Like the above poster I will send one if it’s asked for in the profile but usually wait to see if there’s a spark before sending them.
I work in a job where discretion is needed so i don’t send them out willy nilly  |
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"Is a face pic needed in a first message?"
Some people ask for it.
I don't think it is but it can be disappointing if you have a long chat , decide you'd like to meet then find you're not attracted facially. Or as happened to us you send face pictures and they immediately delete their profile  |
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"Like the above poster I will send one if it’s asked for in the profile but usually wait to see if there’s a spark before sending them.
I work in a job where discretion is needed so i don’t send them out willy nilly "
But you do send the willy pics, don't you? |
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By *ustBoWoman 24 weeks ago
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I don't send mine unless we have chatted for a while I also don't ask for them. Usually I found it happens anyhow after a bit.
Someone sending me a face pic in a first message would not influence me to answer them if I don't like their profile and I certainly wouldn't be sending one back to them. |
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My biggest fear is sending a face pic in a first message and them sending one back and them not being my type. That would be funny. But also not because I sent the first message then I have to reject them. |
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"My biggest fear is sending a face pic in a first message and them sending one back and them not being my type. That would be funny. But also not because I sent the first message then I have to reject them. "
Why is that a fear? Just roll with it |
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"Guys do you send one with your first message ?
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No. I don't send a first message but they attach one with theirs."
This ^
However, Im not specific about a face picture until there is something more.
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"My biggest fear is sending a face pic in a first message and them sending one back and them not being my type. That would be funny. But also not because I sent the first message then I have to reject them. "
That was you who deleted your profile wasn't it! I knew it.  |
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"Is a face pic needed in a first message?"
Yes.
I give the recipient the earliest opportunity to decide whether they like what they see enough to respond.
Or, if they find me hideous, they can delete and hide me away in the block lists. |
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By (user no longer on site) 24 weeks ago
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I will only ask for one if I think we are going to meet and equally only send one if I think I am likely to meet them.
I recently asked for someone to send a recent face pic as the ones on their friends photos were blurry and out of date. They tried to give lots of excuses as to why they didn't know how to .... so I said thanks but no thanks. I'd shared mine. |
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"My biggest fear is sending a face pic in a first message and them sending one back and them not being my type. That would be funny. But also not because I sent the first message then I have to reject them.
Why is that a fear? Just roll with it "
Because I hate upsetting people. You wouldn’t believe the things I have done to avoid rejecting someone
Big fear. Second only to rats. |
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"My biggest fear is sending a face pic in a first message and them sending one back and them not being my type. That would be funny. But also not because I sent the first message then I have to reject them.
That was you who deleted your profile wasn't it! I knew it. "
Yep. Had to delete because I felt dishonest being in your box at my tender age  |
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Yes a face photo is great for a social meet and for friendship etc but I would still like to see more in a profile if it could potentially progress into a sexual meet, we wouldn't meet with people who didn't show their bodies in their profile as it could be a waste of time. |
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If I am responding to a profile because I like what the person has written and feel I meet their criteria, I will attach one.
If I am just responding because a status update has made me laugh or raises a question I wont. But if I then carry on a conversation with them I will then send a picture so they know who they are talking to. |
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"I do send them. And I do like to see them early on in a conversation because if there’s no attraction either way I would just rather say so and not waste anyone’s time  "
That’s what my thinking was |
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By *ascaIMan 24 weeks ago
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Sometimes maybe do. Sometimes maybe don’t. It’s not always the first message but tend to get it done pretty early in most conversations. Wouldn’t want to waste anyone’s time if I’m not their type. |
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"I will only ask for one if I think we are going to meet and equally only send one if I think I am likely to meet them.
I recently asked for someone to send a recent face pic as the ones on their friends photos were blurry and out of date. They tried to give lots of excuses as to why they didn't know how to .... so I said thanks but no thanks. I'd shared mine. "
That’s fair … seems odd not knowing how but I guess not everyone knows the site functions |
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No I don't and I don't require one. I don't care what a person looks like if they can't chat can't communicate and have unmatched interests to mine...waste of time seeing a face pic if they are a twat or dick and go type |
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"Yes a face photo is great for a social meet and for friendship etc but I would still like to see more in a profile if it could potentially progress into a sexual meet, we wouldn't meet with people who didn't show their bodies in their profile as it could be a waste of time."
That makes sense… see the whole picture as it were |
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"I will only ask for one if I think we are going to meet and equally only send one if I think I am likely to meet them.
I recently asked for someone to send a recent face pic as the ones on their friends photos were blurry and out of date. They tried to give lots of excuses as to why they didn't know how to .... so I said thanks but no thanks. I'd shared mine.
That’s fair … seems odd not knowing how but I guess not everyone knows the site functions "
I sent instructions so I suspect it was just an excuse as didn't want to send a picture. |
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"No I don't and I don't require one. I don't care what a person looks like if they can't chat can't communicate and have unmatched interests to mine...waste of time seeing a face pic if they are a twat or dick and go type "
Seems fair… personality discovery first  |
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"I will only ask for one if I think we are going to meet and equally only send one if I think I am likely to meet them.
I recently asked for someone to send a recent face pic as the ones on their friends photos were blurry and out of date. They tried to give lots of excuses as to why they didn't know how to .... so I said thanks but no thanks. I'd shared mine.
That’s fair … seems odd not knowing how but I guess not everyone knows the site functions
I sent instructions so I suspect it was just an excuse as didn't want to send a picture. "
That’s a shame |
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There are face pics on my profile, so I don't feel a need. I'm not really face oriented so I never ask for them, I mean, if I'm banging someone doggy I probably have my eyes shut anyway ...sorry, tmi, I couldn't resist |
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By *vSaraTV/TS 24 weeks ago
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I'm in the closet so if someone asked for a fave pic and has sent me one, I will usually oblige, if I am looking for a meet on the day I may put a full night out pic as my profile picture with my fave on it, but I always prefer to see others faces first.
I did once receive a face picture from a friend of mine but did not return a face pic as didn't particularly want that discussion... |
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No, not always. I don't send many messages though.
If I was sending an unsolicited 'hey, I like the cut of your jib' message, I probably would. I think my unspoken rule is the first person to message sends a face pic first! |
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When I was meeting, I had a requirement for a pic in first message, if they didn't then I'd expect one in the next message as there is no point talking to someone with the view to shagging if I can't see what they look like, I don't want to chat for ages, they send me a face pic and I'm not attracted to them, usually I have my face on show but if I didn't, I'd always send one as it works both ways x |
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"Like the above poster I will send one if it’s asked for in the profile but usually wait to see if there’s a spark before sending them.
I work in a job where discretion is needed so i don’t send them out willy nilly
But you do send the willy pics, don't you?"
As popular as dick pics are to women, I prefer to leave a little to the imagination and give them a pleasant surprise when it’s up close and personal  |
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"Like the above poster I will send one if it’s asked for in the profile but usually wait to see if there’s a spark before sending them.
I work in a job where discretion is needed so i don’t send them out willy nilly
But you do send the willy pics, don't you?
As popular as dick pics are to women, I prefer to leave a little to the imagination and give them a pleasant surprise when it’s up close and personal "
You’re a bloke on fab and you’ve never sent a dick pic 
Ladies snap this one up … he’s the mythical creature you’ve all been waiting for
(This comment was made with humour & jest and a snippet of tongue & cheek please don’t take it seriously and start hating me ) |
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"Like the above poster I will send one if it’s asked for in the profile but usually wait to see if there’s a spark before sending them.
I work in a job where discretion is needed so i don’t send them out willy nilly
But you do send the willy pics, don't you?
As popular as dick pics are to women, I prefer to leave a little to the imagination and give them a pleasant surprise when it’s up close and personal
You’re a bloke on fab and you’ve never sent a dick pic
Ladies snap this one up … he’s the mythical creature you’ve all been waiting for
(This comment was made with humour & jest and a snippet of tongue & cheek please don’t take it seriously and start hating me ) "
A male unicorn you might say |
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"I do send them. And I do like to see them early on in a conversation because if there’s no attraction either way I would just rather say so and not waste anyone’s time "
Well said little bird, I send a face pic with my first message every time now and if there not keen, just swipe left so to speak, no harm done. |
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"Like the above poster I will send one if it’s asked for in the profile but usually wait to see if there’s a spark before sending them.
I work in a job where discretion is needed so i don’t send them out willy nilly
But you do send the willy pics, don't you?
As popular as dick pics are to women, I prefer to leave a little to the imagination and give them a pleasant surprise when it’s up close and personal
You’re a bloke on fab and you’ve never sent a dick pic
Ladies snap this one up … he’s the mythical creature you’ve all been waiting for
(This comment was made with humour & jest and a snippet of tongue & cheek please don’t take it seriously and start hating me )
A male unicorn you might say "
Do you have a luscious mane of multicoloured hair ? |
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