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Like to announce when they're going to cum?
I've noticed this with a lot of partners, only a couple of exceptions.
But why? Do you think we won't know? To signal the fun is nearly over? To hurry us up with our own orgasm?
Is it something women also do? |
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"Like to announce when they're going to cum?
I've noticed this with a lot of partners, only a couple of exceptions.
But why? Do you think we won't know? To signal the fun is nearly over? To hurry us up with our own orgasm?
Is it something women also do? "
Would you rather not know then? |
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"Like to announce when they're going to cum?
I've noticed this with a lot of partners, only a couple of exceptions.
But why? Do you think we won't know? To signal the fun is nearly over? To hurry us up with our own orgasm?
Is it something women also do? "
Women do this though sometimes when you are eating them out real good. I notice some like to repeatedly like to tell you they are cumming. No shit love I know from the physical reactions   |
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"Is it something women also do? "
Some women do, sometimes, yes.
But when women do it, it’s hot. So that’s a key difference!
Sometimes it’s a way of saying ‘fuck yes, keep doing what you’re doing, don’t stop now.’ Sometimes it’s a way of saying ‘oh my god, well done you.’ Sometimes it’s completely involuntary and just pours out of her pretty mouth in a torrent of pure filth because she’s lost in the moment and wants to sound like a sex-mad slut who only exists for orgasms …
*ahem*
Sorry. Got a bit carried away there.  |
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I find it acts as self-talk.
Takes it away from the imagined further into the physical, reflects the building intensity back to all my senses, heightens all the sensations.
Like the crescendo at the end of a musical piece - the extra "noise" adds a lot more to the physical and emotional feelings.
So that's what it does for my part of the thing, and it's tended to elicit heightened pleasure for the others involved in the process too. |
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I like to share said information based upon the intimacy factor; to let her know how the amazing sensation of being inside her is about to produce this result.
It also serves as an exciting countdown, a bit like the intro to Thunderbirds
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"Like to announce when they're going to cum?
I've noticed this with a lot of partners, only a couple of exceptions.
But why? Do you think we won't know? To signal the fun is nearly over? To hurry us up with our own orgasm?
Is it something women also do?
Would you rather not know then?"
Usually it's pretty obvious... Without having to actually say it |
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I kinda like hearing it
It’s exciting knowing that you’ve got your partner to the brink of orgasm and depending on the person you can have a little fun with it too |
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"Like to announce when they're going to cum?
I've noticed this with a lot of partners, only a couple of exceptions.
But why? Do you think we won't know? To signal the fun is nearly over? To hurry us up with our own orgasm?
Is it something women also do? "
women also do it.
we let women know so they can get in their desired position to take the load i.e on their boobs, bum or whatever also. it can help push a woman over the edge and (Hopefully) we both cum in unison. |
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Why?
Because it better than what the American men do.
Throw arms in the air and declaring, "And The Eagle Has Landed"
I suppose I'm one of the few who don't declare it though.
My ex used to actually say "have you cum yet" and it was very off putting for me, so I imagine similar for the ladies too. |
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I usually just say "oh fuck" repeatedly, getting louder as I get closer. Finishing with a "fuck yes babes" and a big grin when I've finished.
That kind of signals I'm going to cum. I don't say "I'm about to cum"
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"To stop her saying "oh God, please don't stop! Don't stop! Keep going!" 
Yeah, it’s not so hot when “I can’t I’m going to cum” is being screamed at you  "
Followed be a meek "sorry" with a "you were just so good" to save face |
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Usually because a partner likes to know and savour the moment or because they want you to cum somewhere. I’m in receiving a blow job then I think it’s a good idea to let them know incase they don’t want my cum in their mouth |
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"Like to announce when they're going to cum?
I've noticed this with a lot of partners, only a couple of exceptions.
But why? Do you think we won't know? To signal the fun is nearly over? To hurry us up with our own orgasm?
Is it something women also do? "
It helps sometimes to syncronise orgasms, like 3.2.1. Go! |
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By (user no longer on site) 45 weeks ago
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So I know if I should pull out or not…. 
I’m not telling you,… I’m telling the neighbours…
Sex reminds me of my childhood days of playing Hide and Seek (I’ve made it weird now havnt I? ) ‘I’m coming! Ready or not!!!
^pick one.
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"Is it something women also do?
Some women do, sometimes, yes.
But when women do it, it’s hot. So that’s a key difference!
Sometimes it’s a way of saying ‘fuck yes, keep doing what you’re doing, don’t stop now.’ Sometimes it’s a way of saying ‘oh my god, well done you.’ Sometimes it’s completely involuntary and just pours out of her pretty mouth in a torrent of pure filth because she’s lost in the moment and wants to sound like a sex-mad slut who only exists for orgasms …
*ahem*
Sorry. Got a bit carried away there. "
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"I find it acts as self-talk.
Takes it away from the imagined further into the physical, reflects the building intensity back to all my senses, heightens all the sensations.
Like the crescendo at the end of a musical piece - the extra "noise" adds a lot more to the physical and emotional feelings.
So that's what it does for my part of the thing, and it's tended to elicit heightened pleasure for the others involved in the process too. "
PARKLIFE! |
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It has never happened while being fucked, they just seem to let out a kind of sigh of satisfaction, but guys often seem to warn me while I am sucking them, or they are finishing themselves off in my mouth. |
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"I am guessing it's a hint to the woman that this is the last chance for her to ask if she prefers cum in face/body/mouth? "
Surely then they’d be the question where do you want it?  |
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"I am guessing it's a hint to the woman that this is the last chance for her to ask if she prefers cum in face/body/mouth?
Surely then they’d be the question where do you want it? "
That's too complicated for our male brain to process at the point of ejaculation. We're a simple people, feed us, fuck us and leave us alone. All is well with the world |
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"I love it when they do.
Whatever the reason.
It turns me on."
Do you tell your partners it turns you on? How do you communicate with a guy with a face like 
That's the first time I've used that emoji, I knew I could do it ?? |
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"I am guessing it's a hint to the woman that this is the last chance for her to ask if she prefers cum in face/body/mouth?
Surely then they’d be the question where do you want it? "
Sophisticated men of culture find it so rude |
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As others have said, it's really common courtesy to let the person on the other end of your cock know that you're about to fire warm, viscous fluid at them at high speed.
If they're good enough to suck, sit on or otherwise stimulate it, they deserve the opportunity to get out of the way when the shooting starts. |
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