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By *EAT..85 OP Woman 25 weeks ago
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Have you ever thought about who controls the tempo and mood of your fuckery?
I'd kinda assumed it was mainly him, but when he unquestionably took the control recently I realised that generally he dances to MY tune and MY needs. That was a slight revelation.
I think it definitely varies depending on who I am with as well though. |
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By (user no longer on site) 25 weeks ago
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This is one of the most fun parts of sex with different people. The dance one does to sort out who is leading vs. following, and the inevitable switching of who leads and follows throughout. |
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"The dance one does to sort out who is leading vs. following, and the inevitable switching of who leads and follows throughout. "
The switching is so much fun. And then there are those rare moments where it’s perfectly equal and you kind of lose yourselves in each other. Like being completely lost in music on a dancefloor, you stop thinking and just get into that flow state … |
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By (user no longer on site) 25 weeks ago
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And then there are those rare moments where it’s perfectly equal and you kind of lose yourselves in each other. Like being completely lost in music on a dancefloor, you stop thinking and just get into that flow state …"
Oh yes, getting lost in each other…  |
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When atop of me, I love the fact that the lady has full control of the tempo in addition to the depth and angle of penetration in accordance with whatever gives her the most pleasurable sensation/s.
On top I generally control these things although I do absolutely love it when she grabs my arse and pulls me into her in such a way as to let me know exactly how she wants it.
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By (user no longer on site) 25 weeks ago
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"If anybody says they do it to the beat of the music.... "
Yes the tears of rage and the tears of anger flowed to the river bank
And at the local disco dancehall they were cranking up the skank
And the pulse of the noise went through the night into the washed-up back of my feet
And I smelled the fear and I tasted blood and the soundtrack was the Beat
As we moved in the Beat |
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By (user no longer on site) 25 weeks ago
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"It usually depends what play list I have on at the time. Sometimes I can get so lost in the moment that the music controls the tempo."
Ah the Old Leonard Cohen ballads... |
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The beautiful synchronised, sensual ebb and flow of two bodies unified in passion.
Before one is pinned down and lustfully ravaged. 
It can go either way as long as I am left elated with shuddering aftershocks.
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Um, it's a pretty mutual thing. I think?
My hips and legs tend to get overexcited and do their own thing anyway.
I think if they're wanting slow and sensual then my body decides that that is not the tempo.
But I'm pretty sure the intensity is generally shared. Usually  |
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By *irthandgirthMan 25 weeks ago
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They joy is in finding each others tempo.. and then play around. Then finding it again at the right moments.
Chatting with female friends, I am given to understand that one of the worst kind of male lovers is the metronome.. one pace, regardless of partner. |
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