"I'm confused: nothing about the responses to the first post implied that you weren't or gave you advice that would lead to meeting men rather than women."
I think the point is he doesn’t want advice from men. |
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What do you do.
Easy.
Find someone that interests you.
See if their profile indicates that you’d be of interest to them.
Message them.
Keep fingers crossed for reply.
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"I'm confused: nothing about the responses to the first post implied that you weren't or gave you advice that would lead to meeting men rather than women.
I think the point is he doesn’t want advice from men. "
Seems like a self-defeating endeavour if you're ignoring advice from people who've achieved the thing you're trying to do, but what do I know?  |
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"I'm confused: nothing about the responses to the first post implied that you weren't or gave you advice that would lead to meeting men rather than women.
I think the point is he doesn’t want advice from men.
Seems like a self-defeating endeavour if you're ignoring advice from people who've achieved the thing you're trying to do, but what do I know? "
Exactly.
After a few weeks here……many, many years ago. Someone gave me the best advice ever.
Go and check out the profiles of guys that are well verified and see what they’re doing with their profiles, that you may not be. Look at how they’re interacting with people in chat/forums. |
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If the men giving you advice have met women, they're worth listening to.
You won't know if women are looking at your profile - most of us are in 'ninja mode' which means we won't show on the list. We will look at your profile before deciding to reply to a message and I would be put off by your status. It smacks of any hole's a goal. |
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By *oo..Woman 16 weeks ago
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"I'm confused: nothing about the responses to the first post implied that you weren't or gave you advice that would lead to meeting men rather than women.
I think the point is he doesn’t want advice from men.
Seems like a self-defeating endeavour if you're ignoring advice from people who've achieved the thing you're trying to do, but what do I know?
Exactly.
After a few weeks here……many, many years ago. Someone gave me the best advice ever.
Go and check out the profiles of guys that are well verified and see what they’re doing with their profiles, that you may not be. Look at how they’re interacting with people in chat/forums. "
And this is why he needs shares in Minstrels. 🤣 |
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By (user no longer on site) 16 weeks ago
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"I'm confused: nothing about the responses to the first post implied that you weren't or gave you advice that would lead to meeting men rather than women.
I think the point is he doesn’t want advice from men. "
We never do. 
Imagine a guy pulling over for directions when they’re lost…. No, you can’t can you  |
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"I'm confused: nothing about the responses to the first post implied that you weren't or gave you advice that would lead to meeting men rather than women.
I think the point is he doesn’t want advice from men.
We never do.
Imagine a guy pulling over for directions when they’re lost…. No, you can’t can you "
I’m trying to imagine it…
Driver.. I’m lost. Fuck it I’ll pull over and ask that utter goddess stood outside the dog n duck swearing at the pigeons like an angel.
‘Hello goddess can you help? I’m lost! I’m trying t..’
Glow …’focus dahlink. Don’t give up on your dreams. Be a man of integrity. The future is yours to create’.
Driver..’no I mean I’m trying to get to..’
Glow..‘I warned you pigeon! That’s it! You’re getting a hand bagging you beaky little bast-‘
Driver..’wish I had satnav’
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By (user no longer on site) 16 weeks ago
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"I'm confused: nothing about the responses to the first post implied that you weren't or gave you advice that would lead to meeting men rather than women.
I think the point is he doesn’t want advice from men.
We never do.
Imagine a guy pulling over for directions when they’re lost…. No, you can’t can you
I’m trying to imagine it…
Driver.. I’m lost. Fuck it I’ll pull over and ask that utter goddess stood outside the dog n duck swearing at the pigeons like an angel.
‘Hello goddess can you help? I’m lost! I’m trying t..’
Glow …’focus dahlink. Don’t give up on your dreams. Be a man of integrity. The future is yours to create’.
Driver..’no I mean I’m trying to get to..’
Glow..‘I warned you pigeon! That’s it! You’re getting a hand bagging you beaky little bast-‘
Driver..’wish I had satnav’
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Exactly
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Okay, let's review:
"I'm looking to meet women for socials,fwb or nsa on regular basis" - Good to include, but could have come from the bio of almost any straight man on the site. What kind of woman do you like? What traits do you look for?
"if your into the club/party scene ide love to meet someone to go to clubs and parties with" - Again, good to include but far from being a unique point among the men here. Can you find many who wouldn't like to go to clubs and parties if given the chance? Which clubs are you interested in? What about the scene appeals to you?
"im clean and shaved and expect the same" - Fair enough, not much you can customise here though speaking on my own profile I removed the "clean" part because it should really be a given and it's not like you're seeing people on here going "I'm a dirty, dirty fucker, me. Never showered in my life." so it seemed superfluous.
"I'm open minded, adventurous I would like to meet someone who is adventurous experienced open minded and open to fulfilling fantasies yours and mine" - What does "open-minded" mean to you? It can have different definitions to different people, and as a base concept is far too open to interpretation to really be a great insight into who someone is as a person. What fantasies do you want to fulfil? What fantasies of someone else are you keen to help with? You're giving us the surface level, but nothing about *you*.
"ide like to try anal as I've never had the pleasure of going in the other one if that's your thing all the better" - See, this is good on one level, because it's specifically about you and what you're looking for. However, I have to say I have never in my life seen a less sexy description of anal than "going in the other one". :P
"I'm free any time let's get it on xxx" - Although this might be true, it comes across a little like you're just going to accept any and all offers that come your way. I'd consider instead saying that you tend to have a fairly light schedule and are available at *most* times. Seems like a subtle difference, but if you're free literally any time, what does that say about the life you live outside of Fab? |
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By *vaRose43Woman 16 weeks ago
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"Okay, let's review:
"I'm looking to meet women for socials,fwb or nsa on regular basis" - Good to include, but could have come from the bio of almost any straight man on the site. What kind of woman do you like? What traits do you look for?
"if your into the club/party scene ide love to meet someone to go to clubs and parties with" - Again, good to include but far from being a unique point among the men here. Can you find many who wouldn't like to go to clubs and parties if given the chance? Which clubs are you interested in? What about the scene appeals to you?
"im clean and shaved and expect the same" - Fair enough, not much you can customise here though speaking on my own profile I removed the "clean" part because it should really be a given and it's not like you're seeing people on here going "I'm a dirty, dirty fucker, me. Never showered in my life." so it seemed superfluous.
"I'm open minded, adventurous I would like to meet someone who is adventurous experienced open minded and open to fulfilling fantasies yours and mine" - What does "open-minded" mean to you? It can have different definitions to different people, and as a base concept is far too open to interpretation to really be a great insight into who someone is as a person. What fantasies do you want to fulfil? What fantasies of someone else are you keen to help with? You're giving us the surface level, but nothing about *you*.
"ide like to try anal as I've never had the pleasure of going in the other one if that's your thing all the better" - See, this is good on one level, because it's specifically about you and what you're looking for. However, I have to say I have never in my life seen a less sexy description of anal than "going in the other one". :P
"I'm free any time let's get it on xxx" - Although this might be true, it comes across a little like you're just going to accept any and all offers that come your way. I'd consider instead saying that you tend to have a fairly light schedule and are available at *most* times. Seems like a subtle difference, but if you're free literally any time, what does that say about the life you live outside of Fab?"
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"Okay, let's review:
"I'm looking to meet women for socials,fwb or nsa on regular basis" - Good to include, but could have come from the bio of almost any straight man on the site. What kind of woman do you like? What traits do you look for?
"if your into the club/party scene ide love to meet someone to go to clubs and parties with" - Again, good to include but far from being a unique point among the men here. Can you find many who wouldn't like to go to clubs and parties if given the chance? Which clubs are you interested in? What about the scene appeals to you?
"im clean and shaved and expect the same" - Fair enough, not much you can customise here though speaking on my own profile I removed the "clean" part because it should really be a given and it's not like you're seeing people on here going "I'm a dirty, dirty fucker, me. Never showered in my life." so it seemed superfluous.
"I'm open minded, adventurous I would like to meet someone who is adventurous experienced open minded and open to fulfilling fantasies yours and mine" - What does "open-minded" mean to you? It can have different definitions to different people, and as a base concept is far too open to interpretation to really be a great insight into who someone is as a person. What fantasies do you want to fulfil? What fantasies of someone else are you keen to help with? You're giving us the surface level, but nothing about *you*.
"ide like to try anal as I've never had the pleasure of going in the other one if that's your thing all the better" - See, this is good on one level, because it's specifically about you and what you're looking for. However, I have to say I have never in my life seen a less sexy description of anal than "going in the other one". :P
"I'm free any time let's get it on xxx" - Although this might be true, it comes across a little like you're just going to accept any and all offers that come your way. I'd consider instead saying that you tend to have a fairly light schedule and are available at *most* times. Seems like a subtle difference, but if you're free literally any time, what does that say about the life you live outside of Fab?"
That’s a bit more helpful than what I posted. |
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