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By (user no longer on site) 20 weeks ago
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"The more massive an ego, the more it warps the perceptions, persons, around it.
True or false? "
Like a blackhole warping light.
The larger the hole, the more warped the light. |
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By (user no longer on site) 20 weeks ago
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"On here I think the warped perceptions create the ego. And there are some very big egos on here. "
Actually yeh, can agree with this too.
So many females and couples on here have a hot air balloons worth of inflation from the attention they get from the hive.
I don't think it serves their self image well. Have interacted with some right horrible couples/females. |
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By (user no longer on site) 20 weeks ago
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"Back when I used to go to clubs and parties regularly, there were plenty of “professional swingers”.This hasn’t changed, and their egos haven’t diminished any!
What is a professional swinger ?"
They have business cards |
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"Back when I used to go to clubs and parties regularly, there were plenty of “professional swingers”.This hasn’t changed, and their egos haven’t diminished any!
What is a professional swinger ?"
We carry our condom's in an attaché case.  |
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"Back when I used to go to clubs and parties regularly, there were plenty of “professional swingers”.This hasn’t changed, and their egos haven’t diminished any!
What is a professional swinger ?"
My own term.A clique of people I knew through other swingers that thought extremely highly of themselves, and expected a level of respect, and almost deference due the amount of years active/partied attended etc.
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"Back when I used to go to clubs and parties regularly, there were plenty of “professional swingers”.This hasn’t changed, and their egos haven’t diminished any!
What is a professional swinger ?
They have business cards "
This is genius... |
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"Back when I used to go to clubs and parties regularly, there were plenty of “professional swingers”.This hasn’t changed, and their egos haven’t diminished any!
What is a professional swinger ?
They have business cards "
These people actually did! |
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"Back when I used to go to clubs and parties regularly, there were plenty of “professional swingers”.This hasn’t changed, and their egos haven’t diminished any!
What is a professional swinger ?
They have business cards
This is genius..."
In 1940 maybe ....... |
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"Back when I used to go to clubs and parties regularly, there were plenty of “professional swingers”.This hasn’t changed, and their egos haven’t diminished any!
What is a professional swinger ?
They have business cards "
I have calling cards. Does that count ? |
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"Back when I used to go to clubs and parties regularly, there were plenty of “professional swingers”.This hasn’t changed, and their egos haven’t diminished any!
What is a professional swinger ?
They have business cards
I have calling cards. Does that count ?"
Do you leave one at the scene of every swing? |
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"Back when I used to go to clubs and parties regularly, there were plenty of “professional swingers”.This hasn’t changed, and their egos haven’t diminished any!
What is a professional swinger ?
We carry our condom's in an attaché case. "
Cards, Condoms AND Cases... the 3 c's
Can anyone think of a fourth C ?? |
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"Back when I used to go to clubs and parties regularly, there were plenty of “professional swingers”.This hasn’t changed, and their egos haven’t diminished any!
What is a professional swinger ?
They have business cards
I have calling cards. Does that count ?
Do you leave one at the scene of every swing?"
Oh yes ..... but they are Snap Cards n disappear by the time people find them |
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"Back when I used to go to clubs and parties regularly, there were plenty of “professional swingers”.This hasn’t changed, and their egos haven’t diminished any!
What is a professional swinger ?
We carry our condom's in an attaché case.
Cards, Condoms AND Cases... the 3 c's
Can anyone think of a fourth C ??"
Crumpet |
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"Back when I used to go to clubs and parties regularly, there were plenty of “professional swingers”.This hasn’t changed, and their egos haven’t diminished any!
What is a professional swinger ?
We carry our condom's in an attaché case.
Cards, Condoms AND Cases... the 3 c's
Can anyone think of a fourth C ??
Crumpet "
It's all about the crumpet right |
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"Back when I used to go to clubs and parties regularly, there were plenty of “professional swingers”.This hasn’t changed, and their egos haven’t diminished any!
What is a professional swinger ?
We carry our condom's in an attaché case.
Cards, Condoms AND Cases... the 3 c's
Can anyone think of a fourth C ??"
I'm almost insulted on your behalf that "crustaceans" wasn't your immediate contribution. :P |
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"This is one of those arcane threads that makes sense to most people...but not to me.
I (still) don't understand the question or, more to the point, the context.
Indeed, what's "Fabitivity" ?"
It's a play on "Theory of Relativity" with the Rel replaced by Fab, because that's the site we're on. At least that's how I parsed it. |
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"The more massive an ego, the more it warps the perceptions, persons, around it.
True or false? "
Certainly true for most it does warp their perception, however I do know some very grounded amazing chaps on here who come across quite loud in their approach but are completely different when you’re alone with them.. but there are so many huge egos on here and the peacocking I see is quite funny at times, however men on here are quite outnumbered so they have to stand out from the crowd of all those unwanted photos that land in inboxes. When you have been acting with such a persona for so long, it starts to become part of you.
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"This is one of those arcane threads that makes sense to most people...but not to me.
I (still) don't understand the question or, more to the point, the context.
Indeed, what's "Fabitivity" ?"
It's referencing General Relativity I think. |
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"Back when I used to go to clubs and parties regularly, there were plenty of “professional swingers”.This hasn’t changed, and their egos haven’t diminished any!
What is a professional swinger ?
We carry our condom's in an attaché case.
Cards, Condoms AND Cases... the 3 c's
Can anyone think of a fourth C ??
I'm almost insulted on your behalf that "crustaceans" wasn't your immediate contribution. :P"
Nobody wants crabs!  |
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"Back when I used to go to clubs and parties regularly, there were plenty of “professional swingers”.This hasn’t changed, and their egos haven’t diminished any!
What is a professional swinger ?
We carry our condom's in an attaché case.
Cards, Condoms AND Cases... the 3 c's
Can anyone think of a fourth C ??
I'm almost insulted on your behalf that "crustaceans" wasn't your immediate contribution. :P
Nobody wants crabs! "
That's exactly why it would have been so funny. :P |
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By *agatoXXXMan 20 weeks ago
Gone and completely forgotten. |
"Back when I used to go to clubs and parties regularly, there were plenty of “professional swingers”.This hasn’t changed, and their egos haven’t diminished any!
What is a professional swinger ?
My own term.A clique of people I knew through other swingers that thought extremely highly of themselves, and expected a level of respect, and almost deference due the amount of years active/partied attended etc.
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You used the "C" word! 
Batten down the hatches! |
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"Back when I used to go to clubs and parties regularly, there were plenty of “professional swingers”.This hasn’t changed, and their egos haven’t diminished any!
What is a professional swinger ?
My own term.A clique of people I knew through other swingers that thought extremely highly of themselves, and expected a level of respect, and almost deference due the amount of years active/partied attended etc.
You used the "C" word!
Batten down the hatches!"
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"Back when I used to go to clubs and parties regularly, there were plenty of “professional swingers”.This hasn’t changed, and their egos haven’t diminished any!
What is a professional swinger ?
We carry our condom's in an attaché case.
Cards, Condoms AND Cases... the 3 c's
Can anyone think of a fourth C ??
Crumpet
It's all about the crumpet right "
Phew ....... I thought you might say Cu..........stard. |
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By (user no longer on site) 20 weeks ago
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"The more massive an ego, the more it warps the perceptions, persons, around it.
True or false? "
I’m not sure how to consider this; albeit It’s a great question.
My opinion on this is dependent on the ‘Type’.
1) So those hardcore swinger types, who keep the turnstiles going on new persons, body count and number of experiences increasing, there is no Ego. There is only their joy. However it maybe less of a Halo experience, but overall no ego and lots of fun
And connection to those they share with.
2) Those Halo Fabbers, I don’t think in all cases it’s ego, I think ego is being confused in most cases with confidence.
These Halo players, have a sense of gravitas and confidence that once you get captured with a certain a certain radius of them, it’s hard to escape.
It's born from confidence that with their experience they know and understand the needs and how in order have fun experiences.
3) I cannot sit here pass opinion without going vulnerable, I’m not as experienced as many here in terms of the lifestyle, and I struggle to meet the right persons who strive connection; I’m no player: but I have v-good experience in charisma and gravitas and that’s what I see here. There maybe moments when grounding, aligning ones Northstar is useful.
But I get it, I see what some of you see, but from a different lens. They’re using the tools and experiences to increase their opportunities. Does not make them bad.
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By (user no longer on site) 20 weeks ago
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"Back when I used to go to clubs and parties regularly, there were plenty of “professional swingers”.This hasn’t changed, and their egos haven’t diminished any!
What is a professional swinger ?
We carry our condom's in an attaché case. "
You say that I've seen guys at a club in Belgium that had a special little arm strap or leg strap bag with condoms in them. |
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By *HUSH-Man 20 weeks ago
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"Back when I used to go to clubs and parties regularly, there were plenty of “professional swingers”.This hasn’t changed, and their egos haven’t diminished any!
What is a professional swinger ?
They have business cards "
Look at that subtle off-white colouring. The tasteful thickness of it. Oh, my god. |
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We all have an ego which manifests itself in different ways dependant on the individual.
I even say on my profile that I like having mine massaged now and again but as soon as it drifts into blowing smoke up my arse I'm not interested.
I've turned down offers from people I've chatted to for weeks or months and the majority of those have been fine with my decision.
I have also turned down people I've never chatted to but who felt it acceptable to send opening messages with instructions or demands.
Those poor creatures told me it was my loss, I should be grateful for any attention and I was an idiot.
They also asked did I not know who they were and that they could end my fab journey with a few messages?
As they all had 80-100 verifications there was no doubt others were happy to fuck them just to be associated or remain relevant and their reaction told me they weren't used to the word no.
I have made and lost fab friends because I wouldn't give them continual validation or get involved in drama aimed at those who were getting more attention than they were. |
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"Back when I used to go to clubs and parties regularly, there were plenty of “professional swingers”.This hasn’t changed, and their egos haven’t diminished any!
What is a professional swinger ?
They have business cards
I have calling cards. Does that count ?"
I have been to a club where a lady had printed up some calling cards with her fab details on  |
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By *nnCeeWoman 20 weeks ago
East of Eden, West of Hell |
"Back when I used to go to clubs and parties regularly, there were plenty of “professional swingers”.This hasn’t changed, and their egos haven’t diminished any!
What is a professional swinger ?"
Someone who gets paid for it???  |
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