I personally have not developed feelings for anyone I have met on this site as I can not risk it, but I have had others have developed feelings towards me.
I have to tell them that it's not going to happen no matter what.
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"Has anyone ever met someone off this site for fun and the other person has gotten feeling afterwards?  "
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Yes, but it was the other way around.  I make no apologies for being a romantic old fool.
I'm open for it to happen again. I make no apologies for that either.  |
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I love feelings. They mean the relationships you build on here are real. I’m here to build connections not have meaningless fucks. That being said they are friendships, some of them really close. I love some of the people I’ve met. Am I in love with them? Absolutely Not  |
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By *bckentMan 5 weeks ago
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I did once... couple on here invited me over. After a few meets the wife started texting me pics and blwing kisses. She probably felt nothing but I could feel stuff happening i wasnt expecting. Her hubby saw some of the messages and called me up and said its over. That was a few years ago... few months after I blocked their profile because I noticed I would visit it from time to time when I really shouldnt. Think they moved back to India. |
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By (user no longer on site) 5 weeks ago
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It happens, we are all human. It's just more confusing when you love and care for someone you know will never be your person. Embrace them, communicate them and as long as you are both on the same page, feelings aren't a bad thing just a bad circumstance. |
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By *bckentMan 5 weeks ago
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Honestly I felt like shit for months after. Felt like a broke his trust and the fact that I couldnt look myself in the mirror and say I would have dont it different if given another chance made me think a little less of myself. We think we are one thing then life shows us another side of ourselves/myself I wasnt quite proud of. Now every asian lady reminds me of her and ... aw feelings rushing back. I better quit. |
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We met a single middle aged guy on a meet in a pub, he kept saying to my wife to leave me and live with him then saying only joking !
After the meet he kept hinting to her to leave me and meet him !
Then he txt to say he would meet her without me there ffs.
Oh and we could still be friends lol
Wanker !!!!!!! |
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By *ookie46Woman 5 weeks ago
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Not afraid of catching the feels. Rare I let someone get that close though. It can open you up to being vulnerable but vulnerability can be a really beautiful thing
But embrace them, nurture them, roll with them and have good honest open communication
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By *bckentMan 5 weeks ago
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"We met a single middle aged guy on a meet in a pub, he kept saying to my wife to leave me and live with him then saying only joking !
After the meet he kept hinting to her to leave me and meet him !
Then he txt to say he would meet her without me there ffs.
Oh and we could still be friends lol
Wanker !!!!!!!"
And this is where we differ. I never wanted her to leave him. I was quite happy to continue as usual and there was def never any talk of she leaving him.. |
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I love feelings. That new connection energy is great, and I embrace it when it comes. I've met people on here who I feel a deep friendship love for, both platonic and sexual. I can be really fond of someone and appreciate it for exactly what it is without needing to turn it into joint bank accounts and awkward family Christmases with the in-laws. Been there, done that, and I know I’m not going back. For me, it's about being present with those feelings and letting them develop naturally, without forcing them to fit into the usual relationship boxes. |
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