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Is anyone who actually likes soft swing?
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We were soft swing only for a number of years, unfortunately people expect all or nothing today.
There's definitely people out there who will but saying and doing are two different things, and as we know people will say anything to get to the bedroom in the hopes that people will change their minds in the heat of the moment. |
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"We're finding it hard work to find others into soft swing only. Would you be happy to just soft swing?"
There are many couples and singles more than happy with soft swing. You may be best trying some club nights as you're one of many who find it hard work on here. |
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By (user no longer on site) 15 weeks ago
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"What's everyone's definition of soft swing tho may mean differe. To each "
For me ideally when I ask couples about Soft swing, I’m up for Oral Only type fun. No penetration. Being a voyeur is also good
More than happy for soft swing couples or even soft fun with singles |
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By (user no longer on site) 15 weeks ago
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"We're finding it hard work to find others into soft swing only. Would you be happy to just soft swing?"
it’s very hard work
But as we are a predominantly ffm couple
We find soft swap with couples appealing
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There is a theme in this thread which echos my view too
Soft swing is wonderful especially if your asked to join a threesome
It’s a great way to start it’s very horny and it’s where trust starts in the actual room
It’s very horny to watch and solo play at the same time
Eventually as trust is gained the soft play can become more intense but may. It be necessary and that’s fine too.
Just being close by the smells the action noises it’s wonderful
Don’t knock it it’s amazing 🤩 being part of that
Bond is priceless
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"We're finding it hard work to find others into soft swing only. Would you be happy to just soft swing?"
If you want to soft swing on fab or even through social events, you are really stuck to just finding others who want the same thing which becomes a numbers game. You could speak to a multitude of people and not find what you want.
BUT...
If you go to a club, club rules apply and at any good if not all clubs there's a "no touching with out permission" bot to mention respecting boundaries and limitations.
There's plenty of soft swing couples who do clubs. My wife and I are a cuckqean couple. No intrest in other men, just women. At clubs we either find other women to join OR just soft play with other couples and we have no issues.
You just need to find the right club and night for you is all. If youre willing to try them that is. |
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"We're finding it hard work to find others into soft swing only. Would you be happy to just soft swing?"
We're very happy to just go with the flow. We've had some awesome nights with soft swing couples.
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"What's everyone's definition of soft swing tho may mean differe. To each
We class soft swing foreplay oral, kissing, caressing, touching etc without any penetration."
Exactly this for us 
Bi fem foursome fun but only penetration with own partner
Had no issues so far and enjoyed our encounters |
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Soft swing can be of great benefit. Slowing down allows you more time to get your posture right and keep the club head in the correct position for the shot you want to play. Instead of trying to blast the ball as far as possible.
What you may lose in yardage, you make up for in consistency.
You did mean golf right?
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We don't have any objectives with how something goes down. We just love sharing a hot time and experience with people however it works out naturally. It's different everytime. For us 95% of the time it's soft swing and We've had some absolutely amazing times and memories.
We are ourselves most of the time are a soft swing couple. On occasion with the right people and circumstances we naturally flow to hard swap. More so these days. But we would never enter into something on the basis there is an expectation of hard swap. We've not really found that this is a problem with others. I think most (like us) are not so concerned about the technically of who gets to penetrant who as long as we all get to share a hot time together and have some fun. |
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"We don't have any objectives with how something goes down. We just love sharing a hot time and experience with people however it works out naturally. It's different everytime. For us 95% of the time it's soft swing and We've had some absolutely amazing times and memories.
We are ourselves most of the time are a soft swing couple. On occasion with the right people and circumstances we naturally flow to hard swap. More so these days. But we would never enter into something on the basis there is an expectation of hard swap. We've not really found that this is a problem with others. I think most (like us) are not so concerned about the technically of who gets to penetrant who as long as we all get to share a hot time together and have some fun. "
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We had a look at your profile. You say you only want to meet single women. I think this could be the problem with soft swap only - too many factors filtering out potential matches.
What is the other female really going to get out of a meet with you - other than giving and receiving oral with one or both of you?
We are soft swap only (as it stands), we considered how any threesome (FFM or MMF) would work for all concerned if soft only. It’s obvious that the 3rd party would only get to watch and give and receive oral - male or female.
If we get together with some couples for soft swap, then everyone is still going to have full sex - with their own partner. There can be loads of oral and touching going on between couples throughout too.
Our conclusion is that threesomes almost certainly require full swapping for it to be equitable - so they aren’t on our to do list.
Why don’t you open your preferences to couples? There are plenty of soft swap couples around. You could even tempt us!? |
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"First person to say it's like going in a cake shop to look but not buy a cake..."
I do that all the time now, I have decided that virtually all cakes look way more appetising than they taste, so basically a complete waste of calories
As for soft swing, I enjoy everything from just watching to full participation, with various elements of soft swing in between.
Are there people who talk the talk but don't walk the walk? Sure, same as any lines, not everyone respects them. I'd recommend always a social first...but we're all adults here, so my recommendation counts for nothing |
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"We had a look at your profile. You say you only want to meet single women. I think this could be the problem with soft swap only - too many factors filtering out potential matches.
What is the other female really going to get out of a meet with you - other than giving and receiving oral with one or both of you?
We are soft swap only (as it stands), we considered how any threesome (FFM or MMF) would work for all concerned if soft only. It’s obvious that the 3rd party would only get to watch and give and receive oral - male or female.
If we get together with some couples for soft swap, then everyone is still going to have full sex - with their own partner. There can be loads of oral and touching going on between couples throughout too.
Our conclusion is that threesomes almost certainly require full swapping for it to be equitable - so they aren’t on our to do list.
Why don’t you open your preferences to couples? There are plenty of soft swap couples around. You could even tempt us!?"
Totally agree with this comment.
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As per your profile:
Did an Advanced Search on Welwyn Garden City for a Female, within your age range, who enjoys soft swing, within 20 miles of you who can accommodate and it came up with 91 verified profiles.
Perhaps its where your not looking... |
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"As per your profile:
Did an Advanced Search on Welwyn Garden City for a Female, within your age range, who enjoys soft swing, within 20 miles of you who can accommodate and it came up with 91 verified profiles.
Perhaps its where your not looking..."
Hi R here as not on as much as L thank you ☺️ yes as we both travelling together also like not be to far away with having other commitments though age range open more like make lots friends to |
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"We had a look at your profile. You say you only want to meet single women. I think this could be the problem with soft swap only - too many factors filtering out potential matches.
What is the other female really going to get out of a meet with you - other than giving and receiving oral with one or both of you?
We are soft swap only (as it stands), we considered how any threesome (FFM or MMF) would work for all concerned if soft only. It’s obvious that the 3rd party would only get to watch and give and receive oral - male or female.
If we get together with some couples for soft swap, then everyone is still going to have full sex - with their own partner. There can be loads of oral and touching going on between couples throughout too.
Our conclusion is that threesomes almost certainly require full swapping for it to be equitable - so they aren’t on our to do list.
Why don’t you open your preferences to couples? There are plenty of soft swap couples around. You could even tempt us!?"
From experience with regards FMF situation it doesn't need to be full swap. A couple and single lady can share a really hot and mutually pleasurable time together without the male having vaginal intercorse with the single female. There are plenty of others ways to get off together and share something together without this specific sexual act. A lot of what is hot (to us) is not the specific sexual acts but the chemistry and how it all flows for everyone. I say this from the perspective that soft swap is everything bar below waist penetrative sex. But lots of kissing, touch, tongues, fingers, cuddles and mutual attention on everyone. I'd say if your boundaries are more restrictive as a couple than this then yes maybe that may be more limiting.
But from experience we've had some very mutually hot 3somes that have been (by our definition) soft swap. Hard swap or soft swap for us is something that's very specific to who we are with rather than an objective. We just like to share hot times with the right people. |
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By *ikeanneCouple 14 weeks ago
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We are sure that many of you have met other couples at a club, and have had great fun without having fucked. We, due to health reasons can no longer full swap but everything else goes, including kissing. We find the experience is very sensual and just as fulfilling. |
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Anyway, I've done soft swing and given the choice I'd rather not, but, if it involves kissing that's a whole different matter.