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By *bi HaiveMan 20 weeks ago
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"soooo many guys say they are bi , they turn up and can't get it up for her- because you(the male) are in the room, lol  "
Not exclusive to bi guys.
I've been in group situations where guys suffer performance anxiety because other straight guys are in the room. Sometimes down to inexperience, sometimes down to cock envy and sometimes because the thoughts in their head were better than the reality in front of them. |
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By *ee04Man 20 weeks ago
Essex |
Being a bi guy never had this problem, mind you it works the other way to. A lot of couples won’t meet bi guys as they think we’ll attack the husbands straight cock.
Personally I only want to play with people who want to play and am perfectly happy playing straight with couples.
Mind you I do get a lot of messages from straight guys with the same comments,
“I’m straight but want to see if I like cock”
“I don’t want people on here to know I like cock”
“If the woman/couples on here know I’m bi they won’t meet”
I like to just enjoy sexnin all its many forms, just don’t get enough lol |
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Almost as good as pretend straight guys (according to their profile) who in the messages say they're bi, yet by the same are blatantly just interested in the female...
Fab straight: like gazing into crystal clear water that's had oil spilt on it abs the many colours mix and collide on the surface in the sun |
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By *m3232Man 20 weeks ago
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"soooo many guys say they are bi , they turn up and can't get it up for her- because you(the male) are in the room, lol "
Had you sucked his cock up to that point. I would definitely want to have some bi play before that point if I was meeting a bi couple. |
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"soooo many guys say they are bi , they turn up and can't get it up for her- because you(the male) are in the room, lol "
I didn't see my self as bi but when I had my first threesome other year I could easily get hard despite her husband in room joining in |
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"Some men lie to get sex from the internet shocker. "
It is shocking Mr Wick but I have always wondered how they get out of it when the Mr wants a piece of them!!
Do they fess up or do they go gay for no pay?
Obviously some struggle to perform according to the OP!!
How do they expect it to work out?
They have their fun with the missus and get dressed and do one? |
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"Some men lie to get sex from the internet shocker.
It is shocking Mr Wick but I have always wondered how they get out of it when the Mr wants a piece of them!!
Do they fess up or do they go gay for no pay?
Obviously some struggle to perform according to the OP!!
How do they expect it to work out?
They have their fun with the missus and get dressed and do one?"
They will do anything and everything for sex
As a society we demonised men to no confidence so they will use underhand tactics to get anything which is also wrong
Most women look for the top 10% of men.
Most men look for the 100% of women as they are desperate
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"Some men lie to get sex from the internet shocker.
It is shocking Mr Wick but I have always wondered how they get out of it when the Mr wants a piece of them!!
Do they fess up or do they go gay for no pay?
Obviously some struggle to perform according to the OP!!
How do they expect it to work out?
They have their fun with the missus and get dressed and do one?"
The one and only time it happened to me, was during a foursome with Mrs Wick and another couple. He tried to pretend he was bi’ so that we’d meet them. Found him out pretty quickly when I attempted to put a condom onto his dick and he fled at top speed from the house. |
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I'm bi and the reason I could not stay hard once with a couple was because she was a lot bigger than her photos.
I gave it a go but it didn't work. He was fit but not her. Ended up blaming it on being tired, apologised and left. |
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"The one and only time it happened to me, was during a foursome with Mrs Wick and another couple. He tried to pretend he was bi’ so that we’d meet them. Found him out pretty quickly when I attempted to put a condom onto his dick and he fled at top speed from the house. "
Surely that’s not a sign of being bi or not, a guy touching you dick. Must have a word with my doctor  |
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"The one and only time it happened to me, was during a foursome with Mrs Wick and another couple. He tried to pretend he was bi’ so that we’d meet them. Found him out pretty quickly when I attempted to put a condom onto his dick and he fled at top speed from the house.
Surely that’s not a sign of being bi or not, a guy touching you dick. Must have a word with my doctor "
The point is that as soon as I touched him sexually, he fucked off at light speed. Clearly not bisexual |
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"Some men lie to get sex from the internet shocker.
It is shocking Mr Wick but I have always wondered how they get out of it when the Mr wants a piece of them!!
Do they fess up or do they go gay for no pay?
Obviously some struggle to perform according to the OP!!
How do they expect it to work out?
They have their fun with the missus and get dressed and do one?
The one and only time it happened to me, was during a foursome with Mrs Wick and another couple. He tried to pretend he was bi’ so that we’d meet them. Found him out pretty quickly when I attempted to put a condom onto his dick and he fled at top speed from the house. "
Shit!!!! In all my time around the LS i have never asked this question.
I have heard people saying in the forums that guys pretend but never knew what happened when they get found out!
It seems self defeating to me and I assumed they get the jollies with the Missus and run.
As someone replied to me in the thread it’s born out of desperation but that’s taking it to a whole new level if you ask me.
It must be frustrating for a couple when this happens especially if you have booked a hotel and invested time and money into the meet. |
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"The one and only time it happened to me, was during a foursome with Mrs Wick and another couple. He tried to pretend he was bi’ so that we’d meet them. Found him out pretty quickly when I attempted to put a condom onto his dick and he fled at top speed from the house.
Surely that’s not a sign of being bi or not, a guy touching you dick. Must have a word with my doctor
The point is that as soon as I touched him sexually, he fucked off at light speed. Clearly not bisexual"
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Any man can have stage fright regardless of his sexuality. A guy literally just came round to mine. He could not get hard, it done his head in and he left.
I think he was definitely bisexual because he felt my cock and rimmed me. |
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"I'm bi and the reason I could not stay hard once with a couple was because she was a lot bigger than her photos.
I gave it a go but it didn't work. He was fit but not her. Ended up blaming it on being tired, apologised and left. "
Those profile pics taken from above with her looking up at the camera and no body shots are always a Red flag  |
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Have heard it happened to many guys who couples have met, especially the ones that pretend they’re bi just so they can have sex with the woman and don’t even touch the guy. It’s pathetic, gives us truly bi guys a bad name. |
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People get nervous. People have fantasies and aren't ready for the reality. Or maybe they're lying, could be a bunch of reasons.
Maybe the 'Straight' people who message me and the straight people who say they're bi to get meets should get a room.
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By *8on33Man 20 weeks ago
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As others have said it may just be the occassion but it could be anything he might not be attracted to her or him or maybe they are filming or maybe he's feeling a bit under the weather, nerves do funny things and especially to your penis . |
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"Im not talking about one person , this is a general comment , sooo many guys who are straight message us and try and say they are bi  "
We have thar multiple times a day they suddenly go quite when we tell them they need to play with Mr 1st |
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Some people just say what they think will get them a meet. I don’t get it as always best to say what like or not and be honest. We all had the guys pretending they got a hotwife . They are then “unwell” when you meet so can’t make it |
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It's not exclusive to bi guys & it doesn't mean they aren't bi - being in a group situation and expected to perform on the spot can have an effect on the guy, performance anxiety, nerves, just not feeling it etc all play a part. |
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"Had a mf couple pretending to be bi fem to get a meet with us.
My wife was all over her and wife could tell she wasn't bi.
Strange what some couples would do to get a meet. "
Sometimes it's nothing to do with sexuality but more about attraction
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I’m bi, mostly bottom and the only time I’ve failed to perform was when in an mmm one of the guys wanted me to top them whilst he sucked the other guy. Normally I’m in that position and probably jealous. I’ve topped before but just didn’t fancy this guys ass, (condom on as always when playing) and couldn’t stay hard enough to enter. So I swapped positions with the other guy at the other end. |
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"Had a mf couple pretending to be bi fem to get a meet with us.
My wife was all over her and wife could tell she wasn't bi.
Strange what some couples would do to get a meet.
Sometimes it's nothing to do with sexuality but more about attraction
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Totally agree with this, on my couples profile just because I'm Bi doesn't mean I want both, I'm not attracted to every single woman & people struggle to understand this. |
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Sometimes it's nothing to do with sexuality but more about attraction
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Totally agree with this, on my couples profile just because I'm Bi doesn't mean I want both, I'm not attracted to every single woman & people struggle to understand this."
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I really don't think it has anything to do with being bi. It happens sometimes could be a whole range of things.
It's happened to us we did other stuff had a break had a chat didn't make him feel like it was a big deal and then we had round 2 and it was fine and he was great.
I didn't take it personally as I understand their is a whole range of reasons it can happen men are not performing seals. |
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"All bi mmf should start with the guys sucking each other off while the lady watches
Why should they?
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No one should do anything they are not comfortable with, but this is usually how we start our bi mmfs tho after lots of conversations so we are all on the same page.
Not because I'm checking to see if they are actually bi  but because I find it hot  . |
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"soooo many guys say they are bi , they turn up and can't get it up for her- because you(the male) are in the room, lol "
Perhaps he just wasn’t into you? It’s entirely possible for bisexual men not to find all men sexually attractive.
(Qualification: bisexual man who doesn’t find all men sexually attractive)
Or perhaps he’d had a long day at work. Or he was dehydrated. Or he’d just learned some bad news. Or it was a Thursday.
Penises can stop working for literally a million reasons.
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We look to meet bi guys, but always explain it's because I like to see cuck at least cleaning, if not more. Sometimes it puts guys off when say cucks caged as they want cock to play with too, which is fine but not what I look for.
Do get lots of straight guys looking to meet but after chatting can tell they just looking for me. |
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"All bi mmf should start with the guys sucking each other off while the lady watches
Why should they?
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All I can think of is the pretend Bi guy screaming, “IT’S A TRAP”!!! and running for his life |
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Some of them will have sex with men, just to maintain the pretence. But at least there's something in it, for the male half. I'm guessing that they don't take anal, as the least likely activity they'll do. |
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"Some of them will have sex with men, just to maintain the pretence. But at least there's something in it, for the male half. I'm guessing that they don't take anal, as the least likely activity they'll do. "
It’s stuff like this that remind me really how pointless the labels really are anyway. Sexuality is a whole lot more complicated than gay/bi/straight |
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"Had a mf couple pretending to be bi fem to get a meet with us.
My wife was all over her and wife could tell she wasn't bi.
Strange what some couples would do to get a meet.
Sometimes it's nothing to do with sexuality but more about attraction
dont meet couples that you aren't into both, or at least tell them first
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Totally agree with this, on my couples profile just because I'm Bi doesn't mean I want both, I'm not attracted to every single woman & people struggle to understand this."
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When I meet bi couples I always make sure I suck his cock before even going near his partner…I love seeing the look on here face when her man’s cock is in my hands & down my throat…it makes me so bloody horny…lol |
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"When I meet bi couples I always make sure I suck his cock before even going near his partner…I love seeing the look on here face when her man’s cock is in my hands & down my throat…it makes me so bloody horny…lol"
this is the way ! |
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As others have said there could be loads of reasons why men struggle to rise to the occasion. I'm curious to explore my bi side but I feel I would let everyone down unless the atmosphere was relaxed with no great expectations from all, a meet with an understanding Bi MF couple is very difficult to find believe me ?? I don't want a teacher just some guidance on how to make it fun for everyone. |
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"soooo many guys say they are bi , they turn up and can't get it up for her- because you(the male) are in the room, lol
Perhaps he just wasn’t into you? It’s entirely possible for bisexual men not to find all men sexually attractive.
(Qualification: bisexual man who doesn’t find all men sexually attractive)
This is not one situation , this is a general situation of guys that are straight pretending to be bi , we get tons of emails from guys saying they are actually bi ,
Or perhaps he’d had a long day at work. Or he was dehydrated. Or he’d just learned some bad news. Or it was a Thursday.
Penises can stop working for literally a million reasons.
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"All bi mmf should start with the guys sucking each other off while the lady watches
Why should they?
Quite. Shock news! Not all bi guys like sucking other guys."
say so before a meet is organised, maybe best to meet to meet the guys alone first just to see |
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"soooo many guys say they are bi , they turn up and can't get it up for her- because you(the male) are in the room, lol "
Ever thought they might be there for you and not her?
Plenty of 'bi' blokes here who live a totally gay lifestyle, who just chance their arm or give it a try
'Bi-curious' but haven't been near a fanny since they came out of one |
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"Personally, I couldn’t give a shiny shite, who’s sucking my cock, where couples are concerned, as long as there is a warm wet willing mouth round my bell end when I spunk my load."
A discerning gentleman once said... |
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"Personally, I couldn’t give a shiny shite, who’s sucking my cock, where couples are concerned, as long as there is a warm wet willing mouth round my bell end when I spunk my load."
I've had a couple of offers so far, and although it's not something I've ever been into I have been wondering if it might be worth giving a try. :P |
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