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How do you like your social?
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For me, I like busy places. I’ve been known for meeting in ALL busy places. Busy coffee shops. Art galleries. Chinatown. Busy beach. Hyde Park Winter Wonderland. Camden. Oxford Street. You name it, the busier the better. Most of them were a great success.
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I always ensure it's in a public place and that they're able to leave under their own steam if they want to go at any point. Last time I met up with someone for the first time I lined it up with bus times because she doesn't drive, so that if she wasn't feeling it she wouldn't be counting on me to drive her somewhere. Providing as much reassurance of safety as possible is important to me. |
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"I always ensure it's in a public place and that they're able to leave under their own steam if they want to go at any point. Last time I met up with someone for the first time I lined it up with bus times because she doesn't drive, so that if she wasn't feeling it she wouldn't be counting on me to drive her somewhere. Providing as much reassurance of safety as possible is important to me."
Yes. Safety is paramount. I do that too, I don’t drive so always have a plan B and route planned. |
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Always a public place. I don't mind if it's busy or quiet but it has to be someplace we can have conversation without having to shout.
That's what puts me off so many group socials. The environment isn't very social. |
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By (user no longer on site) 10 weeks ago
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Public places.
Never a restaurant. I like to be able to swallow my drink fast and say right lovely meeting you but must go if it’s not for me.
Luckily, I’ve never had a bad experience. |
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"Public places.
Never a restaurant. I like to be able to swallow my drink fast and say right lovely meeting you but must go if it’s not for me.
Luckily, I’ve never had a bad experience. "
I got strangely aroused when I read
"I like to be able to swallow" and fast 
Drink was a bit of a let down Bella. |
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By (user no longer on site) 10 weeks ago
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"Public places.
Never a restaurant. I like to be able to swallow my drink fast and say right lovely meeting you but must go if it’s not for me.
Luckily, I’ve never had a bad experience.
I got strangely aroused when I read
"I like to be able to swallow" and fast
Drink was a bit of a let down Bella. "
Don’t worry I’m a let down too. Boring also. 😊 |
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I prefer a bar somewhere central. A nice quiet and cosy corner where you can talk without being overheard and maybe have a few subtle touches or kisses without being noticed.
I have done coffee shops but find they don’t really make for a sexy atmosphere.
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In a Caffé Nero™, a city branch, because they often have high vaulted ceilings; an art gallery or a museum where we can walk and talk at length and get to know each other, less focused on the objet d'art or the relics but more immersed in each other. The artworks always serve splendidly for those comfortable silences and the interludes. |
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Ranging from cuppa tea socials, going shopping, dinner, themepark, museum, walking the dog, cemetery (in daylight) sex club, to watching fireworks, I've met so many people, in loads of different places, over the 5 years I've been on here  |
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A nice place that's fairly busy so we can get straight into the subject of 'worse meets ever' laugh out loud without drawing too much attention, then maybe a little flirting. No PDA but maybe a little tactile touch every now and again. |
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Don't mind where, as long it's quiet enough to chat but busy enough to not feel overheard.
If I'm meeting at the weekend (which I normally am) I have found that meeting in a pub of an evening can be misconstrued, so tend to play it safe with coffee shops these days.
I had a great social a couple of months ago in the cafe at a museum. We had coffee and then went to see the show at the planetarium. It was a very happy afternoon! |
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By *ady LickWoman 10 weeks ago
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Pub or coffee shop for me, not too close to home. Never a restaurant in case I want to get out of there! Have burnt my tongue on a coffee before because he wasn't for me and was doing sex talk  |
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Pub, cafe, organised socials.
Preferably somewhere not too busy where we can chat without needing to shout.
These days, it's places where I don't need to travel, so usually pub / coffeeshop near work. That way, if they don't show, I've not wasted time. |
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By (user no longer on site) 10 weeks ago
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Pub, waffle restaurant, pastry shop, cafe, park, but the worst was a McDonalds (I know that might be sacrilege for Little Bird - and it was not her - but the seats are uncomfortable, the lights are too bright, the conversation was not private)  |
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By (user no longer on site) 10 weeks ago
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"Has to be somewhere busy for me with lots of people around - this tends to put off most of the married men unless they’re working away from home!"
Doing it wrong if they consider it to be 'work'  |
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"I always ensure it's in a public place and that they're able to leave under their own steam if they want to go at any point. Last time I met up with someone for the first time I lined it up with bus times because she doesn't drive, so that if she wasn't feeling it she wouldn't be counting on me to drive her somewhere. Providing as much reassurance of safety as possible is important to me."
Thank you for putting womens safety so high. |
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