 |
By *abonTed OP Couple 10 weeks ago
Midlands & Cheltenham |
I (Mabon) am a huge fan of kissing but have had several unpleasant experiences. Examples include someone licking my face, tongue punching, constant tongue swirling and the final straw was a guy licking across my mouth - from one corner to the other! These guys are not listening to my physical or verbal redirection/requests, or trying again when I’ve said to stop. What is this all about?! I’ve even spotted terrible kissing in porn videos - please don’t say it’s a new trend!  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
Hope not kissing is beautiful or can be, but I know what you mean when they go in at full speed licking your tonsils , should be gentle for a start off to test the water and then perhaps a little bit of tongue to see she wants to go further |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"I (Mabon) am a huge fan of kissing but have had several unpleasant experiences. Examples include someone licking my face, tongue punching, constant tongue swirling and the final straw was a guy licking across my mouth - from one corner to the other! These guys are not listening to my physical or verbal redirection/requests, or trying again when I’ve said to stop. What is this all about?! I’ve even spotted terrible kissing in porn videos - please don’t say it’s a new trend! "
It is honestly next to impossible to find a good kisser, We've actually stopped kissing other people on meets because it ruins the mood when they do things exactly like you described xx
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
We love a good snog but it is a dying art form!
L has too been face licked or slobbered on. However we have found that the ladies are still very sensual and sexy in their kissing skills so tend to get a good snogging session in with the sexy ladies 
Mrs x |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
I love kissing. There's nothing quite like the feeling of melting into one of those kisses where the rest of the world just falls away and for however long it lasts, the two of you are all that exists. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
Not a big fan of it because I’m self-conscious that I know good at it, although I’ve been told I’m a nice kisser, just reminds me of when we were a lot lot younger and boy and girl kissing with very sloppy outcome |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *abonTed OP Couple 10 weeks ago
Midlands & Cheltenham |
"It is an art !!once was kissing a woman and she almost brought me to orgasm !!!! Needs to be mastered though .feel how the other person is responding .very sensual "
This is what I'm talking about!! |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *abonTed OP Couple 10 weeks ago
Midlands & Cheltenham |
"What is tongue punching??!! "
I didn't know how else to describe it - but that thing when their tongue forces in fast and hard and then retreats...over and over! Your lips cannot connect because of the jolting, and it isn't even a sensual tongue moment, cos it comes and goes so fast! Just astoundingly unpleasant...in my opinion. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *abonTed OP Couple 10 weeks ago
Midlands & Cheltenham |
"I (Mabon) am a huge fan of kissing but have had several unpleasant experiences. Examples include someone licking my face, tongue punching, constant tongue swirling and the final straw was a guy licking across my mouth - from one corner to the other! These guys are not listening to my physical or verbal redirection/requests, or trying again when I’ve said to stop. What is this all about?! I’ve even spotted terrible kissing in porn videos - please don’t say it’s a new trend!
It is honestly next to impossible to find a good kisser, We've actually stopped kissing other people on meets because it ruins the mood when they do things exactly like you described xx
"
That's so depressing to hear |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"What is tongue punching??!!
I didn't know how else to describe it - but that thing when their tongue forces in fast and hard and then retreats...over and over! Your lips cannot connect because of the jolting, and it isn't even a sensual tongue moment, cos it comes and goes so fast! Just astoundingly unpleasant...in my opinion. "
Love the soft lips of a lady while we caress and get to know each other
Exploring and enjoying the moment for me Mr  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
I’m still traumatised from some early experiences. One tried to violently shove her tongue into my throat. Another I can only describe as kissing a goldfish on speed.
A good kiss is a wonderful thing though |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
As a neurospicy person I find kissing overwhelming stimulation wise. I am happy to kiss if that's what the person we are with likes, but if I pull away for a break I like it to be noted and respected.
We have no boundaries around kissing or touching or anything really. We are both happy to go with the flow and see where things lead. I know some people find kissing an integral part of sex and the lead up to it, which is perfectly acceptable. I just personally don't value it as an important part of intimate sex.
My husband gets all the kisses he wants and I'm happy to kiss him as much as he wants, he has earned that right as my life partner.
As long as people respect others wishes and understand why, then it's all good.
Mrs x |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"What is tongue punching??!!
I didn't know how else to describe it - but that thing when their tongue forces in fast and hard and then retreats...over and over! Your lips cannot connect because of the jolting, and it isn't even a sensual tongue moment, cos it comes and goes so fast! Just astoundingly unpleasant...in my opinion. "
Ohhhh like they are pretending their tongue is a dick and they are stimulating fucking you 
I'd be no thanks too!! |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
I love kissing, I can really lose myself in the other person. It's a huge part of everything thats going on sexually in that moment. I enjoy the mix of sensual to wild frenzied passionate kissing. When words are superfluous, kissing says it all.
I've definitely had my fair share of not wanting to take things further because we just didn't connect while kissing. It does make you look inwardly and think is it me, am I the bad kisser?
Kissing in porn? Make it stop! It looks rank.  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
» Add a new message to this topic
mechanism...
