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Controversial topic are peoples standards on fab too high?I see a lot of men and women saying they can’t get a meet on here are people scared of actually meeting or,are people always looking for something better? |
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"Controversial topic are peoples standards on fab too high?I see a lot of men and women saying they can’t get a meet on here are people scared of actually meeting or,are people always looking for something better?"
Nothing wrong with high standards, I would rather go without sex than meet someone I really don't want to. |
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"Controversial topic are peoples standards on fab too high?I see a lot of men and women saying they can’t get a meet on here are people scared of actually meeting or,are people always looking for something better?
Nothing wrong with high standards, I would rather go without sex than meet someone I really don't want to."
absolutely she shouldn’t just meet for the sake of it  |
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"I can’t speak for everyone but our standards are exactly where they should be. If we can’t find someone to meet our standards then we would rather go without."
absolutely has to be a mutual attraction |
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"Controversial topic are peoples standards on fab too high?I see a lot of men and women saying they can’t get a meet on here are people scared of actually meeting or,are people always looking for something better?"
Looking for something better than something that isn't what they want?
Is that a bad thing now?
Are we just supposed to fuck whatever just because? |
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"Men on Fab don't have standards, they know only desperation. Women, on the other hand... 
I see this a lot and I think it's utter bollocks every time I read it."
I assumed it was a tongue in cheek remark but if it wasn't intended that way it definitely is utter bollocks. |
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By *agatoXXXMan 24 weeks ago
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"Men on Fab don't have standards, they know only desperation. Women, on the other hand...
I see this a lot and I think it's utter bollocks every time I read it."
Oh no. I won't sleep tonight, now. |
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"Controversial topic are peoples standards on fab too high?I see a lot of men and women saying they can’t get a meet on here are people scared of actually meeting or,are people always looking for something better?
Looking for something better than something that isn't what they want?
Is that a bad thing now?
Are we just supposed to fuck whatever just because?"
absolutely not I believe everyone should have standards I just hear this topic pop up all the time and wanted everyone’s opinion |
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"Men on Fab don't have standards, they know only desperation. Women, on the other hand...
I see this a lot and I think it's utter bollocks every time I read it.
Oh no. I won't sleep tonight, now. "
Sorry, wasn't having a go at you, but can see the last comment looks like I was. Still massively disagree with the sentiment though. Sleep tight! |
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I don't see it as contraversial
I know what I like
I don't do pity meets
To that degree, I have standards
I also recognise I won't be on the radar of many members
It's important to recognise that they will have their own preferences and standards too |
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"I don't see it as contraversial
I know what I like
I don't do pity meets
To that degree, I have standards
I also recognise I won't be on the radar of many members
It's important to recognise that they will have their own preferences and standards too"
absolutely pal you are 100% spot on that’s my outlook as well |
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I feel people who moan about others here having too high standards have unrealistic expectations of what Fab is. It is usually those who see the site as a treasure trove of sex at their fingertips, and often assume everyone here is desperate for sex and therefore willing to fuck anyone with zero regards to attraction — both attracting others and being attractive.
It’s not volunteer sex workers at the ready around here. People have standards. If they’re too high for you, it simply means you aren’t compatible. Find someone who is compatible with you and what you’re seeking. |
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"I feel people who moan about others here having too high standards have unrealistic expectations of what Fab is. It is usually those who see the site as a treasure trove of sex at their fingertips, and often assume everyone here is desperate for sex and therefore willing to fuck anyone with zero regards to attraction — both attracting others and being attractive.
It’s not volunteer sex workers at the ready around here. People have standards. If they’re too high for you, it simply means you aren’t compatible. Find someone who is compatible with you and what you’re seeking. "
haha get them told your 100% right it’s about mutual attraction not one way |
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"The thing with personal standards is just that. Personal to themselves. Why should people be expected to compromise their own standard anywhere especially here "
exactly I sometimes would what goes on in peoples brains |
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"I have standards. They’re quite exacting. I’ve bent them and bitterly regretted it.
I hope to hell that anyone who meets me also has high standards.
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definitely I think a lot of people will regret maybe meeting someone they wasn’t to sure about. And you deserve high standards your stunning |
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"I have standards. They’re quite exacting. I’ve bent them and bitterly regretted it.
I hope to hell that anyone who meets me also has high standards.
Damn. Foiled again..."
Then raise your standards & try again xxx |
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"Controversial topic are peoples standards on fab too high?I see a lot of men and women saying they can’t get a meet on here are people scared of actually meeting or,are people always looking for something better?"
Not for me. My standards are exactly where I want them to be OP and they won’t ever change |
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"Controversial topic are peoples standards on fab too high?I see a lot of men and women saying they can’t get a meet on here are people scared of actually meeting or,are people always looking for something better?
Not for me. My standards are exactly where I want them to be OP and they won’t ever change "
100% preach it from the rooftop |
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"Controversial topic are peoples standards on fab too high?I see a lot of men and women saying they can’t get a meet on here are people scared of actually meeting or,are people always looking for something better?"
Or they simply can't meet? Just a thought. |
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"Controversial topic are peoples standards on fab too high?I see a lot of men and women saying they can’t get a meet on here are people scared of actually meeting or,are people always looking for something better?
Not for me. My standards are exactly where I want them to be OP and they won’t ever change 100% preach it from the rooftop "
I’m happy to just have my standards for me. I’m not here to preach to anyone |
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"Controversial topic are peoples standards on fab too high?I see a lot of men and women saying they can’t get a meet on here are people scared of actually meeting or,are people always looking for something better?
Or they simply can't meet? Just a thought. "
this is my thought exactly I think there is a lot of bitter people on here haha |
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"I only want to have sex with people that I find attractive, whom I believe are also attracted to me... Some will say my standards are high, some won't, it's all subjective, no?  "
it’s 100% is subjective who is to tell someone what there standards should be  |
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"Controversial topic are peoples standards on fab too high?I see a lot of men and women saying they can’t get a meet on here are people scared of actually meeting or,are people always looking for something better?
Not for me. My standards are exactly where I want them to be OP and they won’t ever change 100% preach it from the rooftop
I’m happy to just have my standards for me. I’m not here to preach to anyone "
of course I know what you mean |
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By (user no longer on site) 24 weeks ago
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"My standards will remain exactly where they should be
Motorboat 
I'm gonna attach a bell to you, so I hear you coming in future!
Bloody woman! 
Ooofftttt. Double motorboat. Loves ya Boo "
Make it a treble, you know you want too! |
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"My standards will remain exactly where they should be
Motorboat
I'm gonna attach a bell to you, so I hear you coming in future!
Bloody woman!
Ooofftttt. Double motorboat. Loves ya Boo
Make it a treble, you know you want too! "
Why thank you for the official invite Boo |
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By (user no longer on site) 24 weeks ago
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"I think having high standards is a good thing when it comes to exchanging bodily fluids haha depends what bodily fluids sometimes standards are never high enough for that  "
Even just saliva  |
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"I think having high standards is a good thing when it comes to exchanging bodily fluids haha depends what bodily fluids sometimes standards are never high enough for that
Even just saliva "
ye 100% |
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"Controversial topic are peoples standards on fab too high?I see a lot of men and women saying they can’t get a meet on here are people scared of actually meeting or,are people always looking for something better?
Nothing wrong with high standards, I would rather go without sex than meet someone I really don't want to."
This! |
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"Controversial topic are peoples standards on fab too high?I see a lot of men and women saying they can’t get a meet on here are people scared of actually meeting or,are people always looking for something better?
Nothing wrong with high standards, I would rather go without sex than meet someone I really don't want to.
This!"
100% |
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There is having sex for the sake of having sex and there is having sex with someone you find attractive etc, I'd rather be attracted to someone that just have sex with everyone that asks me, I'd have a very busy vagina otherwise lol |
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"There is having sex for the sake of having sex and there is having sex with someone you find attractive etc, I'd rather be attracted to someone that just have sex with everyone that asks me, I'd have a very busy vagina otherwise lol"
absolutely haha quality over quantity |
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If having high standards is only having sex with people that you find attractive and who you feel a connection with then yes I have them.
Too many people seem to think that swinging means you will have sex with anyone.
Kx |
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"If having high standards is only having sex with people that you find attractive and who you feel a connection with then yes I have them.
Too many people seem to think that swinging means you will have sex with anyone.
Kx"
your absolutely right k need to find them attractive |
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Regrettably so, OP.
Most people on here are unable to muster the daunting steps that lead upwards to the pinnacle of my standards.
Only those with the fortitude and the constitution are able to do so. The rewards are enormous, the regrets are miniscule but the satisfaction endures. |
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"Regrettably so, OP.
Most people on here are unable to muster the daunting steps that lead upwards to the pinnacle of my standards.
Only those with the fortitude and the constitution are able to do so. The rewards are enormous, the regrets are miniscule but the satisfaction endures."
that’s what I’m talking about pal keep them standards high and you will have some really good experiences |
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"Controversial topic are peoples standards on fab too high?I see a lot of men and women saying they can’t get a meet on here are people scared of actually meeting or,are people always looking for something better?"
For us to add it into our life, it has to be actually what we want, not just settle for anything. FAB does provide opportunities for something what we’re looking for, but just dropping a standard to make something for us, is just a bad idea.
FAB is littered with problems, but with problems also come solutions. So what will be will be. We shall enjoy FAB for what it is, a platform that we’re not going to take to seriously! |
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"Controversial topic are peoples standards on fab too high?I see a lot of men and women saying they can’t get a meet on here are people scared of actually meeting or,are people always looking for something better?
For us to add it into our life, it has to be actually what we want, not just settle for anything. FAB does provide opportunities for something what we’re looking for, but just dropping a standard to make something for us, is just a bad idea.
FAB is littered with problems, but with problems also come solutions. So what will be will be. We shall enjoy FAB for what it is, a platform that we’re not going to take to seriously! "
absolutely guys you have the right mindset I love it |
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"Controversial topic are peoples standards on fab too high?I see a lot of men and women saying they can’t get a meet on here are people scared of actually meeting or,are people always looking for something better?
Nothing wrong with high standards, I would rather go without sex than meet someone I really don't want to."
This! Just because someone wants to meet me, it doesn't mean I want to meet them. Lately I can't be arsed with meeting any random people off here, probably because my partner and my FWB are keeping me busy enough, and we do clubs, too. |
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"Controversial topic are peoples standards on fab too high?I see a lot of men and women saying they can’t get a meet on here are people scared of actually meeting or,are people always looking for something better?
Nothing wrong with high standards, I would rather go without sex than meet someone I really don't want to.
This! Just because someone wants to meet me, it doesn't mean I want to meet them. Lately I can't be arsed with meeting any random people off here, probably because my partner and my FWB are keeping me busy enough, and we do clubs, too. "
sounds like your spoilt for choice at the moment x |
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"Not too high but we ask for people to make an effort in their profile, pics and conversation.
A lot don’t, so we don’t meet.
K"
you guys are a good looking couple people should put effort in if they want a opportunity to meet with you guys x |
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"Controversial topic are peoples standards on fab too high?I see a lot of men and women saying they can’t get a meet on here are people scared of actually meeting or,are people always looking for something better?
Nothing wrong with high standards, I would rather go without sex than meet someone I really don't want to.
This! Just because someone wants to meet me, it doesn't mean I want to meet them. Lately I can't be arsed with meeting any random people off here, probably because my partner and my FWB are keeping me busy enough, and we do clubs, too. sounds like your spoilt for choice at the moment x"
Yes, and when neither of them are available and I am horny, I'd much rather use my trusty toy than meet a random off here. Done that long time ago, lesson learned. |
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"Controversial topic are peoples standards on fab too high?I see a lot of men and women saying they can’t get a meet on here are people scared of actually meeting or,are people always looking for something better?
Nothing wrong with high standards, I would rather go without sex than meet someone I really don't want to.
This! Just because someone wants to meet me, it doesn't mean I want to meet them. Lately I can't be arsed with meeting any random people off here, probably because my partner and my FWB are keeping me busy enough, and we do clubs, too. sounds like your spoilt for choice at the moment x
Yes, and when neither of them are available and I am horny, I'd much rather use my trusty toy than meet a random off here. Done that long time ago, lesson learned. "
absolutely sometimes it’s better to do it yourself lol x |
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I think standards for ‘partners’ become super high when your single and swinging but I don't think that’s what you meant is it ?
I think it’s probably that most people have more than enough , it’s easier to meet people you already know, the effort to meet new people means they to be something very special |
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Things are different in person than on the internet.
When looking for a meet on the internet, there always a tick list of what you want and what you don’t. Thats just a natural function of putting in writing what we want or who we are.
In person, you see people in the round. She may be a little chunkier than you’d like, but that giggle….. He may be have a big nose, but those eyes…. You may not be as gym fit as she’d like, but your sense of humour shines through. |
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"I think standards for ‘partners’ become super high when your single and swinging but I don't think that’s what you meant is it ?
I think it’s probably that most people have more than enough , it’s easier to meet people you already know, the effort to meet new people means they to be something very special "
exactly you need something that will add value not decrease it |
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"Things are different in person than on the internet.
When looking for a meet on the internet, there always a tick list of what you want and what you don’t. Thats just a natural function of putting in writing what we want or who we are.
In person, you see people in the round. She may be a little chunkier than you’d like, but that giggle….. He may be have a big nose, but those eyes…. You may not be as gym fit as she’d like, but your sense of humour shines through. "
exactly I can see how it can be hard on the internet tho because when you see a pic you might not see those little things and not give them a chance |
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"Controversial topic are peoples standards on fab too high?I see a lot of men and women saying they can’t get a meet on here are people scared of actually meeting or,are people always looking for something better?"
High standards? Yes and I’m a fussy cow. And why not, just because I’m on a sex site does not mean I will shag anything that comes my way. Everyone should have high standards imo, there’s plenty on here that will just shag anything ! |
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"Controversial topic are peoples standards on fab too high?I see a lot of men and women saying they can’t get a meet on here are people scared of actually meeting or,are people always looking for something better?"
nothing is standard about fab .
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"Controversial topic are peoples standards on fab too high?I see a lot of men and women saying they can’t get a meet on here are people scared of actually meeting or,are people always looking for something better?
High standards? Yes and I’m a fussy cow. And why not, just because I’m on a sex site does not mean I will shag anything that comes my way. Everyone should have high standards imo, there’s plenty on here that will just shag anything !"
yes absolutely it really should be quality over quantity |
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"Controversial topic are peoples standards on fab too high?I see a lot of men and women saying they can’t get a meet on here are people scared of actually meeting or,are people always looking for something better?nothing is standard about fab ."
absolutely |
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I don’t think most people are failing to meet because their standards are too high - I think they fail to meet because most people are fantasists and the reality of meeting scares them when it actually happens and they bottle it.
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"I don’t think most people are failing to meet because their standards are too high - I think they fail to meet because most people are fantasists and the reality of meeting scares them when it actually happens and they bottle it.
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yes I think this is a big factor on why a lot of couples/single women are extra careful when chatting to single guys because some can be let downs |
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