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Do you value your own pleasure?
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By (user no longer on site) 37 weeks ago
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I'm probably not assertive enough to focus on my own pleasure or say what I want them to do as I don't want to come across as demanding but to be honest, I do enjoy just letting things flow and whether that focuses on my own pleasure or theirs, I'm pretty happy |
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By *del 1Man 37 weeks ago
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My own pleasure quite often comes from seeing the other person's pleasure...I find it very exciting to see my partner's breath getting heavier, moans louder and some areas wetter. It happens sometimes that I don't feel the need for anything else personally |
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It's a mutual exchange.
If I'm not getting off on it in some way, I'm going to put some clothes on and head out.
If I'm not invested in getting them off, I wasn't going to be there in the first place. |
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"It's a mutual exchange.
If I'm not getting off on it in some way, I'm going to put some clothes on and head out.
If I'm not invested in getting them off, I wasn't going to be there in the first place."
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same here - if you aint doing it for me - im outta here!!! |
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My pleasure comes from their pleasure - I can get a huge amount of pleasure from giving the Mr a blow job & not being touched at all as an example.
If I know they are enjoying what I'm doing I get pleasure from that.
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"My pleasure comes from their pleasure - I can get a huge amount of pleasure from giving the Mr a blow job & not being touched at all as an example.
If I know they are enjoying what I'm doing I get pleasure from that.
Mrs "
Oh. This too.
5 hours straight of worshipping a worthy cock until the balls are so empty that they echo, and then some more, without even so much as a glance at my cunt. Perfection  |
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By (user no longer on site) 37 weeks ago
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"My pleasure comes from their pleasure - I can get a huge amount of pleasure from giving the Mr a blow job & not being touched at all as an example.
If I know they are enjoying what I'm doing I get pleasure from that.
Mrs "
I wanted to say something like this, but felt like it would've sounded a bit cliché... |
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"My pleasure comes from their pleasure - I can get a huge amount of pleasure from giving the Mr a blow job & not being touched at all as an example.
If I know they are enjoying what I'm doing I get pleasure from that.
Mrs "
Yeah, this is me. Plus I love women's bodies so for me getting to explore a woman is as much of a thrill as me getting to come, if not more so. |
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"My pleasure comes from their pleasure - I can get a huge amount of pleasure from giving the Mr a blow job & not being touched at all as an example.
If I know they are enjoying what I'm doing I get pleasure from that.
Mrs "
Same.
If i know they are enjoying, so am I |
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By (user no longer on site) 37 weeks ago
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To right I value my own sexual pleasure ....
I absolutely love giving pleasure to a sexual partner, hearing them climax etc
But I expect sexual pleasure of my own from any encounter .... otherwise I may as well just be a fuck toy and that's not my kink. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 37 weeks ago
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"It's a mutual exchange.
If I'm not getting off on it in some way, I'm going to put some clothes on and head out.
If I'm not invested in getting them off, I wasn't going to be there in the first place."
I think it is about pleasuring one another. But I think that as individuals we need to take responsibility if our pleasure matters to us. Use toys. Ask your partner to do something for you. I am not even sorry that I’m becoming more confident in that sense and I prefer partners that are similar. Communication is so important. As is clear, I love talking. |
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I think that if all parties aren't getting enjoyment, or getting what they want, then what's the point. I've 'taken one for the team' in the past, and been left disappointed, but decided very fast that if I'm not getting my kicks, I'm out of here. |
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