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Has swinging made you better at sex?
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
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"Hey you lovely lot 
So has swinging made you better at sex, broadened your horizons, shown you things you didn't know you liked, empowered you etc etc
S xxx"
Made me better! No idea.
But the last 16 years has certainly broadened my horizons, given me the chance to experiment more and discover what I do/don't enjoy and enabled me to meet some bloody awesome people in the process.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have good days and bad days.
But what about your sexual ability? Are you awesome?
*asking for a friend"
I’m better than I was a year ago.  so I guess I’m getting there |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"I don’t swing.
….and I’m utterly shit at the sex stuff.
I do like marmite though if it bares any relevance to this thoughtful discourse  "
Same. Minus the marmite part because I'm not a monster. |
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"I don’t swing.
….and I’m utterly shit at the sex stuff.
I do like marmite though if it bares any relevance to this thoughtful discourse
Same. Minus the marmite part because I'm not a monster."
 Can I at least tempt you to a sip of Bovril?
I often have a hot mug of it by way of commiseration after my woeful attempts at that sex business   |
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Im not a swinger, just a promiscuous slut and rumpy pumpy is always fun
The non sexual side has made me hone my bdsm skills, finding different subs and the subsequent journeys, have been real awakenings for me |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"I don’t swing.
….and I’m utterly shit at the sex stuff.
I do like marmite though if it bares any relevance to this thoughtful discourse
Same. Minus the marmite part because I'm not a monster.
Can I at least tempt you to a sip of Bovril?
I often have a hot mug of it by way of commiseration after my woeful attempts at that sex business "
A sip? Seeing as it's you, sure, we can commiserate each other after some woefully abysmal sex stuff.
Besides, who needs to be good at sex when you can waffle utter tosh as well as we can? |
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"I don’t swing.
….and I’m utterly shit at the sex stuff.
I do like marmite though if it bares any relevance to this thoughtful discourse
Same. Minus the marmite part because I'm not a monster.
Can I at least tempt you to a sip of Bovril?
I often have a hot mug of it by way of commiseration after my woeful attempts at that sex business
A sip? Seeing as it's you, sure, we can commiserate each other after some woefully abysmal sex stuff.
Besides, who needs to be good at sex when you can waffle utter tosh as well as we can?"
Amen! Waffling trumps that sexy sex malarkey any day of the week.
In fact, I opted for a spot of masturbation earlier (which I’m also useless at by the way) but abandoned it when I was suddenly overcome by an inexplicable and irresistible urge to waffle to myself regarding the intrinsic benefits of the Metric system…. |
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"Hey you lovely lot
So has swinging made you better at sex, broadened your horizons, shown you things you didn't know you liked, empowered you etc etc
S xxx"
More open minded maybe. And certainly seen and tried some things. But the sex... No |
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I can have sex in front of several others now and not bat an eye lid
It’s given me opportunities beyond my wildest dreams and that has meant my imagination has got broader and expanded and that helps sexually for sure. I’m always thinking of ways three or more people can pleasure each other.
So it’s expanded my sexual map for sure.
Has it made me better sexually? Hopefully yes. We’ve played with quite a few different people and each person brings something different to the table so always learning.
K
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More confident, for sure. I didn’t have much experience before I joined the first time. Then I had plenty and my confidence grew. Then I married my ex husband and he smashed my confidence completely. It’s taken a long time and a lot of dicks to get through but it’s back |
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I’d say I’m more open minded and has certainly helped with my confidence big time, wouldn’t say it’s made us better at having sex though we were always good at sex , has helped with staying in shape too x |
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"No I'm still pretty middle of the road
Middle of the road in our location means we're a big hole, never filled in properly, and breaks people's backs if they don't look what they're doing ."
I'd say that's a fair description.  |
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"Hey you lovely lot
So has swinging made you better at sex, broadened your horizons, shown you things you didn't know you liked, empowered you etc etc
S xxx"
Nope, always had the nack For a bit of filth! X |
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"Oh hell yeah. I was totally vanilla and a right insecure prude before I started this malarkey! "
Oh boy, you are on the accelerated learning curve then, I would never have guessed 
Keep up the good work |
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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago
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"Oh hell yeah. I was totally vanilla and a right insecure prude before I started this malarkey!
Oh boy, you are on the accelerated learning curve then, I would never have guessed
Keep up the good work "
Oh I intend to Whilst eating those chocolates I have been adding some things to my 2024 Fucket List |
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"Never swung unless you count having two women at once swinging but always been good at sex because I love women and know what they like and how to satisfy them and always put their needs first ."
You don’t love punctuation though |
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I don't really understand the concept or the desire to have sex with strangers in a club or anywhere else .prefer one to one and actually getting to know that person compleatly and inside out and reaching sexual forfofilment with them .but of course im a man and was not opposed to another lady joining us lol .but not with my new love its just me and her.im here only for forums and friends
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Yes, it definitely has been an education over the many years since I started with my first wife in the 80's. I happily do things now that I couldn't have imagined then (we didn't have so much porn to give us ideas) |
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the things iv'e seen the things iv'e taken part in have really broadened my mind and people i'm still on that journey 