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Men, Do You Ever Turn Down Sex?
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Simply question. Are there any times you just don't feel like it, so you'll turn it down?  |
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Following for shock value.
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"Following for shock value.
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I think you will be the only reply |
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By *ACOLCouple 36 weeks ago
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Let me park myself here also.
Lina. |
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By *ros40Man 36 weeks ago
Bedford |
I'll be brave and addmit I've turned it down before
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What is this sex you talk of ?  |
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I have never turned it down yet, I'm putting g it down to being young and hornier than a dog in heat, haha. |
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By (user no longer on site) 36 weeks ago
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Yeah but only ever when in a relationship otherwise you are just her puppet. And if she knows she can't manipulate you with sex you get to hold a few of the cards |
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By (user no longer on site) 36 weeks ago
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I mean off course I do every single day at least on the hour |
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"Yeah but only ever when in a relationship otherwise you are just her puppet. And if she knows she can't manipulate you with sex you get to hold a few of the cards "
This sounds like a strong and healthy attitude to relationships   |
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"Yeah but only ever when in a relationship otherwise you are just her puppet. And if she knows she can't manipulate you with sex you get to hold a few of the cards "
That's healthy.
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Male half turned me down a few weeks ago after coming down the stairs in 6 inch heels and a crotchless number, simply as he was knackered.
Just like im sometimes not in the mood.
It happens to us all, so i’d imagine lots of men say no |
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There's been a few times, it still keeps me up at night |
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By *ACOLCouple 36 weeks ago
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"Yeah but only ever when in a relationship otherwise you are just her puppet. And if she knows she can't manipulate you with sex you get to hold a few of the cards "
Major flags. |
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Yeah if the woman who ask is not attractive or carry masculine energy |
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"Simply question. Are there any times you just don't feel like it, so you'll turn it down? "
Throughout my life I've turned down many times and have thought back now and thought idiot at some I've turn down and other it my ethics so was right to do so . |
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By *oo..Woman 36 weeks ago
Boo's World |
Sprout do you turn down sex? |
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Yes
It’s not just about the sex which is great granted
But someone to chat to warm the bed up cuddle sometimes enough
Only my opinion  |
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Depends. Yeah, I’ll turn down sex with someone if I don’t fancy them.
If I fancy them, it’s not very likely I’ll turn sex down, no. |
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And if I was offer. Sex now from someone else I'd turn it down as in love and happy . |
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In all seriousness we both turn each other down, we can have all the exciting plans of doing this and that during the day, time comes when the kids go to bed and we are shattered - shit happens, we'll either go without or he'll jizz on my face
Surely it's all part and parcel of being in a relationship.
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"Ask me and find out "
I just did in the Op |
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"Yeah if the woman who ask is not attractive or carry masculine energy"
Masculine energy? |
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"Sprout do you turn down sex? "
I have done yes. I was drinking Pepsi at the time though |
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By (user no longer on site) 36 weeks ago
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We don't turn down sex but will often suggest the other one has a wank |
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"Male half turned me down a few weeks ago after coming down the stairs in 6 inch heels and a crotchless number, simply as he was knackered.
Just like im sometimes not in the mood.
It happens to us all, so i’d imagine lots of men say no "
No wonder, walking down stairs in 6 inch heels wearing a crotchless number with nothing to hold his balls in is enough to wear any bloke out... |
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Yes! There has to be a physical & mental connection coupled with a spark! |
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By (user no longer on site) 36 weeks ago
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Sex returned to sender
Am sure many have rejected sex. It is not what I sense. Loads of horny fellas lately.. Spring fever. Rabbits |
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By (user no longer on site) 36 weeks ago
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Yes. I also deflect too.
I can be horny, but I don’t feel sexy all the time.
So yeah, I’ve said no. If I’m going to share myself with someone, I’m going to make sure they remember it. ….
Narrator - it’s at this point Woody hopes any women he has had the pleasure of getting naked with, don’t reply to this and remind him of exactly why they remember it … |
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By *irthandgirthMan 36 weeks ago
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Yes. Many times. I am always diplomatic about it. However I have seen some ladies turn really fucking ugly at a rejection. I guess it's rarer for them.
*this is not saying men don't.. but I have never had personal experience of a guy propositioning me. |
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By (user no longer on site) 36 weeks ago
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Often
[slaps hand. Stop it!] |
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I've had to turn down clingy woman in bars and clubs mostly for the fact they're way too fucked up, just not in me to take them home like that  |
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Yes. I have had offers before when it was not right to take advantage of someone |
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I've turned it down many times.
Sometimes because I'm tired but more often than not because I'm not attracted to the person.
I've said since joining fab 8 years ago that I like sex but I've never needed it.
That's why despite meeting close to 70 people in those 8 years I've only had sex with 6.
That has more often than not been my choice because I'm very fussy who I get naked with.
I've turned down many more offers than I've accepted. |
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By (user no longer on site) 36 weeks ago
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"Simply question. Are there any times you just don't feel like it, so you'll turn it down? "
Of course! So should anyone with an ounce of self respect. |
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By (user no longer on site) 36 weeks ago
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That has more often than not been my choice because I'm very fussy who I get naked with.
I've turned down many more offers than I've accepted. "
What? Like twice? ….
(sorry, I couldn’t help it?) |
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By *oo..Woman 36 weeks ago
Boo's World |
"Sprout do you turn down sex?
I have done yes. I was drinking Pepsi at the time though "
Best answer yet, ha ha |
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Of course. It's a stupid question. |
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By (user no longer on site) 36 weeks ago
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Absolutely. |
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"What is this sex you talk of ? "
Indeed.
SEX?!!
Who created THAT?!?
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"Yeah but only ever when in a relationship otherwise you are just her puppet. And if she knows she can't manipulate you with sex you get to hold a few of the cards
Major flags. "
Yup.
1,2,3... let's all say the word...
MISOGYNY |
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My ex turned me down frequently, so yes, they do.
He wasn't turning other women down though |
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It's not often, but I turned down sex on Saturday night, that is after a first bonk, lady wanted more, but I was tired, having driven over 200 miles, I gave her no2 in the morning.
One time a female friend grabbed my cock and I had to turn her down. It has been known to happen, but only rarely. |
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By (user no longer on site) 36 weeks ago
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Yes, for various reasons. |
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"Yeah but only ever when in a relationship otherwise you are just her puppet. And if she knows she can't manipulate you with sex you get to hold a few of the cards "
The bar is so low it’s in Hades. |
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See this was me the other night; Kelly Brook disrobed sensually in front of me and was literally begging me for carnal relations but I held out; ‘No Kelly’ I told her; ‘I am not a just a piece of meat for your lascivious attentions. Now if you will excuse me, I must therefore respectfully decline your lewd advances and will instead continue to enjoy this fascinating episode of Country File.’ |
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Yes, because I'm tired, or distracted by something, or a bit down, or generally not in the mood. On one occasion I turned it down because I was in physical pain and exhausted due to lack of sleep due to the pain, and the woman still did not want to take no for an answer - I stopped seeing that lady after that. |
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I have in the past. Won’t elaborate, for fear of coming off as a complete wazzerk |
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"Yeah but only ever when in a relationship otherwise you are just her puppet. And if she knows she can't manipulate you with sex you get to hold a few of the cards "
Well...this is grim. |
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By *MCMan 36 weeks ago
London/EA |
Far too lazy for my own good sometimes so happens more than I care to admit  |
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Yes.. I went don't connect.. the be polite enough to leave at the right time. |
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By (user no longer on site) 36 weeks ago
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I will admit my comment hasn't painted me in a great light. Unfortunately what I mean and what I say don't always come across as I want. There is a little more to this. But I should have just said yes or no |
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"I will admit my comment hasn't painted me in a great light. Unfortunately what I mean and what I say don't always come across as I want. There is a little more to this. But I should have just said yes or no"
You said what you said.
Personally, I wouldn't hold back sex from someone I love to hold power over them.
My ex did that (although he probably didn't really love me or he wouldn't have cheated and left). |
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By (user no longer on site) 36 weeks ago
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I agree with you this was the only power I had against constant emotional abuse and the fact she wanted sex with me was the only thing that made me believe she wasn't cheating on me. |
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By (user no longer on site) 36 weeks ago
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I sure would hope that men would turn down sex if they didn't feel like it....what should someone ever have sex if they didn't want to....there maybe several reasons why.... |
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I have turned down sex several times it's a very long story lol |
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By *avexxMan 36 weeks ago
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of course it happens can be a number of reasons,, |
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By (user no longer on site) 36 weeks ago
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There was one time I was washing my hair |
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By *oxesMan 36 weeks ago
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"Simply question. Are there any times you just don't feel like it, so you'll turn it down? "
Had been known on the post when I don't fancy the other person or not getting a vibe. |
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By (user no longer on site) 36 weeks ago
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I have done in the past because I didn’t feel attraction and it didn’t feel right |
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By (user no longer on site) 36 weeks ago
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Yes I have turned down sex in the past because I didn’t fancy the woman or in one case she was so d*unk I’m not certain she knew what she wanted. But I will say that when I have the woman lost her shit at me. |
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By (user no longer on site) 36 weeks ago
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Yes I have. My exs have contacted me via social media for fun/sex as missed it with me.
I had the opportunity to yesterday with an ex. I pulled out of meeting as she wanted more |
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"I will admit my comment hasn't painted me in a great light. Unfortunately what I mean and what I say don't always come across as I want. There is a little more to this. But I should have just said yes or no"
I think your thoughts were evident from your comment. |
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By (user no longer on site) 36 weeks ago
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"Yep. I am a very fussy fucker."
Exactly....Fussy & Select is very attractive to me ....
I find it extremely unattractive & a major major turn off when Men have low standards....& Some men would literally fk 'anything' yup 'anything' ..& some would & have admitted that they would....(fk 'anything')  |
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"Yep. I am a very fussy fucker.
Exactly....Fussy & Select is very attractive to me ....
I find it extremely unattractive & a major major turn off when Men have low standards....& Some men would literally fk 'anything' yup 'anything' ..& some would & have admitted that they would....(fk 'anything') "
I might have to adjust my Beaufort-Beergoggles scale on my bio a little though. |
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"Yes I have. My exs have contacted me via social media for fun/sex as missed it with me.
I had the opportunity to yesterday with an ex. I pulled out of meeting as she wanted more "
"I pulled out of meeting as she wanted more"
Do you see what you did there... or do you not?
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Maybe for some - not all, natch - men...
Every hole ain't a goal?
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I do every now and again then she turns into a rather horny mare the next time we play. So worth the wait. |
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By (user no longer on site) 36 weeks ago
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"Yes I have. My exs have contacted me via social media for fun/sex as missed it with me.
I had the opportunity to yesterday with an ex. I pulled out of meeting as she wanted more
"I pulled out of meeting as she wanted more"
Do you see what you did there... or do you not?
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Lol completely missed it. Half asleep |
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"Yes I have. My exs have contacted me via social media for fun/sex as missed it with me.
I had the opportunity to yesterday with an ex. I pulled out of meeting as she wanted more
"I pulled out of meeting as she wanted more"
Do you see what you did there... or do you not?
Lol completely missed it. Half asleep "
Haha, cool.
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With someone I don't fancy/ interested in...sure, I've turned it down many times
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I’ll go one better and tell everyone I turned down a FFM recently.
A club visit gave me the opportunity but I wasn’t feeling the vibe at all.
I’ll always turn down sex if there is no build up or excitement to it. I have a fantastic mind and a right hand - I’d rather have a wank than a sub-standard shag.
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By (user no longer on site) 36 weeks ago
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"I’ll go one better and tell everyone I turned down a FFM recently.
A club visit gave me the opportunity but I wasn’t feeling the vibe at all.
I’ll always turn down sex if there is no build up or excitement to it. I have a fantastic mind and a right hand - I’d rather have a wank than a sub-standard shag.
K"
Spoken like man in a relationship with regular sex. Oh how the other half live |
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By *TK421-Man 36 weeks ago
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I’ll always turn down sex if there is no build up or excitement to it. I have a fantastic mind and a right hand - I’d rather have a wank than a sub-standard shag.
K"
100% This...... |
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By (user no longer on site) 36 weeks ago
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I never get offerd it nvm turn it down lol |
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By (user no longer on site) 36 weeks ago
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Yeah all the time. I’m too fussy |
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A few times.
Person, circumstances, situations.
Been times a women d*unk and right thing to do is say no.
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By (user no longer on site) 36 weeks ago
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Yes, sometimes there's just no attraction. |
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Yes, Im male but im not an animal. I can think and control my urges. Sometimes im just not in the mood and a cup of tea and a good book are too tempting. Omg shoot me now im old. |
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By (user no longer on site) 36 weeks ago
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"What is this sex you talk of ? "
Isn’t that the number between 5 and 7 lol |
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By (user no longer on site) 36 weeks ago
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Many times. |
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By (user no longer on site) 36 weeks ago
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More than you believe. |
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Yep loads! I’m not one for fucking anything, and getting on a bit, so not always in the mood! |
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"More than you believe. "
More than YOU believe!!
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A few months ago with my partner, Just gone to bed and she started kissing an touching, I did the same until she started giving little moans, After 10 minutes I stopped said I was tired and rolled over, she groaned, I said If you want it wake me up during the night or in the morning, |
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By (user no longer on site) 36 weeks ago
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"More than you believe.
More than YOU believe!!
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More than you believe I am happy. I’m so happy. |
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Yes loads in the past as I stick to my type. Rarely get offers now but would rather go without than deviate from what I prefer |
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By (user no longer on site) 36 weeks ago
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Yes, if the chemistry isn't in synch; then there's not a great deal of anything going to happen. |
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Many times back in my clubbing days…”do you fancy coming back to mine for the night… nah, I’m off for a curry with my mates”…. However, when I look back … |
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By *ddie1966Man 36 weeks ago
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Yes, on a number of occasions.
And not because I wasn't attracted to them either.
On one occasion I even turned down a par of girls that lived together.
Call me all the names you want for it, but don't say I'm not a gentleman. |
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"Yes, on a number of occasions.
And not because I wasn't attracted to them either.
On one occasion I even turned down a par of girls that lived together.
Call me all the names you want for it, but don't say I'm not a gentleman."
You did ask for this this:
YOU'RE NOT A GENTLEMAN
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By (user no longer on site) 36 weeks ago
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Yes, a few times. If I'm not feeling it, I'm not feeling it. I can't just have sex for the sake of it, I want to connect. |
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By (user no longer on site) 36 weeks ago
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Yes of course, to those I'm not attracted to. |
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Yes of course men say no. Not all men are horny all the time, same as women aren't. |
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By (user no longer on site) 36 weeks ago
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"Yes of course men say no. Not all men are horny all the time, same as women aren't."
Women are. I read it in cosmopolitan
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I've absolutely turned it down when the lady offering was very obviously in a bad place and I don't take advantage.
Might say if it wasn't me it'd be someone else but my conscience wouldn't live with it and I'd rather offer help.
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By *929Man 36 weeks ago
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In a relationship situation I’d probably have to be seriously ill to say no
Casual encounters these days I’d stick to my preferred body type but in younger days was far less picky haha |
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"Yeah if the woman who ask is not attractive or carry masculine energy"
is that when they beat their chests, chuck you over their shoulders and carry you back to their caves? |
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Yes. Im suspected on the spectrum(awaiting confirmation). It affects my sex drive massively
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"Yeah if the woman who ask is not attractive or carry masculine energy
Masculine energy?"
If a woman's behaviour and the way she talks is too manly for my liking its a turn off, thats what I mean by masculine energy |
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"Yeah if the woman who ask is not attractive or carry masculine energy
is that when they beat their chests, chuck you over their shoulders and carry you back to their caves?"
No, if a woman's behaviour and the way she talks is too manly for my liking its a turn off, thats what I mean by masculine energy |
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"Yeah but only ever when in a relationship otherwise you are just her puppet. And if she knows she can't manipulate you with sex you get to hold a few of the cards
This sounds like a strong and healthy attitude to relationships "
I thought so too. Holding cards, playing games, manipulation … awww, how sweet! |
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"Yeah if the woman who ask is not attractive or carry masculine energy
Masculine energy? If a woman's behaviour and the way she talks is too manly for my liking its a turn off, thats what I mean by masculine energy"
If “the way she talks is too manly” … what does that mean? Can you give us an example? |
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By *ascaIMan 36 weeks ago
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Yeah, after my early shifts I’m too tired and all I want to do is nap, eat and nap.
I also politely decline the women that beat their chests and want to carry me back to their caves. |
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"Yeah if the woman who ask is not attractive or carry masculine energy
is that when they beat their chests, chuck you over their shoulders and carry you back to their caves?"
That is more or less what happened me with an Australian woman once. Awesome! |
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"Yes, a few times. If I'm not feeling it, I'm not feeling it. I can't just have sex for the sake of it, I want to connect."
This.
It’s not a bloody soap dispenser |
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I do, all the time. My wife generally wants it much more than me. I am older. |
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"I do, all the time. My wife generally wants it much more than me. I am older."
.. and yet you’re on here? |
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By *oo..Woman 36 weeks ago
Boo's World |
"Yes, a few times. If I'm not feeling it, I'm not feeling it. I can't just have sex for the sake of it, I want to connect.
This.
It’s not a bloody soap dispenser"
Lies!!
Why when you do the pumping motion then does soap come out? |
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"Yes, a few times. If I'm not feeling it, I'm not feeling it. I can't just have sex for the sake of it, I want to connect.
This.
It’s not a bloody soap dispenser
Lies!!
Why when you do the pumping motion then does soap come out? "
You’re not meant to use it to wash your face and hands |
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By *a LunaWoman 36 weeks ago
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I’ve been knocked back more times than a gin & tonic. It happens.
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I have turned it down in the past.
Admittedly I was already having sex with someone else at the time  |
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By *oo..Woman 36 weeks ago
Boo's World |
"Yes, a few times. If I'm not feeling it, I'm not feeling it. I can't just have sex for the sake of it, I want to connect.
This.
It’s not a bloody soap dispenser
Lies!!
Why when you do the pumping motion then does soap come out?
You’re not meant to use it to wash your face and hands "
I dont |
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Of course and some times I should not be so choosy but glad I am |
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"Yeah if the woman who ask is not attractive or carry masculine energy
is that when they beat their chests, chuck you over their shoulders and carry you back to their caves? No, if a woman's behaviour and the way she talks is too manly for my liking its a turn off, thats what I mean by masculine energy"
We're gonna need examples now...... |
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By *rRiosMan 36 weeks ago
dublin |
I have done in the past and I probably will do in the future for a variety of reasons. I am more than my penis |
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By *r TriomanMan 36 weeks ago
Chippenham Malmesbury area |
Yes of course I do, granted not often but if I'm not feeling it then I won't participate. |
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I turned it down a few occasions in my younger days mostly cause I was a bit clueless and didn’t see the signs. Turned down offers on fab recently but mostly cause I didn’t trust their profile. |
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Unfortunately sometimes we have to . |
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By (user no longer on site) 36 weeks ago
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No point in having bad sex |
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Plenty especially in these last couple of years and that's without being in a relationship |
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"Yeah if the woman who ask is not attractive or carry masculine energy
Masculine energy? If a woman's behaviour and the way she talks is too manly for my liking its a turn off, thats what I mean by masculine energy"
sooooo.....you don't like lesbians then?? I'm bi so, guess that makes me a bloke. |
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All the time on the other site |
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By (user no longer on site) 36 weeks ago
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Have turned down it before. Mainly from women that just aren’t my type. Always nice to be noticed and always flattering if offers of meets or more get given. For me I still have to have some sort of attraction in order to have sex |
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"Yeah if the woman who ask is not attractive or carry masculine energy
Masculine energy? If a woman's behaviour and the way she talks is too manly for my liking its a turn off, thats what I mean by masculine energy sooooo.....you don't like lesbians then?? I'm bi so, guess that makes me a bloke. "
It’s not clear. Apparently, he has a problem “if the way she talks is too manly.”
Not clear whether this refers to pitch, tone or content. Might mean he doesn’t like if a girl sounds like Barry white, for example (personally, a rich deep voice can be great … rula lenska jad her fans, and I quite liked tanita tikaram, who had a deep voice).
Or might refer to content. Doesn’t want a girl who talks bollocks about football for hours.
I’m imagining one of those Harry Enfield pieces about how women should conduct themselves |
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Yep, more so on dates I’ve been on where I didn’t feel the same vibe she did. |
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"Yeah if the woman who ask is not attractive or carry masculine energy
Masculine energy? If a woman's behaviour and the way she talks is too manly for my liking its a turn off, thats what I mean by masculine energy sooooo.....you don't like lesbians then?? I'm bi so, guess that makes me a bloke.
It’s not clear. Apparently, he has a problem “if the way she talks is too manly.”
Not clear whether this refers to pitch, tone or content. Might mean he doesn’t like if a girl sounds like Barry white, for example (personally, a rich deep voice can be great … rula lenska jad her fans, and I quite liked tanita tikaram, who had a deep voice).
Or might refer to content. Doesn’t want a girl who talks bollocks about football for hours.
I’m imagining one of those Harry Enfield pieces about how women should conduct themselves "
*Stops explaining the offside rule*
I s'pose I'm out then  |
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I'm not just a piece of meat to be used for your pleasure you know. Of course we do.....sometimes |
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Refuse quite regularly to be honest, if not in the mood then no point |
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Yes.once stayed over at a pals house. His Mrs tried it on when he was still in bed and I was on the sofa. Bro rules. Never had the heart to tell him. |
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"Yeah if the woman who ask is not attractive or carry masculine energy
is that when they beat their chests, chuck you over their shoulders and carry you back to their caves? No, if a woman's behaviour and the way she talks is too manly for my liking its a turn off, thats what I mean by masculine energy"
he just can't handle strong independent women with a brain bigger than his ego. |
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By *rispyDuckMan 36 weeks ago
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Yes we definitely do |
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By *rispyDuckMan 36 weeks ago
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Yes!
You need self control, can’t let sex control your mind |
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"Yeah if the woman who ask is not attractive or carry masculine energy
is that when they beat their chests, chuck you over their shoulders and carry you back to their caves? No, if a woman's behaviour and the way she talks is too manly for my liking its a turn off, thats what I mean by masculine energy he just can't handle strong independent women with a brain bigger than his ego. "
That’s not what he said though. He could have perhaps worded it better but I think he’s getting some unnecessary stick on this thread. I’m not attracted to masculine women either. At all. It’s allowed. |
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Yep! I have a few times! If someone's not for me there really is no point |
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"Yeah if the woman who ask is not attractive or carry masculine energy
is that when they beat their chests, chuck you over their shoulders and carry you back to their caves? No, if a woman's behaviour and the way she talks is too manly for my liking its a turn off, thats what I mean by masculine energy he just can't handle strong independent women with a brain bigger than his ego.
That’s not what he said though. He could have perhaps worded it better but I think he’s getting some unnecessary stick on this thread. I’m not attracted to masculine women either. At all. It’s allowed. "
It's allowed. But then again so are lesbians and bi. We are allowed to not be interested in big ego people |
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"Yeah if the woman who ask is not attractive or carry masculine energy
is that when they beat their chests, chuck you over their shoulders and carry you back to their caves? No, if a woman's behaviour and the way she talks is too manly for my liking its a turn off, thats what I mean by masculine energy he just can't handle strong independent women with a brain bigger than his ego.
That’s not what he said though. He could have perhaps worded it better but I think he’s getting some unnecessary stick on this thread. I’m not attracted to masculine women either. At all. It’s allowed. It's allowed. But then again so are lesbians and bi. We are allowed to not be interested in big ego people "
Of course you are. Makes no sense though. I don’t see the big ego relevance. |
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"Yes.once stayed over at a pals house. His Mrs tried it on when he was still in bed and I was on the sofa. Bro rules. Never had the heart to tell him."
Proper order. Fair play. My cousins gf did the same. Never told him until i learned he went with my then gf. |
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"Yeah if the woman who ask is not attractive or carry masculine energy
is that when they beat their chests, chuck you over their shoulders and carry you back to their caves? No, if a woman's behaviour and the way she talks is too manly for my liking its a turn off, thats what I mean by masculine energy he just can't handle strong independent women with a brain bigger than his ego.
That’s not what he said though. He could have perhaps worded it better but I think he’s getting some unnecessary stick on this thread. I’m not attracted to masculine women either. At all. It’s allowed. It's allowed. But then again so are lesbians and bi. We are allowed to not be interested in big ego people
Of course you are. Makes no sense though. I don’t see the big ego relevance. "
that's probably because you got a big ego, either that or you don't understand why ladies are masculine. We are strong women. Men just don't like that. |
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Had a meet with m/f couple. He was ok but she was full of herself and seemed to have the attitude she was going to do me a favour. I lost interest and just steered it into a social meet. They got the message. |
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Yes, a lass who decided to shove her hands down my pants in a pub was declined instantly and told to go sort her shit out |
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Yes normally after a cheeky wank in the bathtoom! |
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When did men hate ruthless women? |
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"Yeah if the woman who ask is not attractive or carry masculine energy
is that when they beat their chests, chuck you over their shoulders and carry you back to their caves? No, if a woman's behaviour and the way she talks is too manly for my liking its a turn off, thats what I mean by masculine energy he just can't handle strong independent women with a brain bigger than his ego.
That’s not what he said though. He could have perhaps worded it better but I think he’s getting some unnecessary stick on this thread. I’m not attracted to masculine women either. At all. It’s allowed. It's allowed. But then again so are lesbians and bi. We are allowed to not be interested in big ego people
Of course you are. Makes no sense though. I don’t see the big ego relevance. that's probably because you got a big ego, either that or you don't understand why ladies are masculine. We are strong women. Men just don't like that."
Ah! Makes perfect sense now |
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"When did men hate ruthless women?"
men expect a darlin in distress. 9 out of 10 times, we ain't. We just want to make sure you ain't a sissy. That's why woman are strong. We know when to not have sex with weak men.
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"Yeah if the woman who ask is not attractive or carry masculine energy
is that when they beat their chests, chuck you over their shoulders and carry you back to their caves? No, if a woman's behaviour and the way she talks is too manly for my liking its a turn off, thats what I mean by masculine energy he just can't handle strong independent women with a brain bigger than his ego.
That’s not what he said though. He could have perhaps worded it better but I think he’s getting some unnecessary stick on this thread. I’m not attracted to masculine women either. At all. It’s allowed. It's allowed. But then again so are lesbians and bi. We are allowed to not be interested in big ego people
Of course you are. Makes no sense though. I don’t see the big ego relevance. that's probably because you got a big ego, either that or you don't understand why ladies are masculine. We are strong women. Men just don't like that.
Ah! Makes perfect sense now "
unless ypu perfer weak men then that's your decision |
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"Yeah if the woman who ask is not attractive or carry masculine energy
is that when they beat their chests, chuck you over their shoulders and carry you back to their caves? No, if a woman's behaviour and the way she talks is too manly for my liking its a turn off, thats what I mean by masculine energy he just can't handle strong independent women with a brain bigger than his ego.
That’s not what he said though. He could have perhaps worded it better but I think he’s getting some unnecessary stick on this thread. I’m not attracted to masculine women either. At all. It’s allowed. It's allowed. But then again so are lesbians and bi. We are allowed to not be interested in big ego people
Of course you are. Makes no sense though. I don’t see the big ego relevance. that's probably because you got a big ego, either that or you don't understand why ladies are masculine. We are strong women. Men just don't like that.
Ah! Makes perfect sense now unless ypu perfer weak men then that's your decision "
What on earth are you on about? Are you reading the same thread as me?
I think I’ll leave it there. |
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Very rarely |
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"When did men hate ruthless women?"
I don’t hate ruthless women I have a distain for that particular one who non consensually shoved her hand down my pants to cop a feel. Christ if a guy did that he’d be in the cells |
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"When did men hate ruthless women?
I don’t hate ruthless women I have a distain for that particular one who non consensually shoved her hand down my pants to cop a feel. Christ if a guy did that he’d be in the cells "
If you'd reported it to the Plod, then she might well have ended up in a cell. It's assault, just the same as if a guy did something similar. |
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"When did men hate ruthless women?
I don’t hate ruthless women I have a distain for that particular one who non consensually shoved her hand down my pants to cop a feel. Christ if a guy did that he’d be in the cells "
If she looked like a model, you'd let her. Don't be silly. You perfer perfect women. We ain't perfect on fab dude |
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"When did men hate ruthless women?
I don’t hate ruthless women I have a distain for that particular one who non consensually shoved her hand down my pants to cop a feel. Christ if a guy did that he’d be in the cells If she looked like a model, you'd let her. Don't be silly. You perfer perfect women. We ain't perfect on fab dude"
She was a model, I imagine she still is that made no difference in the matter |
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"When did men hate ruthless women?
I don’t hate ruthless women I have a distain for that particular one who non consensually shoved her hand down my pants to cop a feel. Christ if a guy did that he’d be in the cells
If you'd reported it to the Plod, then she might well have ended up in a cell. It's assault, just the same as if a guy did something similar. "
And have the police ask “this 5’2” woman sexually assaulted you?” No no it doesn’t work that way |
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"When did men hate ruthless women?
I don’t hate ruthless women I have a distain for that particular one who non consensually shoved her hand down my pants to cop a feel. Christ if a guy did that he’d be in the cells
If you'd reported it to the Plod, then she might well have ended up in a cell. It's assault, just the same as if a guy did something similar.
And have the police ask “this 5’2” woman sexually assaulted you?” No no it doesn’t work that way "
Seriously, unless such things get reported, they won't get dealt with. There's a clear understanding now, for example, that men can and do suffer from domestic abuse and it is investigated. I would hope sexual assault of the kind you have described would also be investigated. |
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Guys need to learn how to be men. If she ain't you're interest then don't moan about it. You're not a woman. You are a man. Remember that. |
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"Simply question. Are there any times you just don't feel like it, so you'll turn it down? "
As a couple who average sex once a day then yes.
If your a single man on fab, then the level of thirst can never be quenched |
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"Guys need to learn how to be men. If she ain't you're interest then don't moan about it. You're not a woman. You are a man. Remember that."
Women need to learn how to be women, if he ain’t your interest then don’t moan about it. You are a woman remember that.
Reads different when it’s flipped round |
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Why this thread got outta hand.
Sex.. Let me explain it..
Is consented adult fuckery.
Men have rights to turn a light bulb off same as us women.
Enough said but keep it friendly folks.
If not consented it would be wrong to even pursue a kiss goodbye |
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"were women, we are allowed. "
Wow |
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By (user no longer on site) 36 weeks ago
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"Jesus wept "
I had a cry too. Not over this though. |
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"Simply question. Are there any times you just don't feel like it, so you'll turn it down? "
It depends how to read this question.
- I turn down lots of offers for sex if I don’t fancy a person. There should be some spark before my pants go down.
- When I was in a long term relationship (almost 14 years) I remember I turned it down just once because I was very tired and we had a bit of argument that day. Silly me, lesson learned, never decline sex offers from a woman you have had a bit of unsettled situation with.
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"When did men hate ruthless women?
I don’t hate ruthless women I have a distain for that particular one who non consensually shoved her hand down my pants to cop a feel. Christ if a guy did that he’d be in the cells If she looked like a model, you'd let her. Don't be silly. You perfer perfect women. We ain't perfect on fab dude"
True fact.. No one is perfect. |
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