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"What percentage of men reject women who approach them & why?"
No idea on the percentage but I am sure it happens frequently. Why wouldn't it?
As to the why - I would assume that it is the same reason women reject men, incompatibility, no attraction etc
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By *elloWoman 32 weeks ago
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"What percentage of men reject women who approach them & why?"
Off fab I stopped approaching men long, long, long ago because I got rejected a lot.
Probably because I was a d*unken mess, aggressively throwing myself at them  .
On here I have sent messages to men complimenting them on their profile and photos and you can tell from their responses that even through polite they're not actually interested.
Are you maybe projecting the way you are onto all men ?  |
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"What percentage of men reject women who approach them & why?
Off fab I stopped approaching men long, long, long ago because I got rejected a lot.
Probably because I was a d*unken mess, aggressively throwing myself at them .
On here I have sent messages to men complimenting them on their profile and photos and you can tell from their responses that even through polite they're not actually interested.
Are you maybe projecting the way you are onto all men ? "
Good move, slurring your words and tripping over the furniture isn’t so obvious online  |
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By (user no longer on site) 32 weeks ago
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I’ve never rejected a woman on fab. If I did, it would be because I think they’re not a nice person or their views on certain things don’t align with my own. |
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"What percentage of men reject women who approach them & why?
I'm going to be bold and say that every straight man has rejected a woman at some point in life. So, 100%.
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And rejected is the wrong word. Not had mutual attraction more to the point. |
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"I got rejected by a woman once. Ok I was trying to buy an ice cream (a 99 no flake if you’re at all interested) but she worked in a dry cleaners. Still stung though. I’m sensitive like that. "
That was uncalled for. What a bitch. |
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"I got rejected by a woman once. Ok I was trying to buy an ice cream (a 99 no flake if you’re at all interested) but she worked in a dry cleaners. Still stung though. I’m sensitive like that. "
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"I got rejected by a woman once. Ok I was trying to buy an ice cream (a 99 no flake if you’re at all interested) but she worked in a dry cleaners. Still stung though. I’m sensitive like that. "
No bits and juice either?  |
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I cannot speak for others or state percentages but I usually reject women who message me with blag one liners or send photos of their inglorious quims. If their opening gambit is riddled with lazy text speak then that also puts me off. |
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I've said no much more than I've said yes on fab.
I've even passed on women in kiss fuck pass threads because I didn't find them attractive even when others obviously do.
I'd go so far as saying that any man on fab who hasn't needs a good helping of self respect. |
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By *eliWoman 32 weeks ago
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Rejected is such a harsh term isn't it? The person "rejecting" doesn't know you, isn't rejecting who you are as a person.
They're turning you down because they don't think you're compatible for whatever reason.
Men do that, why wouldn't they? They're not walking cocks with a semen filled brain. |
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The last few I politely turned down:
Lost the mojo with the conversation. (Common)
Lost interest after fucking about for ages, being sent clever (not so clever) glimpses of pictures of her expecting to piece all the bits together in my brain.
Became a little bit nutty and wanted a bit of exclusivity.
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"I got rejected by a woman once. Ok I was trying to buy an ice cream (a 99 no flake if you’re at all interested) but she worked in a dry cleaners. Still stung though. I’m sensitive like that.
No bits and juice either? "
I did go back the following day, passive aggressively, eating an ice cream (lemon sorbet lolly if you’re at all interested). Hardest thing I’ve ever done. Eating an ice cream passively aggressively. But I needed dry cleaning done.
So I hope the OP doesn’t feel despondent.
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By (user no longer on site) 32 weeks ago
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Why do you think most men are passed over?
In life, people may be passed over just as people are passed over on Fab.
Attraction has to be two way for people to have an interest.
You simply can’t be for everyone and everyone isn’t for you. Unless you approach this as any hole is a good hole so long as it’s a hole. |
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Depends on the man. If you just fancy someone to jizz in then you probably aren’t hoying out too many rejection letters, if you are looking for something in particular then you probably say no to the majority. |
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By *eliWoman 32 weeks ago
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"Men do that, why wouldn't they? They're not walking cocks with a semen filled brain.
I mean, you say that. But …  "
No Rosie, you're not a walking cock, don't say that about yourself. You're just a mantart. |
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I can see where you're coming from though OP.
I recently had a message from someone who's profile was very much aimed towards women of a much slimmer body type than mine. When I mentioned it his response was "well that doesn't matter, it's just one night of fun isn't it?" I would have much preferred him to say actually yes, you are too big for me  |
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By (user no longer on site) 32 weeks ago
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It hasn't happened often, but I have rejected women and couples based off the effort they've put into their messages. It was like banging my head against wall and I couldn't be arsed carrying a conversation to try and impress them. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 32 weeks ago
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"Why do you think most men are passed over?
In life, people may be passed over just as people are passed over on Fab.
Attraction has to be two way for people to have an interest.
The context in which I framed my question is from the view of the average single male on this site & the fact women have far more choices.
You simply can’t be for everyone and everyone isn’t for you. Unless you approach this as any hole is a good hole so long as it’s a hole. "
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By (user no longer on site) OP 32 weeks ago
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"Why do you think most men are passed over?
In life, people may be passed over just as people are passed over on Fab.
Attraction has to be two way for people to have an interest.
You simply can’t be for everyone and everyone isn’t for you. Unless you approach this as any hole is a good hole so long as it’s a hole. "
The context in which I framed my question is from the view of the average single male on this site & the fact women have far more choices. |
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Both men and women have equal agency in saying no.
The thing that these questions seem to leave out is that not having sex is also an option.
No sex is often better than bad or sex with a person who won't be what you need. And I don't think men are so driven by instincts or libido that they feel differently. |
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"Why do you think most men are passed over?
In life, people may be passed over just as people are passed over on Fab.
Attraction has to be two way for people to have an interest.
You simply can’t be for everyone and everyone isn’t for you. Unless you approach this as any hole is a good hole so long as it’s a hole.
The context in which I framed my question is from the view of the average single male on this site & the fact women have far more choices."
What's your hypothesis regarding the phenomena you have observed? |
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By (user no longer on site) 32 weeks ago
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"Why do you think most men are passed over?
In life, people may be passed over just as people are passed over on Fab.
Attraction has to be two way for people to have an interest.
You simply can’t be for everyone and everyone isn’t for you. Unless you approach this as any hole is a good hole so long as it’s a hole.
The context in which I framed my question is from the view of the average single male on this site & the fact women have far more choices."
I understood that.
I added real life to make a comparison. Average people in real life, just as on here, get passed by in equal measures.
Some will find the average guy here attractive. Some won’t. This isn’t exclusive to Fab. It happens in every day life too. |
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"What percentage of men reject women who approach them & why?"
'IF' most men are passed over then few men are not passed over. This means that 100% of the men who are not passed over are not passed over and 100% of the men who are passed over are passed over. 100% + 100% = 200% which means that there were twice as many men as we first thought there were. If there are twice as many men as we first thought then this is going to make the number of men who reject women very small so the answer is 1 and if you want that as a percentage just divide it by 100 which makes the true answer 0.001% |
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"Why do you think most men are passed over?
In life, people may be passed over just as people are passed over on Fab.
Attraction has to be two way for people to have an interest.
You simply can’t be for everyone and everyone isn’t for you. Unless you approach this as any hole is a good hole so long as it’s a hole.
The context in which I framed my question is from the view of the average single male on this site & the fact women have far more choices.
I understood that.
I added real life to make a comparison. Average people in real life, just as on here, get passed by in equal measures.
Some will find the average guy here attractive. Some won’t. This isn’t exclusive to Fab. It happens in every day life too. "
It’s a sex site how dare you not want to fuck every man who drops into your inbox. The cheek of it! |
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"What percentage of men reject women who approach them & why?"
Like most men I won't meet just anyone as I need to be attracted to them.
If I'm not attracted then I'm comfortable telling them if they tell me they find me attractive and it can be for many reasons but it comes down to attraction. |
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"What percentage of men reject women who approach them & why?
Like most men I won't meet just anyone as I need to be attracted to them.
If I'm not attracted then I'm comfortable telling them if they tell me they find me attractive and it can be for many reasons but it comes down to attraction. "
You did way worse till you found your fwb though? |
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"What percentage of men reject women who approach them & why?
Like most men I won't meet just anyone as I need to be attracted to them.
If I'm not attracted then I'm comfortable telling them if they tell me they find me attractive and it can be for many reasons but it comes down to attraction.
You did way worse till you found your fwb though? "
I've met lots of incredible ladies before and since, I've turned down quite a few as well #fablife |
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By *ags73Man 32 weeks ago
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"What percentage of men reject women who approach them & why?"
Spideysenses. It’s some shit like that when I do it, a vibe, a feeling, a sense of something.
Can’t quite explain it. It’s maybe not based on looks or dress or big boobies.
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"Why do you think most men are passed over?
In life, people may be passed over just as people are passed over on Fab.
Attraction has to be two way for people to have an interest.
You simply can’t be for everyone and everyone isn’t for you. Unless you approach this as any hole is a good hole so long as it’s a hole.
The context in which I framed my question is from the view of the average single male on this site & the fact women have far more choices."
So as a single woman on here I get a few messages through my filters. But most I either don't fancy or don't have face pics, so are "rejected" straight away.
Maybe one a day piques my interest. But most of them disappear within a day or so, as they find something better.
So technically, I MAY have more to choose from, as you say. But do they count if they're not for me? Or should I just choose one of them anyway? Genuinely curious  |
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"What percentage of men reject women who approach them & why?
Off fab I stopped approaching men long, long, long ago because I got rejected a lot.
Probably because I was a d*unken mess, aggressively throwing myself at them .
On here I have sent messages to men complimenting them on their profile and photos and you can tell from their responses that even through polite they're not actually interested.
Are you maybe projecting the way you are onto all men ? "
I often get messages complimenting a photo or forum post and I just normally reply thank-you because you never know if it’s just a genuine compliment or a bit of a flirt. |
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By *TG3Man 32 weeks ago
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"What percentage of men reject women who approach them & why?
'IF' most men are passed over then few men are not passed over. This means that 100% of the men who are not passed over are not passed over and 100% of the men who are passed over are passed over. 100% + 100% = 200% which means that there were twice as many men as we first thought there were. If there are twice as many men as we first thought then this is going to make the number of men who reject women very small so the answer is 1 and if you want that as a percentage just divide it by 100 which makes the true answer 0.001% "
Isn't the passover a religious festival maybe he had the faith |
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Had my first meet request from a woman yesterday morning, one half of a female couple. I said no for very hairy reasons, I have something on the horizon with a friend and she doesn't like me smooth.
The woman asked can't I stay dressed/covered I said I can't do it hairy so that's a 100% record for saying no.
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"Wonder what the percentage is of men who have no morals, no dignity who will literally shag anything because it has a vagina?
The mr "
Fab stats report that 3.14% of men will fuck any pie put in front of them. |
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Due to rates on Incels , loneliness and women generally going for the same men / men of a certain standard being rightfully or wrongly particular
Results in frustration to the point most men will shag anything to get some form of contact or attention |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 32 weeks ago
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"I rejected a woman recently in the nicest possible way and she told me to fuck off. Now tell is that not a toxic person for not getting their way?"
Do you get a lot of female attention for you to have that luxury? |
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"I rejected a woman recently in the nicest possible way and she told me to fuck off. Now tell is that not a toxic person for not getting their way?
Do you get a lot of female attention for you to have that luxury?"
You make it sound like female attention is oxygen.
You do know you won't die if you won't have sex, right? (Yes, I know you'd prefer to be having sex, wouldn't we all. But if you get one bad offer a decade, you still have the "luxury" of saying no) |
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"I rejected a woman recently in the nicest possible way and she told me to fuck off. Now tell is that not a toxic person for not getting their way?
Do you get a lot of female attention for you to have that luxury?"
So, you have to accept every offer you get?...
Starting to think "men will fuck anything" thread holds water...
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"I rejected a woman recently in the nicest possible way and she told me to fuck off. Now tell is that not a toxic person for not getting their way?
Do you get a lot of female attention for you to have that luxury?"
It’s not about scarcity or proliferation that causes people to reject others. It’s based upon attraction.
The fact that you don’t understand this points to a level of desperation on your part where you would meet anyone if they offered, irrespective of your attraction |
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By *bi HaiveMan 32 weeks ago
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"I rejected a woman recently in the nicest possible way and she told me to fuck off. Now tell is that not a toxic person for not getting their way?
Do you get a lot of female attention for you to have that luxury?"
Yes that's a toxic person.
But that's not gender specific is it?
And it doesn't matter the level of attention someone gets. No means no. Anyone and everyone is equally allowed to say those two letters for whatever reason they choose. |
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"What percentage of men reject women who approach them & why?"
If you’re including time wasters and those who are fantasists I’d say it’s close to 75%…
There are those that would fuck a damp sock if it had tits however |
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By (user no longer on site) 32 weeks ago
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"I rejected a woman recently in the nicest possible way and she told me to fuck off. Now tell is that not a toxic person for not getting their way?
Do you get a lot of female attention for you to have that luxury?"
Its a weird one for me, I get attention from women I dont normally go for or find attractive but if it is someone I like they come with a catch |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 32 weeks ago
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"I rejected a woman recently in the nicest possible way and she told me to fuck off. Now tell is that not a toxic person for not getting their way?
Do you get a lot of female attention for you to have that luxury? Its a weird one for me, I get attention from women I dont normally go for or find attractive but if it is someone I like they come with a catch"
You are a striking looking man with your 6 pack etc….how often are you approached by women? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 32 weeks ago
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"I only ever reject anyone who doesn’t take my fancy, in a “my” preference way
Not that I’m inundated in any way shape or form  "
My point is I’m trying see if women rejecting men is the same or higher than men rejecting women or do women expect the man to make the first approach? |
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"I rejected a woman recently in the nicest possible way and she told me to fuck off. Now tell is that not a toxic person for not getting their way?
Do you get a lot of female attention for you to have that luxury?"
May I just point out saying no should never been seen as a “luxury”
No matter your sex,gender, orientation, religion, marital status etc…. For whatever reason (and no reason is a reason) saying no to anyone at any time is a “right”
Thank you |
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I (mr) have had to reject the advances of women on here and at socials I've attended with my wife for various reasons.
Considering there is probably alot more male members of fab compared to others then the percentage of thanks but no thanks is bound to be higher |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 32 weeks ago
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"I (mr) have had to reject the advances of women on here and at socials I've attended with my wife for various reasons.
Considering there is probably alot more male members of fab compared to others then the percentage of thanks but no thanks is bound to be higher "
That’s my point:I’m trying to see if it is 50/50 or if women reject more men then the other way round? |
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"I (mr) have had to reject the advances of women on here and at socials I've attended with my wife for various reasons.
Considering there is probably alot more male members of fab compared to others then the percentage of thanks but no thanks is bound to be higher
That’s my point:I’m trying to see if it is 50/50 or if women reject more men then the other way round?"
What difference does that make to anything?
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By (user no longer on site) OP 32 weeks ago
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"I rejected a woman recently in the nicest possible way and she told me to fuck off. Now tell is that not a toxic person for not getting their way?
Do you get a lot of female attention for you to have that luxury?
May I just point out saying no should never been seen as a “luxury”
No matter your sex,gender, orientation, religion, marital status etc…. For whatever reason (and no reason is a reason) saying no to anyone at any time is a “right”
Thank you "
That is not what I said or asked. |
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