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Throwing this out there. I think it’s declined a bit due to some of the following annoying aspects
- Too many fake profiles
- Too many disrespectful men (giving us all a bad name)
- “content sellers”
- Fab for a friend request photos- wtf is all that about?
I’m sure there’s a couple of other things but I can’t remember haha.
Thoughts? |
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By *mmaleiaWoman 24 weeks ago
East Northamptonshire |
All the hot men live 200+ miles away  |
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"All the hot men live 200+ miles away "
Not all of them do  |
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"All the hot men live 200+ miles away "
Haha…. But we’re only 70+ miles awa… oh yeah, you said hot (laughing emoji) |
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"Throwing this out there. I think it’s declined a bit due to some of the following annoying aspects
- Too many fake profiles
- Too many disrespectful men (giving us all a bad name)
- “content sellers”
- Fab for a friend request photos- wtf is all that about?
I’m sure there’s a couple of other things but I can’t remember haha.
Thoughts? "
This pretty much nails it for me. The root causes of most issues on here!! |
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That’s another one, in the world of emojis, the lack of eye roll or laughing emojis is annoying |
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Humour and charm are a lot harder over messages, wouldn’t really say it’s annoying though. |
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By *hoirCouple 24 weeks ago
Clacton/Bury St. Edmunds |
"All the hot men live 200+ miles away "
Hey, I'm only 80 miles awa... Oh. |
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Men who think it's acceptable to send unsolicited dick pics! x |
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"Throwing this out there. I think it’s declined a bit due to some of the following annoying aspects
- Too many fake profiles
- Too many disrespectful men (giving us all a bad name)
- “content sellers”
- Fab for a friend request photos- wtf is all that about?
I’m sure there’s a couple of other things but I can’t remember haha.
Thoughts? "
Haven't come across a single fake profile in 8 years here and the more disrespectful men there are the better because it makes the rest of us stand out rather than ruin anything for us.
The only things I dislike about fab are individuals rather than the site as a whole. |
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"Men who think it's acceptable to send unsolicited dick pics! x"
Definitely. That’ll fall into the disrespectful men giving us all a bad name category. |
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"Throwing this out there. I think it’s declined a bit due to some of the following annoying aspects
- Too many fake profiles
- Too many disrespectful men (giving us all a bad name)
- “content sellers”
- Fab for a friend request photos- wtf is all that about?
I’m sure there’s a couple of other things but I can’t remember haha.
Thoughts?
Haven't come across a single fake profile in 8 years here and the more disrespectful men there are the better because it makes the rest of us stand out rather than ruin anything for us.
The only things I dislike about fab are individuals rather than the site as a whole."
You’ve never come across a single fake profile? How? |
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"Throwing this out there. I think it’s declined a bit due to some of the following annoying aspects
- Too many fake profiles
- Too many disrespectful men (giving us all a bad name)
- “content sellers”
- Fab for a friend request photos- wtf is all that about?
I’m sure there’s a couple of other things but I can’t remember haha.
Thoughts?
Haven't come across a single fake profile in 8 years here and the more disrespectful men there are the better because it makes the rest of us stand out rather than ruin anything for us.
The only things I dislike about fab are individuals rather than the site as a whole.
You’ve never come across a single fake profile? How?"
By avoiding them. They are all really obvious. |
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"Sycophants"
I’ve learnt a new word. Thank you  |
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The messages I get from men asking me to fuck them or let them suck me off. I’m not gay, or bisexual or even bicurious! |
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"The messages I get from men asking me to fuck them or let them suck me off. I’m not gay, or bisexual or even bicurious! "
That’s what message filters are for buddy |
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totally agree on lack of some emoji - rolling eye and huge laughing one
lack of people prepared to actually meet - they agree and will give you a date they could possibly meet up and ... stop messaging!!
or you get the ones that message forever and have no intention of meeting either
lack of support for victims of trolls and nasty messages, reporting never seems to make them go away
but there is a lovely bunch of supporting, kind people that has its own little community. Love social events, even organised some.
it is about ing out the rubbish, but it isnt easy |
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Them disrespectful men & that my inbox isn't full of boobs, just minging cock we don't even meet men.
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"totally agree on lack of some emoji - rolling eye and huge laughing one
lack of people prepared to actually meet - they agree and will give you a date they could possibly meet up and ... stop messaging!!
or you get the ones that message forever and have no intention of meeting either
lack of support for victims of trolls and nasty messages, reporting never seems to make them go away
but there is a lovely bunch of supporting, kind people that has its own little community. Love social events, even organised some.
it is about ing out the rubbish, but it isnt easy "
Totally agree. Love that |
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By (user no longer on site) 24 weeks ago
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That there isn’t an option to appear offline. |
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"Them disrespectful men & that my inbox isn't full of boobs, just minging cock we don't even meet men.
Mrs"
We’re not all disrespectful hobos |
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"That there isn’t an option to appear offline. "
That’s a good one. The format is a little bit dated tbf |
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By *ML49Man 24 weeks ago
Burnley |
"Throwing this out there. I think it’s declined a bit due to some of the following annoying aspects
- Too many fake profiles
- Too many disrespectful men (giving us all a bad name)
- “content sellers”
- Fab for a friend request photos- wtf is all that about?
I’m sure there’s a couple of other things but I can’t remember haha.
Thoughts? "
The site owners want feedback but give nothing in return. Not even a generic message of thanks.
The site doesn't evolve or improve.
The messaging service is poor and out of date.
Messages should be instant where a window pops up so you can chat right away.
Profiles should be able to cap how many messages they want in the their inbox. Once it's full we as users can see its full and are told we can't send a message until the recipient has cleared their inbox.
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By (user no longer on site) 24 weeks ago
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"That there isn’t an option to appear offline.
That’s a good one. The format is a little bit dated tbf"
It is, but it works well so i understand why they don’t bother updating things. |
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By (user no longer on site) 24 weeks ago
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It’s too left wing and woke. |
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The endless unasked for cock pics that get sent to our inboxes.
How stroppy some get if you don't reply & send another fast message to tell you you're ignorant or it's your loss.
Those who claim to have read my profile, but clearly haven't as they're not what I'd be looking for ie couples/smokers /attached. |
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Also it would be good if you could turn off the reply from forum posts, to stop the ones who don't take part and only message to be pervy or creepy. |
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By (user no longer on site) 24 weeks ago
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"All the hot men live 200+ miles away "
Yes I'm over 200 miles away sorry???????? |
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By *ark73XXXMan 24 weeks ago
North Staffs/South Cheshire |
The knights in shining armour do my head in.
The vanishers mid chat.
The ghosting.
Never encountered a fake profile to my knowledge. |
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"Sycophants"
Wanted to reply to this then was paranoid am I being a sycophant  |
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The lack of decent toilet facilities really irks me.
I’ve resorted to urinating in the corner. |
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By *eliWoman 24 weeks ago
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"The lack of decent toilet facilities really irks me.
I’ve resorted to urinating in the corner."
Lampposts don't do it for you? Shame. |
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It would be useful to have a notification if someone quotes your forum replies. |
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The ability to turn off online status bubble..sometimes you just wanna check messages and browse forums low-key without being seen as online.
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"The lack of decent toilet facilities really irks me.
I’ve resorted to urinating in the corner.
Lampposts don't do it for you? Shame."
 I’m rather fond of a spot of lamppost pissing |
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What annoys me about Fab? The site itself, nothing at all. It's great, it's free and if you want all the improvements that have been mentioned I'm willing to bet every site member would have to pay instead of the small minority.
What annoys me about Fab users? How long you got?  |
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By (user no longer on site) 24 weeks ago
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Lack of hot, confident, dominant men.
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"The messages I get from men asking me to fuck them or let them suck me off. I’m not gay, or bisexual or even bicurious! "
Just block men from messaging you then. |
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Talking about gay orientation like a transmissible disease (in 2024)
Gender identity arguments that disintegrate into weird semantics.
Straight men complaining about being messaged by other guys but don’t or won’t set message filters.
Posts in list format.
This post. |
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I've not stumbled across any fake profiles yet, which is some feat compared to other websites..
That said, I had my verified tick removed today for leaving a verification for a "fake profile" even though it was for a woman I've known for 20+years.. Bonkers.
Can't get hold of anyone directly to explain and get it put back on either.. Marvellous.. 
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By *arkus1812Man 24 weeks ago
Lifes departure lounge NN9 Northamptonshire East not West MidlandsMidlands |
The inconsistency of forbidden words allowed in the Forum posts. |
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Guys that message me to meet now at night when
A) No
B) I am 160 miles away. |
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By *wm19Man 24 weeks ago
Cardiff |
God awful messaging system
Profile search criteria |
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The people.
Then I remember I’d like to do things to some of them |
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"The people.
Then I remember I’d like to do things to some of them "
Hahaha I was just thinking this  |
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People advertising or requesting drugs should be an instant ban, but loads seem to have it in their profiles.
And a minimum message length would be am idea and get rid of the 'Hi' or 'meet now' brigade lol |
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"Throwing this out there. I think it’s declined a bit due to some of the following annoying aspects
- Too many fake profiles
- Too many disrespectful men (giving us all a bad name)
- “content sellers”
- Fab for a friend request photos- wtf is all that about?
I’m sure there’s a couple of other things but I can’t remember haha.
Thoughts? "
Nailed it |
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I like to scroll up and down the "Hot Photos" page in quick succession.
But when I use my willy to do that instead of my hands, it always opens up one profile and ruins the rhythm.
Come on FAB - make your smartphone hotspots willy-scroll friendly. It's 2024! |
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"The people.
Then I remember I’d like to do things to some of them
Hahaha I was just thinking this "
It’s not everyone, but sometimes see stuff in local updates and think WTF |
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"All the hot men live 200+ miles away "
Not to mention ladies being hours away. |
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"Guys that message me to meet now at night when
A) No
B) I am 160 miles away."
Please Cherry, I'm only 150 miles away, can I meet? |
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Not many things annoy us - for me  only thing is I like a chatter and am clear doesn’t mean a meet if we do chatter. People are like ‘yes that’s great’ but if they get frisky in chatter and I am clear that’s not this isn’t the route of this, they get arsey! Seems silly really but then I get why people just delete messages and don’t engage. |
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By (user no longer on site) 24 weeks ago
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Having to stick to the tone of threads. |
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By *oo..Woman 24 weeks ago
Boo's World |
If I answered honestly I'd be banned |
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The very liberal opinions... though they aren't because they are intolerant of anyone else's
Mrs |
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I suppose this falls into the disrespectful category but pushy demanding men are instantly blocked. Men pretending to be a couple is so obvious |
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By *ark73XXXMan 24 weeks ago
North Staffs/South Cheshire |
"Lack of hot, confident, dominant men.
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People who think they are so ace they don’t even allow messages |
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By *ee69Man 24 weeks ago
glasgow |
"The knights in shining armour do my head in.
The vanishers mid chat.
The ghosting.
Never encountered a fake profile to my knowledge. "
All this lol but the site is a good idea |
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By *ee69Man 24 weeks ago
glasgow |
"The very liberal opinions... though they aren't because they are intolerant of anyone else's
Mrs "
100 per cent pall
Why do folk talk about politics an stuff on a shagging site lol |
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By *red333Man 24 weeks ago
Dorchester |
"All the hot men live 200+ miles away "
thankyou |
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"The very liberal opinions... though they aren't because they are intolerant of anyone else's
Mrs "
That's so true, very judgmental at times |
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Not being able to get a shag lol |
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By (user no longer on site) 24 weeks ago
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"Lack of hot, confident, dominant men.
People who think they are so ace they don’t even allow messages "
Awww mark cheer up |
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By *irthandgirthMan 24 weeks ago
Camberley occasionally doncaster |
Resistance from the site owners to any meaningful changes or improvements to the site. Realistically its 15 years out of date. There is so much potential that could be realised with a small investment. |
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By *OYFBWoman 24 weeks ago
Jersey (sometimes Notts) |
"All the hot men live 200+ miles away "
THIS.
Especially living on the Channel Islands |
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By *ost SockMan 24 weeks ago
West Wales and Cardiff |
The word “play”.
I’ve been on Fab 13 years, and totally understand it’s a key word in the swinging lexicon.
I bloomin hate it, though |
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"Throwing this out there. I think it’s declined a bit due to some of the following annoying aspects
- Too many fake profiles
- Too many disrespectful men (giving us all a bad name)
- “content sellers”
- Fab for a friend request photos- wtf is all that about?
I’m sure there’s a couple of other things but I can’t remember haha.
Thoughts? "
Too many people whining
Other than that it’s great here  |
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"The word “play”.
I’ve been on Fab 13 years, and totally understand it’s a key word in the swinging lexicon.
I bloomin hate it, though "
Yeah I agree, most men and many women love boobs, but on fab it’s some specialist niche kink for debate by the Harry potter society called ‘bweast play’ when I hear that phrase I literally wanna  |
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"- Too many fake profiles"
What fake profiles? I've never come across a fake profile. What constitutes a fake profile?
"- Too many disrespectful men (giving us all a bad name)"
It's never impeded my success on Fab.
"- “content sellers”"
I've never come across one.
"- Fab for a friend request photos- wtf is all that about?"
The calibre of women I interact with don't have this. Never seen it. |
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Another one….. men with pointy shoes, just ruining it for the rest of us with 6 toes |
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Not much to be honest. I avoid contentious discussions, ignore crap messages, accept the site’s limitations and not really too bothered about some of the idiots on the site, it’s the internet after all.
So quite content |
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All of the unsolicited vagina pictures I keep receiving  |
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By (user no longer on site) 24 weeks ago
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"Another one….. men with pointy shoes, just ruining it for the rest of us with 6 toes "
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By *red333Man 24 weeks ago
Dorchester |
Only one thing but i can't discuss it sorry |
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Way too many women. The competition is fierce. |
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By (user no longer on site) 24 weeks ago
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This thread am not here to moan or am I
Fab Swingers is good stop moaning |
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"Way too many women. The competition is fierce."
Hahaha |
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By (user no longer on site) 24 weeks ago
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"Way too many women. The competition is fierce."
Said with utter cat nip perfection.. Men are spoilt for choice |
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By (user no longer on site) 24 weeks ago
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"The word “play”.
I’ve been on Fab 13 years, and totally understand it’s a key word in the swinging lexicon.
I bloomin hate it, though "
I now get it! I actually finally got it what it’s use…
But I won’t use it myself. |
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By (user no longer on site) 24 weeks ago
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"Only one thing but i can't discuss it sorry "
Then stop leaving me in suspenders |
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By *ark73XXXMan 24 weeks ago
North Staffs/South Cheshire |
"Lack of hot, confident, dominant men.
People who think they are so ace they don’t even allow messages
Awww mark cheer up"
Aww I’m very cheerful albeit a bit laid up |
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By (user no longer on site) 24 weeks ago
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"All of the unsolicited vagina pictures I keep receiving "
Blimey that bad I never thought |
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"This thread am not here to moan or am I
Fab Swingers is good stop moaning "
People who tell other people to stop moaning |
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Women having preferences about guys they want sex with
He he only joking
Not much really I’ve lowered my expectations, enjoy the forum
As to the fakes and scammers I take a not my not my circus, not my monkeys attitude rather than let it get to me |
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By *igtoyMan 24 weeks ago
Sexytown |
"- Too many fake profiles
What fake profiles? I've never come across a fake profile. What constitutes a fake profile?
- Too many disrespectful men (giving us all a bad name) It's never impeded my success on Fab.
- “content sellers”
I've never come across one.
- Fab for a friend request photos- wtf is all that about?
The calibre of women I interact with don't have this. Never seen it."
You must be a Fab Employee. No fake profiles? No content sellers? ROFPMSL etc etc |
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By (user no longer on site) 24 weeks ago
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"This thread am not here to moan or am I
Fab Swingers is good stop moaning
People who tell other people to stop moaning "
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"- Too many fake profiles
What fake profiles? I've never come across a fake profile. What constitutes a fake profile?
- Too many disrespectful men (giving us all a bad name) It's never impeded my success on Fab.
- “content sellers”
I've never come across one.
- Fab for a friend request photos- wtf is all that about?
The calibre of women I interact with don't have this. Never seen it.
You must be a Fab Employee. No fake profiles? No content sellers? ROFPMSL etc etc"
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I think you need to re-read my response. In summary: I'm not saying any of the aforementioned don't exist, I just haven't come across them or experienced them.
Perhaps I live in an ivory tower gated community within Fab. It keeps the riffraff out. |
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If I am honest - not much annoys me about the site. It works well for me. I tend to avoid the drama and the fantasists that others seem to complain about. |
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By *dc1Man 24 weeks ago
essex and all over the south |
When you get a couples profile but you never know who is the male and who is femail. Whats the point of knowing height straight,bi etc if you dont know who is who |
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By *red333Man 24 weeks ago
Dorchester |
"Only one thing but i can't discuss it sorry
Then stop leaving me in suspenders "
you'll be in suspenders irrespective |
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By (user no longer on site) 24 weeks ago
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People not reading bios, I'm straight yet men keep messaging me for a meet. |
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"People not reading bios, I'm straight yet men keep messaging me for a meet."
Your verifications tell a different story. Just sayin' |
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By *ohnysteMan 24 weeks ago
newcastle under lyme |
People who dont reply to messages even to say no thanks. |
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People who don't read the site rules and don't know not replying to a message is a perfectly acceptable way to say no thanks. |
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By (user no longer on site) 24 weeks ago
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"People not reading bios, I'm straight yet men keep messaging me for a meet.
Your verifications tell a different story. Just sayin' "
You do realise that as humans get older, they can change right? |
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By (user no longer on site) 24 weeks ago
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"People not reading bios, I'm straight yet men keep messaging me for a meet.
Your verifications tell a different story. Just sayin'
You do realise that as humans get older, they can change right?"
Actually I'm gonna add an apology to this message, after reading it again I didn't mean for it to come across as snarky, my bad dude. I get what you were going for tho, its just that men used to be my thing but they aren't anymore. |
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"People not reading bios, I'm straight yet men keep messaging me for a meet.
Your verifications tell a different story. Just sayin'
You do realise that as humans get older, they can change right?
Actually I'm gonna add an apology to this message, after reading it again I didn't mean for it to come across as snarky, my bad dude. I get what you were going for tho, its just that men used to be my thing but they aren't anymore."
I've a very forgiving soul at the moment |
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Nothing this site is incredible |
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By (user no longer on site) 24 weeks ago
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Folk who say 'I've never experienced/encountered/met...' when someone complains about something
Good for you, think yourself lucky |
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It's mostly not Fab, it's me I'm disorganised and easily overwhelmed with my inbox
And I can't search on the data that people have added to their profiles. |
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How many fake profiles are there? I've never counted. |
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"How many fake profiles are there? I've never counted."
Especially the ones pretending to be couples or bi. Just to get a chance of hopping in a dm.
We all sinful and like messaging but come on lmao |
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By *agatoXXXMan 24 weeks ago
A Place Where Time Runs Slow |
People. Just people. |
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By *istr3ssWoman 24 weeks ago
Stockton-on-Tees |
"Men who think it's acceptable to send unsolicited dick pics! x"
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By *bxanfCouple 24 weeks ago
Freddy Fazbear's Pizzeria, Stourbridge |
People who don't read profiles.
Men who think that because I am bi I will happily play with anyone with a dick.
People who don't read profiles.
Men who send dick pics.
People who don't read profiles. |
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People that got all the talk but not the walk. 90% on here aren't gen. Just want to look at ur pics or talk about it. Lol |
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By (user no longer on site) 24 weeks ago
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Annoyed is a strong word. I’m more ‘meh’ about a lot of stuff. |
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"How many fake profiles are there? I've never counted."
Dunno, but 1 is too many |
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"Folk who say 'I've never experienced/encountered/met...' when someone complains about something
Good for you, think yourself lucky "
Hahahhahaha |
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"Annoyed is a strong word. I’m more ‘meh’ about a lot of stuff. "
That’s probably a better way of putting it, I just didn’t know how to spell ‘meh’  |
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"Resistance from the site owners to any meaningful changes or improvements to the site. Realistically its 15 years out of date. There is so much potential that could be realised with a small investment. "
True |
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I may be opening a can of worms here but genuinely curious. Though I can’t strongly state enough I in no way condone but why do people on fab have such a dislike for seeing cock pics on profiles or in a message?
I would never send one myself unless requested but considering the endless amount of adult content with body parts on display I would have thought people would have been leased phased and more “meh, seen one, seen them all, have they got anything interesting to say or other pics.”. This there certain anatomy that in general people think are to ugly or disgusting to see?
I know I’ve been sent dics and couple pics with them in different state of undress with the males Dix on display before requesting but I never thought anything of it or felt offended. Apologies for my ignorance it’s just to me, the sending of unsolicited pics etc is a very bad thing to do and so naturally just something I would never do even on fab. However I don’t think I’ve ever stopped and asked anyone on here how it makes someone feel getting these images and what is it that makes them feel so negatively about seeing certain anatomey when so much of all types is shown in most parts of the site? Again not condoning or intending to offend, just gain insight from others perspective x |
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"Folk who say 'I've never experienced/encountered/met...' when someone complains about something
Good for you, think yourself lucky "
Except for those who haven't experienced or encountered any of these things it has nothing to do with luck and that's the point.
It's about recognising and avoiding them so that you don't experience or encounter them. |
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By (user no longer on site) 24 weeks ago
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Doesn't necessarily annoy me but Most people don't read profile before replying. Also lots of fake profiles and some times these profiles are verified and even have public verifications. Strange. |
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The woke orthodoxy, and it's fake followers. |
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"I may be opening a can of worms here but genuinely curious. Though I can’t strongly state enough I in no way condone but why do people on fab have such a dislike for seeing cock pics on profiles or in a message?
I would never send one myself unless requested but considering the endless amount of adult content with body parts on display I would have thought people would have been leased phased and more “meh, seen one, seen them all, have they got anything interesting to say or other pics.”. This there certain anatomy that in general people think are to ugly or disgusting to see?
I know I’ve been sent dics and couple pics with them in different state of undress with the males Dix on display before requesting but I never thought anything of it or felt offended. Apologies for my ignorance it’s just to me, the sending of unsolicited pics etc is a very bad thing to do and so naturally just something I would never do even on fab. However I don’t think I’ve ever stopped and asked anyone on here how it makes someone feel getting these images and what is it that makes them feel so negatively about seeing certain anatomey when so much of all types is shown in most parts of the site? Again not condoning or intending to offend, just gain insight from others perspective x"
It’s a good point tbf. I don’t send them either, but people who’ve got their gammon splashed all over their profile but state they don’t wanna see dick pics I can see a slight contradiction. |
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By (user no longer on site) 24 weeks ago
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There are a few things that irritate me but if I feel they are multiplying, I take a break!
The only thing I think that probably needs reviewing is the reporting system. All that ever happens is that they block you both from seeing eachother profile . A bit like when your kids and you have a disagreement with a sibling and your parents send you to separate rooms! |
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Lol where to start...
1) People who don't read profiles at all - or message knowing they're not what your looking for "but thought I'd chance my arm"
2) Obsession some people have over the ruddy green tick verification
3) Profiles with absolutely no pictures or profile pic yet demand pics of you on first message...pot kettle black?
4) Rude people or those who think they're "it" - especially those who clearly seem to dislike new profiles
5) People demanding Whatever an "exceptional male" is |
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The fact that FAF hardly ever works |
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I take it for what it is and try not to afford it any strong annoyance. Few things I don't like; obviously fakes , people who message first and then just go silent or leave messages unread (but only because I don't understand it, no big deal), abuse of any kind towards others and inappropriate posts in forums, people who post threads with intention of causing a lot of friction (you can spot them easily though so I don't read their threads and certainly never comment on them), overstated arrogance and misplaced confidence, extreme politics, ideology and partisan dogma, lack of empathy and compassion for others including those on benefits or the disable, flaunting personal stuff like jobs, finances, houses, cars etc. as there are lots of people struggling to make ends meet at the moment and finally a tiny bit annoyed also about people who don't like olives ( I don't really mean that as some are still lovely. 
Ps, lots of wonderful people here that I love talking to. The few that aren't don't really bother me. I come on here to escape, enjoy the forums and also the opportunity to meet people. |
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By (user no longer on site) 24 weeks ago
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"Folk who say 'I've never experienced/encountered/met...' when someone complains about something
Good for you, think yourself lucky
Except for those who haven't experienced or encountered any of these things it has nothing to do with luck and that's the point.
It's about recognising and avoiding them so that you don't experience or encounter them. "
The way it's usually put across implies that the person complaining is the problem and that isn't helpful as they are, usually, newbies.
It would be like taking your car to the garage to tell them it's not working correctly and the mechanic saying 'I've got the same car and mine doesn't do that so it must be you' |
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Self promoting arrogance... Makes it very difficult for others. |
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Getting weird cryptic messages from guys who have clearly been doing the devils dandruff |
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"Folk who say 'I've never experienced/encountered/met...' when someone complains about something
Good for you, think yourself lucky
Except for those who haven't experienced or encountered any of these things it has nothing to do with luck and that's the point.
It's about recognising and avoiding them so that you don't experience or encounter them. "
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The fact that I send messages and hardly get any response and the ones that do are not interested in me |
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Fab for friend request. No thanks. |
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"Folk who say 'I've never experienced/encountered/met...' when someone complains about something
Good for you, think yourself lucky
Except for those who haven't experienced or encountered any of these things it has nothing to do with luck and that's the point.
It's about recognising and avoiding them so that you don't experience or encounter them.
The way it's usually put across implies that the person complaining is the problem and that isn't helpful as they are, usually, newbies.
It would be like taking your car to the garage to tell them it's not working correctly and the mechanic saying 'I've got the same car and mine doesn't do that so it must be you'"
For many people though it's like taking your car to the garage over and over again because you keep hitting the same pothole.
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A few things - when you take the time to write a well thought out message reference the profile include pics etc and just get it deleted. For me personally I will always reply with thankyou but not interested
I get women/couples get bombarded but a simple no thanks isn't really that difficult imho I would do that when was in a couples profile with my ex on here |
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The site is the best one out there of its type. It isn’t a rip off, there are real people here, when we were playing as a couple it was good for us to play in directing rooms, meet likeminded people and establish genuine friendships.
Since becoming old and invisible and a single swinger I’m no longer in great demand. That’s not the sites fault. It’s real life.
Oh and UTV! |
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"The people.
Then I remember I’d like to do things to some of them "
this |
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By *bi HaiveMan 24 weeks ago
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Very little.
Most of the things that frustrated me in any way are a 'me' problem, not a site problem.
People living too far away that I'd like to meet for a coffee and a natter.
People living closer that I've yet to meet because diaries never align.
Aside from that? Not a lot. If I got annoyed at the actions, views, thoughts and behaviour of others then I'd be worried. Other people's use of the site doesn't really affect me in any way. I just focus on how I want to use it. Results in a much happier existence. |
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"Throwing this out there. I think it’s declined a bit due to some of the following annoying aspects
- Too many fake profiles
- Too many disrespectful men (giving us all a bad name)
- “content sellers”
- Fab for a friend request photos- wtf is all that about?
I’m sure there’s a couple of other things but I can’t remember haha.
Thoughts? "
the amount of single fem profiles, then reply that its a couples profile |
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The constant dick pics even though our profile states the illegality of them being sent without consent. |
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"Throwing this out there. I think it’s declined a bit due to some of the following annoying aspects
- Too many fake profiles
- Too many disrespectful men (giving us all a bad name)
- “content sellers”
- Fab for a friend request photos- wtf is all that about?
I’m sure there’s a couple of other things but I can’t remember haha.
Thoughts?
the amount of single fem profiles, then reply that its a couples profile"
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It’s simple.
Rude people, I know it’s not just fab, rude people are everywhere but really some people on here wouldn’t last two minutes in the real world. |
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"The constant dick pics even though our profile states the illegality of them being sent without consent."
Just as well I can’t send them to you.
I’ve replied to you in the pics you fab’d thread by the way. |
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By (user no longer on site) 24 weeks ago
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"All the hot men live 200+ miles away "
Definitely this |
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"The constant dick pics even though our profile states the illegality of them being sent without consent.
Just as well I can’t send them to you.
I’ve replied to you in the pics you fab’d thread by the way. "
We blocked you as part of satirical reply. Unblocked now but for for one eyed snake pictures! |
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By (user no longer on site) 24 weeks ago
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How aggressive the smile emoji is
We need a closed smile one! |
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"How aggressive the smile emoji is
We need a closed smile one! "
Looks like something from the film piranha |
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By (user no longer on site) 24 weeks ago
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"4s who think they're 10s."
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"How aggressive the smile emoji is
We need a closed smile one! "
Chandler Bing |
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By (user no longer on site) 24 weeks ago
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"How aggressive the smile emoji is
We need a closed smile one!
Chandler Bing"
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By *ugby 123Couple 24 weeks ago
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"There are a few things that irritate me but if I feel they are multiplying, I take a break!
The only thing I think that probably needs reviewing is the reporting system. All that ever happens is that they block you both from seeing eachother profile . A bit like when your kids and you have a disagreement with a sibling and your parents send you to separate rooms! "
This is thought of by lots of people but it isn't true. You may get blocked from somebody in certain cases but the report will be dealt with too if verified.
Here is an explanation from Admin from another thread on how they deal with reports.
******Just a quick note. If people report others and we can verify that they have broken site rules, we always take action (either a first and final warning, partially suspended account, fully suspended, mixture of the above).
Every single report sent via the REPORT link is reviewed. Clearly it's not in our interests to have people on here who are bad for the site. Equally we need to verify what has been reported and be fair to those who have been reported.
Admin
PS. we never provide feedback on what has happened. It's just not practical given that we get 100s of reports a day.
Here is what the page says after a report has been submitted:
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Your feedback has been saved.
A website admin will shortly review your feedback and take the necessary action. After reviewing the evidence available to us, we may disable an account, remove a user, disable certain aspects of that user's account or issue a warning.
By leaving feedback you help improve the site for everyone who uses it. Thank you.****** |
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By (user no longer on site) 24 weeks ago
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Without doubt it has to be the content sellers!! |
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By *ugby 123Couple 24 weeks ago
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"Throwing this out there. I think it’s declined a bit due to some of the following annoying aspects
- Too many fake profiles
- Too many disrespectful men (giving us all a bad name)
- “content sellers”
- Fab for a friend request photos- wtf is all that about?
I’m sure there’s a couple of other things but I can’t remember haha.
Thoughts?
Haven't come across a single fake profile in 8 years here and the more disrespectful men there are the better because it makes the rest of us stand out rather than ruin anything for us.
The only things I dislike about fab are individuals rather than the site as a whole.
You’ve never come across a single fake profile? How?
By avoiding them. They are all really obvious. "
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The endless bbc threads
The endless pointless threads
The endless look at me
The endless oh poor me I can't get a meet threads
It's endless |
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By *ugby 123Couple 24 weeks ago
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Don't forget to report anyone selling content or someone you think is fake and it will be looked at normally within 48 hours.
If verified a profile will be sanctioned in one of the options in my post above |
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People sending unsolicited pics.
People sending messages telling me what they want to do to me.
Those that don't read profiles.
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"Throwing this out there. I think it’s declined a bit due to some of the following annoying aspects
- Too many fake profiles
- Too many disrespectful men (giving us all a bad name)
- “content sellers”
- Fab for a friend request photos- wtf is all that about?
I’m sure there’s a couple of other things but I can’t remember haha.
Thoughts?
Haven't come across a single fake profile in 8 years here and the more disrespectful men there are the better because it makes the rest of us stand out rather than ruin anything for us.
The only things I dislike about fab are individuals rather than the site as a whole.
You’ve never come across a single fake profile? How?
By avoiding them. They are all really obvious.
You sort of contradict yourself there. "
I haven't actually as I said further down.
I have never chatted with a fake profile so therefore have no direct engagement with any of them and as such they have no impact on my experience and don't annoy me. |
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Just my last look at the new pics, I saw a picture of a tiny crab, a dog, and I shit you not… an actual picture of Ian Beale.
I mean… come on! I get people posting the same pic over and over and over (one of them was first posted when we first signed up, nearly a decade ago), but surely there is some sort of check, no?  |
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By *ugby 123Couple 24 weeks ago
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"Throwing this out there. I think it’s declined a bit due to some of the following annoying aspects
- Too many fake profiles
- Too many disrespectful men (giving us all a bad name)
- “content sellers”
- Fab for a friend request photos- wtf is all that about?
I’m sure there’s a couple of other things but I can’t remember haha.
Thoughts?
Haven't come across a single fake profile in 8 years here and the more disrespectful men there are the better because it makes the rest of us stand out rather than ruin anything for us.
The only things I dislike about fab are individuals rather than the site as a whole.
You’ve never come across a single fake profile? How?
By avoiding them. They are all really obvious.
You sort of contradict yourself there.
I haven't actually as I said further down.
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To be fair, you did from the wording on your post which said you had never come across a fake profile and not that you had never spoke to one. So I suppose technically you have come across a fake profile, you just chose not to speak to them |
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"Throwing this out there. I think it’s declined a bit due to some of the following annoying aspects
- Too many fake profiles
- Too many disrespectful men (giving us all a bad name)
- “content sellers”
- Fab for a friend request photos- wtf is all that about?
I’m sure there’s a couple of other things but I can’t remember haha.
Thoughts?
Haven't come across a single fake profile in 8 years here and the more disrespectful men there are the better because it makes the rest of us stand out rather than ruin anything for us.
The only things I dislike about fab are individuals rather than the site as a whole.
You’ve never come across a single fake profile? How?
By avoiding them. They are all really obvious.
You sort of contradict yourself there.
I haven't actually as I said further down.
To be fair, you did from the wording on your post which said you had never come across a fake profile and not that you had never spoke to one. So I suppose technically you have come across a fake profile, you just chose not to speak to them "
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By *ugby 123Couple 24 weeks ago
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By avoiding them. They are all really obvious.
You sort of contradict yourself there.
I haven't actually as I said further down.
To be fair, you did from the wording on your post which said you had never come across a fake profile and not that you had never spoke to one. So I suppose technically you have come across a fake profile, you just chose not to speak to them
That's a little pedantic though "
It isn't. It is stating what you typed which was you hadn't come across a fake profile when in fact you admitted you have and just not spoke to them.
Which in essence means you have come across a fake profile to decide you were not going to speak to them
If you don't come across anymore don't forget to report them |
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"Lack of single girls to meet "
But women can pull whenever they like and you’re usually good at being able to tell a straight or bi person quickly to. |
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Having to refresh the page constantly.
Other than that, all is good |
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By *ustBoWoman 24 weeks ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
Not a lot really. Probably the drama that goes on in the background,the information seeking and sharing that some do as well would be the worst thing.But you learn to avoid those involved and it makes it easier.
Oh and not being able to hide the blue dot so you don't show as online as well.
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By *ullyMan 24 weeks ago
Near Clacton |
Time wasters and no shows! |
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"Not a lot really. Probably the drama that goes on in the background,the information seeking and sharing that some do as well would be the worst thing.But you learn to avoid those involved and it makes it easier.
Oh and not being able to hide the blue dot so you don't show as online as well.
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The woman's Fab curse, loads of mail from males |
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By (user no longer on site) 24 weeks ago
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People continuing to message when I have already said no thanks
But very grateful for that magic button
*block* |
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By *RWoodyCouple 24 weeks ago
Lincolnshire |
I can honestly say that nothing really annoys me about Fab! I find it a fun place to come on every now and then and take it for what it is.
Yes there can be some, what could be seen as strange messages etc, but there's also some really lovely ones too which far outweigh them.
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"The messages I get from men asking me to fuck them or let them suck me off. I’m not gay, or bisexual or even bicurious! "
I’ve turned the filter off for men to message me as this was something that kept happening to me.
I’d kindly decline them and then would get called stuck up or worse. |
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What annoys me about FAB, not a lot, I like it how it is. |
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