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I've got to the point where my hands aren't enough, so a little tickler is a great help for me! I also like my g-spot to be stimulated, and with my back problem I can't reach it myself, so toys are invaluable for that. |
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I bought a pocket pussy for the first time recently having previously thought the same as you and to be honest, when I first used it, I never wanted to use my hand again  |
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"I bought a pocket pussy for the first time recently having previously thought the same as you and to be honest, when I first used it, I never wanted to use my hand again "
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"Sometimes it's about the variety for me, as I have more choices. Especially if I'm not trying to do anything quickly, wanting a longer period of enjoyment "
Wouldn't edging take care of that? Not sure what you mean about variety? Type of orgasm? |
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"You can practice dick riding techniques
The only way I can think to do that is buy a rubber dildo and stick it to something. My knees would give way! "
You can improve leg strength and dick riding techniques |
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By *eliWoman 39 weeks ago
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"I bought a pocket pussy for the first time recently having previously thought the same as you and to be honest, when I first used it, I never wanted to use my hand again "
Really random question but did you happen to film this? |
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"I've got to the point where my hands aren't enough, so a little tickler is a great help for me! I also like my g-spot to be stimulated, and with my back problem I can't reach it myself, so toys are invaluable for that."
A little tickler - is that a toy? Honestly don't know if I've stimulated my g spot. I've different types of orgasms which seem to suggest I'm doing alright. |
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"You can practice dick riding techniques
The only way I can think to do that is buy a rubber dildo and stick it to something. My knees would give way!
You can improve leg strength and dick riding techniques "
I can also do squats without killing my knees! I guess I'm not very good at the sex |
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"I've got to the point where my hands aren't enough, so a little tickler is a great help for me! I also like my g-spot to be stimulated, and with my back problem I can't reach it myself, so toys are invaluable for that.
A little tickler - is that a toy? Honestly don't know if I've stimulated my g spot. I've different types of orgasms which seem to suggest I'm doing alright. "
That's my colloquialism. I use rabbits and occsdionally one toy which 'sucks' on the clitoris. Honestly, that little sucker gives me absolutely the best orgasms ever. Better than I or any man has ever managed.
(Now preparing for my inbox to explode ) |
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"I bought a pocket pussy for the first time recently having previously thought the same as you and to be honest, when I first used it, I never wanted to use my hand again
Really random question but did you happen to film this?"
I haven't, unfortunately. The idea of an hour long video of me edging myself with it with lube everywhere before the big, leg shaking finale just doesn't seem that sexy to me...  |
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"I bought a pocket pussy for the first time recently having previously thought the same as you and to be honest, when I first used it, I never wanted to use my hand again
Really random question but did you happen to film this?"
Unexpected. NOT |
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"I bought a pocket pussy for the first time recently having previously thought the same as you and to be honest, when I first used it, I never wanted to use my hand again
Jesus "
That's what I said the first time I slid it in |
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In all seriousness women are magnificently differnet so saying what's good for you when you've either not tried or are comfy doing what you're doing is bit pointless. It's pretty widely know though that they do enhance sex lives, whether it's a dildo or a vibe it's a matter of finding that what do something or pushes those buttons into that giggly, crunched up mess.
Have you ever used a toy in sex? As that's a bit different to not owning one. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 39 weeks ago
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"I bought a pocket pussy for the first time recently having previously thought the same as you and to be honest, when I first used it, I never wanted to use my hand again
Jesus
That's what I said the first time I slid it in "
FFS My pocket pussy needs something different I think so don't go sending me your referral link |
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"I bought a pocket pussy for the first time recently having previously thought the same as you and to be honest, when I first used it, I never wanted to use my hand again
Jesus
That's what I said the first time I slid it in "
I agree those flesh lights are awesome |
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"I bought a pocket pussy for the first time recently having previously thought the same as you and to be honest, when I first used it, I never wanted to use my hand again
Jesus
That's what I said the first time I slid it in
FFS My pocket pussy needs something different I think so don't go sending me your referral link "
Try getting a prison pocket they'll love ya |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 39 weeks ago
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"I've got to the point where my hands aren't enough, so a little tickler is a great help for me! I also like my g-spot to be stimulated, and with my back problem I can't reach it myself, so toys are invaluable for that.
A little tickler - is that a toy? Honestly don't know if I've stimulated my g spot. I've different types of orgasms which seem to suggest I'm doing alright.
That's my colloquialism. I use rabbits and occsdionally one toy which 'sucks' on the clitoris. Honestly, that little sucker gives me absolutely the best orgasms ever. Better than I or any man has ever managed.
(Now preparing for my inbox to explode )"
The sucker thing sounds ok actually. Will have a look after I've recovered from the link Prey sent. |
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By (user no longer on site) 39 weeks ago
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"I've got to the point where my hands aren't enough, so a little tickler is a great help for me! I also like my g-spot to be stimulated, and with my back problem I can't reach it myself, so toys are invaluable for that."
Ok ok you know I’ll help reach those hard to hit parts hehe |
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"I don't own any. I can make myself come in a matter of minutes and it's free. The orgasms are excellent.
What am I missing?
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I could explain, but you would need to be more specific. E.g. a strapon is useful for pegging or fucking another woman. |
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"I've got to the point where my hands aren't enough, so a little tickler is a great help for me! I also like my g-spot to be stimulated, and with my back problem I can't reach it myself, so toys are invaluable for that.
Ok ok you know I’ll help reach those hard to hit parts hehe"
That's nice you've got a little tickler |
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"I've never been able to achieve that, with just my own hands/fingers. So toys are definitely the way forward! "
I guess I figured that's why most women use toys, but although I rarely orgasm with a man, I've no problem getting myself off. Some women have told me the toys will desensitise after a while as well? |
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Toys give me different, sometimes better, orgasms than just using my hands. I also like watching partners use toys or use toys on them. They can also be good for fantasy play e.g. a realistic dildo could represent a third person. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 39 weeks ago
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"In all seriousness women are magnificently differnet so saying what's good for you when you've either not tried or are comfy doing what you're doing is bit pointless. It's pretty widely know though that they do enhance sex lives, whether it's a dildo or a vibe it's a matter of finding that what do something or pushes those buttons into that giggly, crunched up mess.
Have you ever used a toy in sex? As that's a bit different to not owning one. "
I don't have a sex life. So I don't see how it could enhance it. Men have used buzzy things. Meh. They were just annoying. |
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"In all seriousness women are magnificently differnet so saying what's good for you when you've either not tried or are comfy doing what you're doing is bit pointless. It's pretty widely know though that they do enhance sex lives, whether it's a dildo or a vibe it's a matter of finding that what do something or pushes those buttons into that giggly, crunched up mess.
Have you ever used a toy in sex? As that's a bit different to not owning one.
I don't have a sex life. So I don't see how it could enhance it. Men have used buzzy things. Meh. They were just annoying. "
I'd say its about trying one that works for you.. get the right one and it can be amazing... I used to think like you but found some good things..
Perhaps a bullet toy.. I find it's the where as well as what I use xx |
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"I don't own any. I can make myself come in a matter of minutes and it's free. The orgasms are excellent.
What am I missing?
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Probably not much. Plastic cant replace flesh. My wife isnt enamoured with them either. That said her eyes lit up at a strapon. God help me.
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"In all seriousness women are magnificently differnet so saying what's good for you when you've either not tried or are comfy doing what you're doing is bit pointless. It's pretty widely know though that they do enhance sex lives, whether it's a dildo or a vibe it's a matter of finding that what do something or pushes those buttons into that giggly, crunched up mess.
Have you ever used a toy in sex? As that's a bit different to not owning one.
I don't have a sex life. So I don't see how it could enhance it. Men have used buzzy things. Meh. They were just annoying. "
My lady, you clearly have not been introduced to the world of bondage and domination where certain implements are essential for an exhaustive exploration of one's desires...  |
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"My lady, you clearly have not been introduced to the world of bondage and domination where certain implements are essential for an exhaustive exploration of one's desires... "
Not to claim I don't have an extensive collection of impact and restraint implements. But I wouldn't say anything was essential to an exhaustive exploration session apart from the right person to do it with  |
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"I bought a pocket pussy for the first time recently having previously thought the same as you and to be honest, when I first used it, I never wanted to use my hand again
Really random question but did you happen to film this?
I haven't, unfortunately. The idea of an hour long video of me edging myself with it with lube everywhere before the big, leg shaking finale just doesn't seem that sexy to me... "
oh my god I would love to watch that that would turn me on so much |
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By *ezandCCouple 39 weeks ago
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Kez can enjoy herself with her fingers without a problem, but she enjoys how the other tools make her feel, a warm up with the lush, combine it with the womaniser clit sucker and her eyes roll. And she also enjoys the big vibes from a her wand.
It’s all about the different feeling she gets. |
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By (user no longer on site) 39 weeks ago
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"I don’t need to use them but my fingers don’t vibrate and that feels better.
I personally think it's failure in human evolution that they don't  "
It would have saved me a lot of money if they did |
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"I've never been able to achieve that, with just my own hands/fingers. So toys are definitely the way forward!
I guess I figured that's why most women use toys, but although I rarely orgasm with a man, I've no problem getting myself off. Some women have told me the toys will desensitise after a while as well?"
I've not found that. But I do like to vary the toys. I guess in a similar way to having different partners - different toys give different orgasms. |
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By (user no longer on site) 39 weeks ago
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The Satisfyer clit sucker toy thing was a toy I was certain was more hyped up than it truly would be. I was wrong. I thought no way is this silly little air blowing thing going to make me orgasm. I was so wrong.
Toys just add an extra side of fun to the have you can have with only your fingers. |
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By *eliWoman 39 weeks ago
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Much like with those I fuck, I like variety. Different sensations, different things for different moods.
I love digital stimulation, can come easily through a multitude of ways but it's incredibly hot and fun to explore the myriad of ways I can orgasm with toys.
Also, I've always wanted to have a sex toy collection to rival a courtesan; I'm definitely getting there now. |
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"I don't own any. I can make myself come in a matter of minutes and it's free. The orgasms are excellent.
What am I missing?
I could explain, but you would need to be more specific. E.g. a strapon is useful for pegging or fucking another woman."
Just for me on my own. No interest in pegging a man or women sexually |
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Toys for masturbation do little/nothing for me. Vibrating things are either annoying or make me go numb. Things to stick inside the vay-jay-jay feel too hard or weird compared to an actual penis and I don't like it.
I do enjoy using butt plugs and other sex accoutrements that don't involve penetration or vibration. |
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I don't have a budget to try out expensive toys. I was curious, really, but it would appear I just don't have a huge amount of curiousity about different experiences (from plastic). Maybe a clit sucky/tickly thing if they're not to ££. Or a phreak stuffie. |
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"I don't have a budget to try out expensive toys. I was curious, really, but it would appear I just don't have a huge amount of curiousity about different experiences (from plastic). Maybe a clit sucky/tickly thing if they're not to ££. Or a phreak stuffie. "
Keep an eye out for inventory drops. There's some real bargains in there. Just check the dimensions first because that's how I ended up with that monster Krampus for less than £40
I never used to like plasticky toys. I find the silicone they use a much more pleasant experience and the way it squishes and reacts to body heat |
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Just nice having variety. Different types of orgasms and reaching different spots.
I can use my hands and be quite happy. But sometimes I want something bigger or deeper and wany to hit the A spot, not just the G spot. Or I fancy anal. Or I want a DP.
I opt to not limit myself |
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"I don't own any. I can make myself come in a matter of minutes and it's free. The orgasms are excellent.
What am I missing?
I could explain, but you would need to be more specific. E.g. a strapon is useful for pegging or fucking another woman.
Just for me on my own. No interest in pegging a man or women sexually "
A dildo is useful for experiencing anal sex when a proper cock is unavailable. |
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"I don't own any. I can make myself come in a matter of minutes and it's free. The orgasms are excellent.
What am I missing?
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I don’t know from a woman’s point of view, although all the videos I’ve ever seen, they seem to enjoy it. Why don’t you try sometime, they may be more powerful orgasms |
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By (user no longer on site) 39 weeks ago
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"I don't own any. I can make myself come in a matter of minutes and it's free. The orgasms are excellent.
What am I missing?
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I’m the same but I play with toys along with A cock
Maybe this could be what your missing? |
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I'm not really a fan of buzzy toys. I'm not into hard dildos either. My fingers do a far better job.
If using toys, I much prefer a softer life-like dildo for added extras... YET the njoy dildo is 1kg of steel and gives the closest feeling to an actual fuck.
Most of our toys are for sensual play - stimulation, restriction or impact.
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"I like the coldness of a glass dildo, add in a womaniser or wand and…. Boom! 
Toys add different sensations, much better than using just your fingers x"
I used a glass dildo on someone once and along with the lube, feeling it go in and out was really hot. And then seeing her face enjoying it as well turned me on even more. |
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"I bought a pocket pussy for the first time recently having previously thought the same as you and to be honest, when I first used it, I never wanted to use my hand again
Really random question but did you happen to film this?
I haven't, unfortunately. The idea of an hour long video of me edging myself with it with lube everywhere before the big, leg shaking finale just doesn't seem that sexy to me... "
Sounds sexy as hell to me |
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"I bought a pocket pussy for the first time recently having previously thought the same as you and to be honest, when I first used it, I never wanted to use my hand again
Really random question but did you happen to film this?
I haven't, unfortunately. The idea of an hour long video of me edging myself with it with lube everywhere before the big, leg shaking finale just doesn't seem that sexy to me...
Sounds sexy as hell to me "
Well I suppose if the demand is there  |
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"I've got to the point where my hands aren't enough, so a little tickler is a great help for me! I also like my g-spot to be stimulated, and with my back problem I can't reach it myself, so toys are invaluable for that.
A little tickler - is that a toy? Honestly don't know if I've stimulated my g spot. I've different types of orgasms which seem to suggest I'm doing alright.
That's my colloquialism. I use rabbits and occsdionally one toy which 'sucks' on the clitoris. Honestly, that little sucker gives me absolutely the best orgasms ever. Better than I or any man has ever managed.
(Now preparing for my inbox to explode )"
Sounds like more than your inbox is exploding with that sucker!!! |
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"Sometimes it's about the variety for me, as I have more choices. Especially if I'm not trying to do anything quickly, wanting a longer period of enjoyment
Wouldn't edging take care of that? Not sure what you mean about variety? Type of orgasm?"
Larger objects than fingers, for example, gives different stimulation, as does having something that can be inserted from different angles. I can also avoid breaking any bones, when my bodyweight is used for leverage etc |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 39 weeks ago
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"I don't have a budget to try out expensive toys. I was curious, really, but it would appear I just don't have a huge amount of curiousity about different experiences (from plastic). Maybe a clit sucky/tickly thing if they're not to ££. Or a phreak stuffie.
Keep an eye out for inventory drops. There's some real bargains in there. Just check the dimensions first because that's how I ended up with that monster Krampus for less than £40
I never used to like plasticky toys. I find the silicone they use a much more pleasant experience and the way it squishes and reacts to body heat "
Are you on commission? Cos you're selling it to me  |
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"I can't hence the toys. We are all built differently. "
We truly are. I feel that I'm weird because I can't come from penetration and only once from oral. Trying to battle that thinking! |
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"I don't have a budget to try out expensive toys. I was curious, really, but it would appear I just don't have a huge amount of curiousity about different experiences (from plastic). Maybe a clit sucky/tickly thing if they're not to ££. Or a phreak stuffie.
Keep an eye out for inventory drops. There's some real bargains in there. Just check the dimensions first because that's how I ended up with that monster Krampus for less than £40
I never used to like plasticky toys. I find the silicone they use a much more pleasant experience and the way it squishes and reacts to body heat
Are you on commission? Cos you're selling it to me "
I mean, I do have an affiliate link when I am actively selling. This is just genuine enthusiasm for their stuff though |
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"I can't hence the toys. We are all built differently.
We truly are. I feel that I'm weird because I can't come from penetration and only once from oral. Trying to battle that thinking!"
I've met a few women who don't cum from penetration, one of them was my ex, so it's not weird at all. To be honest I prefer oral or using my hands so it's never been an issue. |
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"I can't hence the toys. We are all built differently.
We truly are. I feel that I'm weird because I can't come from penetration and only once from oral. Trying to battle that thinking!"
Can't is a very strong word
. Till a few years ago I'd have said I don't cum from a few things.. then with a few people it happened.. sex is very much in the mind... and sometimes our mind can work against us xx but as long as your enjoying it try not to over think it
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By (user no longer on site) OP 39 weeks ago
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"I can't hence the toys. We are all built differently.
We truly are. I feel that I'm weird because I can't come from penetration and only once from oral. Trying to battle that thinking!
Can't is a very strong word
. Till a few years ago I'd have said I don't cum from a few things.. then with a few people it happened.. sex is very much in the mind... and sometimes our mind can work against us xx but as long as your enjoying it try not to over think it
Cali"
I agree it's in the mind, absolutely! Amazes me that some women can come on command. X |
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"I don't have a budget to try out expensive toys. I was curious, really, but it would appear I just don't have a huge amount of curiousity about different experiences (from plastic). Maybe a clit sucky/tickly thing if they're not to ££. Or a phreak stuffie.
Keep an eye out for inventory drops. There's some real bargains in there. Just check the dimensions first because that's how I ended up with that monster Krampus for less than £40
I never used to like plasticky toys. I find the silicone they use a much more pleasant experience and the way it squishes and reacts to body heat
Are you on commission? Cos you're selling it to me
I mean, I do have an affiliate link when I am actively selling. This is just genuine enthusiasm for their stuff though "
Really? I can tell your enthusiasm is genuine.  |
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"Really? I can tell your enthusiasm is genuine. "
There's only 2 of the fantasy range that I don't own at least one version of, and the Okami is only because every time I go to buy it they drop something else amazing and I get distracted |
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"Really? I can tell your enthusiasm is genuine.
There's only 2 of the fantasy range that I don't own at least one version of, and the Okami is only because every time I go to buy it they drop something else amazing and I get distracted "
Must make a striking collection in your place I can just imagine one of my kids finding one of those monsters  |
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"Really? I can tell your enthusiasm is genuine.
There's only 2 of the fantasy range that I don't own at least one version of, and the Okami is only because every time I go to buy it they drop something else amazing and I get distracted
Must make a striking collection in your place I can just imagine one of my kids finding one of those monsters "
I don't have children. Means I can spend all my money on beautiful tentacles and fuck me shoes.
Although, I think a silicone 'abstract sculpture' is probably marginally less traumatising for the kids than an outright penis if they find it |
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"Really? I can tell your enthusiasm is genuine.
There's only 2 of the fantasy range that I don't own at least one version of, and the Okami is only because every time I go to buy it they drop something else amazing and I get distracted
Must make a striking collection in your place I can just imagine one of my kids finding one of those monsters
I don't have children. Means I can spend all my money on beautiful tentacles and fuck me shoes.
Although, I think a silicone 'abstract sculpture' is probably marginally less traumatising for the kids than an outright penis if they find it "
Yeah, I spend my money on trips to France I don't get to go on and trainers I won't wear.
They wouldn't be traumatised. They'd just wind me up for years to come. Savage. |
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We recently purchased a “rose” and have to admit the results are fantastic as Mrs uk squirts regularly using it
Her next favourite is a “bullet” type vibe
Very quiet and very strong and very efficient !!! |
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By (user no longer on site) 39 weeks ago
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"I can't hence the toys. We are all built differently.
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I agree it's in the mind, absolutely! Amazes me that some women can come on command. X"
It is in the mind. I once climaxed when I was giving oral to a woman. I remember the buildup vividly.
And it’s that reason I think I could have an orgasm sucking a ladies boobs, but you definitely have to have a connection with somebody, has to be with the right person I couldn’t do that with trust anybody. You’ve just Gotta let yourself go |
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By *illnatMan 39 weeks ago
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Recently purchased a cheap fleshlight type device and to be honest… one of the best orgasms I’ve had in a while. I like to masturbate. Few times a day so definitely a game changer as far as that’s concerned. Now I’ve tried the cheaper Tesco version(yes that’s where I got it…. Off to look at the more expensive options. |
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By *me2u2Man 39 weeks ago
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"Recently purchased a cheap fleshlight type device and to be honest… one of the best orgasms I’ve had in a while. I like to masturbate. Few times a day so definitely a game changer as far as that’s concerned. Now I’ve tried the cheaper Tesco version(yes that’s where I got it…. Off to look at the more expensive options. "
Tesco ?? Tell me more |
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By (user no longer on site) 39 weeks ago
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A toy can help masturbators achieve a more exciting orgasm. That fades when you have to clean it. This degrades the complexity of the toy compared to how easy it is to clean and dry. I think that is why I am always going back to Tenga Eggs. Not the best, but so easy to enjoy an extra special orgasm with just a simple clean up. |
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By *illnatMan 39 weeks ago
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"A toy can help masturbators achieve a more exciting orgasm. That fades when you have to clean it. This degrades the complexity of the toy compared to how easy it is to clean and dry. I think that is why I am always going back to Tenga Eggs. Not the best, but so easy to enjoy an extra special orgasm with just a simple clean up."
To be fair I haven’t minded the clean up part. Get what you mean though. |
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By (user no longer on site) 39 weeks ago
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I can’t think of any sex toy that I don’t have, but having had to rely on them for so long, I find them all rather so predictable and boring to the point that I often don’t bother.
During the night however the subconscious mind on the other hand has given me the most powerful, physical orgasms ever |
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I think sex toys are great when used with other people.
An ex of mine used to have a large collection so I invented a game called "who am I" where I would blindfold her, tie her to the bed and use her toys on her. If she could guess correctly which one I was using, she was allowed an orgasm. It was good fun. Specially when I once got bored so, I left her with her magic wand just about almost touching her, and I went and made a cup of tea! |
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By *ewels74Woman 39 weeks ago
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There is also other intruiging toys out there that ive seen/heard others use and had always been mentioned to me to try and get, so i bought a Lush 3 which also cane be used on you remotely near of far ie even another continent, but they are controlling the link as well when its deep inside you and even though tested remotely once on me to see if it did work it def does the job so to speak, and also have a long dildo as well that you push buttons and it moves in and out. These do wonders when your too lazy to use fingers haha |
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I have never used one on myself, and my wife only very rarely uses one on herself, much more fun when you use them on each other, mostly me using them on her. Fun for a change I would say. Also for when something a little larger than what I can offer is called for. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 39 weeks ago
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"I can't hence the toys. We are all built differently.
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I agree it's in the mind, absolutely! Amazes me that some women can come on command. X
It is in the mind. I once climaxed when I was giving oral to a woman. I remember the buildup vividly.
And it’s that reason I think I could have an orgasm sucking a ladies boobs, but you definitely have to have a connection with somebody, has to be with the right person I couldn’t do that with trust anybody. You’ve just Gotta let yourself go "
Easier said than done. If it wasn't for all the fucking pesky frogs.... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 39 weeks ago
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"I can’t think of any sex toy that I don’t have, but having had to rely on them for so long, I find them all rather so predictable and boring to the point that I often don’t bother.
During the night however the subconscious mind on the other hand has given me the most powerful, physical orgasms ever "
I didn't know that was a thing. Wow. It's ironic that in the search for excitement you'd end up bored by toys. Perhaps I'm best off staying as I am. |
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I bought myself a prostate vibrator, because I wanted to experience a genuine, hands-free orgasm. It’s good, for variety, but so far no hands-free orgasm.
I also have a wanking sleeve, to wean myself off the ‘death grip’…..it works really well tbf….. |
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My rose clit sucker arrived from Lovehoney the other day and I’ve already had several huge orgasms. It’s up there with my wand - both make me cum hard, and they’re both intense, just different.
It needs a charge already |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 39 weeks ago
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"I bought myself a prostate vibrator, because I wanted to experience a genuine, hands-free orgasm. It’s good, for variety, but so far no hands-free orgasm.
I also have a wanking sleeve, to wean myself off the ‘death grip’…..it works really well tbf….. "
You're not the first to give the sleeve a  ! I do remember my ex had one and I was very grateful because he left me alone. |
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By *a LunaWoman 39 weeks ago
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"I don't own any. I can make myself come in a matter of minutes and it's free. The orgasms are excellent.
What am I missing?
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Show off!
Some of us need a little bit of help from the Ann Summers turbo thruster 3000 with the 4 AAA batteries. |
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"I don't own any. I can make myself come in a matter of minutes and it's free. The orgasms are excellent.
What am I missing?
Show off!
Some of us need a little bit of help from the Ann Summers turbo thruster 3000 with the 4 AAA batteries."
I’m glad you’ve moved onto the battery operated one, when you had the mains powered one I could tell when you were using it, the lights in Dorset used to dimm |
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By *a LunaWoman 39 weeks ago
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"I don't own any. I can make myself come in a matter of minutes and it's free. The orgasms are excellent.
What am I missing?
Show off!
Some of us need a little bit of help from the Ann Summers turbo thruster 3000 with the 4 AAA batteries.
I’m glad you’ve moved onto the battery operated one, when you had the mains powered one I could tell when you were using it, the lights in Dorset used to dimm "
The electricity bill was just too much and the National Grid got arsey sorry |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 39 weeks ago
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"I don't own any. I can make myself come in a matter of minutes and it's free. The orgasms are excellent.
What am I missing?
Show off!
Some of us need a little bit of help from the Ann Summers turbo thruster 3000 with the 4 AAA batteries."
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"I bought myself a prostate vibrator, because I wanted to experience a genuine, hands-free orgasm. It’s good, for variety, but so far no hands-free orgasm.
I also have a wanking sleeve, to wean myself off the ‘death grip’…..it works really well tbf…..
You're not the first to give the sleeve a ! I do remember my ex had one and I was very grateful because he left me alone. "
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By (user no longer on site) OP 39 weeks ago
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"Currently waiting for a clit sucker vibrator to arrive.
My vibrator is good but want to see what this is like..
Too much effort using my fingers.."
These seem to be highly recommended! I looked at the Rose thingy last night and it's the first vibrator type toy that's ever appealed to me. |
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"Currently waiting for a clit sucker vibrator to arrive.
My vibrator is good but want to see what this is like..
Too much effort using my fingers..
These seem to be highly recommended! I looked at the Rose thingy last night and it's the first vibrator type toy that's ever appealed to me."
Still waiting for it to arrive.. |
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By *bi HaiveMan 39 weeks ago
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"Currently waiting for a clit sucker vibrator to arrive.
My vibrator is good but want to see what this is like..
Too much effort using my fingers..
These seem to be highly recommended! I looked at the Rose thingy last night and it's the first vibrator type toy that's ever appealed to me."
The rose ones aren't great. Having tested stuff for a certain company for a decade that was one that didn't go down well - it's a funny design from a pra tidal point of view even though it's quite aesthetically nice.
There's definitely better options. |
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"Currently waiting for a clit sucker vibrator to arrive.
My vibrator is good but want to see what this is like..
Too much effort using my fingers..
These seem to be highly recommended! I looked at the Rose thingy last night and it's the first vibrator type toy that's ever appealed to me.
The rose ones aren't great. Having tested stuff for a certain company for a decade that was one that didn't go down well - it's a funny design from a pra tidal point of view even though it's quite aesthetically nice.
There's definitely better options. "
This isn't a Rose one those look like air fresheners to me, this one's on a stick thing |
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By (user no longer on site) 39 weeks ago
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For me it's the whole idea of trying something new, I have a lot of toys that I experiment with to see what feels good and what I like or not. I love taking pics with my toys and just playing around with them, it gives me the freedom to try things I wouldn't in person if that makes sense x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 39 weeks ago
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"Currently waiting for a clit sucker vibrator to arrive.
My vibrator is good but want to see what this is like..
Too much effort using my fingers..
These seem to be highly recommended! I looked at the Rose thingy last night and it's the first vibrator type toy that's ever appealed to me.
The rose ones aren't great. Having tested stuff for a certain company for a decade that was one that didn't go down well - it's a funny design from a pra tidal point of view even though it's quite aesthetically nice.
There's definitely better options. "
It's ok, I don't have the dosh to buy one right now. What are your expert recommendations? |
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"Currently waiting for a clit sucker vibrator to arrive.
My vibrator is good but want to see what this is like..
Too much effort using my fingers..
These seem to be highly recommended! I looked at the Rose thingy last night and it's the first vibrator type toy that's ever appealed to me.
The rose ones aren't great. Having tested stuff for a certain company for a decade that was one that didn't go down well - it's a funny design from a pra tidal point of view even though it's quite aesthetically nice.
There's definitely better options.
It's ok, I don't have the dosh to buy one right now. What are your expert recommendations? "
It was rubbish, not powerful enough, no suction & made me sore even with lube.
But got a refund, they don't want it back |
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By (user no longer on site) 39 weeks ago
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Hands do the job perfectly well (clit stimulation) but vibrator does it faster & more intensely as it can reach my clit, gspot & give me the "full" sensations all at the same time. Also not being the direct 'toucher' (my hand's nerve endings), as well as the receiver (my body parts nerve endings), means I focus in on the body parts being stimulated, upping the intensity. |
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By *bi HaiveMan 39 weeks ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"Currently waiting for a clit sucker vibrator to arrive.
My vibrator is good but want to see what this is like..
Too much effort using my fingers..
These seem to be highly recommended! I looked at the Rose thingy last night and it's the first vibrator type toy that's ever appealed to me.
The rose ones aren't great. Having tested stuff for a certain company for a decade that was one that didn't go down well - it's a funny design from a pra tidal point of view even though it's quite aesthetically nice.
There's definitely better options.
It's ok, I don't have the dosh to buy one right now. What are your expert recommendations? "
To be honest the basic starlet one did the job intended. And way cheaper. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 39 weeks ago
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"Currently waiting for a clit sucker vibrator to arrive.
My vibrator is good but want to see what this is like..
Too much effort using my fingers..
These seem to be highly recommended! I looked at the Rose thingy last night and it's the first vibrator type toy that's ever appealed to me.
The rose ones aren't great. Having tested stuff for a certain company for a decade that was one that didn't go down well - it's a funny design from a pra tidal point of view even though it's quite aesthetically nice.
There's definitely better options.
It's ok, I don't have the dosh to buy one right now. What are your expert recommendations?
It was rubbish, not powerful enough, no suction & made me sore even with lube.
But got a refund, they don't want it back "
Oh, really? How disappointing! What's next on your try list? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 39 weeks ago
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"Hands do the job perfectly well (clit stimulation) but vibrator does it faster & more intensely as it can reach my clit, gspot & give me the "full" sensations all at the same time. Also not being the direct 'toucher' (my hand's nerve endings), as well as the receiver (my body parts nerve endings), means I focus in on the body parts being stimulated, upping the intensity. "
That was really interesting to read. I've never been super interested in orgasms, much prefer other things to do with sex. But perhaps I could add some spice to my (single) life! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 39 weeks ago
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"Currently waiting for a clit sucker vibrator to arrive.
My vibrator is good but want to see what this is like..
Too much effort using my fingers..
These seem to be highly recommended! I looked at the Rose thingy last night and it's the first vibrator type toy that's ever appealed to me.
The rose ones aren't great. Having tested stuff for a certain company for a decade that was one that didn't go down well - it's a funny design from a pra tidal point of view even though it's quite aesthetically nice.
There's definitely better options.
It's ok, I don't have the dosh to buy one right now. What are your expert recommendations?
To be honest the basic starlet one did the job intended. And way cheaper. "
I had to look that up as no idea what you meant! Still nearly £50 from what I can see? |
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I find that five off the wrist trains my cock to cum. I'm using sex toys to mix it up and practice hip thrusting while playing with my nipples. Simulating how I like to fuck. I like to play with her clit with my cock inside and I can practice this with a toys. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 39 weeks ago
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"Vibration just gets on my tits!
That’s where you’re going wrong! You’re supposed to put it on your clit."
That just annoyed me, my tits didn't like it any better |
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Nice to use sex toys but Mrs4 regards them as either a warm up or a thing to be used along with sex ??...as can't take the place of a nice tongue/fingers combo but very very nice using one in combination but she does stop most toys vibrating ??  |
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