aka not so serious Monday musings.
You know them ones - you got on well, met a couple of times, messaged here and there and then you never hear from them again. Not a big deal, no hard feelings, you move on and if you’re like me - I don’t really need a closure.
Months or years have passed and suddenly, out of the blue, you get a “Hey” 
You know them ones, right?
Why do you think they reasons are?
I have two:
First one - they got into some kind of relationship and now out (and about).
Second one - they’ve completed the Fab cycle and now back to square one.
I look forward to hearing what you think.
P. S. This is a completely hypothetical situation and never happened to OP
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By *a LunaWoman 37 weeks ago
South Wales |
The sex/blow job was so amazing that they just can’t forget you. No matter how they try, the memories of that blow job from December 2 1999* stays fresh in their memory. Calling to them like a sirens song.
* other dates are available. |
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By *mmaleiaWoman 37 weeks ago
East Northamptonshire |
I get this a lot, maybe a hey twice a year, little bit of banter, then gone again til next time, I’ve not seen most of these guys since I moved to the midlands, it’s been years. None have offered to come up & see me though, I know it’s hard leaving the M25 n all  |
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By *ornycougaWoman 37 weeks ago
NORWAY Wherever I lay my hat |
"They want sex and think it will be easy.
I get lots of message from people I supposedly met / fucked 15 years ago   "
This. Always amazes me that they expect me to 1. remember them and 2. Would actually be DTF |
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I think it's because they hope you'll be a sure thing , even if it's been 5,10 years.
I used to meet someone when I was single, so 9 years ish.
He messaged not that long ago wanting a repeat.
I'm only meeting socially at min (if at all) and it was clear that wasn't what he wanted, he kept nagging and I blocked him.
There's a fair bit of entitled behaviour, ie well we've met and had sex before, so I expect it again. |
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By *sWyldWoman 37 weeks ago
Edinburgh |
Life happens.
Some people I'd be more receptive to than others of course!
I left last year and came back, it doesn't devalue my friendships here, though I'm always concerned it's how they might feel. |
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Probably a conflation of situations, relationships coming and going, difficulty getting sex and they had you once, so it will be fast and easy  spring to mind.
They're not the catch they were. And fab is more difficult for a single man, who's had no veris for over 10 years |
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By (user no longer on site) 37 weeks ago
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Usually goes like this..
They show certain icky behaviours
You distance yourself because of behaviour
Come back at a later date and assume you're a goldfish who forgets certain behaviours
Repeat. |
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By (user no longer on site) 37 weeks ago
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It usually means they mistook brain freeze from cold food for a brain tumour and opted to make the most the time they have left. Absndoning their former lives they move to a gender identity commune in Fuckknowswhereistan and are persuaded if they have a sex change the tumour will be nature old gender brain and they will live. A wise person (let’s call him Colin) persuades them to return to their old lives, now hoping to have sex in the dark, using a carrot.
Probably. |
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By *TK421-Man 37 weeks ago
Cheltenham |
I came back after 3 months off because my work finally died down enough to give me the spoons to be here.
Oddly enough my friends list seems to have reduced though.....
Maybe I should message a few people 'Hey'. |
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By (user no longer on site) 37 weeks ago
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I’ve had this with couples in the past. They’re all over me like a rash until we have a meet, and then I don’t hear from them again. But then about 6 months later I get a message out from of the blue asking if I’m free at the weekend. |
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I used to have a profile that got in touch to say she loved my pics and bio and asked where I had been hiding as she had never seen me before.
My response was always that I was hiding in plain site.
She would disappear just as swiftly and 6 months later send exactly the same message.
She did this 3 or 4 times and I decided it was a wind up because she was very well verified and she couldn't have been that dumb. |
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By *xmcdTV/TS 37 weeks ago
Wrexham |
They usually get that tinge of “what am I doing?” And get scared worried they’ll be outed, found out by friends that they’re on a site such as this or found out by their partners. A lit are just pic collectors or wanting a wank through chat and then they get what they want and they go. The old classic ‘I forgot my password’ or ‘new job with a phone and laptop which I couldn’t access this on’ is another |
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