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I wouldn’t usually ask but….
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"Guys and girls of fab would you help me out and give me you opinion on my profile text. I’ve been told by someone tonight that I’m full of red flags, need to take my head out of my arse and not come across such c&*t Now I’m wondering if I really do come across this way by trying to be clear as possible on my likes and dislikes. Any advice good or bad much appreciated xxx" Your profile looks fine to us. Great pics, you say exactly what you want and what you don’t, which is absolutely your prerogative. Don’t see anything wrong with it at all. Hope you find what you’re looking for x | |||
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"Thank you all I won’t go changing it then " | |||
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"Guys and girls of fab would you help me out and give me you opinion on my profile text. I’ve been told by someone tonight that I’m full of red flags, need to take my head out of my arse and not come across such c&*t Now I’m wondering if I really do come across this way by trying to be clear as possible on my likes and dislikes. Any advice good or bad much appreciated xxx" I don’t see red flags or c&*tish behaviour in your profile. It’s well written and states what you’re looking for. Take no notice of the haters | |||
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"Guys and girls of fab would you help me out and give me you opinion on my profile text. I’ve been told by someone tonight that I’m full of red flags, need to take my head out of my arse and not come across such c&*t ….." That’s some feedback to unpack. 
My first question is. Do you think you’re a Cunt?
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"Guys and girls of fab would you help me out and give me you opinion on my profile text. I’ve been told by someone tonight that I’m full of red flags, need to take my head out of my arse and not come across such c&*t Now I’m wondering if I really do come across this way by trying to be clear as possible on my likes and dislikes. Any advice good or bad much appreciated xxx" Sounds like the message us full of red flags! Bullet dodged  | |||
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"Guys and girls of fab would you help me out and give me you opinion on my profile text. I’ve been told by someone tonight that I’m full of red flags, need to take my head out of my arse and not come across such c&*t Now I’m wondering if I really do come across this way by trying to be clear as possible on my likes and dislikes. Any advice good or bad much appreciated xxx" Sounds much more about them than you. Profile seems fine to me. Clear & consise and not derogatory with your preferences. | |||
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Sounds like whoever said that is just pissy that they don't fit your criteria and are wanting you to change your profile to match their own preferences. They sound like a manipulative arsehole and not worth worrying about. Keep your profile as it is! | |||
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"staying" STATING. Daft phone lol. | |||
"Guys and girls of fab would you help me out and give me you opinion on my profile text. I’ve been told by someone tonight that I’m full of red flags, need to take my head out of my arse and not come across such c&*t Now I’m wondering if I really do come across this way by trying to be clear as possible on my likes and dislikes. Any advice good or bad much appreciated xxx" Lovely pictures and your profile looks great. Seems to me whoever told you that is just being a cunt for the same of being a cunt In the words of ye olde wise Swift of Taylor; Players gonna play, haters gonna hate, just shake it off, shake off | |||
"Yeah, that reads like a fine profile to me. And having looked through your photos I’d certainly like to put my head up your … Sorry, don’t know what came over me there. " | |||
"Guys and girls of fab would you help me out and give me you opinion on my profile text. I’ve been told by someone tonight that I’m full of red flags, need to take my head out of my arse and not come across such c&*t ….. That’s some feedback to unpack.
My first question is. Do you think you’re a Cunt?
"Oh I can be but generally no I’d like to think I’m not | |||
"Guys and girls of fab would you help me out and give me you opinion on my profile text. I’ve been told by someone tonight that I’m full of red flags, need to take my head out of my arse and not come across such c&*t Now I’m wondering if I really do come across this way by trying to be clear as possible on my likes and dislikes. Any advice good or bad much appreciated xxx" I think your profile is great but you need to expand your age range to say 55 and hi I'm Fred | |||
Happy Fabbing | |||
"Guys and girls of fab would you help me out and give me you opinion on my profile text. I’ve been told by someone tonight that I’m full of red flags, need to take my head out of my arse and not come across such c&*t Absolutely nothing wrong with your profile. You've said what you're looking for a bit about you. Anyone has issues with that then that's not your problem. I'd move along to the next person if I was you . Now I’m wondering if I really do come across this way by trying to be clear as possible on my likes and dislikes. Any advice good or bad much appreciated xxx" | |||
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"It's them, hi, they're the problem it's them" HornyTayTay | |||
"Thank you all I won’t go changing it then "Don't, it's absolutely fine. It's very clear and your criteria are perfectly reasonable. You have great photos too. There are some people on here who spit their dummy and behave like absolute arses when they see someone they're attracted to but then find they don't meet that person's criteria. It's sheer entitlement and a childish tantrum, that's all. It can be difficult not to let it get to you but it's definitely them, not you. | |||
"Thank you all I won’t go changing it then "There's absolutely no reason whatsoever why you should change anything at all. Your profile looks fine. Its straight, to the point and honest - if anyone sees a red flag in that its because they put it there themselves. In short, leave it as it is - its great.
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"There's a few red flags, but it could be bad wording, the head in the arse stuff is a bit off but the first bit is confusing as it says different things. You say you're looking for a new fwb then.. "I'm not interested in casual hookups or one-night stands. I want the boyfriend experience without all the drama that comes with it. I'm looking for someone consistent, who enjoys regular communication, and who wants more than just a physical connection. I want a friend as well as a lover." I've had a few fwb at the same time, there was no bf experience and there was no lover experience, yes there was regular communication, no one stands (sometimes drama), consistency and connection. A fwb is just that, the bf experience means you're liable to, if not want to get feelings, so the no drama rule you have will likely be broken when they meet others and breaks your bf experience. " I disagree. It's possible to have FWBs you do stuff with as if they're a bf but you live your own lives the rest of the time. I know quite a few people who have FWBs like this and there's no drama about them seeing other people. A FWB requires that there's some sort of relationship beyond casual sex. The nature of that relationship, however, can vary broadly. I think the OP is very clear about what she wants. There's no reason FWBs can't have date nights, for example, or why that should mean there's an issue with them seeing other people too. | |||
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"I can't see a single thing wrong with it. You're just stating what you're looking for. The person that messaged you was probably annoyed that you have a mind of your own." I agree nothing wrong with it at all , there problem not yours | |||
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"There's a few red flags, but it could be bad wording, the head in the arse stuff is a bit off but the first bit is confusing as it says different things. You say you're looking for a new fwb then.. "I'm not interested in casual hookups or one-night stands. I want the boyfriend experience without all the drama that comes with it. I'm looking for someone consistent, who enjoys regular communication, and who wants more than just a physical connection. I want a friend as well as a lover." I've had a few fwb at the same time, there was no bf experience and there was no lover experience, yes there was regular communication, no one stands (sometimes drama), consistency and connection. A fwb is just that, the bf experience means you're liable to, if not want to get feelings, so the no drama rule you have will likely be broken when they meet others and breaks your bf experience. I disagree. It's possible to have FWBs you do stuff with as if they're a bf but you live your own lives the rest of the time. I know quite a few people who have FWBs like this and there's no drama about them seeing other people. A FWB requires that there's some sort of relationship beyond casual sex. The nature of that relationship, however, can vary broadly. I think the OP is very clear about what she wants. There's no reason FWBs can't have date nights, for example, or why that should mean there's an issue with them seeing other people too." Again, simply because you do stuff together doesn't make it a bf experience. It's why I said it might be bad wording and is a bit confusing. If you saw gf experience on a profile what would you think. Fwb is understandable, gf experience means a whole lot more, gf experience means expectation, ltr, and overall messiness. It's why I have to disagree - you're friends, friends with benefits. Yes that means drinks, restaurants, shopping, holidays, weekends away or doing whatever friends do, there is no difference from helping out to cooking a meal, there's mutual respect. As much as you see each other regularly, these aren't date nights.. If you're looking for a fwb, you might as well look for two fwb (or three), which she doesn't say. She doesn't say if she's happy for them to see others which would clear things up, and is why this leans more to thinking of a ltr. | |||
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"Guys and girls of fab would you help me out and give me you opinion on my profile text. I’ve been told by someone tonight that I’m full of red flags, need to take my head out of my arse and not come across such c&*t Now I’m wondering if I really do come across this way by trying to be clear as possible on my likes and dislikes. Any advice good or bad much appreciated xxx" You mean you don't put out in 30 seconds? | |||
