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New video up, last 100 to view my profile all male! Fab is overrun with gay and bi men. Flattering they love my vid however not exactly why I joined Fab!
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If fab is over run by anything it’s single straight men, who form the majority of users and crate a hugely distorted ratio v straight women and couples.
If you’re gonna say the place is overrun by someone at least be statistically correct |
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By (user no longer on site) 12 weeks ago
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"Oh dear. Life can be hard at times. So many crosses to bear. 
Ps, what is grinder? I have a coffee one on the kitchen.
It’s an app where down lo straight guys send ‘hey’ messages to gay people. "
I thought it was just for gay people |
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"New video up, last 100 to view my profile all male! Fab is overrun with gay and bi men. Flattering they love my vid however not exactly why I joined Fab!
Any other sites less populated by this group and better chance for straight men to find nsa sex?! "
I would second Hello's question: how do the actions of other, unrelated members in any way affect your prospects with those you're looking for? Even if every gay and bi man left the site there'd still be the same number of women. |
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"Oh dear. Life can be hard at times. So many crosses to bear.
Ps, what is grinder? I have a coffee one on the kitchen.
It’s an app where down lo straight guys send ‘hey’ messages to gay people.
I thought it was just for gay people "
Last time I used it hardly any gay people on there |
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By (user no longer on site) 12 weeks ago
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"Oh dear. Life can be hard at times. So many crosses to bear.
Ps, what is grinder? I have a coffee one on the kitchen.
It’s an app where down lo straight guys send ‘hey’ messages to gay people.
I thought it was just for gay people
Last time I used it hardly any gay people on there "
So who the bloody hell uses it |
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"Oh dear. Life can be hard at times. So many crosses to bear.
Ps, what is grinder? I have a coffee one on the kitchen.
It’s an app where down lo straight guys send ‘hey’ messages to gay people.
I thought it was just for gay people
Last time I used it hardly any gay people on there
So who the bloody hell uses it"
Down lows. |
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"Oh dear. Life can be hard at times. So many crosses to bear.
Ps, what is grinder? I have a coffee one on the kitchen.
It’s an app where down lo straight guys send ‘hey’ messages to gay people.
I thought it was just for gay people
Last time I used it hardly any gay people on there "
The people I know that use it have a definite strong preference for women, but appreciate how relatively easy it is to find a penis when the horn kicks in. |
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"Oh dear. Life can be hard at times. So many crosses to bear.
Ps, what is grinder? I have a coffee one on the kitchen.
Pps, and is that video any good? I have not seen it.
Meh "
 I will wait till the next report on the number of views as OP busy counting them just now |
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By (user no longer on site) 12 weeks ago
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"Oh dear. Life can be hard at times. So many crosses to bear.
Ps, what is grinder? I have a coffee one on the kitchen.
It’s an app where down lo straight guys send ‘hey’ messages to gay people.
I thought it was just for gay people
Last time I used it hardly any gay people on there
The people I know that use it have a definite strong preference for women, but appreciate how relatively easy it is to find a penis when the horn kicks in."
Whatever floats people's boats o suppose |
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"Oh dear. Life can be hard at times. So many crosses to bear.
Ps, what is grinder? I have a coffee one on the kitchen.
It’s an app where down lo straight guys send ‘hey’ messages to gay people.
I thought it was just for gay people
Last time I used it hardly any gay people on there
The people I know that use it have a definite strong preference for women, but appreciate how relatively easy it is to find a penis when the horn kicks in."
Exactly why I don’t use it. |
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"Oh dear. Life can be hard at times. So many crosses to bear.
Ps, what is grinder? I have a coffee one on the kitchen.
Pps, and is that video any good? I have not seen it. "
I’d wild guess it’s just another one stroking his penis to completion.
Yawn. |
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"New video up, last 100 to view my profile all male! Fab is overrun with gay and bi men. Flattering they love my vid however not exactly why I joined Fab!
Any other sites less populated by this group and better chance for straight men to find nsa sex?! "
Lots of women only view in ninja mode OP.
Hope this little fact helps your day  |
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"New video up, last 100 to view my profile all male! Fab is overrun with gay and bi men. Flattering they love my vid however not exactly why I joined Fab!
Any other sites less populated by this group and better chance for straight men to find nsa sex?!
Lots of women only view in ninja mode OP.
Hope this little fact helps your day "
No doubt that’s true LB but doesn’t help explain how the gay mafia (gafia? Gayfia?) is stopping him from getting laid. |
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By *avinaTVTV/TS 12 weeks ago
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"New video up, last 100 to view my profile all male! Fab is overrun with gay and bi men. Flattering they love my vid however not exactly why I joined Fab!
Any other sites less populated by this group and better chance for straight men to find nsa sex?!
Lots of women only view in ninja mode OP.
Hope this little fact helps your day
No doubt that’s true LB but doesn’t help explain how the gay mafia (gafia? Gayfia?) is stopping him from getting laid. "
Those damned gayers! Ruining it for everyone.  |
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By *avinaTVTV/TS 12 weeks ago
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"Oh dear. Life can be hard at times. So many crosses to bear.
Ps, what is grinder? I have a coffee one on the kitchen.
It’s an app where down lo straight guys send ‘hey’ messages to gay people.
I thought it was just for gay people
Last time I used it hardly any gay people on there
So who the bloody hell uses it"
"Straight" guys looking for trans people to suck them. Go on there as a trans and you're like a Cape fur seal in chummed water...
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"Probably because most women are in ninja mode so you can’t see if they look. "
This  women use ninja mode so they don’t get messages asking why they looked or are they interested.
So there could be 100’s of ladies that looked and just waiting for the right time to message you. 
Or not  |
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"Oh dear. Life can be hard at times. So many crosses to bear.
Ps, what is grinder? I have a coffee one on the kitchen.
It’s an app where down lo straight guys send ‘hey’ messages to gay people.
I thought it was just for gay people
Last time I used it hardly any gay people on there
So who the bloody hell uses it
"Straight" guys looking for trans people to suck them. Go on there as a trans and you're like a Cape fur seal in chummed water...
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And so chummed water soon becomes cummed water |
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"Oh dear. Life can be hard at times. So many crosses to bear.
Ps, what is grinder? I have a coffee one on the kitchen.
It’s an app where down lo straight guys send ‘hey’ messages to gay people. "
Haha perfect description |
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By *avinaTVTV/TS 12 weeks ago
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"Oh dear. Life can be hard at times. So many crosses to bear.
Ps, what is grinder? I have a coffee one on the kitchen.
It’s an app where down lo straight guys send ‘hey’ messages to gay people.
I thought it was just for gay people
Last time I used it hardly any gay people on there
So who the bloody hell uses it
"Straight" guys looking for trans people to suck them. Go on there as a trans and you're like a Cape fur seal in chummed water...
And so chummed water soon becomes cummed water "
It's jizz volcano day... and you're Pompei!  |
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By *glyBettyTV/TS 12 weeks ago
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"Oh dear. Life can be hard at times. So many crosses to bear.
Ps, what is grinder? I have a coffee one on the kitchen.
It’s an app where down lo straight guys send ‘hey’ messages to gay people.
I thought it was just for gay people "
Grinder is just for gay people in the same way that fabswingers is just for swingers |
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"New video up, last 100 to view my profile all male! Fab is overrun with gay and bi men. Flattering they love my vid however not exactly why I joined Fab!
Any other sites less populated by this group and better chance for straight men to find nsa sex?! "
I agree mate. Majority of the likes I get are from men. Same with winks. It's fucking depressing to be honest haha |
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"Oh dear. Life can be hard at times. So many crosses to bear.
Ps, what is grinder? I have a coffee one on the kitchen.
It’s an app where down lo straight guys send ‘hey’ messages to gay people. "
Have the down lo straight guys overrun grinder? |
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Despite my profile saying I'm not gay or even remotely curious, I get contacted by guys almost daily.
Just the same as couples profiles will get contacted by single guys.
It's just casting the net, maybe somebody will change their mind.
I just ignore and delete, when you're on a site like this it goes with the territory |
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"New video up, last 100 to view my profile all male! Fab is overrun with gay and bi men. Flattering they love my vid however not exactly why I joined Fab!
Any other sites less populated by this group and better chance for straight men to find nsa sex?! "
Unfortunately mate, this is just the way Fab is, and as others have previously said, women usually view in stalker mode, so you can’t tell they have looked at your ‘content’….
Any appreciation is always welcome, take the compliment, and join the campaign to get Fab admin to provide an ‘Actually straight’ classification for profiles |
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"Despite my profile saying I'm not gay or even remotely curious, I get contacted by guys almost daily.
Just the same as couples profiles will get contacted by single guys.
It's just casting the net, maybe somebody will change their mind.
I just ignore and delete, when you're on a site like this it goes with the territory "
You know of the filters to stop certain groups from messaging? |
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By (user no longer on site) 12 weeks ago
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"New video up, last 100 to view my profile all male! Fab is overrun with gay and bi men. Flattering they love my vid however not exactly why I joined Fab!
Any other sites less populated by this group and better chance for straight men to find nsa sex?! "
Change your settings so gay/bi guys can't message/wink you etc. Also switch off the "fab my pics/vids" button. |
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"Despite my profile saying I'm not gay or even remotely curious, I get contacted by guys almost daily.
Just the same as couples profiles will get contacted by single guys.
It's just casting the net, maybe somebody will change their mind.
I just ignore and delete, when you're on a site like this it goes with the territory
You know of the filters to stop certain groups from messaging? "
Actually no, but I do now |
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"Despite my profile saying I'm not gay or even remotely curious, I get contacted by guys almost daily.
Just the same as couples profiles will get contacted by single guys.
It's just casting the net, maybe somebody will change their mind.
I just ignore and delete, when you're on a site like this it goes with the territory
You know of the filters to stop certain groups from messaging?
Actually no, but I do now"
Ah! There’s my good deed for the day |
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"Oh dear. Life can be hard at times. So many crosses to bear.
Ps, what is grinder? I have a coffee one on the kitchen.
It’s an app where down lo straight guys send ‘hey’ messages to gay people.
Have the down lo straight guys overrun grinder? "
I don’t know about now. When I was ok there I was one bad experience away from growing a moustache and moving to Basingstoke under a false identity. |
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Arguably, if you are a heterosexual man, more gay men improves your chances statistically. They may well be keeping those bi-men busy for you, so there's less competition.
If I believed such simplistic parameters were determining factors, which I don't. Honestly, I think making it about competition, supply and demand etc  is quite unappealing. It's de-individualising. |
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So what would you do if you saw a woman FAB your pic/video? Would you be contacting her?
Surely they would message if they liked you enough to and not just appreciate a pic/video.
If your video involves you playing with your cock or it out then you are going to get bicurious and bi guys appreciating it.
Be grateful people enjoy your content and if they aren’t your thing then you just search for what is your thing - it’s not hard on here - people make it hard!
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"So what would you do if you saw a woman FAB your pic/video? Would you be contacting her?
No, liking a picture is just that, take it as a compliment but don't read anymore into it
Surely they would message if they liked you enough to and not just appreciate a pic/video.
If your video involves you playing with your cock or it out then you are going to get bicurious and bi guys appreciating it.
Be grateful people enjoy your content and if they aren’t your thing then you just search for what is your thing - it’s not hard on here - people make it hard!
K"
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"New video up, last 100 to view my profile all male! Fab is overrun with gay and bi men. Flattering they love my vid however not exactly why I joined Fab!
Any other sites less populated by this group and better chance for straight men to find nsa sex?! "
No in a nutshell Tinder is best bet for that. |
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"Don't understand the concerns tbh..
There's plenty of straight men on here....they message me every day  "
The majority of messages I get are from straight men. Messaging me for sex isn't a very straight thing to do... |
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By *oydykeWoman 12 weeks ago
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"New video up, last 100 to view my profile all male! Fab is overrun with gay and bi men. Flattering they love my vid however not exactly why I joined Fab!
Any other sites less populated by this group and better chance for straight men to find nsa sex?!
I agree mate. Majority of the likes I get are from men. Same with winks. It's fucking depressing to be honest haha"
Why is it depressing? |
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"New video up, last 100 to view my profile all male! Fab is overrun with gay and bi men. Flattering they love my vid however not exactly why I joined Fab!
Any other sites less populated by this group and better chance for straight men to find nsa sex?!
Lots of women only view in ninja mode OP.
Hope this little fact helps your day "
Probably not really interested in facts |
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"New video up, last 100 to view my profile all male! Fab is overrun with gay and bi men. Flattering they love my vid however not exactly why I joined Fab!
Any other sites less populated by this group and better chance for straight men to find nsa sex?!
I agree mate. Majority of the likes I get are from men. Same with winks. It's fucking depressing to be honest haha
Why is it depressing?"
Because I like women and they're not liking what I post, which in turn leads me to feeling ugky/unwanted. |
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"New video up, last 100 to view my profile all male! Fab is overrun with gay and bi men. Flattering they love my vid however not exactly why I joined Fab!
Any other sites less populated by this group and better chance for straight men to find nsa sex?!
I agree mate. Majority of the likes I get are from men. Same with winks. It's fucking depressing to be honest haha
Why is it depressing?
Because I like women and they're not liking what I post, which in turn leads me to feeling ugky/unwanted."
This is then reinforced by men liking my content. Like, so I'm only attractive to gay men... downtime help that I'm bald with a goatie. Stereotypical gay man look lol |
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"New video up, last 100 to view my profile all male! Fab is overrun with gay and bi men. Flattering they love my vid however not exactly why I joined Fab!
Any other sites less populated by this group and better chance for straight men to find nsa sex?!
I agree mate. Majority of the likes I get are from men. Same with winks. It's fucking depressing to be honest haha
Why is it depressing?
Because I like women and they're not liking what I post, which in turn leads me to feeling ugky/unwanted.
This is then reinforced by men liking my content. Like, so I'm only attractive to gay men... downtime help that I'm bald with a goatie. Stereotypical gay man look lol"
I don't get how that's reinforced, though. If men weren't liking your content, those likes wouldn't be getting replaced with likes by anyone else. So rather than some people liking your stuff, nobody would be. Would that really be better from your perspective? |
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By *oydykeWoman 12 weeks ago
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"New video up, last 100 to view my profile all male! Fab is overrun with gay and bi men. Flattering they love my vid however not exactly why I joined Fab!
Any other sites less populated by this group and better chance for straight men to find nsa sex?!
I agree mate. Majority of the likes I get are from men. Same with winks. It's fucking depressing to be honest haha
Why is it depressing?
Because I like women and they're not liking what I post, which in turn leads me to feeling ugky/unwanted.
This is then reinforced by men liking my content. Like, so I'm only attractive to gay men... downtime help that I'm bald with a goatie. Stereotypical gay man look lol"
I’m not understanding this. It’s not women’s responsibility to make sure you don’t feel ugly and unwanted. Would you rather nobody likes your pics? Why are you turning something positive into something negative? I’m a lesbian and men fab my pics more than women do and I don’t care. A likes a like |
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"New video up, last 100 to view my profile all male! Fab is overrun with gay and bi men. Flattering they love my vid however not exactly why I joined Fab!
Any other sites less populated by this group and better chance for straight men to find nsa sex?!
I agree mate. Majority of the likes I get are from men. Same with winks. It's fucking depressing to be honest haha
Why is it depressing?
Because I like women and they're not liking what I post, which in turn leads me to feeling ugky/unwanted.
This is then reinforced by men liking my content. Like, so I'm only attractive to gay men... downtime help that I'm bald with a goatie. Stereotypical gay man look lol
I’m not understanding this. It’s not women’s responsibility to make sure you don’t feel ugly and unwanted. Would you rather nobody likes your pics? Why are you turning something positive into something negative? I’m a lesbian and men fab my pics more than women do and I don’t care. A likes a like "
At what point did I say it was a woman's job to do this?
I appreciate you offering your insight, but I don't think we will see eye to eye, so I'll leave this here |
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By *glyBettyTV/TS 12 weeks ago
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"Awww man.... and he's taken his video down now, so I can't watch it anyway!!
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I believe it was just a wanking video with the camera held close to the penis. Of course not likely to attract gay men at all |
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"New video up, last 100 to view my profile all male! Fab is overrun with gay and bi men. Flattering they love my vid however not exactly why I joined Fab!
Any other sites less populated by this group and better chance for straight men to find nsa sex?!
I agree mate. Majority of the likes I get are from men. Same with winks. It's fucking depressing to be honest haha
Why is it depressing?
Because I like women and they're not liking what I post, which in turn leads me to feeling ugky/unwanted.
This is then reinforced by men liking my content. Like, so I'm only attractive to gay men... downtime help that I'm bald with a goatie. Stereotypical gay man look lol
I’m not understanding this. It’s not women’s responsibility to make sure you don’t feel ugly and unwanted. Would you rather nobody likes your pics? Why are you turning something positive into something negative? I’m a lesbian and men fab my pics more than women do and I don’t care. A likes a like "
If you can't grasp that im attracted to women and I've built my profile to engage amd attract women, but it hasnt and I'm only attracting men. Then I'm not sure how to clarify how this is demoralising |
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"New video up, last 100 to view my profile all male! Fab is overrun with gay and bi men. Flattering they love my vid however not exactly why I joined Fab!
Any other sites less populated by this group and better chance for straight men to find nsa sex?!
I agree mate. Majority of the likes I get are from men. Same with winks. It's fucking depressing to be honest haha
Why is it depressing?
Because I like women and they're not liking what I post, which in turn leads me to feeling ugky/unwanted."
Then perhaps change it up and see if it improves |
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By (user no longer on site) 12 weeks ago
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"New video up, last 100 to view my profile all male! Fab is overrun with gay and bi men. Flattering they love my vid however not exactly why I joined Fab!
Any other sites less populated by this group and better chance for straight men to find nsa sex?!
I agree mate. Majority of the likes I get are from men. Same with winks. It's fucking depressing to be honest haha
Why is it depressing?
Because I like women and they're not liking what I post, which in turn leads me to feeling ugky/unwanted."
Go dick, you won't regret it. |
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"I got banned from Grindr anyway. They didn’t like trans women
Did you try and use the toilet ?"
They didn’t like I look like a woman sexually and have boobs even though I have a dick that most men would eat their own mum to own
Can’t fucking win lol
To male to be allows to use ladies. To female to able to play with males places lol |
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"I got banned from Grindr anyway. They didn’t like trans women
Did you try and use the toilet ?"
I actually got thrown out of a club for using men’s toilets even though I told them I infact own a penis |
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"I got banned from Grindr anyway. They didn’t like trans women
Did you try and use the toilet ?
They didn’t like I look like a woman sexually and have boobs even though I have a dick that most men would eat their own mum to own
Can’t fucking win lol
To male to be allows to use ladies. To female to able to play with males places lol "
For fucks sake. I’ve got coffee all over me from snorting laughing reading that
“ even though I have a dick that most men would eat their own mum to own “
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"I got banned from Grindr anyway. They didn’t like trans women
Did you try and use the toilet ?
They didn’t like I look like a woman sexually and have boobs even though I have a dick that most men would eat their own mum to own
Can’t fucking win lol
To male to be allows to use ladies. To female to able to play with males places lol
For fucks sake. I’ve got coffee all over me from snorting laughing reading that
“ even though I have a dick that most men would eat their own mum to own “
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Hey man just your girl here spitting real facts |
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"I got banned from Grindr anyway. They didn’t like trans women
Did you try and use the toilet ?
They didn’t like I look like a woman sexually and have boobs even though I have a dick that most men would eat their own mum to own
Can’t fucking win lol
To male to be allows to use ladies. To female to able to play with males places lol
For fucks sake. I’ve got coffee all over me from snorting laughing reading that
“ even though I have a dick that most men would eat their own mum to own “
Hey man just your girl here spitting real facts "
Just glad I’m using my phone to browse instead of my laptop |
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oh so you post a public video and moan that its fabbed?
will your next post be one where you moan that no one fabbed your video??
i use filters, find it stops a lot of unwanted stuff!! or just dont post videos 
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By *elloWoman 12 weeks ago
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If only men are liking your photos, then maybe you're making content that only interests men. Do some research into what women like and want to see and then maybe women will start to like what you post. |
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"If only men are liking your photos, then maybe you're making content that only interests men. Do some research into what women like and want to see and then maybe women will start to like what you post."
What would you suggest? |
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By *elloWoman 12 weeks ago
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"If only men are liking your photos, then maybe you're making content that only interests men. Do some research into what women like and want to see and then maybe women will start to like what you post.
What would you suggest? "
I just googled 'what photos of men do women like ' and there's lots of good tips |
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Stop complaining! I was once the victim of revenge porn when an ex sent nude photos of me to my workmates and put them on a gay hookup site with my phone number.
I had weeks of txts and phonecalls didn’t know how many likes as I got as I didn't know what site they were on! |
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Def not turned into Grindr, as Fab has never been, for a time, owned by a giant Chinese conglomerate with a CEO that openly said he disagrees with gay marriage, doesn’t have a history of serious have data breaches, and it doesn’t absolutely pound you with mobile gaming ads every time you open it. |
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You have to accept it's a part of fab. You can easily stop men from messaging and just stop your photos from being fabbed.
We fab people's pictures mainly because we like the picture even if we don't want to sleep with them we can admire a nice picture.
We have straight people message us and fab our pics all the time when it's clear that's not what we are looking for. How bloody dare they .. |
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"If fab is over run by anything it’s single straight men, who form the majority of users and crate a hugely distorted ratio v straight women and couples.
If you’re gonna say the place is overrun by someone at least be statistically correct "
Totally agree
And the only messages I get are from bi or gay men lol
Yes I’ve got veris and it says men
But they were with the gf or wife lol
And they wanted to see the boyfriend or hubby watch me fuck them |
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"New video up, last 100 to view my profile all male! Fab is overrun with gay and bi men. Flattering they love my vid however not exactly why I joined Fab!
Any other sites less populated by this group and better chance for straight men to find nsa sex?!
Exactly this ^^^
Lots of women only view in ninja mode OP.
Hope this little fact helps your day "
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By *oydykeWoman 12 weeks ago
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"New video up, last 100 to view my profile all male! Fab is overrun with gay and bi men. Flattering they love my vid however not exactly why I joined Fab!
Any other sites less populated by this group and better chance for straight men to find nsa sex?!
I agree mate. Majority of the likes I get are from men. Same with winks. It's fucking depressing to be honest haha
Why is it depressing?
Because I like women and they're not liking what I post, which in turn leads me to feeling ugky/unwanted.
This is then reinforced by men liking my content. Like, so I'm only attractive to gay men... downtime help that I'm bald with a goatie. Stereotypical gay man look lol
I’m not understanding this. It’s not women’s responsibility to make sure you don’t feel ugly and unwanted. Would you rather nobody likes your pics? Why are you turning something positive into something negative? I’m a lesbian and men fab my pics more than women do and I don’t care. A likes a like
If you can't grasp that im attracted to women and I've built my profile to engage amd attract women, but it hasnt and I'm only attracting men. Then I'm not sure how to clarify how this is demoralising "
No, I really am struggling to understand; unless you’re fucking those gay men, what’s a problem if they fab your pics? It’s literally just a like. |
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By *oydykeWoman 12 weeks ago
Southampton (they/them) |
"New video up, last 100 to view my profile all male! Fab is overrun with gay and bi men. Flattering they love my vid however not exactly why I joined Fab!
Any other sites less populated by this group and better chance for straight men to find nsa sex?!
I agree mate. Majority of the likes I get are from men. Same with winks. It's fucking depressing to be honest haha
Why is it depressing?
Because I like women and they're not liking what I post, which in turn leads me to feeling ugky/unwanted.
This is then reinforced by men liking my content. Like, so I'm only attractive to gay men... downtime help that I'm bald with a goatie. Stereotypical gay man look lol
I’m not understanding this. It’s not women’s responsibility to make sure you don’t feel ugly and unwanted. Would you rather nobody likes your pics? Why are you turning something positive into something negative? I’m a lesbian and men fab my pics more than women do and I don’t care. A likes a like
If you can't grasp that im attracted to women and I've built my profile to engage amd attract women, but it hasnt and I'm only attracting men. Then I'm not sure how to clarify how this is demoralising "
Also, your name is literally Oscars Wild…do you not understand the connotations that’s giving off? |
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"New video up, last 100 to view my profile all male! Fab is overrun with gay and bi men. Flattering they love my vid however not exactly why I joined Fab!
Any other sites less populated by this group and better chance for straight men to find nsa sex?!
I agree mate. Majority of the likes I get are from men. Same with winks. It's fucking depressing to be honest haha
Why is it depressing?
Because I like women and they're not liking what I post, which in turn leads me to feeling ugky/unwanted."
Women don’t (or rarely) Fab pics and vids because they think it will act as a ‘come-on’ to the recipient, thereby leading to unwanted mail in already overflowing inboxes……the poor things |
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"...Ps, what is grinder? I have a coffee one on the kitchen.
I can also recommend 1zpress hand grinders, I mean as long as you're not a shop needing to do loads, it's a good manual exercise "
You should grind using burrs and not blades like in the cheap electric or bean to cup machines.
Grinding with burrs releases oils. A great coffee is all in the grind, get that right and any old beans and press will do.
That’s the only grinding off of here I’m doing
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Use your filters and block men op, there's lots of straight men, women and couples on fab too.
I used to get winks and messages from couples looking for that elusive ffm, but I blocked them, as that's not what I'm looking for.
Without knowing what was on the video, I can't say if it was because it was more appealing to men.Certain pics ie action or cock shots may attract more women than men though. |
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