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By *ea monkey OP Man 30 weeks ago
Manchester (he/him) |
Picture the scene; you’re chatting with someone, getting close to meeting and arranging plans. Things are heating up and you’re building anticipation with some spicy content and pictures.
Would it bother you if the things they’re sending you are fab pictures, taken from their back catalogue or if they’re old photos? Do you prefer it if the things they send you are for your eyes only or taken with you in mind? |
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I don't mind old photos, I mean most of mine are old (older than my account) however when it comes to face pics...I want recent ones, not one from 2014, I know I've changed alot since then!
I am also not naïve to think that the "for your eyes only, new pic" probably isn't being peddled around other women said person might be lining up to meet too (unless they wrote lady boner on their dick of course!) |
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"I don't mind old photos, I mean most of mine are old (older than my account) however when it comes to face pics...I want recent ones, not one from 2014, I know I've changed alot since then!
I am also not naïve to think that the "for your eyes only, new pic" probably isn't being peddled around other women said person might be lining up to meet too (unless they wrote lady boner on their dick of course!)"
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By *eliWoman 30 weeks ago
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I like seeing archive photos, enjoy seeing whatever someone feels comfortable with sharing with me. If
But... I'm not a swinger. I'd like at least some of those photos and videos to be taken just for me. It doesn't have to be adult content, someone's face day to day? More than happy with that.
If it's more risqué material to accompany written smut? I want it just for me. I don't find it arousing seeing something that's for any vagina they're talking to.
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I think once you’ve established a connection and it’s going towards meeting then maybe specific pics are sent but we have hundreds and hundreds of pics - a lot not aired on here at all.
Requests can be made and if new pics are taken they’ll tend to be shown to a select few first.
We also like to do little pic challenges so then everyone gets new pics sent and received.
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I don’t mind the catalog. I find it such a turn off being asked to take and send pictures. I’m not a performing monkey but that’s how it can feel. I wouldn’t want to make someone feel like that. If im involved with someone or if sex is very much on the cards I’ll send a picture randomly when I know they’re doing something mundane like food shopping etc just to spice up their day. I like it when I get that back. I can’t always be camera ready during those moments so rely on the catalog!  |
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By (user no longer on site) 30 weeks ago
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I'm not really fussed as it's effort to keep taking photos for just me that they may not use again, even though it is appreciated. Although to be honest, the photo swapping doesn't really do it for me as I'd much rather just chat to them normally with the odd bit of flirting until we actually meet as that's generally what gets me in the mood |
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Different strokes for different folks. And different times. And places.
Nobody is camera-ready all the time. Not every conversation that turns steamy happens when the both of you have the necessary privacy, location, etc.
But sometimes only the right here, and right now, and just for you, will do.
So, erm, there’s a place for both. Just be aware, I guess. |
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By *hoirCouple 30 weeks ago
Clacton/Bury St. Edmunds |
"Picture the scene; you’re chatting with someone, getting close to meeting and arranging plans. Things are heating up and you’re building anticipation with some spicy content and pictures.
Would it bother you if the things they’re sending you are fab pictures, taken from their back catalogue or if they’re old photos? Do you prefer it if the things they send you are for your eyes only or taken with you in mind? "
Depends how old the photos are, a few months is fine but 5 years? That's a no go and no I don't care if they're previously before seen, it's not an exclusive arrangement.
If we were going for exclusivity then a few pics for myself would be nice but not absolutely necessary and that would be the only way they would have exclusive pics of me. I have sold pics in the past but we aren't talking about that side
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By (user no longer on site) 30 weeks ago
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I got chatting to a "woman" on here. Swapped numbers, chatted on WhatsApp, swapped some photos. I started to get suspicious as the face pictures were all the same, only with different filters or had text added. She sent a few photos of her "working from home" in nice sheer stockings/ hold-ups etc. I got more suspicious. Then she never showed to a social meeting (I wasn't surprised!) Gave me lots of excuses about not wanting to be "used and dumped", even after I repeatedly stated it was a social. I did a Reverse Google on some of the pictures she sent and they were from a Nylon Lovers Instagram page. There was also one he/she had screenshotted from another user on fab.
My point being- I'd just be happy to chat with a genuine person, not a catfish!
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As other have said it's good to have the back up pics for those times when you receive an unexpected surprise. I like to take pictures for a person, which isn't always smut, it might just be to say hello or sharenhow my days going etc.
It takes me thousands of photos before I'm happy with it so if I like it, I might add it to fab later on. Like a little secret between myself and the receiver. But that might not be for everyone  |
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By (user no longer on site) 30 weeks ago
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No more dreaming about tomorrow
Forget the loneliness and the sorrow
I've got to say
It's all because of you
Thanks for that op.
Just starting conversation, I'm not fussed what pictures they send.
Ahead of a planned meet, oh no, don't be sending me some pic you took months ago and for someone else.
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By *ea monkey OP Man 30 weeks ago
Manchester (he/him) |
"No more dreaming about tomorrow
Forget the loneliness and the sorrow
I've got to say
It's all because of you
Thanks for that op.
Just starting conversation, I'm not fussed what pictures they send.
Ahead of a planned meet, oh no, don't be sending me some pic you took months ago and for someone else.
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I think that’s kind of my feeling. Personal photos taken in the moment are far sexier that ones taken for mass consumption |
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By *ea monkey OP Man 30 weeks ago
Manchester (he/him) |
"As other have said it's good to have the back up pics for those times when you receive an unexpected surprise. I like to take pictures for a person, which isn't always smut, it might just be to say hello or sharenhow my days going etc.
It takes me thousands of photos before I'm happy with it so if I like it, I might add it to fab later on. Like a little secret between myself and the receiver. But that might not be for everyone "
I think that’s very sexy to be honest. I like it when a personal picture is used like that |
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It's a mixture. I like to send new ones taken just for them. But if I like it a lot then it might appear on fab later 
There's also some taken that will never appear on fab because it's either too spicy or has my face. They get to keep those.
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"Picture the scene; you’re chatting with someone, getting close to meeting and arranging plans. Things are heating up and you’re building anticipation with some spicy content and pictures.
Would it bother you if the things they’re sending you are fab pictures, taken from their back catalogue or if they’re old photos? Do you prefer it if the things they send you are for your eyes only or taken with you in mind? "
If it was dating and not fab then we would want to see something current. |
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"It's a mixture. I like to send new ones taken just for them. But if I like it a lot then it might appear on fab later
There's also some taken that will never appear on fab because it's either too spicy or has my face. They get to keep those.
J"
I didn't answer the other bit. It would be hypocritical of me to mind if I was sent something older when I occasionally do it myself. But something taken just for me is a huge turn on.
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I'm happy to accept Fab-curated images from their recent archive. I know how it feels to be somewhat reserved or self-conscious about taking photographs.
As long as they're not heritage photographs from a bygone era then it's all good. |
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I don't send pics like that to someone I haven't actually met yet, and it's rare I do even if seeing someone. I don't like the thought of them possibly being shared with others.
There are enough pics on here for them to look at. And they're usually pretty recent. |
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By *edeWoman 30 weeks ago
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To be honest it wouldn't bother me as long as the conversation is decent. I'd be having a social first anyway so would be able to gauge if the photos they send are way off.
I'm not a particular lover of my own photos so to take new ones I have to be in the right mindset and understand if others are the same |
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By *edeWoman 30 weeks ago
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"I don't send pics like that to someone I haven't actually met yet, and it's rare I do even if seeing someone. I don't like the thought of them possibly being shared with others.
There are enough pics on here for them to look at. And they're usually pretty recent."
Also this ^^ |
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