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By *eli OP Woman 37 weeks ago
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Are you happy to meet people on a purely platonic basis from here or does there need to be sex involved?
If you're happy to meet platonically, have you found friendship from this site? Do you prioritise the sexual relationships over non-sexual? |
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We’ve found some friends on this site that we’d never play with,they are amazing people they just aren’t our type. We love making new friends and going out with them for drinks etc but there doesn’t have to be sex involved  |
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Yes we are happy to meet platonically. I don't know if we prioritise sexual over platonic though because we've only met platonically once.
Circumstances prevent us travelling far so that limits us anyway |
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I’ve found some friends. I’ve done platonic things. On Friday I had a curry to celebrate my birthday. Had a picnic last month with a friend. I’m down for friends.
I prioritise what I can manage physically and emotionally. Not prioritising sex right now for many reasons. I just need to get through this month and get back to a good headspace. |
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"I love my friends here. I don’t have le sex with all of them either 
Genuinely. Fab has some amazing people and I’m proud to call some of them my friends 
Liar. You have sex with us all  at the same time  "
Shush. That’s a secret. Ps. Great curry  |
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By (user no longer on site) 37 weeks ago
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"I love my friends here. I don’t have le sex with all of them either
Genuinely. Fab has some amazing people and I’m proud to call some of them my friends
Liar. You have sex with us all at the same time
Shush. That’s a secret. Ps. Great curry "
You should taste my curry actually  |
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"I love my friends here. I don’t have le sex with all of them either
Genuinely. Fab has some amazing people and I’m proud to call some of them my friends
Liar. You have sex with us all at the same time
Shush. That’s a secret. Ps. Great curry
You should taste my curry actually "
I have. Not quite as much as I would like |
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The social side is super important to me and I love meeting new people and developing new connections. There are a few people on here I’ve not met yet that I’d love to meet socially and a few that I’ve met before that I’d love to meet again 
I generally meet Fabbera socially every couple of months and that’s a nice sort of time frame for me with everything else going on |
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By *eli OP Woman 37 weeks ago
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"We’ve found some friends on this site that we’d never play with,they are amazing people they just aren’t our type. We love making new friends and going out with them for drinks etc but there doesn’t have to be sex involved "
Aww that's really lovely! I think you can find people who aren't your type sexually but as friends? It can work very well. |
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By *eli OP Woman 37 weeks ago
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"Yes we are happy to meet platonically. I don't know if we prioritise sexual over platonic though because we've only met platonically once.
Circumstances prevent us travelling far so that limits us anyway "
Would you ever attend a social?
I think distance can be a big factor in who you spend time with - it doesn't mean the desire isn't there. |
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Having not physically meet anyone from FAB yet, I am happy to meet platonically and sexually, right now however I am probably prioritising platonic meets over sexual ones being new, I would like to get to know some people from this world and see if there is anything between us or just to get their views on the life etc.
I enjoy meeting new people and chatting especially if I find someone with similar interests to me as then things can really get interesting. |
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"Yes we are happy to meet platonically. I don't know if we prioritise sexual over platonic though because we've only met platonically once.
Circumstances prevent us travelling far so that limits us anyway
Would you ever attend a social?
I think distance can be a big factor in who you spend time with - it doesn't mean the desire isn't there."
We've attended socials in the past and really enjoyed them.
I find that I feel faintly reluctant nowadays because I'm usually very much older than others at socials. That's on me I know |
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Not really. Not anyone new. There’s a couple of people I’ve known a while from here that I’d like to meet for a drink if we were ever in the same area and I’ve a few friends made here over the years but not really looking for just friends, I don’t have the time anymore. |
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"Yes we are happy to meet platonically. I don't know if we prioritise sexual over platonic though because we've only met platonically once.
Circumstances prevent us travelling far so that limits us anyway
Would you ever attend a social?
I think distance can be a big factor in who you spend time with - it doesn't mean the desire isn't there.
We've attended socials in the past and really enjoyed them.
I find that I feel faintly reluctant nowadays because I'm usually very much older than others at socials. That's on me I know "
I’m usually stick out at socials too  so we can all sit together |
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"Yes we are happy to meet platonically. I don't know if we prioritise sexual over platonic though because we've only met platonically once.
Circumstances prevent us travelling far so that limits us anyway
Would you ever attend a social?
I think distance can be a big factor in who you spend time with - it doesn't mean the desire isn't there.
We've attended socials in the past and really enjoyed them.
I find that I feel faintly reluctant nowadays because I'm usually very much older than others at socials. That's on me I know
I’m usually stick out at socials too so we can all sit together "
Spring and autumn |
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By *eli OP Woman 37 weeks ago
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"I’ve found some friends. I’ve done platonic things. On Friday I had a curry to celebrate my birthday. Had a picnic last month with a friend. I’m down for friends.
I prioritise what I can manage physically and emotionally. Not prioritising sex right now for many reasons. I just need to get through this month and get back to a good headspace. "
I hope you do get through this month okay Pickle 
If someone wanted just a platonic friendship with you and said that - how would you respond? |
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"I'm happy to meet people and see if a plantonic friendship grows.
I've found lots say they are happy for this but expect me to do the travelling. Effort on both parties"
Lots also say they're happy for this too but then add 'maybe more 'and immediately I'm wary |
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Yep. I’m happy to meet anyone on a friendship basis. Friends get you through life and I’ve off coffee socials are great.
I’ve not found the elusive mate to get together regularly, and im not against the idea.
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By *eli OP Woman 37 weeks ago
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"I love my friends here. I don’t have le sex with all of them either
Genuinely. Fab has some amazing people and I’m proud to call some of them my friends "
You shouldn't be having sex with any of them. You're a forum user. We all know forum people never do anything remotely sexual, we just talk about it. |
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"I'm happy to meet people and see if a plantonic friendship grows.
I've found lots say they are happy for this but expect me to do the travelling. Effort on both parties
Lots also say they're happy for this too but then add 'maybe more 'and immediately I'm wary "
Yes totally agree, I forgot that part. |
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By *eli OP Woman 37 weeks ago
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"There's quite a few on here I'd happily meet for just a drink but I probably would prioritise meets with the potential for a bit of sexy time in the future."
That's fair enough, after winning Arse of the Whatever you're going to be in high demand. Can't spread yourself too thinly. |
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I like meeting people that make me laugh and enjoy open and relaxed conversations. I’ve had many a social where it’s never gone further but I’ve kept in touch with those people (when I say kept in touch what I mean to say is that I am a pretty useless “friend” so I reply to their messages , I always feel like I’m bothering people if I message first).
So yes, I’m happy to meet people platonically, but it has to be with someone I enjoy the company of, you can become a bit of a drama sponge on sites like this, where people come to you when they’re down or upset, but the minute they get back on their feet you get forgotten and that isn’t good for your own mental health. |
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"I’ve found some friends. I’ve done platonic things. On Friday I had a curry to celebrate my birthday. Had a picnic last month with a friend. I’m down for friends.
I prioritise what I can manage physically and emotionally. Not prioritising sex right now for many reasons. I just need to get through this month and get back to a good headspace.
I hope you do get through this month okay Pickle
If someone wanted just a platonic friendship with you and said that - how would you respond? "
I world respond with ‘ok.’ |
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"Yes we are happy to meet platonically. I don't know if we prioritise sexual over platonic though because we've only met platonically once.
Circumstances prevent us travelling far so that limits us anyway
Would you ever attend a social?
I think distance can be a big factor in who you spend time with - it doesn't mean the desire isn't there.
We've attended socials in the past and really enjoyed them.
I find that I feel faintly reluctant nowadays because I'm usually very much older than others at socials. That's on me I know
I’m usually stick out at socials too so we can all sit together
Spring and autumn "
Opposites attract |
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"Yes we are happy to meet platonically. I don't know if we prioritise sexual over platonic though because we've only met platonically once.
Circumstances prevent us travelling far so that limits us anyway
Would you ever attend a social?
I think distance can be a big factor in who you spend time with - it doesn't mean the desire isn't there.
We've attended socials in the past and really enjoyed them.
I find that I feel faintly reluctant nowadays because I'm usually very much older than others at socials. That's on me I know
I’m usually stick out at socials too so we can all sit together
Spring and autumn
Opposites attract "
This is probably a whole other thread.
Do you feel that people older than you make assumptions about you did to your age and treat you differently because of that? |
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"There's quite a few on here I'd happily meet for just a drink but I probably would prioritise meets with the potential for a bit of sexy time in the future.
That's fair enough, after winning Arse of the Whatever you're going to be in high demand. Can't spread yourself too thinly. "
I'll make it my goal to attend a social this summer though. I can't have everyone thinking I'm an arrogant, cocky prick in person |
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By *TG3Man 37 weeks ago
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"Are you happy to meet people on a purely platonic basis from here or does there need to be sex involved?
If you're happy to meet platonically, have you found friendship from this site? Do you prioritise the sexual relationships over non-sexual?"
I have 2 friends i met on here, one i see quite a lot |
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"If we have something to do or talk about that makes it worth us meeting, I'm happy to have a purely platonic relationship.
I like days out and pub outings that don't have to end in sex.
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It's a first come first served basis for me.
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"If we have something to do or talk about that makes it worth us meeting, I'm happy to have a purely platonic relationship.
I like days out and pub outings that don't have to end in sex.
It's a first come first served basis for me.
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I just lied. If someone offered a really nice platonic day out I think would be good for my wellbeing, I'd cancel any sex plans. |
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When I'm meeting socially to see if there is chemistry I always say if we are not compatible then I'd be happy to be friends because you've built up that friendship anyway before the social so why not!?
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By (user no longer on site) 37 weeks ago
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"Are you happy to meet people on a purely platonic basis from here or does there need to be sex involved?
If you're happy to meet platonically, have you found friendship from this site? Do you prioritise the sexual relationships over non-sexual?"
Prefer making friendships first, if their isn't a friendship then their isn't any sex |
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By (user no longer on site) 37 weeks ago
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I love the social side to here.
I am more than happy to meet platonically and just spend a few hours in nice company with good conversation, banter and craic.
If it develops into anything sexual with like minded folks then it will be with purely mutual consent but primarily, the foundations to nice friendships will have been established. |
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By *eli OP Woman 37 weeks ago
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"I'm happy to meet people and see if a plantonic friendship grows.
I've found lots say they are happy for this but expect me to do the travelling. Effort on both parties"
I think that's what is important in friendship, where ever it's found. If it's all give on one side and that's not reciprocated, it's not really a friendship.
As far as maybe more goes? Yeah, if there's not that flirty energy etc it's a bit grim. |
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i love the social side of it so much so that i have and am organising group socials - a group of like minded people the conversations and the flirting has been great fun.
But its also with a view to fun times with others too.
I have a telegram group of friends now, and people are so helpful to each other.
We doing a BBQ in July which will be great fun and another big party social in September - but from those other things have happened.
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"Are you happy to meet people on a purely platonic basis from here or does there need to be sex involved?
If you're happy to meet platonically, have you found friendship from this site? Do you prioritise the sexual relationships over non-sexual?"
I met a couple about 20 years ago, we played a lot and socialised as well , even going on holiday together.
They don’t play anymore but we are still best of friends |
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By (user no longer on site) 37 weeks ago
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I have a number of people on here that I meet platonically, they are good friends that I will meet for meals and walks - really happy with the relationships as they stand. |
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This is tricky, there’s people that I really fancy but it’s one sided but we get on well. I’d find it difficulty to meet them and still have utterly filthy thoughts about them whilst discussing the weather etc. Then there’s people who I talk to and neither of us fancy each other and we can truly be friends |
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I am happy to meet people on here on a platonic basis and indeed I quite often do in earnest. It's been part of my p+sitive and rewarding experience on here, the social scene - one-to-one libations or group socials. I have found a comfortable milieu of friends with whom I hang out, dine out with or do cultural 'stuff'.
It has to be balanced though: I'm not comfortable doing it at the detriment of fewer sexual meets. If I found myself having less sex and more socials then I would rethink my approach on here and reset the equilibrium...and perhaps prioritise the sex. With that said both friends and paramours get equal weighting on here; I don't prioritise one over the other. |
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"I love my friends here. I don’t have le sex with all of them either
Genuinely. Fab has some amazing people and I’m proud to call some of them my friends
You shouldn't be having sex with any of them. You're a forum user. We all know forum people never do anything remotely sexual, we just talk about it. "
Oh god yes. I never have le sex. Ever ever |
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We've been on the scene for over 20 years and we have made a lot of friends, some of them have a totally different dynamic to us so their might be a d*unken kiss and some flirting but that's as far as it will ever go.
It's great having good friends in this lifestyle because you can have the type of conversations you can't have with vanilla friends.
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I tried to meet people platonically at one point on here but it didn't really work out - I got stood up even more frequently than I do when meeting a potential partner!
I do have a couple of FWB that I would meet even if sex wasn't on the cards on that occasion, but I suspect if you removed the sexual element entirely the friendship bit wouldn't last very long. |
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Sometimes I'm happy to have a social for the sake of meeting someone new and it not going any further. Have found that mostly though, it generally tries to be turned into more by the other party which puts me off. |
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Often when chatting in the lounge you meet up with somebody who has many interests Similar to your own, I have several couples and singles that I have a friendship with that hasn’t ended up in sex. In fact if the sex side did take over that might end the friendship. |
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By *ucka39Man 37 weeks ago
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I've made some cracking friends even some after leaving the site, nothing sexual but able to talk about anything and laugh about it and turn them on when they need a hand
Am I able to have a normal social without anything sexual sure I don't constantly think about sex
Live life and prosper |
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Sure. Why not?
I'm sure there's potentially some really good friends on here.
However on reflection, friendships are made over time. And I'm not sure i have the patience of making new friends..
But I'll happily have a beer with anyone.
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I've not been feeling very sexy of late, so by default, I prioritise my friends on here. I have a couple of very dear friends who I'd happily introduce my family to, so even if I do find my mojo again, the friends would still take priority. |
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By (user no longer on site) 37 weeks ago
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Platonic love that word.
Do I engage enough to warrant friendship oh no. It is drama free leave your shit at home and NSA.
I call it passing ships in the night not friends |
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Fwiend!
I can wholeheartedly say it's always the person first, even if I have residual horniness going on. My sexual desire tends to develop after I have got to know someone intimately. I get an odd sensation sometimes, where I feel like I ought to find someone attractive, but the moment just doesn't occur. I can even feel guilty about it, as I can't find a reason that I don't.
I am not someone who has lots of friends, I find that overwhelming. I meet a lot of people in my work, so perhaps that's mechanic's car syndrome. My Neurodiversity can be a bit of an issue, as I can go AWOL, if I am peopled out or hyperfocused on something.
But yes I have made a few friends; two huggy friends and one has become a partner. Fab is an interesting place to find friends. |
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By *eli OP Woman 37 weeks ago
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"I like meeting people that make me laugh and enjoy open and relaxed conversations. I’ve had many a social where it’s never gone further but I’ve kept in touch with those people (when I say kept in touch what I mean to say is that I am a pretty useless “friend” so I reply to their messages , I always feel like I’m bothering people if I message first).
So yes, I’m happy to meet people platonically, but it has to be with someone I enjoy the company of, you can become a bit of a drama sponge on sites like this, where people come to you when they’re down or upset, but the minute they get back on their feet you get forgotten and that isn’t good for your own mental health. "
I really doubt you are bothering people by messaging someone first! You should go for it, DD, people will probably be happy you've messaged first.
I think of those people mentioned in the latter paragraph as being fairweather friends, the hi and bye sort. Protecting your mental health is important, x |
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There’s a few people I’d love to meet up with just for a drink and a chat
I don’t have a lot of free time to meet people, though, so meeting people i actually want to have sex with would take priority over that. |
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"There’s a few people I’d love to meet up with just for a drink and a chat
I don’t have a lot of free time to meet people, though, so meeting people i actually want to have sex with would take priority over that. "
Aww thanks shivs
Lmao
Yes I know not me ha ha |
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By *eli OP Woman 37 weeks ago
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"Yes totally. For us it's friends first. If leads to the bedroom then great, but that's not an objective. We've found more platonic friends through Fab than lovers."
Are you happy with it being that way or would you prefer more lovers than friends? |
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I do and I have met people from here on a platonic basis, it’s lovely to have friends that you can chat with, give support to and who just ‘get’ this.
Having said that, several friends are also people that I enjoy getting naked with too, not on a FWB basis but simply friends where it’s never off the table |
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I've met many people from here, knowing that sex was not going to be on the agenda long before meeting.
It's one of the reasons I've never asked for a facepic and on the few occasions I have shared one it has only been so we could recognise each other in the coffee shop.
Some of my best friends are people I've met through fab and even though they are no longer on the site for various reasons we are still close friends and have never had sex. |
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By (user no longer on site) 37 weeks ago
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"Are you happy to meet people on a purely platonic basis from here or does there need to be sex involved?
If you're happy to meet platonically, have you found friendship from this site? Do you prioritise the sexual relationships over non-sexual?"
Whomever I’m fortunate to meet with I never presume sex is on the cards and I do enjoy just meeting for a chat and laugh anyway if something comes of it great but if not “that’s life” |
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I have been to a few socials especially when my FWB lived near Chester. We had camping socials with a few that became platonic friends & some that shared a few drinks at the pub. I have had play sessions in clubs where the fun and giggles & touching was good but we didn’t progress further. Don’t need to have penetrative sex to have fun |
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By *nnCeeWoman 37 weeks ago
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"(I am a pretty useless “friend” so I reply to their messages , I always feel like I’m bothering people if I message first)."
This, always this...
I'd be happy to make "just friends" with people.
But it seems I can even get people to meet for a social, so not really doing too well... ah well |
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By (user no longer on site) 37 weeks ago
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"(I am a pretty useless “friend” so I reply to their messages , I always feel like I’m bothering people if I message first).
This, always this...
I'd be happy to make "just friends" with people.
But it seems I can even get people to meet for a social, so not really doing too well... ah well"
You and me both but I have hope |
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By *eli OP Woman 37 weeks ago
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"(I am a pretty useless “friend” so I reply to their messages , I always feel like I’m bothering people if I message first).
This, always this...
I'd be happy to make "just friends" with people.
But it seems I can even get people to meet for a social, so not really doing too well... ah well"
Oh En and Mr Fox. I have faith that you both will find those people. |
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By (user no longer on site) 37 weeks ago
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"(I am a pretty useless “friend” so I reply to their messages , I always feel like I’m bothering people if I message first).
This, always this...
I'd be happy to make "just friends" with people.
But it seems I can even get people to meet for a social, so not really doing too well... ah well
Oh En and Mr Fox. I have faith that you both will find those people. "
Fingers crossed lovely |
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By *inx000Couple 37 weeks ago
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Absolutely,doesn't always have to be about sex..have a few friends from fab that I've just met for socials and nothing more just a really good friendship.
But I feel if you meet someone that gets you and you both have a good vibe and great connection..act on it and embrace the sexual desires |
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By *nnCeeWoman 37 weeks ago
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"(I am a pretty useless “friend” so I reply to their messages , I always feel like I’m bothering people if I message first).
This, always this...
I'd be happy to make "just friends" with people.
But it seems I can even get people to meet for a social, so not really doing too well... ah well
Oh En and Mr Fox. I have faith that you both will find those people.
Fingers crossed lovely "
Thank you, gorgeous Meli xx
Fingers crossed over here too!
(Crossed even harder that fellas stop standing me up last minute too!) |
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By *nnCeeWoman 37 weeks ago
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"What is this sex thing people are speaking of?!
I think I have some friends but I’m not really sure, maybe they are faking it…  "
I'll be your fwend, if you want? No faking x |
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By (user no longer on site) 37 weeks ago
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I have a few friends I met platonically. One, we’ve managed to meet up once a month over the past few years. We can spend hours together, and it’s like we’ve not had a day apart. Very intriguing person with delectable taste. They always choose the best places for our catch-ups.
Another friend I met off here has been there for me through really tough moments this past year. Makes me laugh often. We have a friendship that’s uniquely us. It’s as if we have been best friends for our entire lives. We can go months without catching up and it seems like it’s been days. We can get lost in one another in conversations and time passes too quickly. Someone I can always count on to be there for me not only in the happiest moments of life but also the most difficult.
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I don't use FB and so this site to me, is for the social aspect. If it turns naughty, then great, if it doesn't, great too. I'm more laid back than most here. I've also found good friends who I see alot socially. Some where we were naughty and some not. |
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"Yes totally. For us it's friends first. If leads to the bedroom then great, but that's not an objective. We've found more platonic friends through Fab than lovers.
Are you happy with it being that way or would you prefer more lovers than friends?"
We're happy with that. Nothing is pushed. There's always the possibility that friends become lovers somewhere down the line. |
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We'd be happy with platonic. We're pretty new on our journey but loving it and of course looking for fun but, on the same account... we've already met one couple and would start to consider them as friends. It just means we can meet socially, enjoy each other's company and have an openness that means we can talk about anything especially the lifestyle. And in turn, would be more than happy meeting others getting to know them and having more friends in the lifestyle. Any benefits a bonus |
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