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By (user no longer on site) OP 43 weeks ago
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"I've talked to a few dudes on here that are decent people , a couple gave me great advice for my profile and how to be on fab , but no friends on here really , "
I do see a few guys offering support to other men, but not much of a brotherhood that I can see. |
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By (user no longer on site) 43 weeks ago
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"The boyz in the hood 
No, we all despise each other because we are trying to grab the next best thing in here….., 
Competition innit.
Not competition if you have sex with them too."
Fuck em all!!! |
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"Is there one on Fab? And do the gentlemen have a similar "hood"?"
Not for guys, most guys on here would sell their granny for a shag and many are married/cheating so personally I find it very hard to trust men. There are a few guys that I enjoy the company of but in my experience a lot of men on here cross consent, abuse or assault lines and those aren’t people that I want to be friends with |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 43 weeks ago
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"Is there one on Fab? And do the gentlemen have a similar "hood"?
Like the bene Gesserit you mean?!
Don't make me Google!  
It's from the book Dune!"
I haven't read it sorry. Is it a book all men read as a rite of passage?  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 43 weeks ago
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"Don’t know. I keep myself to myself on here - can’t get involved in any dramas that way.
Agree. Not for me "
Fair enough. I was thinking more of women having each others' backs really. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 43 weeks ago
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"Are you talking cliques and secret off site chat groups or something else?"
Somethings else. I don't do chat groups and I'm obvs not in the clique which may or may not exist |
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"Do you mean when 0ne woman shags a popular guy and all the other women gang up on them. No thanks
I think you know that I don't mean that"
No I don't. Sisterhood has negative vibes after all the years I've spent on here I've seen plenty of shit between so called friends. That's why I look after myself |
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"Don’t know. I keep myself to myself on here - can’t get involved in any dramas that way.
Agree. Not for me
Fair enough. I was thinking more of women having each others' backs really. "
I try to lift other women up and support them both on here and in everyday life.
J |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 43 weeks ago
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"Do you mean when 0ne woman shags a popular guy and all the other women gang up on them. No thanks
I think you know that I don't mean thatNo I don't. Sisterhood has negative vibes after all the years I've spent on here I've seen plenty of shit between so called friends. That's why I look after myself"
Ok. I think reading the thread would have given you the clues but you do you.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 43 weeks ago
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"Is there one on Fab? And do the gentlemen have a similar "hood"?
Not a single person has made a 'Yes, they have a "manhood"' joke. So I'll do it. 
J"
I could say I set the joke up...but nah |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 43 weeks ago
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"Don’t know. I keep myself to myself on here - can’t get involved in any dramas that way.
Agree. Not for me
Fair enough. I was thinking more of women having each others' backs really.
I try to lift other women up and support them both on here and in everyday life.
J"
I don't know if I manage to do that but I have some wonderful women in my life and I wouldn't want to be on Fab without some female - rapport, understanding I guess? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 43 weeks ago
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"Is there one on Fab? And do the gentlemen have a similar "hood"?
Not a single person has made a 'Yes, they have a "manhood"' joke. So I'll do it.
J
Damn! I missed a trick there!   "
Too busy shaving your arse? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 43 weeks ago
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"Some of us do... Others not so much! this.. I'm a firm believer in the code but know not all women are..
In fact a lot would manipulate and plot for their own amusements "
I think if you've had negative interactions with other women here - the code might not be as appealing. |
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"Is there one on Fab? And do the gentlemen have a similar "hood"?"
Not that I'm aware of, although I may not have been invited haha. If there is, I'm pleased they felt they could create a supportive Brotherhood. From what I've seen in the forums, most of the regular guys get on very well and do that typical 'bloke thing' of gently ribbing (I said ribbing!!) each other by way of solidarity. It's what we do.
I would hope that people of any gender feel the forums are supportive enough, along with any individual friendships they may have. |
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"Is there one on Fab? And do the gentlemen have a similar "hood"?
Not a single person has made a 'Yes, they have a "manhood"' joke. So I'll do it.
J
Damn! I missed a trick there!
Too busy shaving your arse? "
My razor isn’t up to the Herculean task I’ve just discovered so I’ve just invested in an industrial hedge trimmer. My bum should be ready for public exhibition once more around mid March… |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 43 weeks ago
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"Is there one on Fab? And do the gentlemen have a similar "hood"?
Not that I'm aware of, although I may not have been invited haha. If there is, I'm pleased they felt they could create a supportive Brotherhood. From what I've seen in the forums, most of the regular guys get on very well and do that typical 'bloke thing' of gently ribbing (I said ribbing!!) each other by way of solidarity. It's what we do.
I would hope that people of any gender feel the forums are supportive enough, along with any individual friendships they may have."
I'm not sure most people do find the forums supportive, to be honest with you. It seems like a cess pit of vipers of late. Mixed metaphors but I think it creates a visual! I do like seeing men gently ribbing each other and a Brotherhood sounds ace  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 43 weeks ago
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"Is there one on Fab? And do the gentlemen have a similar "hood"?
Not a single person has made a 'Yes, they have a "manhood"' joke. So I'll do it.
J
Damn! I missed a trick there!
Too busy shaving your arse?
My razor isn’t up to the Herculean task I’ve just discovered so I’ve just invested in an industrial hedge trimmer. My bum should be ready for public exhibition once more around mid March… "
A dry feb for you then. But at least you will have firewood. |
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By (user no longer on site) 43 weeks ago
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I think there can be but with smaller groups of women, that then gets called cliques annoyingly. But I think there's a lot of competition and jealousy between women if I'm completely honest.
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By (user no longer on site) OP 43 weeks ago
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"I think there can be but with smaller groups of women, that then gets called cliques annoyingly. But I think there's a lot of competition and jealousy between women if I'm completely honest.
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Perhaps it depends which side you stand - I can't see a woman ever being competitive or jealous with me, for instance. But yeah, it's there for sure. I'd prefer Hoes over Bros though. |
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I wish I had more women Fab friends near me.
I've told a few of my vanilla friends I'm on here, but I want mates I can travel to clubs & socials with  
My last birthday party was women only for the first few hours and it was such a great vibe. |
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By *ustBoWoman 43 weeks ago
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I believe there are a lot of decent women on here who do stay out of the shite and drama and look out for other women.
Unfortunately there are a hell of a lot of other who have so many faces that it's impossible to tell which one is the genuine person.People who run with the hare and hunt with the hounds. And are more than willing to share info and spread lies and gossip to fit their own agenda while pretending to be best friends with the people they are stabbing in the back elsewhere on here.
So no I don't believe in a code on here and take most of what I'm told with a massive pinch of salt. And make up my own mind. |
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