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By (user no longer on site) OP 41 weeks ago
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"If you go to account and find message filters you can tweak who can contact you.
Took me ages to realise it was an option when I joined up! "
all sorted now didn’t even know how to do that thanks x |
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People are mostly not mutually compatible with most other people, whatever the gender. You get messages from people who you're not interested in - this is the same as most of us here.
Straight men also have sexual interaction with the same gender, so the only way to stop/do it is 100% in your hands. It's pointed out that you simply use your message filters to stop selected genders from contact with you.
It takes less time than it did to write the OP. Or have a different profile, if you still need engagement with men. |
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By (user no longer on site) 41 weeks ago
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"any other men have problems with random guys asking to suck there cocks even though it states not looking for men and listed as straight?"
You can filter out guys to stop them doing that.
PS I know you don’t like guys but just wanted to say - hot profile photo |
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By *bi HaiveMan 41 weeks ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"any other men have problems with random guys asking to suck there cocks even though it states not looking for men and listed as straight?"
No.
Just hundreds of single women' daily.
Bloody sex pests......... rodl |
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By (user no longer on site) 41 weeks ago
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"I get more replies and views from men than females or m/f couples."
Women and couples tend to use the setting that hides them from showing when they’ve viewed you. |
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"I think it's nice that men don't discriminate with their revolting messages  "
Is it really 'revolting' to offer someone oral sex or a sex site?
You might not want it, but I would say it wasto be pretty expected! |
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By (user no longer on site) 41 weeks ago
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"I think it's nice that men don't discriminate with their revolting messages
Is it really 'revolting' to offer someone oral sex or a sex site?
You might not want it, but I would say it wasto be pretty expected!"
To offer it to men who've specified they're not wanting oral sex from a man? Uh, yeah. And I know what the messages are like from the kind of men who send sexualised messages. They're revolting.  |
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By (user no longer on site) 41 weeks ago
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"I think it's nice that men don't discriminate with their revolting messages
Is it really 'revolting' to offer someone oral sex or a sex site?
You might not want it, but I would say it wasto be pretty expected!
To offer it to men who've specified they're not wanting oral sex from a man? Uh, yeah. And I know what the messages are like from the kind of men who send sexualised messages. They're revolting. "
Also. It's not a sex site. It's a swinger site. Clue in the name. |
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"I think it's nice that men don't discriminate with their revolting messages
Is it really 'revolting' to offer someone oral sex or a sex site?
You might not want it, but I would say it wasto be pretty expected!
To offer it to men who've specified they're not wanting oral sex from a man? Uh, yeah. And I know what the messages are like from the kind of men who send sexualised messages. They're revolting. "
Personally I think that sounds bizarrely prudish to not expect sexualised messages on this site.
It's a swingers site. Sex defines Swinging. |
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By *ip...Man 41 weeks ago
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"any other men have problems with random guys asking to suck there cocks even though it states not looking for men and listed as straight?"
You can block single men from winking and messaging you. |
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"any other men have problems with random guys asking to suck there cocks even though it states not looking for men and listed as straight?
No.
Just hundreds of single women' daily.
Bloody sex pests......... rodl"
Sorry |
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By *9XAYNOR69Man 41 weeks ago
Centralised he/him/his From the land of haribos |
A balanced approach
In my experience It works the other way to.
Straight guys asking to meet for oral
The response I give is as long as you are comfortable with me being an older gay guy
No expectations no compromise no pressure strings nothing expected in return Genuine honest discreet respectful non judgemental. |
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By (user no longer on site) 41 weeks ago
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"Go to message settings and turn off men etc then you won't get messages
Why so many men don't know how to use this function is beyond me "
But many men tell women to stop complaining about crappy messages and turn off our filters. It's ironic.  |
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"any other men have problems with random guys asking to suck there cocks even though it states not looking for men and listed as straight?"
The amount of sex I could get if I took up their offers would be insane. But yeah gets annoying but either ignore or polite thanks etc |
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