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"So I know men and women have slightly different fews in this one. So if you have adult children 20s early 30s, would you meet someone their age or younger? "
Not sure I could give you an answer as I have no context ours are all very young.
But H and I are 18 years apart end if the day it's just a number |
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"So I know men and women have slightly different fews in this one. So if you have adult children 20s early 30s, would you meet someone their age or younger? "
Both ours are over 30 we dont meet people the younger than them, leaves us uncomfortable silly perhaps but honest.   |
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"My thought on age is I wish I was younger, but would go 10 years either side of my age."
Sorry u wasn't asking about age difference in general I was asking if you had adult children woukd you meet anyone their age or younger. X |
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"Not for me. Prefer around my age or higher.
How old is Sophia Loren again?"
Sorry I wasn't asking about age difference in general. The question was more how do people with adult children feel about would they meet anyone the same age or younger than their adult children. |
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"So I know men and women have slightly different fews in this one. So if you have adult children 20s early 30s, would you meet someone their age or younger? "
Thus question isn't about age diffeence in general it's about woukd you feel comfortable or uncomfortable meeting someone the age of your adult children or younger than them.
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I don't have kids (big sad about that) but, even if I did I do believe that for the most part age is just a number. What matters to me is personality and maturity. If found that there are plenty of young women who are immensely more mature than I am.
I have dated older, and I've dated girls 15 years younger and ot always comes down to chemistry and personality.
Age is only a problem if people make it a problem.
Oh, and one of my cousins has a step daughter who is two years older than her, and that all seems fine. |
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Yes I'm the same..some don't like when I tell them why I won't meet and don't understand. I suppose if they are under 3p0 they aren't going to have older children and understand how weird it can feel for some x |
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Age ain’t nuthin’ but a number.
Emotional maturity is the thing I’m interested in. And I’ve met 20-year olds who were more ‘adult’ than some 50-year olds in that respect.
Maybe it’s easier for me to say that because I don’t have kids.
(I don’t go actively looking for anyone specifically younger or older, but I wouldn’t turn anyone away based just on age. I’d chat and see who they were regardless.) |
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By *batMan 39 weeks ago
Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales) |
" Age is irrelevant. If they are hot, fun AND emotionally mature then I don't see the problem. "
This.
If I was in a club, I doubt asking someone their age would even cross my mind.
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By *xeterCandRCouple 39 weeks ago
Digby & Sowton, Exeter |
"I have done. Age is irrevant. If they are hot, fun AND emotionally mature then I don't see the problem.
^ She said what I said, but better. 
Both he and she said what I said but better!"
As above but basically if there is a connection and everybody is amenable then age is completely irrelevant, as long as its legal of course.
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By *bi HaiveMan 39 weeks ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"Age ain’t nuthin’ but a number.
Emotional maturity is the thing I’m interested in. And I’ve met 20-year olds who were more ‘adult’ than some 50-year olds in that respect.
Maybe it’s easier for me to say that because I don’t have kids.
(I don’t go actively looking for anyone specifically younger or older, but I wouldn’t turn anyone away based just on age. I’d chat and see who they were regardless.)"
Same boat here.
I've met people considerably younger, rarely anyone older. Of course those with children will potentially have a different midset as their home environment will be fundamentally different.
But I've never asked anyone their age at a club or social. And never been worried if someone appears a slightly (note slightly) different age to that stated on their profile. If they look like their photos and there was interest/attraction on seeing them, then that's all that matters to me. |
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"Age ain’t nuthin’ but a number.
Emotional maturity is the thing I’m interested in. And I’ve met 20-year olds who were more ‘adult’ than some 50-year olds in that respect.
Maybe it’s easier for me to say that because I don’t have kids.
(I don’t go actively looking for anyone specifically younger or older, but I wouldn’t turn anyone away based just on age. I’d chat and see who they were regardless.)"
But you do have an age filter? Is that just a light preference? |
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By (user no longer on site) 39 weeks ago
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It doesn't really matter to me. I kind of get the argument of not wanting to have sex with someone the same age as your kids, but I suppose the only comparison I can make is I wouldn't mind having sex with someone the same age as my Mum because I can make that distinction. The older I get though, the less keen I am to try and fuck someone who's 18 or 19. |
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"Age ain’t nuthin’ but a number.
Emotional maturity is the thing I’m interested in. And I’ve met 20-year olds who were more ‘adult’ than some 50-year olds in that respect.
Maybe it’s easier for me to say that because I don’t have kids.
(I don’t go actively looking for anyone specifically younger or older, but I wouldn’t turn anyone away based just on age. I’d chat and see who they were regardless.)
But you do have an age filter? Is that just a light preference? "
I think you will find that most users here have filters, but are happy to make exceptions. |
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By (user no longer on site) 39 weeks ago
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I think people’s “hard” preferences are often flexible in my experience.
I’ve had many messages from those who state in their profile they won’t meet anyone younger than their children and yet I’m younger than them…
Some people’s preferences and limits tend to change based on attraction I find, not mine though.  |
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"Age ain’t nuthin’ but a number.
Emotional maturity is the thing I’m interested in. And I’ve met 20-year olds who were more ‘adult’ than some 50-year olds in that respect.
Maybe it’s easier for me to say that because I don’t have kids.
(I don’t go actively looking for anyone specifically younger or older, but I wouldn’t turn anyone away based just on age. I’d chat and see who they were regardless.)
But you do have an age filter? Is that just a light preference?
I think you will find that most users here have filters, but are happy to make exceptions."
Kind of defeats the object if it isn’t stated clearly don’t you think?
When I come across profiles like that I bypass them as it sounds to me like “I like X but you’ll do”.
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By (user no longer on site) 39 weeks ago
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I wouldn't meet anyone much younger than me - what would we talk about 
I also find sub-30 there is a difference in maturity that i just don't have the patience for |
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"Age ain’t nuthin’ but a number.
Emotional maturity is the thing I’m interested in. And I’ve met 20-year olds who were more ‘adult’ than some 50-year olds in that respect.
Maybe it’s easier for me to say that because I don’t have kids.
(I don’t go actively looking for anyone specifically younger or older, but I wouldn’t turn anyone away based just on age. I’d chat and see who they were regardless.)
But you do have an age filter? Is that just a light preference?
I think you will find that most users here have filters, but are happy to make exceptions.
Kind of defeats the object if it isn’t stated clearly don’t you think?
When I come across profiles like that I bypass them as it sounds to me like “I like X but you’ll do”.
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Or it may mean, "wow, I never thought I'd find someone like you" |
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By *bi HaiveMan 39 weeks ago
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"I think people’s “hard” preferences are often flexible in my experience.
I’ve had many messages from those who state in their profile they won’t meet anyone younger than their children and yet I’m younger than them…
Some people’s preferences and limits tend to change based on attraction I find, not mine though. "
Definitely. 
And don't forget. Whilst people age, they often will forget to adjust their stated preferences on here at the same time, or the same rate.  |
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I don't have kids, but wouldn't meet anyone below 35 ish, deffo no one in their 20s.
I'll be 50 this year, so that will increase too.
I just wouldn't feel like we have any common ground and I like to click with those I may meet.
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By (user no longer on site) 39 weeks ago
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"I think people’s “hard” preferences are often flexible in my experience.
I’ve had many messages from those who state in their profile they won’t meet anyone younger than their children and yet I’m younger than them…
Some people’s preferences and limits tend to change based on attraction I find, not mine though.
Definitely.
And don't forget. Whilst people age, they often will forget to adjust their stated preferences on here at the same time, or the same rate. "
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"So I know men and women have slightly different fews in this one. So if you have adult children 20s early 30s, would you meet someone their age or younger?
Both ours are over 30 we dont meet people the younger than them, leaves us uncomfortable silly perhaps but honest. "
We're the same. It just doesn't sit right for us |
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"Not sexually is the simple answer to that. Socially we're happy meeting all age groups, it keeps your mind fresh to hear younger people's view on the world "
I don’t really know how to answer this as I am a person who believes, when it comes to mutual sexual activity, age shouldn’t really matter, as long as everyone is consensual and legal age, it doesn’t matter to me.
For example, and this possibly could be a thread, guessing the age of a man by just looking at his penis, I don’t think there’s much difference between young men and old men if you don’t know the age and just see the pictures |
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"Not sexually is the simple answer to that. Socially we're happy meeting all age groups, it keeps your mind fresh to hear younger people's view on the world I don’t really know how to answer this as I am a person who believes, when it comes to mutual sexual activity, age shouldn’t really matter, as long as everyone is consensual and legal age, it doesn’t matter to me.
For example, and this possibly could be a thread, guessing the age of a man by just looking at his penis, I don’t think there’s much difference between young men and old men if you don’t know the age and just see the pictures"
The thing is I'm interested in much more than a man's penis, we have met much younger men before and it just hasn't worked out sexually. I understand what you're saying but I'm 67 and you have an upper age limit of 60. |
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"Not sexually is the simple answer to that. Socially we're happy meeting all age groups, it keeps your mind fresh to hear younger people's view on the world I don’t really know how to answer this as I am a person who believes, when it comes to mutual sexual activity, age shouldn’t really matter, as long as everyone is consensual and legal age, it doesn’t matter to me.
For example, and this possibly could be a thread, guessing the age of a man by just looking at his penis, I don’t think there’s much difference between young men and old men if you don’t know the age and just see the pictures
The thing is I'm interested in much more than a man's penis, we have met much younger men before and it just hasn't worked out sexually. I understand what you're saying but I'm 67 and you have an upper age limit of 60."
I really should change that, it’s just that I don’t really expect to meet many on here, so just didn’t change it from when I was setting up the profile
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"So I know men and women have slightly different fews in this one. So if you have adult children 20s early 30s, would you meet someone their age or younger? "
I won’t meet anyone who is a substantial age gap from mine.
It creates a power dynamic that I’m not happy to play with.
Do I fancy young guys? For sure. Do I want to be with someone whose brain isn’t yet fully developed and potentially can’t yet process the long-term consequences of their actions and choices? Nah, that’s not sexy to me. |
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By (user no longer on site) 39 weeks ago
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My preference is, I prefer older woman but I completely understand if they would feel uncomfortable, having a relationship with someone potentially the same age as their children. There’s many times where a couple or a female would not feel comfortable, because I would just be the same ages, their children it’s completely understandable I take no offense of that. |
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By *otSoPoshWoman 39 weeks ago
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"18-99 with a pulse
That's a lot more specific than you used to be...
Must be getting picky in my old age  "
It had to happen sooner or later. You'll get over it soon  |
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By (user no longer on site) 39 weeks ago
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My children aren’t old enough but if they are around the same age as my sister I probably wouldn’t go there. Similarly, if they are the same age as my parents, although I am more flexible with the upper age limit we have set. It’s all about attraction and whether we have anything in common. |
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By *andT2023Couple 39 weeks ago
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My oldest is mid 20s and i just cant say i would go that low down. It just doesnt feel right .
I much prefer people more up my end of the scale ... feels more acceptable to me and we have more to chat about.
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"So I know men and women have slightly different fews in this one. So if you have adult children 20s early 30s, would you meet someone their age or younger? "
20s no 39s yes as mine aren't in that age range yet
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When I was 18/19 at my local pub the land lady was like 50+ got d*unk one night and had the wildest night ever since then I’ve always preferred mature women lol although at the time she was older than my mother but I loved it |
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No, my child is 21. That's definitely far too young and they have no experience... Life or otherwise!
25 and over, but even that's really stretching it for the lower age, depends massively on their maturity.
Someone thought it was particularly "naughty" that I was meeting much younger men, looking at my veris as he felt it would be questionable if he did the same (with women). |
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By *ogk9Man 39 weeks ago
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"My last gf was 18. We kept it secret I’m 64 why did you keep it secret ?"
We knew it wouldn’t last. And I wanted to protect her from public attacks. Which would’ve happened. Still see her but friends only. Lasted a year |
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"My last gf was 18. We kept it secret I’m 64 why did you keep it secret ?
We knew it wouldn’t last. And I wanted to protect her from public attacks. Which would’ve happened. Still see her but friends only. Lasted a year "
Did her parents know or was it secret from everyone? |
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By *ogk9Man 39 weeks ago
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"My last gf was 18. We kept it secret I’m 64 why did you keep it secret ?
We knew it wouldn’t last. And I wanted to protect her from public attacks. Which would’ve happened. Still see her but friends only. Lasted a year
Did her parents know or was it secret from everyone?"
Secret from all. Shes actually a lesbian. We work together. Got on well and still do. |
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"My last gf was 18. We kept it secret I’m 64 why did you keep it secret ?
We knew it wouldn’t last. And I wanted to protect her from public attacks. Which would’ve happened. Still see her but friends only. Lasted a year
Did her parents know or was it secret from everyone?
Secret from all. Shes actually a lesbian. We work together. Got on well and still do. "
Good to know you get along, we all need friends |
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"So I know men and women have slightly different fews in this one. So if you have adult children 20s early 30s, would you meet someone their age or younger? "
I try not to meet people same age as my kids
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By *ogk9Man 39 weeks ago
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"My last gf was 18. We kept it secret I’m 64 why did you keep it secret ?
We knew it wouldn’t last. And I wanted to protect her from public attacks. Which would’ve happened. Still see her but friends only. Lasted a year
Did her parents know or was it secret from everyone?
Secret from all. Shes actually a lesbian. We work together. Got on well and still do.
Good to know you get along, we all need friends "
True. I’m her gaffer but kinda mentor her
She cute and lovely. Always be friends |
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"My last gf was 18. We kept it secret I’m 64 why did you keep it secret ?
We knew it wouldn’t last. And I wanted to protect her from public attacks. Which would’ve happened. Still see her but friends only. Lasted a year
Did her parents know or was it secret from everyone?
Secret from all. Shes actually a lesbian. We work together. Got on well and still do.
Good to know you get along, we all need friends
True. I’m her gaffer but kinda mentor her
She cute and lovely. Always be friends "
You're her boss |
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By *ogk9Man 39 weeks ago
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"My last gf was 18. We kept it secret I’m 64 why did you keep it secret ?
We knew it wouldn’t last. And I wanted to protect her from public attacks. Which would’ve happened. Still see her but friends only. Lasted a year
Did her parents know or was it secret from
everyone?
Secret from all. Shes actually a lesbian. We work together. Got on well and still do.
Good to know you get along, we all need friends
True. I’m her gaffer but kinda mentor her
She cute and lovely. Always be friends
You're her boss "
Yeah. She left for a few months but came back as she’s happier here. |
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my ex was 20 years my senior, granted she looked half her age.
I feel comfortable going up to 10 years younger, not because I wouldn't want a 20 or 30 something to lust after me, but the truth is I know they won't.
I can't even get a woman my own age to lust after me, so half my age is going to be a definite no. I could be wrong but mm, yea/nah. |
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I prefer older women, prefer the sex and the company. I’ve slept with women 10years younger than me, and would again but it’s like say, In my work. I’m surrounded by dozens of fit little 20-22year olds but Im not comfortable flirting and trying to trap off with any of them, it’s not a good look in the work place and I suppose it’s just not me and seems noncy. Older women are just a fucking massive turn on. I grew up wanting to fuck most my mates mums. Should say it all |
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By *ogk9Man 39 weeks ago
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"I prefer older women, prefer the sex and the company. I’ve slept with women 10years younger than me, and would again but it’s like say, In my work. I’m surrounded by dozens of fit little 20-22year olds but Im not comfortable flirting and trying to trap off with any of them, it’s not a good look in the work place and I suppose it’s just not me and seems noncy. Older women are just a fucking massive turn on. I grew up wanting to fuck most my mates mums. Should say it all "
Wasn’t a trap at all thanks. We got on well and it happened. Never even entered my mind till it eventually happened |
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By *ornycougaWoman 39 weeks ago
NORWAY Wherever I lay my hat |
"Age ain’t nuthin’ but a number.
Emotional maturity is the thing I’m interested in. And I’ve met 20-year olds who were more ‘adult’ than some 50-year olds in that respect.
Maybe it’s easier for me to say that because I don’t have kids.
(I don’t go actively looking for anyone specifically younger or older, but I wouldn’t turn anyone away based just on age. I’d chat and see who they were regardless.)"
RTG that will teach me not to scan the replies in thread already. Eloquent response as always  |
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By *ornycougaWoman 39 weeks ago
NORWAY Wherever I lay my hat |
"Age ain’t nuthin’ but a number.
Emotional maturity is the thing I’m interested in. And I’ve met 20-year olds who were more ‘adult’ than some 50-year olds in that respect.
Maybe it’s easier for me to say that because I don’t have kids.
(I don’t go actively looking for anyone specifically younger or older, but I wouldn’t turn anyone away based just on age. I’d chat and see who they were regardless.)
RTG that will teach me not to scan the replies in thread already. Eloquent response as always "
Ffs wrong emoji |
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By *ogk9Man 39 weeks ago
worksop |
"I’ve always liked older women. When I was at school I fancied one teacher in particular. She used to wear very tight trousers"
Teacher in my school slept with a few pupils. One a mate He actually felt her breasts in front of all class |
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"I’ve always liked older women. When I was at school I fancied one teacher in particular. She used to wear very tight trousers"
I had a crush of two teachers when I was 15. I had to wait three years to make it happen with one of them. It happened by chance, I met her sister in a bar, she invited me over to her place and there was my teacher... I learned a lot from that experience. |
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By *j555Couple 39 weeks ago
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Initially I said no. I have children 27 and 30 and so thought 30 and lower was wrong... what does it matter really? It's only because I got married and had children young that I have kids that age. When you meet someone in a club you don't ask their age. So yes, I have had someone younger than my oldest and I enjoyed it too! |
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"So I know men and women have slightly different fews in this one. So if you have adult children 20s early 30s, would you meet someone their age or younger? "
No too young I think. Think late 40s and 50s. |
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"Initially I said no. I have children 27 and 30 and so thought 30 and lower was wrong... what does it matter really? It's only because I got married and had children young that I have kids that age. When you meet someone in a club you don't ask their age. So yes, I have had someone younger than my oldest and I enjoyed it too!"
And good for you |
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By *ames-77Man 39 weeks ago
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"Initially I said no. I have children 27 and 30 and so thought 30 and lower was wrong... what does it matter really? It's only because I got married and had children young that I have kids that age. When you meet someone in a club you don't ask their age. So yes, I have had someone younger than my oldest and I enjoyed it too!"
Well said ! I agree ! |
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"I’ve always liked older women. When I was at school I fancied one teacher in particular. She used to wear very tight trousers
Teacher in my school slept with a few pupils. One a mate He actually felt her breasts in front of all class "
now in prison ? |
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"So I know men and women have slightly different fews in this one. So if you have adult children 20s early 30s, would you meet someone their age or younger? "
phew actually as I've got older my age range has become simpler, its not set in stone unlike many womens because age is just a number literally. So many attractive women on here but for the young ones they are just that an attraction  |
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"My last gf was 18. We kept it secret I’m 64 why did you keep it secret ?
We knew it wouldn’t last. And I wanted to protect her from public attacks. Which would’ve happened. Still see her but friends only. Lasted a year
Did her parents know or was it secret from everyone?
Secret from all. Shes actually a lesbian. We work together. Got on well and still do. "
Ah. Another man who thinks he slept with a lesbian.
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By (user no longer on site) 39 weeks ago
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And another each question. ..
I don’t have kids at that age, so I’m just imagining when they are 30 to 40 years old. I will be a lot older, and I think the options will be taken out of my hands. |
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By *ogk9Man 39 weeks ago
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"My last gf was 18. We kept it secret I’m 64 why did you keep it secret ?
We knew it wouldn’t last. And I wanted to protect her from public attacks. Which would’ve happened. Still see her but friends only. Lasted a year
Did her parents know or was it secret from everyone?
Secret from all. Shes actually a lesbian. We work together. Got on well and still do.
Ah. Another man who thinks he slept with a lesbian.
I don’t care what you think lol
Have a good day tho
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I make my decisions on the overall package - wit, intelligence, sexual "nous".
That tends to be mid-20s to mid-50s, but there are no absolute reasons why it can't be older or younger.
I'd be fully turned off if a younger person was only interested in "Daddy" dynamics, and equally turned off in an older person had lost their mental, emotional, and intellectual curiosity.
So age is less vital to me than other factors. |
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"So I know men and women have slightly different fews in this one. So if you have adult children 20s early 30s, would you meet someone their age or younger? "
Recently entered my 30s last couple of years and I’ve always had a thing for woman older than myself
My mates mums age
But I’d also be interested in going younger too I don’t think younger than 22 but |
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"So I know men and women have slightly different fews in this one. So if you have adult children 20s early 30s, would you meet someone their age or younger? "
not if they lived in the same area as the kids. I'd hate to think that they knew them.
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My partner is 25 and I am approaching 50....
I am extrovert and she is introvert...I am a social butterfly and she prefers to stay in....
Mentality and personality are more important than your age ....if there is a will...there is always a way..... |
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We tend not to see anyone under 40.
Firstly, it's rather creepy to have someone ploughing away who is conceivably of an age to be your son.
The second reason is they are more social-media oriented, and with that can come a rather cavalier attitude to privacy. While they are younger and have less to lose, for those entrenched in long-term careers and their community, loose talk can have devastating consequences. |
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By (user no longer on site) 39 weeks ago
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"So I know men and women have slightly different fews in this one. So if you have adult children 20s early 30s, would you meet someone their age or younger? "
I have children in their mid 30s. I don't meet anyone their age or younger. In fact i don't meet anyone even 10 years older than my children. |
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By (user no longer on site) 39 weeks ago
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Prefer to get to know them a bit and base a decision to meet on what they are like as a person rather than dismissing a meet just based on how old they are really. Each to their own though of course. |
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By *arkus1812Man 39 weeks ago
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"Old people tend to be more creepy and pervy. And they're so boring to be around.
It's true. I'm deadly boring and horribly creepy. "
I will admit to being boring at times but have never been accused of being horribly creepy. Yet! |
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"Old people tend to be more creepy and pervy. And they're so boring to be around.
It's true. I'm deadly boring and horribly creepy.
I will admit to being boring at times but have never been accused of being horribly creepy. Yet! "
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By *j555Couple 39 weeks ago
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"Initially I said no. I have children 27 and 30 and so thought 30 and lower was wrong... what does it matter really? It's only because I got married and had children young that I have kids that age. When you meet someone in a club you don't ask their age. So yes, I have had someone younger than my oldest and I enjoyed it too!
And good for you "
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By *j555Couple 39 weeks ago
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"Initially I said no. I have children 27 and 30 and so thought 30 and lower was wrong... what does it matter really? It's only because I got married and had children young that I have kids that age. When you meet someone in a club you don't ask their age. So yes, I have had someone younger than my oldest and I enjoyed it too!
Well said ! I agree !"
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By *ustBoWoman 39 weeks ago
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I don't have children but I've no interest in having sex with people a lot younger than me. Or those who are a lot older than me either. I find people closer to my own age more attractive and we have more in common.
My filters on here are more to cut down on messages but I probably wouldn't go any lower than what they are set as now. |
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