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I have but I didn't meet with them.
Truth came out over messaging on Kik. Then they sent a real picture of themselves. Said they do it a lot and it doesn't matter they wouldn't get meets as they got to have a w&!k about it anyway. |
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I’d rather be upfront about my looks and my real age. I don’t see any point in lying to folk with old photos and a false age. It’s not fair on whoever you’re meeting.
Probably explains why no-ones been interested in meeting me yet though
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By (user no longer on site) 37 weeks ago
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The very first meet I arranged , spoke to the guy for a bit even had a webchat with camera with him. He turned up for the meet , turned out he got his son to chat with me and he was using the sons pics x |
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"Im a reverse cat fish I look better in the flesh apparently"
I worry about that about myself - people see a photo and fill the rest with imagination. I try to make it very clear that yes I am that big, it’s not body dysmorphia lol |
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By (user no longer on site) 37 weeks ago
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"The very first meet I arranged , spoke to the guy for a bit even had a webchat with camera with him. He turned up for the meet , turned out he got his son to chat with me and he was using the sons pics x"
Wow, all the effort to do this. He cannot be right of mind. Or his son. Sad. |
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By *irthandgirthMan 37 weeks ago
Camberley occasionally doncaster |
My top 3.
Female profile on here who admitted to being a gay man when they knew I had been drinking and chanced that I might not be 100% straight.
Lady on here who never mentioned she was a wheelchair user with many health issues. Fastest cup of tea ever.
Lady on a dating site where her profile pics were 10 years and 40kg out of date.
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By *LiamMan 37 weeks ago
Midlands |
"The very first meet I arranged , spoke to the guy for a bit even had a webchat with camera with him. He turned up for the meet , turned out he got his son to chat with me and he was using the sons pics x"
enough internet for one day. See you tomorrow
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By *nnCeeWoman 37 weeks ago
East of Eden, West of Hell |
"My penis is actually the size it is in my profile pic
Now you know. No hate please"
You are a very tiny man. May I keep you in my pocket?
(Yes, I'm on my mobile - all the pictures are small) |
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"The very first meet I arranged , spoke to the guy for a bit even had a webchat with camera with him. He turned up for the meet , turned out he got his son to chat with me and he was using the sons pics x"
This is horrendous  |
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By (user no longer on site) 37 weeks ago
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Yes guy turned up for a social 20nyrs older than age he was claiming .... plus photo he'd shared had sunglasses .... learnt to ask for proper face pics without glasses ... was a social only.
Also had shorter than claimed
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"Has any of you guys ever been catfished really bad by anyone on this site like they turned up and looked absolutely nothing like the pictures?"
yep one was 'bigger' in person, his pics apparently were pre covid - he had the nibbles apparently
the other, picture was taken in the summer apparently - didnt say which year - guess about 10 years ago  |
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"No, not at all. Never.
#DueDiligence
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even due diligence can fail !!
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That's when I invoke Plan B...
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What's that ? A paper bag to put over their head ?  "
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No, I send Prêy and LíttlèBírd out to do a 'reccy' for me and report back pronto.  |
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Just age, he claimed to be late 30s (this was probably 9 years ago) & he was actually in his mid 50s and looked every year of it.
Just met socially and it obvs went no further.
Ive spoken to people obviously using fake pics, a reverse image search soon showed that. |
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By *929Man 37 weeks ago
bedlington |
"Yes. woman was a good X2 in size"
Had similar was very pretty and looked exactly same facially, but specifically told me “everything slim and toned just a bit left to loose on the belly” reality was everything was very fat especially the belly |
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"My penis is actually the size it is in my profile pic
Now you know. No hate please
You are a very tiny man. May I keep you in my pocket?
(Yes, I'm on my mobile - all the pictures are small)"
I'd need to know what pocket. I've always been a fan of that "pocket" women stuff their mobiles into in their bra |
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By *nnCeeWoman 37 weeks ago
East of Eden, West of Hell |
"Im a reverse cat fish I look better in the flesh apparently
Wow! I'd like to meet you then 
TBF, you did quote "BOBFOC" on the other thread... you're Eagle eyed aren't you "
As Nero put it on the other thread - just doing my due diligence!! |
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By *nnCeeWoman 37 weeks ago
East of Eden, West of Hell |
"My penis is actually the size it is in my profile pic
Now you know. No hate please
You are a very tiny man. May I keep you in my pocket?
(Yes, I'm on my mobile - all the pictures are small)
I'd need to know what pocket. I've always been a fan of that "pocket" women stuff their mobiles into in their bra"
Oh yes!! I'm always using THAT pocket!!
Perhaps I could squish you in the middle, between those two "pockets"?! |
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By (user no longer on site) 37 weeks ago
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If saying they not married and then later finding out they are then yes
But other than that no
Did end up on a date with someone who took the date as a joke bween her friends
found out later after the date though a friend of a friend who was in they company afterwards
Was visiting a friend and his wife and no not play friends or anything
And her sister came in with her friend
And she was talking about the woman
And I sed I had was kind off seeing her sort off
We went on a date last Saturday and she sed oooo so your the guy see took the joke date with
She sed I wouldn’t bother with that one started off as a joke and trying to see I was a creep
Turned out I wasn’t felt bad and took the date anyway
Was only about 25 at the time |
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"My penis is actually the size it is in my profile pic
Now you know. No hate please
You are a very tiny man. May I keep you in my pocket?
(Yes, I'm on my mobile - all the pictures are small)
I'd need to know what pocket. I've always been a fan of that "pocket" women stuff their mobiles into in their bra
Oh yes!! I'm always using THAT pocket!!
Perhaps I could squish you in the middle, between those two "pockets"?! "
Pretty sure that's a written contract there. I'll start the car |
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By *ularliWoman 37 weeks ago
Worcester |
A few years ago on here I met a guy. He’s profile stated he was 38 and then Just before we met it changed to 42. Anyway, turned out he was 52 but he could have easily passed as 35. He was stunningly handsome.
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By *unchalMan 37 weeks ago
Dartford |
"The very first meet I arranged , spoke to the guy for a bit even had a webchat with camera with him. He turned up for the meet , turned out he got his son to chat with me and he was using the sons pics x"
That is weird on so many different levels. Damn! |
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By *unchalMan 37 weeks ago
Dartford |
"Yes guy turned up for a social 20nyrs older than age he was claiming .... plus photo he'd shared had sunglasses .... learnt to ask for proper face pics without glasses ... was a social only.
Also had shorter than claimed
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No sunglasses (only) I want to see eyes. |
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"A few years ago on here I met a guy. He’s profile stated he was 38 and then Just before we met it changed to 42. Anyway, turned out he was 52 but he could have easily passed as 35. He was stunningly handsome."
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This sounds whimsical and endearing. It reminds me of... I found a vase, but then I was told it was inexpensive, then it turned out to be rare and then with some further investigations it was of the finest vintage, despite it's contemporary feel. |
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By *unchalMan 37 weeks ago
Dartford |
"No, not at all. Never.
#DueDiligence
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even due diligence can fail !!
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That's when I invoke Plan B...
What's that ? A paper bag to put over their head ? "
I made the mistake of allowing a local fella to get to my house without a face pic. I kept asking but then suddenly he was there. It wasn’t just a face thing. I was far too polite and let him in! I’m better now. I would refuse him entry. In fact he has come to my door three times and each time I turn him away nicely. I have no idea why I am being so kind to this man who has overstepped boundaries all along the way. |
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By *ustBoWoman 37 weeks ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
Twice I suppose I was one guy was a lot older another was a lot heavier. It was only a chat and a coffee anyhow so it wasn't a big deal. But I didn't want to meet either again.
I don't see the point of lying about things. I wonder if it ever works out for people . |
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Usually catch them out before actually meeting.
Last few on here have had fake body pics on their profiles, and it's fairly obvious the face didn't match the body. Reverse image search proved it. They really don't like being called out on it though |
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By (user no longer on site) 37 weeks ago
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"I've been dick fished
Had pic on his profile of someone else's dick and when I got there he barely had 3 inches 
You mean his was more like bait "
nothing worse than expecting a nice big dick and finding a minnow |
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"Twice I suppose I was one guy was a lot older another was a lot heavier. It was only a chat and a coffee anyhow so it wasn't a big deal. But I didn't want to meet either again.
I don't see the point of lying about things. I wonder if it ever works out for people ."
I do wonder if they think you'll just go along with it because, y'know "...well...we're here now, so...?".  |
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"I've been dick fished
Had pic on his profile of someone else's dick and when I got there he barely had 3 inches
You mean his was more like bait
nothing worse than expecting a nice big dick and finding a minnow"
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By *irthandgirthMan 37 weeks ago
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"Usually catch them out before actually meeting.
Last few on here have had fake body pics on their profiles, and it's fairly obvious the face didn't match the body. Reverse image search proved it. They really don't like being called out on it though "
I would have to get a degree in photoshop to add all my tattoos to a fake pic. Nobody has that much time |
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"Usually catch them out before actually meeting.
Last few on here have had fake body pics on their profiles, and it's fairly obvious the face didn't match the body. Reverse image search proved it. They really don't like being called out on it though
I would have to get a degree in photoshop to add all my tattoos to a fake pic. Nobody has that much time"
Well it's usually a very toned naked torso and then they send a chubby faced selfie. Not much skill involved |
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"I've been dick fished
Had pic on his profile of someone else's dick and when I got there he barely had 3 inches
You mean his was more like bait
nothing worse than expecting a nice big dick and finding a minnow"
I have feelings you know |
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"Usually catch them out before actually meeting.
Last few on here have had fake body pics on their profiles, and it's fairly obvious the face didn't match the body. Reverse image search proved it. They really don't like being called out on it though "
It's surprisingly common, including being unpleasant when they are called out on it.
The ridiculous pics I've had, which would have been immediately obvious  . |
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So I just spent two days messaging with a lovely couple but when it comes to arranging a meeting the wife is not available to meet? I offered several different dates and for some reason she is not available on any of them but the male is always available?? Is this a form of catfish?? |
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By *MCMan 15 weeks ago
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"So I just spent two days messaging with a lovely couple but when it comes to arranging a meeting the wife is not available to meet? I offered several different dates and for some reason she is not available on any of them but the male is always available?? Is this a form of catfish??"
No it’s a single male pretending to be a couple 😂 |
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"Yes, single female on here. Met for a coffee and we struggled to recognise her, not in a good way either. "
Funny thing isn’t it, it’s ALWAYS worse…
That’s why there isn’t an antonym for ‘catfished’
I have had meets where their pictures haven’t done them justice, it’s a wonderful feeling… like being upgraded to First Class.. |
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"I suppose that's one advantage of not getting any meets...you don't get catfished!
Don't see the point of doing it...I mean, it's not like you're not going to get found out!"
There’s a recognised Rejection Fetish, feeding humiliation play
A “rejection kink” refers to a specific fetish or sexual interest where an individual finds pleasure or arousal in the act of being rejected or denied in a sexual or romantic context. This means that the person may derive satisfaction from scenarios where they are turned down, dismissed, or denied sexual advances or romantic advances |
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"I've been dick fished
Had pic on his profile of someone else's dick and when I got there he barely had 3 inches "
What do you do in that situation? By the time you find out you’re already down to business. |
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So I arranged to meet a nice couple in hotel this afternoon Only he showed up claiming wife was ill?? I was so cross I blew him and sent him on his way now im alone in my hotel room jk about the bj  |
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