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"I think that should read 80% of men can't get women to orgasm. " That’s a bit low don’t you think? | |||
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"Without clitoral stimulation. Is that true for you ladies ? " Our clitorises are the equivalent of the glans of the penis. It's the same tissue. How many men do you imagine can orgasm without any stimulation of the glans of their penis (or the prostate, which is also full of nerve endings)? Are you still surprised clitoral stimulation is an important part of most women's orgasms? | |||
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"I think that should read 80% of men can't get women to orgasm. That’s a bit low don’t you think?" True though.. Mrs | |||
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"I think that should read 80% of men can't get women to orgasm. That’s a bit low don’t you think? True though.. Mrs " I’ve met wanted to be seen in a minority so much in my life. | |||
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"Without clitoral stimulation. Is that true for you ladies ? Our clitorises are the equivalent of the glans of the penis. It's the same tissue. How many men do you imagine can orgasm without any stimulation of the glans of their penis (or the prostate, which is also full of nerve endings)? Are you still surprised clitoral stimulation is an important part of most women's orgasms? " Funny isn't it, like people still don't know what a clitorise is. | |||
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"Without clitoral stimulation. Is that true for you ladies ? Our clitorises are the equivalent of the glans of the penis. It's the same tissue. How many men do you imagine can orgasm without any stimulation of the glans of their penis (or the prostate, which is also full of nerve endings)? Are you still surprised clitoral stimulation is an important part of most women's orgasms? Funny isn't it, like people still don't know what a clitorise is. " I think some guys honestly believe that our vaginas are sensitive like the head of their penis, just turned inwards. Like they expect PIV sex for us to feel kinda like stroking their glans feels to them, but inside us rather than outside. So few seem to realise the clitoris is the part with most of the nerve endings and a lot of us (but definitely not all of us) don't have that much sensation inside our vaginas. | |||
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"Oh my word in my life only one woman never orgasmed so i would say that is an incorrect statement "Sure, and women never, ever fake them and men can always tell.  | |||
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"Honestly never has that issue i alwaya make them come first either tounge fingers or most woman orgasm fairy quick when on top "
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"Without clitoral stimulation. Is that true for you ladies ? " I'm sure this is true. Everyone woman I have been with has said the same. Only one orgasmed by skin touch and talking dirty. | |||
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"Without clitoral stimulation. Is that true for you ladies ? Our clitorises are the equivalent of the glans of the penis. It's the same tissue. How many men do you imagine can orgasm without any stimulation of the glans of their penis (or the prostate, which is also full of nerve endings)? Are you still surprised clitoral stimulation is an important part of most women's orgasms? Funny isn't it, like people still don't know what a clitorise is. " Or where it is, lol | |||
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"I can make myself orgasm every single time, not so much on the coming/squirting. I’ve never met a guy who can’t make me squirt. I think I’d be disappointed if some one didn’t make me squirt " I'm the opposite. I don't like to squirt and will usually try (mostly successfully) not to. | |||
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"Without clitoral stimulation. Is that true for you ladies ? " Correct for me. | |||
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"Without clitoral stimulation. Is that true for you ladies ? Our clitorises are the equivalent of the glans of the penis. It's the same tissue. How many men do you imagine can orgasm without any stimulation of the glans of their penis (or the prostate, which is also full of nerve endings)? Are you still surprised clitoral stimulation is an important part of most women's orgasms? " Is it clitorises or clitori ? | |||
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"It’s very very basic,if your not playing with my clit and think your going to fuck me im going to be bored Lick me, rub ,suck , toy and slap lightly and I will respond with a beautiful wet pussy you can slide straight up I will of course take over the rubbing or using one of my toys as you fuck mr at the same time I WANT an orgasm to you know Well maybe more then ONE ! " this got me to attention, ahem, i mean, my attention. | |||
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" Is it clitorises or clitori ?" Clitorises, which is why that's the word I used. The Greek plural would be clitorides. Clitori is just incorrect. Is your Google broken? | |||
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" Is it clitorises or clitori ? Clitorises, which is why that's the word I used. The Greek plural would be clitorides. Clitori is just incorrect. Is your Google broken? " Google? That would mean ‘searching for something’ wouldn’t it
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"I can reach orgasm perfectly fine, by myself. It is when I introduce a man in becomes problematic " There’s only one solution | |||
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"I’ve faked a fair few orgasms tbh, I’ve never been caught out, not ideal but sometimes I just don’t want the guy to feel he’s not doing it for me. I orgasm so much easier on my own with just clit stimulation. " Yeah, esp if i like a guy... He's happy, i had a good time and have an even better time later replaying with my toys | |||
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"I can make myself orgasm every single time, not so much on the coming/squirting. I’ve never met a guy who can’t make me squirt. I think I’d be disappointed if some one didn’t make me squirt " Is there a difference in feeling between orgasms when you squirt or ones where you don't? | |||
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" Is it clitorises or clitori ? Clitorises, which is why that's the word I used. The Greek plural would be clitorides. Clitori is just incorrect. Is your Google broken? Google? That would mean ‘searching for something’ wouldn’t it
"Do you think Google might not be able to find the clitoris either? | |||
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"I can reach orgasm perfectly fine, by myself. It is when I introduce a man in becomes problematic " Yes! Same here. | |||
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" Is it clitorises or clitori ? Clitorises, which is why that's the word I used. The Greek plural would be clitorides. Clitori is just incorrect. Is your Google broken? Google? That would mean ‘searching for something’ wouldn’t it
Do you think Google might not be able to find the clitoris either? "
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"Without clitoral stimulation. Is that true for you ladies ? " Accurate for me | |||
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"I’ve faked a fair few orgasms tbh, I’ve never been caught out, not ideal but sometimes I just don’t want the guy to feel he’s not doing it for me. I orgasm so much easier on my own with just clit stimulation. Yeah, esp if i like a guy... He's happy, i had a good time and have an even better time later replaying with my toys "Exactly this. I don’t have sex with a bloke just for an orgasm I enjoy the whole thing if it happens it happens it really doesn’t bother me but some guys feel like they’ve failed. I do get it as I was with a guy that struggled to cum and it made me feel I’d failed as you just assume it’s so much easier for a guy but he also said he just enjoyed the whole experience regardless. | |||
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"Without clitoral stimulation. Is that true for you ladies ? " Yes it accurate since that's where we get most our arousal - could you cum without your penis being touched? Mrs | |||
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"I think that should read 80% of men can't get women to orgasm. " I agree completely. For over 40 years Eve would achieve one or two orgasms a year because her husband was just a boom boom quick kinda guy but now she has ten or more each day because I’m not a boom boom quick kinda guy. If you treat a woman right then life is or can be good for both of you. T | |||
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"Without clitoral stimulation. Is that true for you ladies ? Our clitorises are the equivalent of the glans of the penis. It's the same tissue. How many men do you imagine can orgasm without any stimulation of the glans of their penis (or the prostate, which is also full of nerve endings)? Are you still surprised clitoral stimulation is an important part of most women's orgasms? " This | |||
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"Crack's me up when a question directed at women is used by guy's to brag and bravado "I ain't never had any problems making them cum" "Omg this! When I was younger I often faked an orgasm to either not to hurt that fragile ego of the guy or just to get it over and done with (when it was bad). These days I’m just honest. And the amount of men that just cannot comprehend that every woman is different/cums different is mad! And think just a simple “in and out” will do as it made all their previous partners cum…oh sweet summerchild. | |||
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"I’ve faked a fair few orgasms tbh, I’ve never been caught out, not ideal but sometimes I just don’t want the guy to feel he’s not doing it for me. I orgasm so much easier on my own with just clit stimulation. Yeah, esp if i like a guy... He's happy, i had a good time and have an even better time later replaying with my toys
Exactly this. I don’t have sex with a bloke just for an orgasm I enjoy the whole thing if it happens it happens it really doesn’t bother me but some guys feel like they’ve failed. I do get it as I was with a guy that struggled to cum and it made me feel I’d failed as you just assume it’s so much easier for a guy but he also said he just enjoyed the whole experience regardless. "Orgasms are the least important part of sex for me. I find the sensations from kissing and touching, and watching a man's mouth or hands on my breasts more arousing. I prefer arousal over orgasmic. | |||
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"They've never had sex with me That's just a statement of fact and has nothing to do with the thread topic" so 20% of women have. You've been busy | |||
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"They've never had sex with me That's just a statement of fact and has nothing to do with the thread topic so 20% of women have. You've been busy "Just to confirm, the remaining 20% haven't either | |||
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"There was a fab chap who felt quite ridiculous As he could never find the elusive clitoris Despite searching far and wide And no matter how hard he tried The bingo button remained inconspicuous " Winner! | |||
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"80% of women say that 75% of men will make 99% of surveys about the clitoris, about the men."
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"I’ve faked a fair few orgasms tbh, I’ve never been caught out, not ideal but sometimes I just don’t want the guy to feel he’s not doing it for me. I orgasm so much easier on my own with just clit stimulation. Yeah, esp if i like a guy... He's happy, i had a good time and have an even better time later replaying with my toys
Exactly this. I don’t have sex with a bloke just for an orgasm I enjoy the whole thing if it happens it happens it really doesn’t bother me but some guys feel like they’ve failed. I do get it as I was with a guy that struggled to cum and it made me feel I’d failed as you just assume it’s so much easier for a guy but he also said he just enjoyed the whole experience regardless.
Orgasms are the least important part of sex for me.
I find the sensations from kissing and touching, and watching a man's mouth or hands on my breasts more arousing.
I prefer arousal over orgasmic."Exactly this x | |||
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"I find it needs a bit of both, proven during the week whilst having a massage. I had a remote-control vibrating egg-thingy in me throughout the massage, but this wasn't enough to pop my cookies. It seems (for me, anyway) that as long as there is something at least brushing against the clitoris every now and again during sex, it's enough to guarantee an orgasm. Although I'm pretty sexually-responsive in the first place, so it might not be an objective conclusion." Vibrating things do absolutely nothing for me at all. A wand on my clit just makes it go numb. | |||
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"I’m mainly a combo of g spot and clit stimulation but have had quite a few orgasms from g spot stimulation alone. Mrs" Good Heavens we chaps are just coming to terms that a clitoris is not a medium sized family car manufactured by Renault and you now introduce the G spot? I need to lie down. | |||
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"It’s one of the great mysteries of life as to what is the difference between a clitoris and a golf ball? A chap will happily spend 20 minutes looking for a golf ball? Mr doesn’t play golf and never took him 20 minutes to find my spot but has spent 20 minutes teasing it " | |||
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"I find it needs a bit of both, proven during the week whilst having a massage. I had a remote-control vibrating egg-thingy in me throughout the massage, but this wasn't enough to pop my cookies. It seems (for me, anyway) that as long as there is something at least brushing against the clitoris every now and again during sex, it's enough to guarantee an orgasm. Although I'm pretty sexually-responsive in the first place, so it might not be an objective conclusion. Vibrating things do absolutely nothing for me at all. A wand on my clit just makes it go numb. " Same with the wand. Too long and I lose all sensation which is counter productive to say the least. Vibrations internally are just annoying to me Blimey it's almost as if women are indivuals who respond in varying ways to different stimuli. | |||
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or clitoral and nipple when I masturbate. Toys help me to cum massively. I have the best orgasms on my own I usually explain to men what I need to make me cum and they think they know better and do what they like  | |||
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"Spare a moment for the ladies for whom the orgasm is more elusive. Other things I've learned (over a lifetime) about women's orgasms include: That they are sometimes inextricably tied to the male ego (this is a freaking tragedy of Shakespearean proportions). That there are different types (clitoral, vaginal, squirting/gushing) That some women are not concerned with orgasm as much as they are about the experience as a whole. That some men are intimidated by toys or that a woman may like to masturbate while screwing. That some men don't take the time to figure what what gets their playmate off. I have a natural curiosity about sex and love a bit of pillow talk about pleasure and the mutual application thereof so some of the points above baffle me. " OMG agree with this 100% | |||
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"I find it needs a bit of both, proven during the week whilst having a massage. I had a remote-control vibrating egg-thingy in me throughout the massage, but this wasn't enough to pop my cookies. It seems (for me, anyway) that as long as there is something at least brushing against the clitoris every now and again during sex, it's enough to guarantee an orgasm. Although I'm pretty sexually-responsive in the first place, so it might not be an objective conclusion. Vibrating things do absolutely nothing for me at all. A wand on my clit just makes it go numb. Same with the wand. Too long and I lose all sensation which is counter productive to say the least. Vibrations internally are just annoying to me Blimey it's almost as if women are indivuals who respond in varying ways to different stimuli. "Women, individuals with defined and eclectic sexual desires? They will be getting the vote next! | |||
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"I find it needs a bit of both, proven during the week whilst having a massage. I had a remote-control vibrating egg-thingy in me throughout the massage, but this wasn't enough to pop my cookies. It seems (for me, anyway) that as long as there is something at least brushing against the clitoris every now and again during sex, it's enough to guarantee an orgasm. Although I'm pretty sexually-responsive in the first place, so it might not be an objective conclusion. Vibrating things do absolutely nothing for me at all. A wand on my clit just makes it go numb. Same with the wand. Too long and I lose all sensation which is counter productive to say the least. Vibrations internally are just annoying to me Blimey it's almost as if women are indivuals who respond in varying ways to different stimuli.
Women, individuals with defined and eclectic sexual desires? They will be getting the vote next! "The vote? Nah, that'll never catch on | |||
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"I find it needs a bit of both, proven during the week whilst having a massage. I had a remote-control vibrating egg-thingy in me throughout the massage, but this wasn't enough to pop my cookies. It seems (for me, anyway) that as long as there is something at least brushing against the clitoris every now and again during sex, it's enough to guarantee an orgasm. Although I'm pretty sexually-responsive in the first place, so it might not be an objective conclusion. Vibrating things do absolutely nothing for me at all. A wand on my clit just makes it go numb. Same with the wand. Too long and I lose all sensation which is counter productive to say the least. Vibrations internally are just annoying to me Blimey it's almost as if women are indivuals who respond in varying ways to different stimuli.
Women, individuals with defined and eclectic sexual desires? They will be getting the vote next!
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"There's a documentary about the Cltoris on Sky tonight. It's on the red button if you can find it. Fun fact, *the clitoris is 10cm long. *thanks to Rachel Riley" I have never seen a clitoris that size? Are you sure it wasn’t an errant haemorrhoid? | |||
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"I agree with some of the comments, the number of guys have brought me to orgasm i can count on one finger. "Brilliant..........! | |||
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"There's a documentary about the Cltoris on Sky tonight. It's on the red button if you can find it. Fun fact, *the clitoris is 10cm long. *thanks to Rachel Riley I have never seen a clitoris that size? Are you sure it wasn’t an errant haemorrhoid? " That's because it's like an iceberg, most of it is internal | |||
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"Oh my word in my life only one woman never orgasmed so i would say that is an incorrect statement
Sure, and women never, ever fake them and men can always tell.
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"There's a documentary about the Cltoris on Sky tonight. It's on the red button if you can find it. Fun fact, *the clitoris is 10cm long. *thanks to Rachel Riley I have never seen a clitoris that size? Are you sure it wasn’t an errant haemorrhoid? That's because it's like an iceberg, most of it is internal " Ah like a lettuce? That probably why I am not a hit with the ladies! | |||
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"There's a documentary about the Cltoris on Sky tonight. It's on the red button if you can find it. Fun fact, *the clitoris is 10cm long. *thanks to Rachel Riley I have never seen a clitoris that size? Are you sure it wasn’t an errant haemorrhoid? That's because it's like an iceberg, most of it is internal Ah like a lettuce? That probably why I am not a hit with the ladies!" Yes. Pity the poor woman who went to the doctor complaining that she had a lettuce sticking out if her vagina. The doctor said "I'm sorry to tell you this is just the tip of the iceberg". | |||
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"There's a documentary about the Cltoris on Sky tonight. It's on the red button if you can find it. Fun fact, *the clitoris is 10cm long. *thanks to Rachel Riley I have never seen a clitoris that size? Are you sure it wasn’t an errant haemorrhoid? That's because it's like an iceberg, most of it is internal Ah like a lettuce? That probably why I am not a hit with the ladies! Yes. Pity the poor woman who went to the doctor complaining that she had a lettuce sticking out if her vagina. The doctor said "I'm sorry to tell you this is just the tip of the iceberg". " I did giggle at that.........cos it very funny! | |||
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"I can make myself orgasm every single time, not so much on the coming/squirting. I’ve never met a guy who can’t make me squirt. I think I’d be disappointed if some one didn’t make me squirt Is there a difference in feeling between orgasms when you squirt or ones where you don't? " Yes, at least for me. | |||
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"I’ve faked a fair few. Usually with my ex husband just so it won’t be over and done with . Then I’d usually play with my wand after he fell asleep "That's just so sad  | |||
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"Without clitoral stimulation. Is that true for you ladies ? " Not always, but predominantly. It’s my mind that has to be in the right place most of all. | |||
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"Without clitoral stimulation. Is that true for you ladies ? " What's a clitoris? | |||
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"I think that should read 80% of men can't get women to orgasm. " What about the bi / gay ones? | |||
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"Crack's me up when a question directed at women is used by guy's to brag and bravado "I ain't never had any problems making them cum" "I think some tongues are firmly in cheeks though. If they can talk about football surely it's opened the door to our expertise on orgasm? | |||
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"If I don’t orgasm it’s usually because my brain hasn’t been stimulated. The brain is the biggest sexual organ and usually overlooked. " Interesting hypothesis. Can I ask what type of cerebral stimulation puts you on the path to orgasm? | |||
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"Crack's me up when a question directed at women is used by guy's to brag and bravado "I ain't never had any problems making them cum"
I think some tongues are firmly in cheeks though. If they can talk about football surely it's opened the door to our expertise on orgasm?"Tongue in cheek surely defeats the object of the intention? | |||
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" Is it clitorises or clitori ? Clitorises, which is why that's the word I used. The Greek plural would be clitorides. Clitori is just incorrect. Is your Google broken? Google? That would mean ‘searching for something’ wouldn’t it
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"It would be so awesome if I met men who don't think I will orgasm from 30 secs of finger blasting or explode from PIV. Rolling my eyes dries my pussy up. AND squirting does fuck all for me. I just start feeling like I'm awkward and weird and I then don't want them to even try." 100% this. | |||
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"It would be so awesome if I met men who don't think I will orgasm from 30 secs of finger blasting or explode from PIV. Rolling my eyes dries my pussy up. AND squirting does fuck all for me. I just start feeling like I'm awkward and weird and I then don't want them to even try." Sorry to have to ask... What's PIV? | |||
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"I think that should read 80% of men can't get women to orgasm. " Exactly | |||
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"It would be so awesome if I met men who don't think I will orgasm from 30 secs of finger blasting or explode from PIV. Rolling my eyes dries my pussy up. AND squirting does fuck all for me. I just start feeling like I'm awkward and weird and I then don't want them to even try. Sorry to have to ask... What's PIV? " Penis in Vag ? | |||
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"I prefer orgasms that avoid the clit. Clitoral ones are kind of high pitched and honestly just too easy. I'm overly sensitive in general though, I'm lucky and can get there in a variety of ways. I can understand people who don't have it so easy will only really get it from that super high concentration of nerve endings "Or prefer the super high concentration of nerve endings being circled by a warm wet mouth over a heavy burden of weight thinking he's knocking a nail through plasterboard and I should be so lucky that he's got his sufficient fuck inside me. | |||
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" husband was just a boom boom quick kinda guy but now she has ten or more each day because I’m not a boom boom quick kinda guy. T" Bloody hell, I would be knackered | |||
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" husband was just a boom boom quick kinda guy but now she has ten or more each day because I’m not a boom boom quick kinda guy. T Bloody hell, I would be knackered "Well done you!! Keep him close.. | |||
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"I can reach orgasm perfectly fine, by myself. It is when I introduce a man in becomes problematic Yes! Same here. "Maybe you should try guiding them. Some of us are susceptible to nicely worded instructions. Just a thought... Frank | |||
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"I’ve faked a fair few orgasms tbh, I’ve never been caught out, not ideal but sometimes I just don’t want the guy to feel he’s not doing it for me. I orgasm so much easier on my own with just clit stimulation. Yeah, esp if i like a guy... He's happy, i had a good time and have an even better time later replaying with my toys
Exactly this. I don’t have sex with a bloke just for an orgasm I enjoy the whole thing if it happens it happens it really doesn’t bother me but some guys feel like they’ve failed. I do get it as I was with a guy that struggled to cum and it made me feel I’d failed as you just assume it’s so much easier for a guy but he also said he just enjoyed the whole experience regardless.
Orgasms are the least important part of sex for me.
I find the sensations from kissing and touching, and watching a man's mouth or hands on my breasts more arousing.
I prefer arousal over orgasmic."Ahhh, Nanna is a 'it's all about the journey, not the destination' kind of woman, yes? Frank | |||
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"I can reach orgasm perfectly fine, by myself. It is when I introduce a man in becomes problematic Yes! Same here.
Maybe you should try guiding them. Some of us are susceptible to nicely worded instructions. Just a thought...
Frank"Quite often those who proclaim the loudest about how amazing they are at giving me orgasms, are also those least inclined to listen to instructions. No matter how diplomatically or kindly I put it. Apparently not following their plan about my body hurts their precious feelings | |||
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"I can reach orgasm perfectly fine, by myself. It is when I introduce a man in becomes problematic Yes! Same here.
Maybe you should try guiding them. Some of us are susceptible to nicely worded instructions. Just a thought...
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Quite often those who proclaim the loudest about how amazing they are at giving me orgasms, are also those least inclined to listen to instructions. No matter how diplomatically or kindly I put it. Apparently not following their plan about my body hurts their precious feelings "Oh I get that. It's the same for women who claim to give the best blow jobs in the world. FYI, they rarely do. I hope for the sake of your pleasure you're not inviting those who can't/won't listen to instructions back for second helpings
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"I can reach orgasm perfectly fine, by myself. It is when I introduce a man in becomes problematic Yes! Same here.
Maybe you should try guiding them. Some of us are susceptible to nicely worded instructions. Just a thought...
Frank
Quite often those who proclaim the loudest about how amazing they are at giving me orgasms, are also those least inclined to listen to instructions. No matter how diplomatically or kindly I put it. Apparently not following their plan about my body hurts their precious feelings
Oh I get that. It's the same for women who claim to give the best blow jobs in the world. FYI, they rarely do.
I hope for the sake of your pleasure you're not inviting those who can't/won't listen to instructions back for second helpings
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"Or prefer the super high concentration of nerve endings being circled by a warm wet mouth over a heavy burden of weight thinking he's knocking a nail through plasterboard and I should be so lucky that he's got his sufficient fuck inside me." Generally if they're that bad at the PiV game then they don't try any harder at the oral one | |||
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"There's a documentary about the Cltoris on Sky tonight. It's on the red button if you can find it. Fun fact, *the clitoris is 10cm long. *thanks to Rachel Riley I have never seen a clitoris that size? Are you sure it wasn’t an errant haemorrhoid? That's because it's like an iceberg, most of it is internal Ah like a lettuce? That probably why I am not a hit with the ladies! Yes. Pity the poor woman who went to the doctor complaining that she had a lettuce sticking out if her vagina. The doctor said "I'm sorry to tell you this is just the tip of the iceberg". " Mine's more of a little gem  | |||
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"There's a documentary about the Cltoris on Sky tonight. It's on the red button if you can find it. Fun fact, *the clitoris is 10cm long. *thanks to Rachel Riley I have never seen a clitoris that size? Are you sure it wasn’t an errant haemorrhoid? That's because it's like an iceberg, most of it is internal Ah like a lettuce? That probably why I am not a hit with the ladies! Yes. Pity the poor woman who went to the doctor complaining that she had a lettuce sticking out if her vagina. The doctor said "I'm sorry to tell you this is just the tip of the iceberg". Mine's more of a little gem "A colleague once gave me some lettuce seeds called 'd*unken woman '. I have no idea what she was trying to tell me... | |||
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"There's a documentary about the Cltoris on Sky tonight. It's on the red button if you can find it. Fun fact, *the clitoris is 10cm long. *thanks to Rachel Riley I have never seen a clitoris that size? Are you sure it wasn’t an errant haemorrhoid? That's because it's like an iceberg, most of it is internal Ah like a lettuce? That probably why I am not a hit with the ladies! Yes. Pity the poor woman who went to the doctor complaining that she had a lettuce sticking out if her vagina. The doctor said "I'm sorry to tell you this is just the tip of the iceberg". Mine's more of a little gem
A colleague once gave me some lettuce seeds called 'd*unken woman '. I have no idea what she was trying to tell me..."You Romaine one of our favourite posters | |||
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"Top tip. 80% of women cannot orgasm until they are turned on." The switch is often well hidden. | |||
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"Never cum on a meet, although I have a great time, Mrs x" Doea it not frustrate you? I can't stand being wound up but unable to finish MrsAbz | |||
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"Never cum on a meet, although I have a great time, Mrs x Doea it not frustrate you? I can't stand being wound up but unable to finish MrsAbz " I've only had an orgasm through sex once. I make myself cum all the time, Mrs x | |||
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"It’s a total misconception that most women can’t achieve orgasm without her clitoris being stimulated. " Where do you get that notion from, Mrs x | |||
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"Honestly never has that issue i alwaya make them come first either tounge fingers or most woman orgasm fairy quick when on top
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" Is it clitorises or clitori ?" Do some women have more than one? | |||
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"It’s a total misconception that most women can’t achieve orgasm without her clitoris being stimulated. Where do you get that notion from, Mrs x" Female orgasm without clitoris stimulation can still occur through other forms of vaginal, G-spot, or mental stimulation opening sensual passageways. We should all pay attention to the intricacies of women's sexual pleasure, shedding light on various factors that contribute to and enhance the experience of orgasm. | |||
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"It’s a total misconception that most women can’t achieve orgasm without her clitoris being stimulated. Where do you get that notion from, Mrs x Female orgasm without clitoris stimulation can still occur through other forms of vaginal, G-spot, or mental stimulation opening sensual passageways. We should all pay attention to the intricacies of women's sexual pleasure, shedding light on various factors that contribute to and enhance the experience of orgasm." Sure most woman orgasm more from clitoris stimulation than vaginally, I can only cum through playing with my clit, Mrs x | |||
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"Never cum on a meet, although I have a great time, Mrs x Doea it not frustrate you? I can't stand being wound up but unable to finish MrsAbz I've only had an orgasm through sex once. I make myself cum all the time, Mrs x" Well I'm glad you get to cum
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"Top tip. 80% of women cannot orgasm until they are turned on. The switch is often well hidden. " Close to the input/output sockets. Don't get them confused when plugging her in. | |||
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"Top tip. 80% of women cannot orgasm until they are turned on. The switch is often well hidden. Close to the input/output sockets. Don't get them confused when plugging her in." Don't overcharge - buggers the batteries | |||
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"*Clitoris. It's not even in predictive text! Penis is. " The word is kunt. | |||
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"I think that should read 80% of men can't get women to orgasm. " Must be tough being in that group- hows it going for you? | |||
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"Without clitoral stimulation. Is that true for you ladies ? " Show me your 80% proof op. | |||
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"I think that should read 80% of men can't get women to orgasm. " Are lesbians included in this count? | |||
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"Without clitoral stimulation. Is that true for you ladies ? Our clitorises are the equivalent of the glans of the penis. It's the same tissue. How many men do you imagine can orgasm without any stimulation of the glans of their penis (or the prostate, which is also full of nerve endings)? Are you still surprised clitoral stimulation is an important part of most women's orgasms? Funny isn't it, like people still don't know what a clitorise is. "
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"Without clitoral stimulation. Is that true for you ladies ? Our clitorises are the equivalent of the glans of the penis. It's the same tissue. How many men do you imagine can orgasm without any stimulation of the glans of their penis (or the prostate, which is also full of nerve endings)? Are you still surprised clitoral stimulation is an important part of most women's orgasms? " Ask this...How many men have come due to either premature ejaculation or via wet dreams, during clothed fore play, typically in our younger years? That will be a better question. One for Masters and Johnson me thinks. | |||
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"Without clitoral stimulation. Is that true for you ladies ? Our clitorises are the equivalent of the glans of the penis. It's the same tissue. How many men do you imagine can orgasm without any stimulation of the glans of their penis (or the prostate, which is also full of nerve endings)? Are you still surprised clitoral stimulation is an important part of most women's orgasms? Funny isn't it, like people still don't know what a clitorise is.
Let alone how to spell it"I've had an anal orgasm but only once by myself. | |||
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"Without clitoral stimulation. Is that true for you ladies ? Our clitorises are the equivalent of the glans of the penis. It's the same tissue. How many men do you imagine can orgasm without any stimulation of the glans of their penis (or the prostate, which is also full of nerve endings)? Are you still surprised clitoral stimulation is an important part of most women's orgasms? Funny isn't it, like people still don't know what a clitoris is. Or where it is, lol" I'm gonna need some pics. | |||
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"Hard for women to stimulate the clit during sex. Only in certain positions and then must be fristrating and hard work to really grind at a satisfying pace. If aroused enough though then becomes easier - just hard to reach that level of horn all the time " Lol lol and more lol.....what!!! Um ok | |||
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"Top tip. 80% of women cannot orgasm until they are turned on. The switch is often well hidden. Close to the input/output sockets. Don't get them confused when plugging her in. Don't overcharge - buggers the batteries "Before you rush home with her, remember that batteries not included. | |||
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"Hard for women to stimulate the clit during sex. Only in certain positions and then must be fristrating and hard work to really grind at a satisfying pace. If aroused enough though then becomes easier - just hard to reach that level of horn all the time Lol lol and more lol.....what!!! Um ok" My exact reaction. | |||
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"I’m mainly a combo of g spot and clit stimulation but have had quite a few orgasms from g spot stimulation alone. Mrs Good Heavens we chaps are just coming to terms that a clitoris is not a medium sized family car manufactured by Renault and you now introduce the G spot? I need to lie down." that'll be this from reddit "This is the Peel Common (Newgate Lane) roundabout joining Stubbington, Lee, Fareham and Gosport This photo is old as they have since changed it to read “GOSP’T” after fun was detected in the council." | |||
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"I think it’s not about how good a guy is compared with the woman being comfortable in herself If she’s chill, joins in and enjoys herself she will come If she’s not chill with herself than it’s highly unlikely she will come " Did you read any of the thread? Being "chill" isn't how women orgasm. | |||
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"Cba to read the thread but hope there’s no insecure people in this thread?" God no. We are all chill. | |||
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"Cba to read the thread but hope there’s no insecure people in this thread? God no. We are all chill. " do you always make them come | |||
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"Cba to read the thread but hope there’s no insecure people in this thread? God no. We are all chill. do you always make them come " You know it, baby | |||
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"Cba to read the thread but hope there’s no insecure people in this thread? God no. We are all chill. do you always make them come You know it, baby "How would you know? | |||
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"Cba to read the thread but hope there’s no insecure people in this thread? God no. We are all chill. do you always make them come You know it, baby
How would you know? "They squeal | |||
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"Cba to read the thread but hope there’s no insecure people in this thread? God no. We are all chill. do you always make them come You know it, baby
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"Cba to read the thread but hope there’s no insecure people in this thread? God no. We are all chill. do you always make them come You know it, baby
How would you know?
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"Cba to read the thread but hope there’s no insecure people in this thread? God no. We are all chill. do you always make them come You know it, baby
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"Cba to read the thread but hope there’s no insecure people in this thread? God no. We are all chill. do you always make them come You know it, baby
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Like in deliverance.?
Ah wouldn't know. That's a man's movie. "Women are allowed to Watch mens films and men's sports and everything now... Just ask first if you can borrow the remote.... And perhaps explain how it works | |||
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Oh and I'm Including those ladies who have the ability to orgasm from no hands clit stimulation, the power to cum with just thoughts, is impressive and fascinating | |||
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