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When you’re enjoying for foreplay, do you think the person you’re with pays enough attention to your cock? Or are you the type of guy to not mess around with that type of stuff down to the pounding?
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By (user no longer on site) 47 weeks ago
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I’m into having my penis played with. And my nipples. But usually only if I get to do it back. I think *generally* in my experience other than a blowjob there’s not much attention given to the pickle. But I don’t really care too much I’m more about giving pleasure most of the time. |
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By *sWyldWoman 47 weeks ago
Edinburgh |
I know you didn't ask for women's opinions but, I quite like to take control and tease, explore with touch and sensation etc. I sometimes find men can be a bit uneasy with receiving though. I think some have a feeling they need to be "performing" etc and it is somehow not the usual order of play to have the attention given to them.
It's a real shame. |
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By *ags73Man 47 weeks ago
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"I know you didn't ask for women's opinions but, I quite like to take control and tease, explore with touch and sensation etc. I sometimes find men can be a bit uneasy with receiving though. I think some have a feeling they need to be "performing" etc and it is somehow not the usual order of play to have the attention given to them.
It's a real shame. "
That actually sounds good.
My own thoughts are a little bit of foreplay helps build the excitement up. |
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"Sounds like a dominant women thing
I think I prefer foreplay when her hands are restrained in some way and cant distract me "
For me its not to dominate, just to give pleasure, from which I derive pleasure! |
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By *sWyldWoman 47 weeks ago
Edinburgh |
"Sounds like a dominant women thing
I think I prefer foreplay when her hands are restrained in some way and cant distract me
For me its not to dominate, just to give pleasure, from which I derive pleasure!"
This |
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By *ags73Man 47 weeks ago
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"Sounds like a dominant women thing
I think I prefer foreplay when her hands are restrained in some way and cant distract me
For me its not to dominate, just to give pleasure, from which I derive pleasure!"
and that sounds good, as long as I’m not tied up with a gag thing, fair enough.
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"I know you didn't ask for women's opinions but, I quite like to take control and tease, explore with touch and sensation etc. I sometimes find men can be a bit uneasy with receiving though. I think some have a feeling they need to be "performing" etc and it is somehow not the usual order of play to have the attention given to them.
It's a real shame. "
Certain preferences are just that though, It’s like a preference for aesthetic, quality, commerce or altruism it’s an innate preference or driver rather than a need. |
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"I know you didn't ask for women's opinions but, I quite like to take control and tease, explore with touch and sensation etc. I sometimes find men can be a bit uneasy with receiving though. I think some have a feeling they need to be "performing" etc and it is somehow not the usual order of play to have the attention given to them. It's a real shame. "
^ I can vouch for this being very, very enjoyable. ![](/icons/s/2/heart.gif) |
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There was video posted on fab once of a guy laid back on his lady (sitting position) whilst she reached around and had a good play and I thought wow that’s so cool, I’ve never had that and it looks intimate, and sexy at the same time.
I think it’s about how connected you are with the person you’re with and how honest you have been about what you’d like to try. |
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"Sounds like a dominant women thing
I think I prefer foreplay when her hands are restrained in some way and cant distract me
For me its not to dominate, just to give pleasure, from which I derive pleasure!
This "
That |
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