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By *otgirl32 OP Woman 11 weeks ago
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Should Fab put in some sort of A.I. to out even block messages that have:
1. "Up for a fuck" anywhere (title or message body)
AND ....
2. That's the first ever message he/she has sent to him/her?
Fab can make it OPTIONAL for a person to block such messages (just like you can block "new" member messages amongst other things?
PS: has ANYONE (male or female) ever gotten such a message and immediately said "YES" and actually fucked? I'm GENUINELY curious, not passing judgement |
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By *HUSH-Man 11 weeks ago
London |
Sounds like a filter that would be useful for some people such as yourself. I don’t tend to get messages quite that blunt.
I get a fair few accounts sending me their postcode and insisting that no faces will be seen. Perhaps I should start using them to forward my junk mail to. |
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"No and would not send such a message
Glad you won't but many do. Esp the younger ones in their 20s. Is this "entitlement" or just poor education on social stuff?"
I was in 20s ( turn 30 today)
But wouldn’t dream of sending message like that
I like the build up of chatting and learning what gets them going |
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I've never sent one, as I can't imagine the likelihood of success is close to zero. It would also make me look desperate, always an attractive look.
However it's happened to me three times in total. Once a woman staying in the same hotel as me, and the other occasion with women staying in hotels for conferences etc, near my work in central London.
They weren't that direct in wording, but close enough...
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I got one along similar lines last night, with an unwanted cock attached.
He was old enough to know better, but newish to fab. I think some join expecting to get a shag immediately & have expectations which won't match the reality for them. |
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"I got one along similar lines last night, with an unwanted cock attached.
He was old enough to know better, but newish to fab. I think some join expecting to get a shag immediately & have expectations which won't match the reality for them. "
It can get to you so hope you are ok. My wife used to be on here but left as to many unwanted guys thinking could do what like. She did try to tell some about their behaviour but in some cases just got more abuse |
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i'd never send a message such as that myself. If it's a generational thing then I supose you could alter your age filter accordingly perhaps?
look on the upside, at least you're getting messages frequently |
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"I got one along similar lines last night, with an unwanted cock attached.
He was old enough to know better, but newish to fab. I think some join expecting to get a shag immediately & have expectations which won't match the reality for them.
It can get to you so hope you are ok. My wife used to be on here but left as to many unwanted guys thinking could do what like. She did try to tell some about their behaviour but in some cases just got more abuse "
Hi I'm fine thanks
He got a flea in his ear lol
I don't get that many as I use a few filters |
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I’m always polite how ask they are havin a great week I’d never dream of sending a message like fancy a shag or wNt my cock .. I’m always polite respectful and genuine ! Been on here three months are very rarely get a reply …? Am I just ugly ? My profile not very good or both !!!
Had my confidence shattered recently by my ex wife .. so doubting everything at the minute !! |
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"I got one along similar lines last night, with an unwanted cock attached.
He was old enough to know better, but newish to fab. I think some join expecting to get a shag immediately & have expectations which won't match the reality for them.
It can get to you so hope you are ok. My wife used to be on here but left as to many unwanted guys thinking could do what like. She did try to tell some about their behaviour but in some cases just got more abuse
Hi I'm fine thanks
He got a flea in his ear lol
I don't get that many as I use a few filters "
That good to hear. Take care |
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By (user no longer on site) 11 weeks ago
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"Should Fab put in some sort of A.I. to out even block messages that have:
1. "Up for a fuck" anywhere (title or message body)
AND ....
2. That's the first ever message he/she has sent to him/her?
Fab can make it OPTIONAL for a person to block such messages (just like you can block "new" member messages amongst other things?
PS: has ANYONE (male or female) ever gotten such a message and immediately said "YES" and actually fucked? I'm GENUINELY curious, not passing judgement"
There was a young lady called Gail
Whose body was the holy grail
I would never send a message saying are you up for a fuck
With such nonsense I hold no truck
But I have probably just had an epic fail |
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A filter for that would definitely be useful for a lot of members, but being totally honest my wife would probably still entertain messages like that (please don't take that as an invitation to do so, she's got over 100 unread as it is XD) |
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By *nnCeeWoman 11 weeks ago
East of Eden, West of Hell |
"I got one along similar lines last night, with an unwanted cock attached.
He was old enough to know better, but newish to fab. I think some join expecting to get a shag immediately & have expectations which won't match the reality for them. "
Same! I'm not far from an airport, and was online...
I was asked whether I wanted a meet.
I did tell him yes, as I was feeling in a mischievous mood. The profile had no pics, one line of text, and nothing else was sent in the message. As far as I'm aware, the sender didn't even have a hotel, but was just sitting in departures...  |
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"I got one along similar lines last night, with an unwanted cock attached.
He was old enough to know better, but newish to fab. I think some join expecting to get a shag immediately & have expectations which won't match the reality for them.
Same! I'm not far from an airport, and was online...
I was asked whether I wanted a meet.
I did tell him yes, as I was feeling in a mischievous mood. The profile had no pics, one line of text, and nothing else was sent in the message. As far as I'm aware, the sender didn't even have a hotel, but was just sitting in departures... "
I've heard of exhibitionism, but that would take the cake. |
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By (user no longer on site) 11 weeks ago
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I generally don't get them.
But then again if I posted naked pictures or pictures of me having sex on a swinging site then you know, I probably wouldn't be that surprised. |
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"I generally don't get them.
But then again if I posted naked pictures or pictures of me having sex on a swinging site then you know, I probably wouldn't be that surprised. "
Is this where I'm going wrong? |
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"Should Fab put in some sort of A.I. to out even block messages that have:
1. "Up for a fuck" anywhere (title or message body)
AND ....
2. That's the first ever message he/she has sent to him/her?
Fab can make it OPTIONAL for a person to block such messages (just like you can block "new" member messages amongst other things?
PS: has ANYONE (male or female) ever gotten such a message and immediately said "YES" and actually fucked? I'm GENUINELY curious, not passing judgement"
Yes couple of times - once I was on Fab idly browsing around midnight and a local lady about 5 miles away messaged ‘are you available now?’. She had two girlfriends with her and the guy friend that was supposed to be coming had to cancel last minute. I was showered and around there in 30 minutes and naked a couple of minutes after that. Marvellous, they were merry, having laughs and were horny as hell and it was a riot.
The other time was leaving a quiet night at Chams. Checking phone in the carpark and suddenly a message from a couple on Fab said come round to our hotel now… Hotel was on the route home so I thought… why not |
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By *_Mr.K_xMan 11 weeks ago
Somewhere between Hades and Narnia |
"Should Fab put in some sort of A.I. to out even block messages that have:
1. "Up for a fuck" anywhere (title or message body)
AND ....
2. That's the first ever message he/she has sent to him/her?
Fab can make it OPTIONAL for a person to block such messages (just like you can block "new" member messages amongst other things?
PS: has ANYONE (male or female) ever gotten such a message and immediately said "YES" and actually fucked? I'm GENUINELY curious, not passing judgement"
No, not the sort of thing I'd ever send. I'm not that crass.
I usually send a message that has manners, courtesy, punctuation and some sort of context, with no pressure to provide a reply. |
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"No and would not send such a message
Glad you won't but many do. Esp the younger ones in their 20s. Is this "entitlement" or just poor education on social stuff?"
I belong to the 20’s group and I’ve never sent such a message, especially not as the first message. In your experience you might get a lot of younger guys messaging you this, but for other women it might be the opposite. I wouldn’t say its to do with a persons age as such |
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By *rPunxMan 11 weeks ago
Hull |
"No and would not send such a message
Glad you won't but many do. Esp the younger ones in their 20s. Is this "entitlement" or just poor education on social stuff?"
very probably both.got their chat up lines from porn because it always worked in porn.
As for messages like that I wouldn't dream of it. Though I have had a few similar ones but all from gay or bi guys despite my profile clearly stating I'm straight |
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By (user no longer on site) 11 weeks ago
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I've responded to an instant msg like that once or twice. I'd just been dropped off from a car meet that didn't result in anything happening, I was checking msgs and still had my coat on indoors. Read a msg from a guy who was literally round the corner in his car. I thought what the hell as I was still horny so I turned straight back out the door again lol and bent over his car seat for him xx
Generally though I won't respond to a first message like that xx |
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By (user no longer on site) 11 weeks ago
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Cut to the chase!! Why not. Some will just try their luck, it definitely seems to be the younger generation.
I definitely don’t send that type of message I like to waffle on and take much more than I need to say hello often paragraphs. I’m still those messages get ignored, so with that in mind, I can’t understand why some people will just cut to the chase. Do I agree with it it’s not my place to say it’s just something I wouldn’t do  |
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"Here's another one ......... JUST NOW .........
"Hey up for having s3x at all today"
30
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Some days I wonder why I bother. Due to guys like this. But hey. I suppose that's why there's a block button. |
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I’d love a filter of those who think they can get somewhere with one of those messages.
I’ve never responded to one, I love getting to know people. Equally I’ve never sent one either, if I ever did I’d be having strong words with myself |
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"I’d love a filter of those who think they can get somewhere with one of those messages.
I’ve never responded to one, I love getting to know people. Equally I’ve never sent one either, if I ever did I’d be having strong words with myself "
Agree always best to get to know person and respect what they like or not. Always far better fun in the end in my experiences |
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I don't think it's related to age or generation and instead just a lack of respect and wild expectations. They're the main character remember and everyone is waiting for the main character to message them.
As for a message filter I think that'd be largely useless, things like word filters and character/word limits typically have very easy workarounds. Instead of "fancy a fuck?" you'd just receive "fan sea 1 secks?" copy and pasted 30 times.
Not that I have better ideas on how to tackle it tbf |
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