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By *eliWoman 44 weeks ago
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They're really not though. I have a few male friends and they really don't want to have sex with me and I really don't want to have sex with them. Friendships can exist without sex. Even on a fuck site.
Also, a man isn't less of a gentleman because he wants to fuck my cute quim.
Hope you're okay OP. |
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Possible. I love going for a coffee with women. Knowing I won't go to bed with most of them. Working in a male environment for all my working life and a male boarding school before that, I crave female companionship and chat. Easy to chat and not fuck or think about it.
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I have some very good female friends. There is absolutely no desire for any sexual activity on my side. I'm pretty sure the feeling is mutual...and that's fine.
I'm not friends with women just in the hope that at some point we get to fuck. I value them as friends. |
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By *bi HaiveMan 44 weeks ago
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"#notallmen"
What's wrong with tall men? 
OP of course men can have platonic women friends. Sure, it might be harder to find men looking just for that on here, because the majority are here to swing or just looking for a random bunk up.
But there's plenty that are happy not to get naked with others. |
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"They're really not though. I have a few male friends and they really don't want to have sex with me and I really don't want to have sex with them. Friendships can exist without sex. Even on a fuck site.
Also, a man isn't less of a gentleman because he wants to fuck my cute quim.
Hope you're okay OP."
This.
I’ve got lots of female friends that are more like sisters now. My mind just doesn’t even go there now as we’ve known each other for decades.
Now….*taps and twiddles finger on table coyly *. How cute are we talking?  |
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I have zero women friends. I have women acquaintances.
My oldest friendships are all with men. Men I’ve never kissed, or had sex with. My best friend of over twenty years is a man. None of these men would ever have sex with me, I’m like a sibling to them all. |
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By (user no longer on site) 44 weeks ago
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It's totally possible. One of my closest friends is a man and it's purely platonic. You are way off the mark by saying all men are pigs. I know quite a few men and they are all gents, you must be meeting the wrong men. I hope one day you find a gent who makes you happy. |
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By (user no longer on site) 44 weeks ago
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Gentlemen of the forim are devine.
Remind me of a gentleman I lost the idea of what they were after I turned 40..life began to see them not so often. Rare breed too.  |
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I have a male friend who started as a fuck buddy but over the years have become platonic... Not had sex in years!
Now he's met a cis woman who doesn't know his swinging lifestyle and is not happy his old friend is me. She phones him when she knows he's round my place to check in on him.
I've said to him she's clearly not happy so I'll stop inviting him over for food and catch ups in case he gets into trouble.
It's a sad sad situation... |
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"Is it possible for you to have female friends.... or does there have to be sex involved...?
Sigh... even the most gentlemanly men are pigs!
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I have very healthy platonic friendships with several women, without the sex ting or mention of it, in fact one is my closest confident. That I share everything with, except the sex...
So yes it's possible
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By *eavilMan 44 weeks ago
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Of course it is possible. I have many female friends over the years and have been very happy with non-physical relationships. True friendship and honesty is more important than a quick leg over. |
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"Is it possible for you to have female friends.... or does there have to be sex involved...?
Sigh... even the most gentlemanly men are pigs!
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really??
That’s nice, I have several really close female friends and that’s it, just friends.
My best friend is female actually,and when I go round for dinner once a month and I do any little jobs that needs doing because she’s away a lot being an air hostess,when i go round for dinner and a catch up once a month, I stay over and stay in the same bed cos she only has a one bedroom apartment and she will not have me sleeping on the sofa and neither will I kick her out of her bed so we sleep in the same bed, wake up have coffee and croissants in bed and chat for another hour or so before we get up.
We are best friends and nothing would ever happen. Xx
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Not all men think with their protrusion, so like many of the posters on here men can and do have female friends where sex is not even thought of.
I can’t imagine what’s happened that makes you say even the gentlemanlist (forgive spelling or if it’s not a word) are still pigs. I humbly beg to differ. |
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"They're really not though. I have a few male friends and they really don't want to have sex with me and I really don't want to have sex with them. Friendships can exist without sex. Even on a fuck site.
Also, a man isn't less of a gentleman because he wants to fuck my cute quim.
Hope you're okay OP."
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Yes if its crystal clear to both parties that nothing is going to happen.
If you have female friends that are not single I think it is important to include their partners in the friendship though.
If an old female friend calls and they
are with their husband /boyfriend i'll try invite them from the background and converse with them both.
-I feel like that's the right thing to do. |
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I've always preferred being in a group with women to blokes. Nothing sexual about it either. I can quite happily be friendly with someone without wanting their nipples in my mouth |
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"Is it possible for you to have female friends.... or does there have to be sex involved...?
Sigh... even the most gentlemanly men are pigs!
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I have a few female friends that I don't want to fuck |
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"....even the most gentlemanly men are pigs!".
Can't help but notice when men make sweeping generalisations about women there's always condemnation and outrage.
Not sure why women get a free pass with stuff like this?
I don't particularly want anyone to be treated that way I just find the disparity interesting  |
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Absolutely you can. No question at all.
The person I consider my "best friend" whom I have known since we were both 4 years old just happens to be a female. Ours is a "brother/sister" relationship and we have never been sexually intimate. We've never had any issue from either of us having partners etc... as they can see that we're just friends so, as far as we know, we've never been perceived as a "threat" by anyone. People who have come later into our inner circle as it were have often asked if we've ever done anything, but we genuinely haven't. It'd feel "wrong" too.
So the answer to this post is YES. |
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By *eliWoman 44 weeks ago
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""....even the most gentlemanly men are pigs!".
Can't help but notice when men make sweeping generalisations about women there's always condemnation and outrage.
Not sure why women get a free pass with stuff like this?
I don't particularly want anyone to be treated that way I just find the disparity interesting "
I don't think the OP is quite getting a free pass with this. But yes, it happens. I think women can be treated differently on the forums and can get away with saying some appalling crap. |
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""....even the most gentlemanly men are pigs!".
Can't help but notice when men make sweeping generalisations about women there's always condemnation and outrage.
Not sure why women get a free pass with stuff like this?
I don't particularly want anyone to be treated that way I just find the disparity interesting
I don't think the OP is quite getting a free pass with this. But yes, it happens. I think women can be treated differently on the forums and can get away with saying some appalling crap. "
I don’t even bother arguing anymore. I’ve given up on the double standards.
It’s not just in fab. Everywhere. |
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""....even the most gentlemanly men are pigs!".
Can't help but notice when men make sweeping generalisations about women there's always condemnation and outrage.
Not sure why women get a free pass with stuff like this?
I don't particularly want anyone to be treated that way I just find the disparity interesting
I don't think the OP is quite getting a free pass with this. But yes, it happens. I think women can be treated differently on the forums and can get away with saying some appalling crap. "
Come on guys, it’s not that serious I don’t think.
Women say things like men are trash and have been saying if for years. I don’t think it means literally all men? Idk man.
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""....even the most gentlemanly men are pigs!".
Can't help but notice when men make sweeping generalisations about women there's always condemnation and outrage.
Not sure why women get a free pass with stuff like this?
I don't particularly want anyone to be treated that way I just find the disparity interesting
I don't think the OP is quite getting a free pass with this. But yes, it happens. I think women can be treated differently on the forums and can get away with saying some appalling crap.
I don’t even bother arguing anymore. I’ve given up on the double standards.
It’s not just in fab. Everywhere. "
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""....even the most gentlemanly men are pigs!".
Can't help but notice when men make sweeping generalisations about women there's always condemnation and outrage.
Not sure why women get a free pass with stuff like this?
I don't particularly want anyone to be treated that way I just find the disparity interesting
I don't think the OP is quite getting a free pass with this. But yes, it happens. I think women can be treated differently on the forums and can get away with saying some appalling crap.
Come on guys, it’s not that serious I don’t think.
Women say things like men are trash and have been saying if for years. I don’t think it means literally all men? Idk man.
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No you're probably right. But equally I've seen men say things and I've thought it's tongue in cheek yet nonetheless their threads get swamped with angry responses.
Anyway, it doesn't much matter. I'm not a man, a gentleman *or a pig (I don't think). Nor do my male friends want to sleep with me |
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By *eliWoman 44 weeks ago
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"I don't think the OP is quite getting a free pass with this. But yes, it happens. I think women can be treated differently on the forums and can get away with saying some appalling crap.
Come on guys, it’s not that serious I don’t think.
Women say things like men are trash and have been saying if for years. I don’t think it means literally all men? Idk man.
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Is this your way of saying 'calm down, woman, you're being hysterical?'
I don't think it means all men, I think it's more someone's been hurt by a man and is now all 'eurgh men are the worst, dumpster fires the lot of 'em.'
I do think there's a difference in response. I'm also not quite as serious or taking this is as deeply as you might think. I'm trying to find an emoish lace slip atm, that's how deep my thoughts are. |
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""....even the most gentlemanly men are pigs!".
Can't help but notice when men make sweeping generalisations about women there's always condemnation and outrage.
Not sure why women get a free pass with stuff like this?
I don't particularly want anyone to be treated that way I just find the disparity interesting
I don't think the OP is quite getting a free pass with this. But yes, it happens. I think women can be treated differently on the forums and can get away with saying some appalling crap.
I don’t even bother arguing anymore. I’ve given up on the double standards.
It’s not just in fab. Everywhere.
Come on, man "
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"Is it possible for you to have female friends.... or does there have to be sex involved...?
Sigh... even the most gentlemanly men are pigs!
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In the words of that indomitable bouncer from Bolton, Maxwell Bygraves, “How dare you!?” |
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"If I'm honest, I reckon I'd struggle to be just friends with a woman if I was attracted to them.
If I wasn't attracted to them or they were taken, it wouldn't be an issue.
Does this make me a pig?"
I don’t think it makes you a pig, but it probably means you have some issues that you should get therapy for. |
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"I'm surprised all the men are replying so politely after being called pigs by the OP!  "
I’m guessing there’s a particular reason for that. I’m not offended as I guess we all know how bad men can be at times. |
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"I'm surprised all the men are replying so politely after being called pigs by the OP!
I’m guessing there’s a particular reason for that. I’m not offended as I guess we all know how bad men can be at times."
Yes I'm guessing there is too. But if a man said the same about women I wouldn't be polite. |
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I chat to quite a lot of women - most of them I have no interest in them sexually.
I think you need different people in this lifestyle - some to help you navigate when you first set out, some to lean on when you’ve had bad experiences and some to bounce off for a laugh.
I’ve friend zoned a lot as I’d rather be seen as a gent first rather than some sleazy guy.
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"I'm surprised all the men are replying so politely after being called pigs by the OP!
I’m guessing there’s a particular reason for that. I’m not offended as I guess we all know how bad men can be at times.
Yes I'm guessing there is too. But if a man said the same about women I wouldn't be polite. "
I’m not for getting into guessing and that’s for the OP
As for men on general getting online pelters, what’s new? I’d be more surprised at a thread praising men.
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"I'm surprised all the men are replying so politely after being called pigs by the OP! "
We are talking about a profile that has been on here for over a year, no veris, minimal pix or profile text and says they can’t accom or travel. If people wanted a description of a troll account then I give you the prize exhibit. |
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If I'm totally honest (which I always am), I have more female friends than male friends and I wouldn't want to jump into bed with the majority of them. The ones I would are aware I would but it's never going to happen.
I value their friendship more than anything. I'd rather go for a night out with one of the ladies than with my buddies because they have nothing to prove and I can relax around them. |
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"Is it possible for you to have female friends.... or does there have to be sex involved...?
Sigh... even the most gentlemanly men are pigs!
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Is it possible for you to have female friends, yes
or does there have to be sex involved, no, but guys brain will go there at some point. |
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"If I'm honest, I reckon I'd struggle to be just friends with a woman if I was attracted to them.
If I wasn't attracted to them or they were taken, it wouldn't be an issue.
Does this make me a pig?
I don’t think it makes you a pig, but it probably means you have some issues that you should get therapy for."
You could be right. Or the others are lying... |
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"I'm surprised all the men are replying so politely after being called pigs by the OP!
Thick skin "
It's a comment from a stranger on a website. Who gives a fuck?
Besides, all men are bastards. I saw it in a movie once.
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"I'm surprised all the men are replying so politely after being called pigs by the OP!
Thick skin
It's a comment from a stranger on a website. Who gives a fuck?
Besides, all men are bastards. I saw it in a movie once.
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I didn't mean anyone should be hurt by it. I'm just bemused why you're all answering a troll politely |
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"I'm surprised all the men are replying so politely after being called pigs by the OP!
We are talking about a profile that has been on here for over a year, no veris, minimal pix or profile text and says they can’t accom or travel. If people wanted a description of a troll account then I give you the prize exhibit."
Princess PD is real. She's been a Nocturnal host and has a gallery of incredible photos. Just because you're seeing them when they're wounded doesn't make them a troll.
My thoughts would be that some men can be friendly for a very long time if they think you might fuck them. No, not all men. Yes, more than you'd think.
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"I'm surprised all the men are replying so politely after being called pigs by the OP! "
I thought it was tongue in cheek 
But I think it's absolutely possible to have women who are friends, as long as we both know that's all we want and there are no romantic feelings on either side. As soon as that gets involved, it can definitely become harder and you can start to second guess how you should behave or act as opposed to just acting as you normally would around them. |
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"I'm surprised all the men are replying so politely after being called pigs by the OP!
We are talking about a profile that has been on here for over a year, no veris, minimal pix or profile text and says they can’t accom or travel. If people wanted a description of a troll account then I give you the prize exhibit.
Princess PD is real. She's been a Nocturnal host and has a gallery of incredible photos. Just because you're seeing them when they're wounded doesn't make them a troll.
My thoughts would be that some men can be friendly for a very long time if they think you might fuck them. No, not all men. Yes, more than you'd think.
J"
I'm sorry I called her that in that case. I still think the comment was unnecessary. And personally I've found male friends have turned out to have an agenda. Maybe I chose badly. |
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"I'm surprised all the men are replying so politely after being called pigs by the OP! "
Doesn’t seem that deep. Plus I’m not a man like that and I’m not insecure enough to get triggered and think it’s about me. |
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Most of my friends are female..... Sometimes a little chemistry develops and it turns into something more.....but not always. I don't feel the urge to want to have sex with all my female friends.... |
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"I'm surprised all the men are replying so politely after being called pigs by the OP!
We are talking about a profile that has been on here for over a year, no veris, minimal pix or profile text and says they can’t accom or travel. If people wanted a description of a troll account then I give you the prize exhibit.
Princess PD is real. She's been a Nocturnal host and has a gallery of incredible photos. Just because you're seeing them when they're wounded doesn't make them a troll.
My thoughts would be that some men can be friendly for a very long time if they think you might fuck them. No, not all men. Yes, more than you'd think.
J"
It’s nice to see her post again. I had to run my eyes I thought it was an old post |
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"I'm surprised all the men are replying so politely after being called pigs by the OP!
We are talking about a profile that has been on here for over a year, no veris, minimal pix or profile text and says they can’t accom or travel. If people wanted a description of a troll account then I give you the prize exhibit.
Princess PD is real. She's been a Nocturnal host and has a gallery of incredible photos. Just because you're seeing them when they're wounded doesn't make them a troll.
My thoughts would be that some men can be friendly for a very long time if they think you might fuck them. No, not all men. Yes, more than you'd think.
J
It’s nice to see her post again. I had to run my eyes I thought it was an old post"
Same. 
I'm really quiet on here at the moment because I'm feeling a little insecure, a bit withdrawn and a lot not wording things quite right. I see the responses to this and it doesn't make me want to post more.
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"I'm surprised all the men are replying so politely after being called pigs by the OP!
Thick skin
It's a comment from a stranger on a website. Who gives a fuck?
Besides, all men are bastards. I saw it in a movie once.
I didn't mean anyone should be hurt by it. I'm just bemused why you're all answering a troll politely "
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By *stellaWoman 44 weeks ago
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My daily group of best mates are guys - it’s me and five guys. They are my people. I’m lucky in that I work with them so see them everyday. My girl mates I don’t see daily but are equally important.
I do, however want to fuck one of them. But not all of them. I presume they don’t want to fuck me, don’t know though if I’m honest as I know I am hiding my secret. But yes, I presume platonic mates of opposite sexes are possible.
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I get on much better with guys than women. I generally prefer working with guys. I don't really have that many friends anymore but one of my good friends is a colleague. He is male and we are friends. There's never (and will never) be anything other than friendship. My other best friend is my husband. |
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Jeeeeez, fine not all men are pigs...
#notallmen.. fuck that! #noshortmen
Yes I'm totally fake with no verifications that green tick is just imaginary.•°°•°
I suppose they're being polite because.... they are polite...¿
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"I'm surprised all the men are replying so politely after being called pigs by the OP!
We are talking about a profile that has been on here for over a year, no veris, minimal pix or profile text and says they can’t accom or travel. If people wanted a description of a troll account then I give you the prize exhibit.
Princess PD is real. She's been a Nocturnal host and has a gallery of incredible photos. Just because you're seeing them when they're wounded doesn't make them a troll.
My thoughts would be that some men can be friendly for a very long time if they think you might fuck them. No, not all men. Yes, more than you'd think.
J
It’s nice to see her post again. I had to run my eyes I thought it was an old post
Same.
I'm really quiet on here at the moment because I'm feeling a little insecure, a bit withdrawn and a lot not wording things quite right. I see the responses to this and it doesn't make me want to post more.
J"
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"Jeeeeez, fine not all men are pigs...
#notallmen.. fuck that! #noshortmen
Yes I'm totally fake with no verifications that green tick is just imaginary.•°°•°
I suppose they're being polite because.... they are polite...¿
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Thank you for clarifying. Because I don’t fuck with pigs. |
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No you can’t, I’m sick of being objectified by women. Just because I’m friendly does mean I want to fuck you.
It’s a real struggle, when every women wants you to be a diet cola advert and all you want is a sandwich making.
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People. Some people will only like you as long as they can use you. Their loyalty will end when their benefits stop.
And just because a guy fancies you, it doesn’t mean he needs to fuck you. We can still respect your boundaries and still be friends.
Would you rather us tell you we are only mates because we think you’re ugly? |
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"I'm surprised all the men are replying so politely after being called pigs by the OP!
We are talking about a profile that has been on here for over a year, no veris, minimal pix or profile text and says they can’t accom or travel. If people wanted a description of a troll account then I give you the prize exhibit.
Princess PD is real. She's been a Nocturnal host and has a gallery of incredible photos. Just because you're seeing them when they're wounded doesn't make them a troll.
My thoughts would be that some men can be friendly for a very long time if they think you might fuck them. No, not all men. Yes, more than you'd think.
J
It’s nice to see her post again. I had to run my eyes I thought it was an old post
Same.
I'm really quiet on here at the moment because I'm feeling a little insecure, a bit withdrawn and a lot not wording things quite right. I see the responses to this and it doesn't make me want to post more.
J"
Just say fuck it and post what you want to. Enough people know what you are passionate about, that you are a reasonable person and sometimes you like to take the piss.
Well that's what I've gathered from your posts on here. This should be a free space for your thoughts and musings. Some people will agree, some won't and some will get miffed.
Whatever.
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