It only dawned on me today that I never look at people's height on their profiles, it doesn't bother me at all.
What are the things you always look at first on other peoples profiles and are there things that you don't bother looking at? |
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By (user no longer on site) 34 weeks ago
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Op like you said in a different post , I tend to look at distance and then my eye is caught with a sight of a tattoo… I’m a big sucker for curves and tattoos on women,
I do have a couple of friends I chat to who are not local tattooed who I chat to. |
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By *rispyDuckMan 34 weeks ago
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1st look at ‘distance to me’ no point if we 100s of miles apart.
2nd Are they meet verified. Being on here more than 6months - Year & no veri is a Red Flag for me 
Then profile text: do they came across as fun, sociable, GSOH or bratty & stuck up (turn off)
4th pictures  are they recent, do I find them physically attractive  |
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By (user no longer on site) 34 weeks ago
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I’m more of a pictures type of guy
I miss a lot of details when I read your profile. I miss the height, their age and location.
I read the text and quickly see whether we might be on the same wavelength.
I go back and forth if I need to know more….Several times,….  |
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I read and go over everything.
It all has to add up.
I’m very picky. Hence why no one here, hears from me in your DM’s; PERFECT.
Mindset;
The less there is, the worse it is!
The more there is that ‘is their own words’ the better.
Red flags are the typical FABisms, (quality over quantity, not looking to sleep my way through… etc)
Too many sex pics are red flag
Too many tattoos are a red flag
Hair colouring & tattoos are a very major red flag.
Pet iguana’s, hair colouring & tattoos. No chance.
I start at the profile narrative: firstly looking to filter out those too abrasive, too obtuse, or too preachy, to make themselves approachable and I can help them by blocking them, some here on this thread are blocked; they identify themselves for me. Happy to help. I don’t see why they’re here?
I like nice people, so look for well written individual creative profiles that give you snippets about a person or their motivation. Happy with understanding their tolerances and non-negotiables, but just be polite and nice.
Then I look at their distance, their preferences & then photos. Typically no picture - then I move them on. Anything over a 60 miles radius I’m most likely to ignore, but not rule out.
60miles is an hours drive, totally doable for a coffee and an audible session. |
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By (user no longer on site) 34 weeks ago
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Location, pictures, age, height and sexuality in that order, phase 2 starts with a verification check and profile read through, final stage is a message saying FAF? |
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"It only dawned on me today that I never look at people's height on their profiles, it doesn't bother me at all.
What are the things you always look at first on other peoples profiles and are there things that you don't bother looking at? "
That’s a relief (short person here) !  |
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"I read and go over everything.
It all has to add up.
I’m very picky. Hence why no one here, hears from me in your DM’s; PERFECT.
Mindset;
The less there is, the worse it is!
The more there is that ‘is their own words’ the better.
Red flags are the typical FABisms, (quality over quantity, not looking to sleep my way through… etc)
Too many sex pics are red flag
Too many tattoos are a red flag
Hair colouring & tattoos are a very major red flag.
Pet iguana’s, hair colouring & tattoos. No chance.
I start at the profile narrative: firstly looking to filter out those too abrasive, too obtuse, or too preachy, to make themselves approachable and I can help them by blocking them, some here on this thread are blocked; they identify themselves for me. Happy to help. I don’t see why they’re here?
I like nice people, so look for well written individual creative profiles that give you snippets about a person or their motivation. Happy with understanding their tolerances and non-negotiables, but just be polite and nice.
Then I look at their distance, their preferences & then photos. Typically no picture - then I move them on. Anything over a 60 miles radius I’m most likely to ignore, but not rule out.
60miles is an hours drive, totally doable for a coffee and an audible session. "
I imagine you’ve used a stop watch and have a written SOP with a flow chart diagram here - maybe a Loom explainer video to accompany this blueprint.
If it were me, I’d get that bundled up as an online course and sell it on Udemy for $100 and throw in an added value upsell of 69 copy paste done for you success formula opening DM messages ready to download the swipe file and instantly increase your Fab engagement rate by 5000% over night.
My only concern with this is:
1) how’s it that you avoid being distracted by pictures of boobs
And
2) how do you carry out the above simultaneously as still scrolling through pictures of boobs
Then I’m all in on this underground action plan of success the gurus don’t want you to know. |
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