Tips for getting meets as a single guy. I don't get any messages and no replies from winks or messages I put out there. I know this isn't just guaranteed for everyone out there.
I think my profile is good and I have verifications. Just don't know what the issue could be |
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"Obvious first question: what did you do to get the meets that led to the verifications you do have? Could you not just do...more of that?"
Went to a social and messaged someone... First person that actually showed an interest on here really. Wasn't anything to it particularly |
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It might be an idea to add a few more clothed pictures to your profile to round it off a bit.
Other than that, more socials will probably help. Some people will respond to you and a lot won't, it's just a matter of keeping on and not taking it to heart when you don't get a response. |
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By *aomilatteCouple 17 weeks ago
Visiting Blackpool |
"Obvious first question: what did you do to get the meets that led to the verifications you do have? Could you not just do...more of that?
Went to a social and messaged someone... First person that actually showed an interest on here really. Wasn't anything to it particularly "
Could you do the same again? |
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"Obvious first question: what did you do to get the meets that led to the verifications you do have? Could you not just do...more of that?
Went to a social and messaged someone... First person that actually showed an interest on here really. Wasn't anything to it particularly
Could you do the same again?"
I have tried but I just keep getting ignored. Also there aren't a tonne of people around me that are my type. My hotlist is full but majority are 20+ miles away |
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"Obvious first question: what did you do to get the meets that led to the verifications you do have? Could you not just do...more of that?
Went to a social and messaged someone... First person that actually showed an interest on here really. Wasn't anything to it particularly
Could you do the same again?
I have tried but I just keep getting ignored. Also there aren't a tonne of people around me that are my type. My hotlist is full but majority are 20+ miles away "
Maybe it’s worth widen your search? |
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I slightly disagree about the whole club thing
As a single male you’ll pay a premium price to get in. Entry does not and should never guarantee any success.
I have always found it best to interact in the forums and:
1. Expect nothing
2. Remain true to yourself
3. Don’t throw any proverbial teddy bears out of the pram
4. Don’t be thirsty
5. Enjoy them
That said the forums are a very small percentage of the site users so just be you |
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"I slightly disagree about the whole club thing
As a single male you’ll pay a premium price to get in. Entry does not and should never guarantee any success.
I have always found it best to interact in the forums and:
1. Expect nothing
2. Remain true to yourself
3. Don’t throw any proverbial teddy bears out of the pram
4. Don’t be thirsty
5. Enjoy them
That said the forums are a very small percentage of the site users so just be you "
That's the only thing holding me back about clubs. For not much change out of 50 you get entry and then you've got everything else on top too. Before you know it a 100 is gone. |
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By *bi HaiveMan 17 weeks ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
Organised socials, clubs, being able to accomodate and taking time rather than rushing into anything have worked for me.
That and being active in the forums over the years.
Networking is always good and finding a circle of friends is a good way to meet people who will know other people. You'd be surprised how mamy times someone will be interested in finding out more about you because they've heard good things from other friends.
Of course the opposite can be true too......😂😂 |
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By *ucka39Man 17 weeks ago
Newcastle |
Constantly use the meet section, putting out meets, without any expectations and maybe the odd one with, be creative in the meet since you get the opportunity to write
Use the chat rooms as well as sticking around in the forums. Something positive could spring up
Good luck  |
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"Organised socials, clubs, being able to accomodate and taking time rather than rushing into anything have worked for me.
That and being active in the forums over the years.
Networking is always good and finding a circle of friends is a good way to meet people who will know other people. You'd be surprised how mamy times someone will be interested in finding out more about you because they've heard good things from other friends.
Of course the opposite can be true too......😂😂"
I figured that the not being able to accommodate was part of the issue as I know they a lot of people just assume that someone is stepping out |
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By *weet6Woman 17 weeks ago
East Riding |
I've just had a peek and your profile is better than most, pics are good and veris are complimentary, so don't worry about those.
I wonder how you come across in your introductory message? Do you attach a face pic when you write?
Sxx |
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"I've just had a peek and your profile is better than most, pics are good and veris are complimentary, so don't worry about those.
I wonder how you come across in your introductory message? Do you attach a face pic when you write?
Sxx"
I do sometimes send a face pic of it says it in the profile. But I don't know anyone so I don't want someone recognising me you know |
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The only thing I've picked up on is your comment about people being 20miles away.. thats not really that big a barrier is it?
Sometimes just a little more effort is required to achieve what you'd like, like saving up and going to a club if you find the cost high.
As others have said profile and pics are pretty solid compared to alot |
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"The only thing I've picked up on is your comment about people being 20miles away.. thats not really that big a barrier is it?
Sometimes just a little more effort is required to achieve what you'd like, like saving up and going to a club if you find the cost high.
As others have said profile and pics are pretty solid compared to alot"
I don't drive so travelling that far is a bit difficult. Plus I have quite a busy life |
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"The only thing I've picked up on is your comment about people being 20miles away.. thats not really that big a barrier is it?
Sometimes just a little more effort is required to achieve what you'd like, like saving up and going to a club if you find the cost high.
As others have said profile and pics are pretty solid compared to alot
I don't drive so travelling that far is a bit difficult. Plus I have quite a busy life "
Most people on here have busy lives. Like I the reluctance for that minimum effort is the only thing I could pick up on.
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Most people on here have busy lives. Like I the reluctance for that minimum effort is the only thing I could pick up on.
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Yeah I'm with you. I have thought about trying to set something up for September as I'm in Sheffield for a mates birthday. I also travel to and from Manchester to see friends too |
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