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By *ruceyy OP Man 38 weeks ago
London |
Fab I've had a mare recently!
Last few women I have kissed have all been TOO intense! I'm talking SHOVING tongue in my throat and moaning while effectively choking me and forcing me to fight back with my tongue just to have a bit of air!
But what is bad kissing to you?! |
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By *sWyldWoman 38 weeks ago
Edinburgh |
I adore kissing. It's so important to me. I crave it and miss it. It sets the tone for everything else.
I need someone who's lips play well with mine or it's really game over.
It takes both to make a kiss great and it probably takes only one to make it terrible.
For me bad kissing could be many things.
When it feels like it's just going through the motions.
When it's lacking any enthusiasm or ability to match my style.
When it's cold, devoid of any passion, spark or desire.
When they just don't seem to know how.
When I don't get the feeling I want to keep kissing them.
When no matter how much I might fancy them, I'm suddenly super turned off.
The nodding duck.
The slobber
All sorts of things really |
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Kissing is one of my favourite things and it's so disappointing when it's not good.
I think you can tell a lot about what's to come from a kiss. Sensual tongue swirling (with eyes closed) works for me.
I had an ex who literally jabbed his tongue in and out of my mouth, the worst kisser I've had. That was my first red flag!! |
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By (user no longer on site) 38 weeks ago
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When they press their mouth on yours so forcefully it makes your teeth clash. I don’t want to kiss them anymore.
Too much tongue
Not using any tongue (that one throws me off)
Too much saliva
Going too fast right off the bat, you’ve got to work up to it. |
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It’s usually the wrong pace or there’s a bit of hesitancy or stiffness in body. Can’t describe properly, a sort of lack of matching movement that makes it so difficult and awkward.
Really enjoy good kissing and it’s such a turn on when it’s someone in tune and that I can relax into it with. One of the things I really missed. |
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The awkward out of tune kiss,
When they try to build it up too quick, what's the rush? 
When they don't build it up when you're ready to
Its all about observing and responding, when done right it can be the biggest turn on  |
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"Fab I've had a mare recently!
Last few women I have kissed have all been TOO intense! I'm talking SHOVING tongue in my throat and moaning while effectively choking me and forcing me to fight back with my tongue just to have a bit of air!
But what is bad kissing to you?!"
*Adjusts semi first...
You say this like it's a bad thing! I love it.
But perhaps a bit of sensual stuff first including the neck. |
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Bad kissing is just when you don’t match each other’s energy.
When one of you goes fast while the other goes slow. Or one of you is passionate while the other is gentle. Or one of you is going for the tongue while the other, er, isn’t.
Anything that’s a mismatch. That just feels off. That spoils the moment. |
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You need to have timing, sync in passion, not too much tongue either of you are forcing it down the others throat, but not too little either so there’s barely any contact.
And definitely no teeth clashing. That for me is an instant no. |
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