a proper date. Ever. I think it might be nice. Meli makes it sound so easy. I'm not sure it is. Sorry no answers OP.
Hope you find someone x
Ach Scarlet, really? I think for me generally it is quite easy but not all dates have a/lead to a romantic connection. It's more two people seeing if there's that spark.
I probably sounded a bit glib, apologies OP. There are apps, Fab, the old fashioned way of talking to someone face to face. I hope you find that date soon Op, x"
I can buy you a greggs if that counts? |
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Perhaps we need to set-up a thread for casual dates, where we'd just get together for a date, rather than being committed to LTR dates. People wouldn't need to feel insecure about having to be the perfect potential dream partner for a forever relationship |
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"Any one have any luck then .?
Nope. I had a broken down van and dead mobile phone, and someone who thought a social would probably include sex. The wonderful world of fab continues. "
Well aways the chance next one will be better hopefully. Good morning |
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I had a date last week for the first time in years and I remember why I stopped dating.
I just sat there and scoffed my cake while he rattled on about himself. I don’t even think he asked me a single question. 🤣 |
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"I had a date last week for the first time in years and I remember why I stopped dating.
I just sat there and scoffed my cake while he rattled on about himself. I don’t even think he asked me a single question. 🤣 "
Oh that’s a lot of fun not . Did your eyes glaze over at all.  |
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"I had a date last week for the first time in years and I remember why I stopped dating.
I just sat there and scoffed my cake while he rattled on about himself. I don’t even think he asked me a single question. 🤣
Oh that’s a lot of fun not . Did your eyes glaze over at all. "
Yep! I even started eating his cake and he was so wrapped up in himself that he didn’t notice. |
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"I had a date last week for the first time in years and I remember why I stopped dating.
I just sat there and scoffed my cake while he rattled on about himself. I don’t even think he asked me a single question. 🤣
Oh that’s a lot of fun not . Did your eyes glaze over at all.
Yep! I even started eating his cake and he was so wrapped up in himself that he didn’t notice. "
lol wow  |
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By *eliWoman 13 weeks ago
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"I had a date last week for the first time in years and I remember why I stopped dating.
I just sat there and scoffed my cake while he rattled on about himself. I don’t even think he asked me a single question. 🤣
Oh that’s a lot of fun not . Did your eyes glaze over at all.
Yep! I even started eating his cake and he was so wrapped up in himself that he didn’t notice. "
Fucking hell that sounds rough. I've had people send me 10 minute plus things without a single question to me and that's bad enough but a full date? You're really going through it.  |
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"I had a date last week for the first time in years and I remember why I stopped dating.
I just sat there and scoffed my cake while he rattled on about himself. I don’t even think he asked me a single question. 🤣
Oh that’s a lot of fun not . Did your eyes glaze over at all.
Yep! I even started eating his cake and he was so wrapped up in himself that he didn’t notice.
lol wow "
I’m maybe not the best person to give advice on dating, but just take it from me, ask at least one question and make sure there’s plenty of cake 😉 |
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"I had a date last week for the first time in years and I remember why I stopped dating.
I just sat there and scoffed my cake while he rattled on about himself. I don’t even think he asked me a single question. 🤣
Oh that’s a lot of fun not . Did your eyes glaze over at all.
Yep! I even started eating his cake and he was so wrapped up in himself that he didn’t notice.
Fucking hell that sounds rough. I've had people send me 10 minute plus things without a single question to me and that's bad enough but a full date? You're really going through it. "
😂 Meli I lasted 45 minutes. He sent me a text after it saying “you left early, I guess I wasn’t your cup of tea?” 🤦♀️
Good cake though! |
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"I had a date last week for the first time in years and I remember why I stopped dating.
I just sat there and scoffed my cake while he rattled on about himself. I don’t even think he asked me a single question. 🤣
Oh that’s a lot of fun not . Did your eyes glaze over at all.
Yep! I even started eating his cake and he was so wrapped up in himself that he didn’t notice.
lol wow
I’m maybe not the best person to give advice on dating, but just take it from me, ask at least one question and make sure there’s plenty of cake 😉 "
Always a given lol |
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By *eliWoman 13 weeks ago
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"I had a date last week for the first time in years and I remember why I stopped dating.
I just sat there and scoffed my cake while he rattled on about himself. I don’t even think he asked me a single question. 🤣
Oh that’s a lot of fun not . Did your eyes glaze over at all.
Yep! I even started eating his cake and he was so wrapped up in himself that he didn’t notice.
Fucking hell that sounds rough. I've had people send me 10 minute plus things without a single question to me and that's bad enough but a full date? You're really going through it.
😂 Meli I lasted 45 minutes. He sent me a text after it saying “you left early, I guess I wasn’t your cup of tea?” 🤦♀️
Good cake though! "
Oh Bleus! 😅 Do you know what's the icing on the cake? He'll probably think he's a great conversationalist.
I really hope your next date doesn't have a conversation at you. 😁🩷 |
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"The problem with looking for dates on here.
Anyone care to answer?
Erm getting people to chat "
Nope.
Well, not for me, anyway
No, it's that's it's a sex site, and people will think sex will probably happen at some point in the future.
They don't just want to do something together without the are we going to have sex cloud hanging over our heads.
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"The problem with looking for dates on here.
Anyone care to answer?
Erm getting people to chat
Nope.
Well, not for me, anyway
No, it's that's it's a sex site, and people will think sex will probably happen at some point in the future.
They don't just want to do something together without the are we going to have sex cloud hanging over our heads.
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"Been a long time since I’ve been out on one . anyone else having this experience then or have the ultimate answer for this one.
The answer is...
*drum roll*
Go out on a date."
Fuck. I so wish I'd thought of that. I'm even more broken than I thought. |
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"I had a date last week for the first time in years and I remember why I stopped dating.
I just sat there and scoffed my cake while he rattled on about himself. I don’t even think he asked me a single question. 🤣
Oh that’s a lot of fun not . Did your eyes glaze over at all.
Yep! I even started eating his cake and he was so wrapped up in himself that he didn’t notice.
Fucking hell that sounds rough. I've had people send me 10 minute plus things without a single question to me and that's bad enough but a full date? You're really going through it. "
The reason women have always told me I’m a great date is because I ask them the questions and listen. That’s when I realised the bar was so low it was in hell. |
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