A weekend of sex and socialising every 6-8 weeks with one of two lovers, and anything from 1-3 spontaneous nights each year of casual sex with people I've met that evening.

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By *herry delightWoman 24 weeks ago

Ilfracombe

I used to have it regularly but now only twice a week, unless a FB is staying then 3/4 times a day.

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By (user no longer on site) 24 weeks ago

"Once every 2-3 years

You rampant horn monster. I had you pegged for once a decade. "

The sad thing is I'm not even lying.

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By *ugar kittenWoman 24 weeks ago

home

As a single woman, not often enough

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By *eliWoman 24 weeks ago

Once every year.

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By *arialoueWoman 24 weeks ago

bradford

About once a month or months at a time without

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By *ittleJohn5Man 24 weeks ago

Wickham Market

Well the last time was 5 years ago

The joys of being married

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By *electableicecreamMan 24 weeks ago

The West

I'd say a rough average of twice a month since I joined fab. Usually with the same people.

My preference is for sex with people I know well over spending lots of time and energy finding new/random encounters.

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By *uffolkcouple-bi only OP Couple 24 weeks ago

West Suffolk

"Define sex? "

Sexual contact with another person

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By *uffolkcouple-bi only OP Couple 24 weeks ago

West Suffolk

"Well the last time was 5 years ago

The joys of being married "

But why does being married mean an end to sex?

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By *luehairedcumslutCouple 24 weeks ago

St Neots

As often as we see each other. Between 2-4 times a week

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By *arla SwingerWoman 24 weeks ago

Somewhere

50 days ago...

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By *viatrixWoman 24 weeks ago

Redhill

When I have a FWB, once a week or every other week.

When I don’t (like now) every six months or so.

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By *egoMan 24 weeks ago

Preston

Not being in a relationship it can vary wildly, but im getting fussier it seems.

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By *andynecklaceWoman 24 weeks ago

West Brom

4/5 times a week

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By *hyandcurious2021Man 24 weeks ago

exeter

Last time was about 8 weeks ago....one of the biggest downsides to being single is the lack of sex

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By *carlet SeductionWoman 24 weeks ago

Maidstone

I've managed about twice this year. I'm not a fan of being single.

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By *ony MannMan 24 weeks ago

New York City New York USA

4 times a day when I'm with one woman but average 4 times a month

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By *herry delightWoman 24 weeks ago

Ilfracombe

"4 times a day when I'm with one woman but average 4 times a month "

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By *urry BlokeMan 24 weeks ago

Stalybridge

Seldomly

Probably an odd thing for someone on a swinging site to say, but I'm not really all that much into sex

I'm not a very sexual being

I like it, but I don't NEED it

I mean, I enjoy it when it happens, but I don't set my clock by it and can go months without giving it a second thought

I think my life is full enough that I don't really miss it

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By *ivemealadybonerWoman 24 weeks ago

somewhere

Sometimes Rubix and I do it every day for a couple of weeks and then nothing for a couple of weeks (currently on nothing lol) x

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By *rgasmatron1970Man 24 weeks ago

Bromley

"Define sex?

Sexual contact with another person "

Full penetration or exploring each other's bodies?

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By (user no longer on site) 24 weeks ago

Quality v quantity here!

But we also like to play around with denial and not having sex (but seriously wanting to) can be just as thrilling as going for it frequently, if not better

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By (user no longer on site) 24 weeks ago

"Define sex?

Sexual contact with another person "

Sucking boobs?

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By (user no longer on site) 24 weeks ago

I’m a virgin.

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By (user no longer on site) 24 weeks ago

When ever i can be arsed and have a willing partner

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By *hrek101Man 24 weeks ago

Herts

Some people in this thread are just showing off.

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By (user no longer on site) 24 weeks ago

"Some people in this thread are just showing off. "

I know, I am.

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By *.R.MMan 24 weeks ago

Norfolk

I’ve forgotten what it is

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By *ittlebirdWoman 24 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

"How often do you have sex?

Myself and Mr have sex as often as possible, 2-3 times a week and I give him blow jobs on the other days. "

Not enough

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By (user no longer on site) 24 weeks ago

I say not enough

She says far too much

So we dont do it enough

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By *usanStoHelitWoman 24 weeks ago

liverpool

Being single not nearly often enough. My preference would be every day I'm not in work but the chances of that being a reality are pretty slim due to a number of factors

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By (user no longer on site) 24 weeks ago

Every night if not to tied or she will put me to sleep with a bj haha makes me feel selfish on them nights but she says don’t think that she likes it .

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By *orbidden eastMan 24 weeks ago

london dodging electric scooters

Every day if I could

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman 24 weeks ago

little house on the praire

Not had sex since 2020

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By *uffolkcouple-bi only OP Couple 24 weeks ago

West Suffolk

"Every night if not to tied or she will put me to sleep with a bj haha makes me feel selfish on them nights but she says don’t think that she likes it .

I enjoy giving Mr blow jobs

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By *ancyXXXWoman 24 weeks ago

Taibach

Daily most of the time until he's got himself some friction burns or my vag is a bit delicate...

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By *lynJMan 24 weeks ago

Morden

With or without someone else?

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By *hagTonightMan 24 weeks ago

From the land of haribos.

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By *hagTonightMan 24 weeks ago

From the land of haribos.

The last time was 7 years ago.

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By (user no longer on site) 24 weeks ago

Once a week

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By *onkeynutWoman 24 weeks ago

somewhere

Fucking never

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By *rcticFoxxxWoman 24 weeks ago

Hereabouts

What is sex? Never heard of it

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By *allandathleticMan 24 weeks ago

Asgard

It's all I do. Just have sex 24/7

*he says as he cuddles himself to sleep*

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By *ittlelad69Man 24 weeks ago

clay cross

Wow so many people on here not getting any, thought it was just me

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By *enelope2UWoman 24 weeks ago

Fife

I'd prefer daily but it's pretty much once a month now

How I miss the USA and the real lifestyle not this pishhh here

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By *aizyWoman 24 weeks ago

west midlands

"It's all I do. Just have sex 24/7

*he says as he cuddles himself to sleep*"

At least you're getting some in your dreams tho, silver linings!

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By *allandathleticMan 24 weeks ago

Asgard

"It's all I do. Just have sex 24/7

*he says as he cuddles himself to sleep*

At least you're getting some in your dreams tho, silver linings!

Daizy! Hope your well?

*he says still cuddling himself to sleep.*

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By *laytime_13Woman 24 weeks ago

Lincs

What, we’re not just here to talk about it

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By *hunky GentMan 24 weeks ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"What, we’re not just here to talk about it

I thought we were all sharing recipes.

Damn.

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By *elboy1978Man 24 weeks ago

Fellgate

I haven’t had sex since last year

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By (user no longer on site) 24 weeks ago

Every couple of days is about average

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By *owestoft ManMan 24 weeks ago

Lowestoft

Since we divorced I only get it if I'm lucky enough to find something at a pub. Never found anything on this site. But while married we had 3sums and more sums at least once a week except for the off week. But then Menopause kicked in and it actually happened more and more every week.

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By *ACOLCouple 24 weeks ago

limerick

Lover and I, if weekdays maybe 3 to 4 times a week and if weekends at least twice a day. We have been together for 14 years and married 12 years if that makes a difference.

Lina.

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By *ymbunnyfitCouple 24 weeks ago

East Yorkshire

I give hubby blowjob and oil handjob every morning and most nights or we have sex . On a weekend hubby spends time spoiling me xxx

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By (user no longer on site) 24 weeks ago

At the mo it seems to be about twice a year lol

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple 24 weeks ago

Southampton

"At the mo it seems to be about twice a year lol

About the same as me at the moment

... faf??

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By *ueerKinkyCoupleCouple 24 weeks ago

Cambridge (She/They And They/Them)

Every day at least once and often more than once. It’s a huge part of our lives and we’re kinky fuckers so there’s always something new to try!

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By *utlongjohnMan 23 weeks ago

"I give hubby blowjob and oil handjob every morning and most nights or we have sex . On a weekend hubby spends time spoiling me xxx"

Im jealous

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By *asha86Couple 23 weeks ago

walsall

We average about 3-4 times a week unless she's reading a good book and then that can be a day

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By *imply DeeWoman 23 weeks ago

Wherever

Few times a year.

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By *nnCeeWoman 23 weeks ago

East of Eden, West of Hell

"It's all I do. Just have sex 24/7

*he says as he cuddles himself to sleep*"

Awwww x

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By *nnCeeWoman 23 weeks ago

East of Eden, West of Hell

"What, we’re not just here to talk about it

That's the point of this site, is it not?!

Had 2 episodes this year, I think... it may have been 3.

But had some lovely kisses at the weekend, which will hopefully develop further...

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By *ssex_tomMan 23 weeks ago

Chelmsford

Tom asked this question to a friend who had a big grin on his face. Once a year he said.

So why are you grinning?

Tonight's the Night he said

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By *uriousscouserWoman 23 weeks ago

Wirral

Like a bath, I have it once a year whether I need it or not.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman 23 weeks ago

Reading

A couple of times a week unless I'm in my off phase when it's 0

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By *esthetic21Man 23 weeks ago

Birmingham/Bristol

Not often enough

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By *orphia2003Woman 23 weeks ago

Tonypandy.

When there is someone I want to fuck, who also wants to fuck me. So anything from several times a week, to once in 6 years.

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By *eneralKenobiMan 23 weeks ago

North Angus

It’s been 3 week but normally weekly

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By *ocktoplaywithMan 23 weeks ago

Derby

Last time was January 2023, so soon be eighteen months. Before that twice in three years.

Pretty much come to the conclusion it isn’t going to happen for me ever again.

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By *hornyx69Man 23 weeks ago

down south and up north

"I've managed about twice this year. I'm not a fan of being single. "

I’m not far from you I would have sex with you everyday

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By *uffolkcouple-bi only OP Couple 23 weeks ago

West Suffolk

We’re surprised by the number of single women that say they don’t get as much as they’d like.

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By *hoirCouple 23 weeks ago

Clacton/Bury St. Edmunds

Not as often as we'd like, the kids exhaust us far too much currently but we manage about twice a week on average

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By *reamers13Couple 23 weeks ago

Lancashire

At least once a day for sex and probably bjs 3-4 times a week x

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By *uxom redCouple 23 weeks ago

Shrewsbury

Not as often as we did ,menopausal and no libido .

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By (user no longer on site) 23 weeks ago

Well I haven’t so far in 2024 and can’t remember if/when in 2023 so that probably tells you all you need to know

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By *r VoyuerMan 23 weeks ago

Northampton

Once a month if I'm lucky. X

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By *r VoyuerMan 23 weeks ago

Northampton

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By *agondaMan 23 weeks ago

Witterings

I have sex every time I have sex.. the frequency isn’t the issue .. the quality is what matters (and the fun, the laughs, the smiles, the orgasms …) x

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By *ira2024Woman 23 weeks ago

"As a single woman, not often enough "

Yeah, I’m part of that club

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By *hunky GentMan 23 weeks ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"As a single woman, not often enough

Yeah, I’m part of that club

Can I join?