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By (user no longer on site) 31 weeks ago
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Well that depends on what’s it intalls and who with
For instance with a woman who only wants me to top it can spontaneous if they like
If it’s a guy or woman or couple who want me to bottom then it’s always got to be Planned
So there isn’t any accident or anything like that |
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My wife would always plan sex, before the days of mobile phones she would ring me from her office telling me she will be home from work early and she wanted sex before the children came home . Occasionally she would ring me up wanted me to go to her office She knew there would be nobody in the office that day so she wore a skirt and blouse rather than trousers and she wanted to fulfil the fantasy of having sex in the boardroom , but I think we tried every room in the building over the years
Around the house, she was usually a jeans and jumpers girl, but I knew that if she was wearing a dress it was a sign and she wanted sex and to make sure I hadn’t misunderstood a quick feel of her bum that she was not wearing knickers insured, I was on the right track
Her planning sex made life so much easier |
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By *eliWoman 31 weeks ago
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Spontaneous planning.
Love a good list, a thought out itinerary but with space for more spontaneity... you know the whole, "after, let's see where the night takes us" attitude? Yep, that's me. |
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"I smother myself in lube and get on the northern line in rush hour. Some things need initiative so if your at the back you can slide through to the front?  "
Like a slinky, slippery cat. Covered in liquid silk. |
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"Spontaneous planning.
Love a good list, a thought out itinerary but with space for more spontaneity... you know the whole, "after, let's see where the night takes us" attitude? Yep, that's me. "
This is us for sure!
Just have to plan a date in advance as we need to arrange childcare.
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By (user no longer on site) 31 weeks ago
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My busy life means pla ning is ideal but my preference is for spontaneous
So I pla stuff and the spontaneously can't be arsed to do it and want to do something else  |
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A cop-out "bit of both" answer from me too. I like to plan, it makes me happy to have a plan, but can be spontaneous on occasion. Only if I'm the one being spontaneous, though. Other people's spontaneity can piss off. |
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Another both….
I love the planning & build up on projects and holidays with others, researching and visualising. I’m big believer in creating things twice , first in the mind then in reality.
But I also like totally unexpected adventures alone - I’m on a flight to Tbilisi in a few hours and haven’t even booked a hotel! I’m going to land at 4:45am, head to the old town for sunrise and breakfast and just make it up until Monday night. |
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I wouldn't say I am a planner, I mean I research places and say "I'd like to do that" but that's as far as it goes.
Doughnut said I was a travel princess the other day, that I just turn up with no clue on anything, he carries everything and passes me what ever I need at the time (passport etc).
Which is weird give my 'tism, you would think I would plan everything to the last second and know exactly where I am going but I lost count the amount of times when my kids were small and we would call our days out "magical mystery tours" because I would insist I knew where I was going but in actual fact I never wanted to admit I didn't (before Tom Tom's were a thing) and alot of the time I'd just keep driving because I never wanted to go home, the amount of times we went to the new forest and ended up in Dorset for tea was ridiculous lol |
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By *TG3Man 31 weeks ago
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"I smother myself in lube and get on the northern line in rush hour. Some things need initiative so if your at the back you can slide through to the front?
Like a slinky, slippery cat. Covered in liquid silk. "
paint? |
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