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"If you were straight and I genuinely thought your picture / pictures were hot and I fabbed them ?
I didn’t message them or wink them or send a friend request but apparently I’ve annoyed them."
I'm rarely annoyed by anything, and it's always a bit flattering is anone finds me attractive... regarless of whether I'm interested in them.
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There's options for people to not have pic's fabbed if people are that offended then perhaps they can change settings.
However you do make an interesting point,in these days of high profile consent cases, you could argue (I'm playing devil's advocate here) that if you fab a straight guy's picture knowing he's straight could it be described as sexual harassment??
Look I'm just saying that with all the conversations about pictures being sent unsolicited perhaps the site needs to update a few settings to move with current legislation?
I'm not suggesting that you have done anything inappropriate OP , because personally my opinion is if you put your pictures out there for all to see and knowingly don't change settings then how can people complain. |
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"If you were straight and I genuinely thought your picture / pictures were hot and I fabbed them ?
I didn’t message them or wink them or send a friend request but apparently I’ve annoyed them."
I would be flattered there's nothing wrong with that they're just either a baby or very insecure for that to be troubling them |
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No. I've not even been annoyed by winks or FABs from people I wouldn't shag. Most of the time, I've messaged a thank you to a wink or message.
Sometimes I haven't, if their profile is disturbing.
But as a pretty solid rule of thumb - never annoyed by a FAB, hardly ever annoyed by a wink or message.
Ignore the moron. |
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I've seen so many men asking on here how to stop other men even looking at their profile.
Some don't like it when other men look or fab their pics because they are 100% straight and seem to think it reflects on them if other men like their body.
It's them with the problem OP not you. |
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By *ony MannMan 37 weeks ago
Las Gaviotos, Fuerteventura |
"If you were straight and I genuinely thought your picture / pictures were hot and I fabbed them ?
I didn’t message them or wink them or send a friend request but apparently I’ve annoyed them."
Don't worry about it. If they can't handle being hansom it's not your problem. |
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The fab equivalent of oi you looking at me? And just offline they are often unhappy with their social skills, the ones with arms crossed on the edge of the dance floor resenting the men who get up and dance.
Probably.
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By *UFSWoman 37 weeks ago
belfast |
"If you were straight and I genuinely thought your picture / pictures were hot and I fabbed them ?
I didn’t message them or wink them or send a friend request but apparently I’ve annoyed them."
How do you know you have annoyed them?
Did they message you to tell you they were annoyed? |
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"If you were straight and I genuinely thought your picture / pictures were hot and I fabbed them ?
I didn’t message them or wink them or send a friend request but apparently I’ve annoyed them."
Nope not at all  |
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"If you were straight and I genuinely thought your picture / pictures were hot and I fabbed them ?
I didn’t message them or wink them or send a friend request but apparently I’ve annoyed them."
I'm more annoyed you haven't fabbed any of my pics yet! |
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I would absolutely ·not· be annoyed. A kindly gesture is just that: a kindly gesture of appreciation.
I'm aware of one particular person on Fab who literally spends most of their dwindling life blocking anyone or everyone without a Uterus who Fabs their picture, posting status updates about it and then lamenting on why they're not getting any sex whatsoever. |
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"If you were straight and I genuinely thought your picture / pictures were hot and I fabbed them ?
I didn’t message them or wink them or send a friend request but apparently I’ve annoyed them."
no. Who fabs a photo can't upset someone I'm sure |
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By *rBobbMan 37 weeks ago
Birmingham |
"If you were straight and I genuinely thought your picture / pictures were hot and I fabbed them ?
I didn’t message them or wink them or send a friend request but apparently I’ve annoyed them. no. Who fabs a photo can't upset someone I'm sure "
I totally agree, take is a compliment |
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"If you were straight and I genuinely thought your picture / pictures were hot and I fabbed them ?
I didn’t message them or wink them or send a friend request but apparently I’ve annoyed them."
Fuck no. Course not. |
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By *bi HaiveMan 37 weeks ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
Nope.
I fab pics because I like the content.
I don't have to be interested in chatting to or meeting someone. They can be outside of my preferences and me theirs.
I don't do it to curry favour or expect anything in return.
To me that's not what fabbing pics is about. Others will do differently of course. |
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"If you were straight and I genuinely thought your picture / pictures were hot and I fabbed them ?
I didn’t message them or wink them or send a friend request but apparently I’ve annoyed them.
How do you know you have annoyed them?
Did they message you to tell you they were annoyed?"
Yes |
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By (user no longer on site) 37 weeks ago
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"If you were straight and I genuinely thought your picture / pictures were hot and I fabbed them ?
I didn’t message them or wink them or send a friend request but apparently I’ve annoyed them."
Absolutely not, I fab pictures for many reasons , one of which is that I simply enjoy and appreciate the picture, not because it’s some kind of “come on”.
I’d never be annoyed about someone/anyone giving me a fab, I’d be flattered. Sorry you got the reaction you did
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"If you were straight and I genuinely thought your picture / pictures were hot and I fabbed them ?
I didn’t message them or wink them or send a friend request but apparently I’ve annoyed them."
Nope, but then we';re not straight. However, people can appreciate things and enjoy them without coveting for sexual aspects. |
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By (user no longer on site) 37 weeks ago
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"If you were straight and I genuinely thought your picture / pictures were hot and I fabbed them ?
I didn’t message them or wink them or send a friend request but apparently I’ve annoyed them."
If you fab'd no issue
Wink or message - I will often message to say thanks for the compliment. I'm 100% straight so no interest but happy Fabbing.
To be fair 90% are good with that but you get the odd pillock keep messaging hoping after 2nd message its a block.
I understand as annoying as it is when women don't reply why as their through numbers are much higher |
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Otherwise enjoy the adoration 
(There are options to not be fabbed for those worried about their own sexuality)
