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By *hatKlungeEnigma OP   Man  over a year ago

St Leonards

A bit like Christmas?

By which I mean, for those "in the groove", a pleasant enough thing.

For those "not in the groove but wanting to be in the groove", a bit of a minefield of expectations/feelings of exclusion/confusion.

And for those who think "the groove is a bit fabricated", something to smile and wave your way through, not needing to piss off those who enjoy it, sympathetic to those struggling, but not really buying into it.

That has loud echoes of Christmas to me.

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By *agerMorganMan  over a year ago

Canvey Island

I don’t really agree with valentines, if you love someone you love them all year with small gestures.

not with overpriced items and a £500 a night room to do the same 2 positions you do at home.

Maybe I’m just bitter.

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By *illy IdolMan  over a year ago

Midlands

Never been a fan of Valentines whether I'm in the groove or not to be honest

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By *TG3Man  over a year ago

Dorchester

Yes kinda i never really bought into it but the ladies love it

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By *mf123Man  over a year ago

with one foot out the door

There was a time i gave a shit now isnt one of them sappy nonsense

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By *ora the explorerWoman  over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

I’m more excited about pancakes

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Never experienced any "extra" loving on Valentines Day with new experiences/being taken away somewhere to even be able to tell you!

I don't hate the day but I've never had a reason to enjoy it either.

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By *hatKlungeEnigma OP   Man  over a year ago

St Leonards

Thanks both.

I'm very happy for anyone not to use my three descriptions and add their own take.

Much more interested to see the "unspoken thoughts" about Valentine's on this thread, as other threads don't seem to be covering them.

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By *hatKlungeEnigma OP   Man  over a year ago

St Leonards

I should now add "thanks all". Several of you posted whilst I was typing.

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By *illy IdolMan  over a year ago

Midlands


"Thanks both.

I'm very happy for anyone not to use my three descriptions and add their own take.

Much more interested to see the "unspoken thoughts" about Valentine's on this thread, as other threads don't seem to be covering them."

If you want to pigeon hole me though, stick me in category 3

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By *ensuallover1000Man  over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

Affection is best displayed all year round as opposed to on one ‘official’, and commercialised occasion (which reeks of insincerity in many cases).

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By *hatKlungeEnigma OP   Man  over a year ago

St Leonards


"Thanks both.

I'm very happy for anyone not to use my three descriptions and add their own take.

Much more interested to see the "unspoken thoughts" about Valentine's on this thread, as other threads don't seem to be covering them.

If you want to pigeon hole me though, stick me in category 3"

No pigeon holes required - they just got the thread moving .

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By *illy IdolMan  over a year ago

Midlands


"Thanks both.

I'm very happy for anyone not to use my three descriptions and add their own take.

Much more interested to see the "unspoken thoughts" about Valentine's on this thread, as other threads don't seem to be covering them.

If you want to pigeon hole me though, stick me in category 3

No pigeon holes required - they just got the thread moving ."

No problem. Enjoy your thread

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

You need to treat Valentine's Day like you treat this place.

Just send the same card to lots of different women and hope one of them replies.

It's a numbers game.

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