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By *ora the explorer OP Woman over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

A lot of men, and I mean a lot seem to say they prefer older women (I don’t mean just to get in my knickers I mean people I know well or have met for years). So to those who do I just wondered why?

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By *ayK2023Woman over a year ago

Burntisland

"A lot of men, and I mean a lot seem to say they prefer older women (I don’t mean just to get in my knickers I mean people I know well or have met for years). So to those who do I just wondered why? "

Very good question. I've also wondered why this is.

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By *ora the explorer OP Woman over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Very good question. I've also wondered why this is. "

When I first joined here I thought all the messages from the young ones were a wind up! It’s always intrigued me as to why.

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By *icolerobbieCouple over a year ago

walsall

I think it’s cos we’re awesome!

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By *hilloutMan over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

Perhaps the expectation they'd be more experienced or mature?

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By *wlmanMan over a year ago

Rugby

"I think it’s cos we’re awesome!"

Got it in one!

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By *ora the explorer OP Woman over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"I think it’s cos we’re awesome!"

Well obviously that

but wondered if there were any other reasons

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By *eckard2019Man over a year ago

North West Durham

When I was younger (so much younger than today) I liked much older women, never really went for 18 year olds even when I was that age. I think it was that they always seemed more confident and comfortable in themselves.

Now I'm the age of the women I preferred back then and I've caught up to a degree. Still like an older woman but quite like my own age these days.

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By *ora the explorer OP Woman over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"Perhaps the expectation they'd be more experienced or mature?

Haha. In for a shock with me then eh?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Because you can teach us to be better at it

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By *ora the explorer OP Woman over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"When I was younger (so much younger than today) I liked much older women, never really went for 18 year olds even when I was that age. I think it was that they always seemed more confident and comfortable in themselves.

Now I'm the age of the women I preferred back then and I've caught up to a degree. Still like an older woman but quite like my own age these days. "

So more experienced, confident etc

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By *iddlesticksMan over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.

I prefer people who I like regardless of age.

I happen to like you because you are who you are.

It just seems to be that when you’re my age, most people interested in me aren’t spring chickens even if they look like they’re in their 20s.

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By *lovetoowatchMan over a year ago

Sheffield

Age is just a number as cliché it sounds. If im attracted to a woman her age is not important if she happens to be older then me im still attracted to her.

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By *old MemberMan over a year ago

Worcester

Well I don't necessarily prefer older women, just ones closer to my age. I think it's to do with generation likes and conversation subjects. We tend to be on the same wavelength if we are a similar age. My searches always begin at 45 years and over.

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By *ora the explorer OP Woman over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"I prefer people who I like regardless of age.

I happen to like you because you are who you are.

It just seems to be that when you’re my age, most people interested in me aren’t spring chickens even if they look like they’re in their 20s.

Is this a roundabout way of saying I look like I’m in my twenties Fiddles?

I bloody knew I loved you.

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By *illy IdolMan over a year ago

Midlands

Because they're easier

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By *ora the explorer OP Woman over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"Well I don't necessarily prefer older women, just ones closer to my age. I think it's to do with generation likes and conversation subjects. We tend to be on the same wavelength if we are a similar age. My searches always begin at 45 years and over.

Yeah I totally get this. I would have nothing in common with someone in their twenties

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Not a man sorry but agree with _hillout, but I think men that aren't confident will like someone that takes the lead or verbalises what they want over someone they would need to teach or fumble around guessing and trying to work out rather than learn from. So older equals becoming better in bed because they're more likely to learn.

Could have worded that better. But sod it.

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By *ora the explorer OP Woman over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"Because they're easier

. FAF?

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By *ealitybitesMan over a year ago

Belfast

I've always preferred women of a similar age to me at whatever stage I was at.

Now that I am an older man I still feel the same way.

I don't have even a slight tingle when presented with pics of younger women. The opposite in fact.

It has nothing to do with experience and more to do with an attraction to women on a journey similar to my own.

Older women with lots of life experience are more attractive than those with lots of sexual experience.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'd rather chat to someone from 28 - 55. I'm 36, and want a decent conversation. Love building up chemistry and find people in this age range can hold a conversation better. Maybe more life experience? Also from a sexual point of view there is more controlled passion and experience. But yes think the fact that I am ideally looking for someone 8 years younger up to 19 years older shows that I prefer a more mature woman.

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By *illy IdolMan over a year ago

Midlands

"Because they're easier

. FAF?"

See

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By *ora the explorer OP Woman over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"Not a man sorry but agree with _hillout, but I think men that aren't confident will like someone that takes the lead or verbalises what they want over someone they would need to teach or fumble around guessing and trying to work out rather than learn from. So older equals becoming better in bed because they're more likely to learn.

Could have worded that better. But sod it."

True. I totally understand that. Definitely could be a reason

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By *atch1982Man over a year ago

Abingdon

Yeah it’s a maturity thing I think! Anyone that calls me ‘bruv’ or can’t string a sentence together on text is an instant turn off

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By *iddlesticksMan over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.

"I prefer people who I like regardless of age.

I happen to like you because you are who you are.

It just seems to be that when you’re my age, most people interested in me aren’t spring chickens even if they look like they’re in their 20s.

Is this a roundabout way of saying I look like I’m in my twenties Fiddles?

I bloody knew I loved you. "

Who, me, would I, awhhh stop it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

While many men may like older women statistically most men prefer younger women

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By *acrobMan over a year ago

South Worcestershire

I think - I hope! - it’s because of that whole older bringing knowledge and confidence thing!

Young bodies are something else they look and feel incredible but I don’t have one any more! What I hope I do have is confidence about what I want and how to find ways to please.

Older women seem to have that too, and there is nothing - and I mean nothing - more attractive than a woman who knows what she wants and isn’t afraid to demand it!

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By *ora the explorer OP Woman over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"I'd rather chat to someone from 28 - 55. I'm 36, and want a decent conversation. Love building up chemistry and find people in this age range can hold a conversation better. Maybe more life experience? Also from a sexual point of view there is more controlled passion and experience. But yes think the fact that I am ideally looking for someone 8 years younger up to 19 years older shows that I prefer a more mature woman. "

Oh we’re definitely passionate

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By *enk15Man over a year ago

Evesham

When I was in my early twenties it was predominantly 3 things:

- The allure of being a toyboy

- being inexperienced thinking it would be better to be with someone who knew what they were. (Avoiding a blind leading the blind situation)

- Sexual attraction

Feels like I am fast approaching the age where i will prefer women my own age though

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By *ora the explorer OP Woman over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"While many men may like older women statistically most men prefer younger women"

This is what I thought to be honest. Maybe it’s just a fab thing

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By *ora the explorer OP Woman over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"Yeah it’s a maturity thing I think! Anyone that calls me ‘bruv’ or can’t string a sentence together on text is an instant turn off"

WUU2 bro

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Women reach sexual peak later than men don't they? Or is that an urban legend?

Regardless, this may have something to do with it? With age comes wisdom and experience etc?

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By *ayfantasiserMan over a year ago

Nottingham/Derby

For me it’s that a lot of “older” women are so much more confident in themselves, and that is a very attractive trait to me. There’s always that twinkle in the eye, like they’re in on a secret that you’re not but if you click, they might let you in on it! In the bedroom, that extra experience and sometimes taking the reins is incredibly sexy. I had an experience with an older woman when I was at uni and working in Argos! We clicked, flirted mildly for weeks, then she was on a night out and things progressed. It was an eye-opening experience in every good way imaginable!

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By *ora the explorer OP Woman over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"I think - I hope! - it’s because of that whole older bringing knowledge and confidence thing!

Young bodies are something else they look and feel incredible but I don’t have one any more! What I hope I do have is confidence about what I want and how to find ways to please.

Older women seem to have that too, and there is nothing - and I mean nothing - more attractive than a woman who knows what she wants and isn’t afraid to demand it!

Do you think? I think I scare people off with my wants and demands

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By *ertiBMan over a year ago

Shaftesbury

Unless you go for the whole “corrupt an innocent maiden” thing, there’s something infinitely more sexy about a woman who is old enough to have a real, calm confidence - as opposed to the faked or naive bravado of youth. Plus there’s the idea that such a person, who in having this makes you feel more assured to be with and “grown up” also wants to do incredibly dirty things with/to you. It’s almost a bit taboo

Being worldly wise - as opposed to simple “done lots of things” experience - has also been a very attractive quality to me.

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By *ora the explorer OP Woman over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"Women reach sexual peak later than men don't they? Or is that an urban legend?

Regardless, this may have something to do with it? With age comes wisdom and experience etc? "

I keep thinking I’m at my sexual peak but it just keep getting peakier!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I like older women because there is generally less drama and we can be honest and adult about our likes and dislikes.

This might just be me so I accept I may be wrong, but older women are also less quick to judge and to engage in conversation easier

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By *hgoonthenMan over a year ago

Smallwood

Like others have posted I suspect it’s a confidence thing, less hang ups, better conversation, less likely to play games etc

I guess similar to older guys, we’re just better, then again I would say that ha

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By *ora the explorer OP Woman over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"I like older women because there is generally less drama and we can be honest and adult about our likes and dislikes.

This might just be me so I accept I may be wrong, but older women are also less quick to judge and to engage in conversation easier

Yeah. Maybe the less drama, nagging, know what they want etc.

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By *affeine DuskMan over a year ago

Caerphilly

It's the free bus pass for me.

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By *ora the explorer OP Woman over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"It's the free bus pass for me.

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By *atch1982Man over a year ago

Abingdon

"Yeah it’s a maturity thing I think! Anyone that calls me ‘bruv’ or can’t string a sentence together on text is an instant turn off

WUU2 bro"

Arrrrrgggghhhhhhhh

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Women reach sexual peak later than men don't they? Or is that an urban legend?

Regardless, this may have something to do with it? With age comes wisdom and experience etc?

I keep thinking I’m at my sexual peak but it just keep getting peakier!!

Peakier! Ooff, you absolute minx! How far is Herts from Liverpool again?...

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By *ourmetGentlemanMan over a year ago

NOTTINGHAM

Well personally, age doesn't really matter to me, I like women around my age, I like older women, I just like women in general

Have I chosen an older woman over a younger one before? Yes, but it wasn't because of their age. It was because she was sexy, and her sense of humor was darker than mine and that's saying something

I'm a social chameleon though, I'm happy chatting to any one

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By *ora the explorer OP Woman over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Well personally, age doesn't really matter to me, I like women around my age, I like older women, I just like women in general

Have I chosen an older woman over a younger one before? Yes, but it wasn't because of their age. It was because she was sexy, and her sense of humor was darker than mine and that's saying something

I'm a social chameleon though, I'm happy chatting to any one"

You’re young. How much older have you been with if you don’t mind me asking?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

In my experience is because older women know what they like and want and are happy to openly discuss it with their partner and guests. It makes the meeting more enjoyable for all. In my opinion.

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By *ora the explorer OP Woman over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

In my experience is because older women know what they like and want and are happy to openly discuss it with their partner and guests. It makes the meeting more enjoyable for all. In my opinion. "

Could be this. I’m very much like that. I know what I want and am happy to be totally honest about it. If someone’s happy with that then all good, if they’re not I’d move on rather than try and persuade someone.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

More life experience makes for better conversation, and intellectual stimulation.

They are more confident in who they are and what they aren't, and aren't dependant on self gratification Instagram filtered photos, who would sooner seek validation from strangers abroad then those closest to them.

This is my mind set to dating, not just fab.

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By *ora the explorer OP Woman over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"More life experience makes for better conversation, and intellectual stimulation.

This is my mind set to dating, not just fab."

Yes! This is true

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

For me it’s the confidence, being aware of what they want and other than that I’ve just always been attracted to older than me…can’t really explain

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Older ladies seem to know themselves and aren’t false,have less inhibitions and obviously have more experience,and confidence

To me an older lady is much more desirable than a young looking girl - keep up the good work you milfs lol

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By *icentiousCouple over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Because they know what they want and don’t spend all their time attempting to decide what they don’t want.

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By *ora the explorer OP Woman over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

The experience thing though. It’s not always the case. I was with the same person for 30 years and I’m picky as fuck as to who I meet now so it’s not been many so although I’m confident in what I want etc I wouldn’t say I’m experienced. Do you think experience is expected if they’re older?

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By *ickdasterdly51Man over a year ago

Lingfield

Lots of reasons. Me being 63 means they catch my eye more but mainly because some/lots of them are actually drop dead gorgeous. As an older man I think I'd feel more comfortable with a mature woman (and I mean that in a nice way!). Advertising today seems to be fixated on younger bodies but thankfully older women (and men) are being appreciated more. Also, I think the perception that they have experience also counts for a lot.

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By *reakbedsnotheartsMan over a year ago

bedford

Now I'm the age of the women I preferred back then and I've caught up to a degree. Still like an older woman but quite like my own age these days.

So more experienced, confident etc "

Definitely this response

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By *ensuallover1000Man over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

"The experience thing though. It’s not always the case. I was with the same person for 30 years and I’m picky as fuck as to who I meet now so it’s not been many so although I’m confident in what I want etc I wouldn’t say I’m experienced. Do you think experience is expected if they’re older?"

By Jove yes! I expect nothing less than a professional porn star performance m’lady

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By *ora the explorer OP Woman over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

By Jove yes! I expect nothing less than a professional porn star performance m’lady

I’ll do some research. And I’m a good actress. Give me an hour. Put the kettle on

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By *heFabtasticsCouple over a year ago

brentwood

Because you can’t teach experience

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By *ayK2023Woman over a year ago

Burntisland

"I think it’s cos we’re awesome!"

Wait, you're right!

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By *ealitybitesMan over a year ago

Belfast

My experience over 8 years here is that age does not equal either experience or confidence.

It certainly doesn't in my own case and the majority of women I have chatted to in that time have neither and that is often their reason for being here.

Most of those women would instantly reject an approach from a much younger man because they would struggle to understand why they could be attractive to someone of that age and would think it was a wind up.

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By *ora the explorer OP Woman over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"My experience over 8 years here is that age does not equal either experience or confidence.

It certainly doesn't in my own case and the majority of women I have chatted to in that time have neither and that is often their reason for being here.

Exactly. This is me. I don’t get it

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By *ayfantasiserMan over a year ago

Nottingham/Derby

That’s a good point. Everyone’s journey is different, so age doesn’t necessarily equal experience. It has in mind but I suppose that’s just how the stars have aligned. I’d be interested to hear how it is the other way, for example if someone older chooses to look for younger people, why is that? (But I’m not here to hijack the discussion!)

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By *ora the explorer OP Woman over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

I seem to be attracted more to younger. Tends to be men in their forties for me really.

I worry older men won’t keep up with me

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By *ayfantasiserMan over a year ago

Nottingham/Derby

I seem to be attracted more to younger. Tends to be men in their forties for me really.

I worry older men won’t keep up with me

Haha, I bet they’d love to try though!

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By *inger_SnapWoman over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

I always ask the younger guys why... It's mostly because we're more confident, we know what we like/want, less drama, no game playing and we went be looking for something "more", better communication.

I agree with most of that!

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By *ora the explorer OP Woman over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

I seem to be attracted more to younger. Tends to be men in their forties for me really.

I worry older men won’t keep up with me

Haha, I bet they’d love to try though! "

I don’t know. I think my age range only goes up to 50

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By *ayfantasiserMan over a year ago

Nottingham/Derby

I seem to be attracted more to younger. Tends to be men in their forties for me really.

I worry older men won’t keep up with me

Haha, I bet they’d love to try though!

I don’t know. I think my age range only goes up to 50

Do you think you go more for blokes in their 40s for similar reasons? That they’re a bit more settled in themselves, know what they want, aren’t necessarily too try-hard?

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By *inger_SnapWoman over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

"My experience over 8 years here is that age does not equal either experience or confidence.

It certainly doesn't in my own case and the majority of women I have chatted to in that time have neither and that is often their reason for being here.

I did used to think that, now I just go for it, what have I got to lose? Time spent with a hot young thing... Yes please!

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By *ora the explorer OP Woman over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"My experience over 8 years here is that age does not equal either experience or confidence.

It certainly doesn't in my own case and the majority of women I have chatted to in that time have neither and that is often their reason for being here.

I did used to think that, now I just go for it, what have I got to lose? Time spent with a hot young thing... Yes please!"

Go you! Love this

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Lots of different reasons

Easier. Extra curvy sometimes. No drama/ hassle

Plus, we all grew up with the odd teacher we fancied

Many say they “like” older women, how many would date an older woman? I find many guys just want an extra hole to fuck

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By *ora the explorer OP Woman over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

I seem to be attracted more to younger. Tends to be men in their forties for me really.

I worry older men won’t keep up with me

Haha, I bet they’d love to try though!

I don’t know. I think my age range only goes up to 50

Do you think you go more for blokes in their 40s for similar reasons? That they’re a bit more settled in themselves, know what they want, aren’t necessarily too try-hard? "

Maybe. Probably more coz they’re more likely to want a regular thing than a one off. I’m not interested in one offs

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Experience. “They have been to the puppet show and have seen the strings” (if you like 90s movies you’ll know that quote)

A woman who knows what she wants.

A woman who knows what sexy is.

A conversation that doesn’t involve Kim kardashian or Taylor swift.

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By *illy IdolMan over a year ago

Midlands

"I like older women because there is generally less drama and we can be honest and adult about our likes and dislikes.

This might just be me so I accept I may be wrong, but older women are also less quick to judge and to engage in conversation easier

I agree

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By *ora the explorer OP Woman over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"I always ask the younger guys why... It's mostly because we're more confident, we know what we like/want, less drama, no game playing and we went be looking for something "more", better communication.

I agree with most of that! "

Missed this. Yes I think that’s true. In my case anyway. Definitely not and will never be looking for anything more but I’m also not interested in one offs, it is actually hard to find an in between.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

They know what they want and the talc covers up the crusty bits.

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By *ora the explorer OP Woman over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"They know what they want and the talc covers up the crusty bits. "

. I forgot about talc! Not used it for years

. Used to love white musk talc

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By *hilloutMan over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

"Perhaps the expectation they'd be more experienced or mature?

Haha. In for a shock with me then eh?

I had no complaints

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By *iss DevilWoman over a year ago

Bedford

"I think it’s cos we’re awesome!

Well obviously that

but wondered if there were any other reasons

Older women are more desperate? They know they have no chance with younger ones? Or they believe in "Mrs Robinson"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Speaking from my side I find that they know what they want and comfortable telling you if your not doing it right.also there more settled in life and can take there time not looking for more.

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By *2000ManMan over a year ago

Worthing

Older women are better with initial chat. A lot of younger ones think they just being there is enough and not say much.

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By *batMan over a year ago

Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales)

"While many men may like older women statistically most men prefer younger women

This is what I thought to be honest. Maybe it’s just a fab thing "

But is this just perception/ bias or is there actual data available?

I think younger women can be gorgeous, but (sweeping statement warning) are less likely to interest me intellectually. That’s in general terms though, I’m sure there are also really interesting younger women out there too.

Gbat

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By *atnip make me purrWoman over a year ago

Reading

"Because they're easier

Oh no we are not. Nor us fatties.we have standards and lots of choice.

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By *rHotNottsMan over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"Perhaps the expectation they'd be more experienced or mature?

That’s why I did when I was young , I liked the idea someone would teach me about sex

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By *illy IdolMan over a year ago

Midlands

"Because they're easier

Oh no we are not. Nor us fatties.we have standards and lots of choice."

I have a lot of respect for you, Catnip

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By *obin444Man over a year ago

Windsor

I just prefer hanging out with people my own age.

Chances are, you’ll have more in common.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think you may have actually answered your own question?

I would have replied privately, but you have blocked my age group....(being an older Man!)

your own profile reads at the start...."Menopausal, moody, picky, slightly annoying, very stubborn, mostly can’t be arsed."

I think some of the previous threads covering this topic when referring to older Women, were taking about 70 Plus year olds (not so much younger 50's)

Older women are so much more relaxed and are incredibly sexy as result. I'm 68, but would love to meet an older Woman ....in her 70's 80's....and I know much younger guys then me who feel the exact same. It's just a thing...I often wonder why myself!

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By *igboytim21Man over a year ago

Midlands

Younger people all have mental health disorders, social media has made young women an absolute twitching mess. I'd fuck a young woman but will stay clear of them in the long run as they're mental. Older people have not needed social media for attention and are far less likely to have had their brains fried. Its true. That ain't no shit neither.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have kinksnfor all sorts, but the more mature lady appeals for the experience & potentially them taking control

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Do they say it with respect? Because they should respect your elders

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I believe because they lack everything and we know what to do. I believe it is because it on a tick list. Women of maturity had life experience.. Young lads none yet my belief and what am told by the young lads.

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By *ulfilthmentMan over a year ago

Just around the corner

At my age there aren’t that many women old enough to consider me ‘younger’. There also aren’t many younger women desperately seeking older men.

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By *ommy2125Man over a year ago

newport

I think part of it is the boyish nature of men, the Mrs Robinson seduction, its quite the fantasy having an experienced woman desire and seduce the younger chap.

For me I think it's born from being around older women when I was a teenager and started dating. The lust and desire for a fuller figured and mature lady has always stuck as a preference.

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By *oofy321Man over a year ago

moon base zero

Confession time

When I was young I'd see a mature woman and assumed that she was desperate because of her age

Obviously I've grown up now and dont think that x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I tend to have stuff in common with them in terms of my life- having a kid, a long term partner etc. I have tended to get on better with them in terms of many of my interests- Books, film, art, exhibitions. I find them physically attractive. I find them to be more emotionally intelligent which matches what I want from relationships. I find that if they’re interested in me, it feels more genuine and they are confident and not afraid of expressing affection/ love/ other feelings. In my experience** many of them want to feel young and present a side of themselves they don’t get to show much, when they’re with me. Sexually, they’re often more open to the kissy kissy romantic sensual sex that I’m interested in.

Those are my reasons. Other than the mummy issues that we all have, Nora.

Ffs can’t type my hands are so cold

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By *illan-KillashMan over a year ago

London/Sussex/Surrey/Berks/Hants

"While many men may like older women statistically most men prefer younger women"

FFS, don't tell Nora that.......

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Mummy issues?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Younger people all have mental health disorders, social media has made young women an absolute twitching mess. I'd fuck a young woman but will stay clear of them in the long run as they're mental. Older people have not needed social media for attention and are far less likely to have had their brains fried. Its true. That ain't no shit neither. "

Be interested to see your research sources on that fella?

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By *stellaWoman over a year ago

London

"Confession time

When I was young I'd see a mature woman and assumed that she was desperate because of her age

Obviously I've grown up now and dont think that x"

Have to admit I wondered this too.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I tend to have stuff in common with them in terms of my life- having a kid, a long term partner etc. I have tended to get on better with them in terms of many of my interests- Books, film, art, exhibitions. I find them physically attractive. I find them to be more emotionally intelligent which matches what I want from relationships. I find that if they’re interested in me, it feels more genuine and they are confident and not afraid of expressing affection/ love/ other feelings. In my experience** many of them want to feel young and present a side of themselves they don’t get to show much, when they’re with me. Sexually, they’re often more open to the kissy kissy romantic sensual sex that I’m interested in.

Those are my reasons. Other than the mummy issues that we all have, Nora.

Ffs can’t type my hands are so cold

Is it because young chaps on Fab have an an Oedipus complex?

Perhaps it’s beca Fab a higher proportion of the mature lady as members

Alternatively they could have watched the Christmas showing of The Graduate on BBC 4 and have the raging horn!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

No. And actually I’d imagine that most I’d the women around my age are more sexually experienced in terms of having wider range of sex with a wider range of people. I think that is a generational thing though.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Those are my reasons. Other than the mummy issues that we all have, Nora.

Ffs can’t type my hands are so cold

Is it because young chaps on Fab have an an Oedipus complex?

Perhaps it’s beca Fab a higher proportion of the mature lady as members

Alternatively they could have watched the Christmas showing of The Graduate on BBC 4 and have the raging horn!"

My age range on dating apps isn’t higher than about 33/34 usually. I find older women attractive but I don’t seek them out. On fab there’s more likely to be older women seeking or open to younger men so I can explore that attraction here. On a dating site, even though they may be not be looking for a relationship, they’re usually not interested in younger men. It’s a waste of a like. And you only get a certain amount of likes a day.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Is it because young chaps on Fab have an an Oedipus complex?

Perhaps it’s beca Fab a higher proportion of the mature lady as members

Alternatively they could have watched the Christmas showing of The Graduate on BBC 4 and have the raging horn!"

Also I think some people attracted to older people have issues surrounding their parents and trauma and they’re looking for people to perform love and affection in ways their parents never did. - Be emotionally available. Be affectionate. Hold them. Etc etc.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Those are my reasons. Other than the mummy issues that we all have, Nora.

Ffs can’t type my hands are so cold

Is it because young chaps on Fab have an an Oedipus complex?

Perhaps it’s beca Fab a higher proportion of the mature lady as members

Alternatively they could have watched the Christmas showing of The Graduate on BBC 4 and have the raging horn!

Don’t you go out and meet people?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Mummy issues?"

Obviously

We know there’s no genuine attraction to anyone

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By *uddy laneMan over a year ago

dudley

They always have a hard boiled sweet to offer from the depths of their handbag.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Mummy issues?

Obviously

We know there’s no genuine attraction to anyone

I’m being foreseefish

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

They just know what they want, don't they?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Those are my reasons. Other than the mummy issues that we all have, Nora.

Ffs can’t type my hands are so cold

Is it because young chaps on Fab have an an Oedipus complex?

Perhaps it’s beca Fab a higher proportion of the mature lady as members

Alternatively they could have watched the Christmas showing of The Graduate on BBC 4 and have the raging horn!

Really? Found the complete opposite myself. Matched with so many older women. Remember, if she’s in your feed on the app, it’s because she’s set her age range to include you.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Those are my reasons. Other than the mummy issues that we all have, Nora.

Ffs can’t type my hands are so cold

Is it because young chaps on Fab have an an Oedipus complex?

Perhaps it’s beca Fab a higher proportion of the mature lady as members

Alternatively they could have watched the Christmas showing of The Graduate on BBC 4 and have the raging horn!

Don’t you go out and meet people?"

If you mean chat people up at a bar, no because when I go out, I go out to spend time with people I’m with, not searching for sex/ sexual partners. There’s an app that makes it easy to meet people looking for the same things as me, I use those. Means I can spend my time out enjoying it for what it is

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By *onguiliciousMan over a year ago

Northallerton

Let’s face it so many guys will pretty much say anything to get their leg over…..desperate comes to mind.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Those are my reasons. Other than the mummy issues that we all have, Nora.

Ffs can’t type my hands are so cold

Is it because young chaps on Fab have an an Oedipus complex?

Perhaps it’s beca Fab a higher proportion of the mature lady as members

Alternatively they could have watched the Christmas showing of The Graduate on BBC 4 and have the raging horn!

Really? Found the complete opposite myself. Matched with so many older women. Remember, if she’s in your feed on the app, it’s because she’s set her age range to include you."

Well then maybe I just don’t match with them because of an assumption I’ve made. But I’m happy meeting people no older than 33 on dating apps. Works for me.

Maybe I’m not attractive to older women. Could be that. I’ll live without them on the apps

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I remember the days when you went to a discotheque and stood at the edge of a dance floor watching the girls dancing round their handbags.

As 2am approached the need to kop became increasingly urgent..........the final two records were smooching choones .if you were still on the edge of the dance floor lonely and forlorn at that time you scooped up your mates who were in a similar situation went to the chippy opposite got pie, chips and curry and waited for the all night bus home..........those were the days, Halcyon in fact!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Let’s face it so many guys will pretty much say anything to get their leg over…..desperate comes to mind. "

Not all Tongue not all!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I remember the days when you went to a discotheque and stood at the edge of a dance floor watching the girls dancing round their handbags.

This is strange behaviour to me. And most definitely not a fun night out. If I go out, I’m going to have fun, dance, laugh with my mates and not give a shit about strangers who I might never see again.

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By *oxy jWoman over a year ago

somerset

attraction for me is key and both ways i attract guys from mid 20s to mid 60s my actual age range on here no doubt if i change that the there would be more but for me if theres any sign of age play then ill not be interested ..

cougar mature mommoy aunt seeking type guys just turn me off lucky that its so easy to spot ,..age is a number attraction is a must ....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You get less attitude, you know where you stand and let’s face it…many older women are just as attractive as their 20 something counterparts.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I remember the days when you went to a discotheque and stood at the edge of a dance floor watching the girls dancing round their handbags.

It’s a generational issue I would suggest!

There were no apps nor feeds just interaction on a level of the time. Haphazard, basic and rewarding sometimes. Plus the chippy curry was a winner?

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By *ustlooking1234100Man over a year ago

colchester

I love the older female.mainly because they dont mess you around.if they dont want it they tell u.if they dont like u they tell u.

Way more to the point than the younger ones who like to play silly mind games.alao they tend to be more attractive to me.thats all.no disrespect meant to anyone reading this.xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I remember the days when you went to a discotheque and stood at the edge of a dance floor watching the girls dancing round their handbags.

Perhaps I am strange as I come from a time long ago!

But to correlate young Stephen you may tonight meet someone from fab this evening and never see them again...........but you’d have missed out on a sumptuous chippy curry !

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By *izzmasterzeroMan over a year ago

Aberdeen

Why have a girl when you can have a woman

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By *arkcrystalMan over a year ago

Bristol

Mother issues perhaps for some.

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By *estlands4Man over a year ago

Sidmouth

As a “more mature” guy why wouldn’t I like an older woman?

Age is but a number after all, more importantly to me is do they know what they like & can they communicate their desires…

More mature ladies do tend to be better at this so sex tends to be more rewarding on both sides x

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By *izzmasterzeroMan over a year ago

Aberdeen

Also women are just more interesting... ask a younger girl about herself these days and all you get is... "dunno, I like makeup and tiktok." Older women don't bullshit or mess about either, know what they want and will straight up tell you.

And the things most women hate about aging.. grey hairs, crows feet... they are actually attractive features to have.

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By *he-ProfessorMan over a year ago

cheltenham

Confidence is very sexy, older women tend to be less hung up on their own body image and have learned to love themselves more.

They also know what it is they like and are more likely to be open about it and even ask for specific things.

All that and many experiences both good and, in hindsight, amusing make them more confident.

Confidence is sexy (until it turns to arrogance of course)

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Thanks to Nora for the thread with all of the praise for older women

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By *stbury DavenportMan over a year ago

Nottingham

I enjoy the company of older women. I also enjoy the company of younger women. I even enjoy the company of women my own age.

Women of all ages have different things to recommend them.

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By *hief_Of_AlwaysMan over a year ago

The last house on the left…

No bullshit. I know exactly where I stand with them, for better or worst.

Also, I’ve been taught a thing or two from older women

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By *ustlooking1234100Man over a year ago

colchester

Older woman are great end of story xx

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By *aygallaMan over a year ago

newton aycliffe

Personally I just find the more mature woman massively attractive looks and body it’s a thing you’re attracted to or not I think?

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By *inkygentkentMan over a year ago

Maidstone

I've always felt more comfortable in the presence of older women in general.

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By *ittlebirdWoman over a year ago

The Big Smoke

Love this thread Nora

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By *illy IdolMan over a year ago

Midlands

"Love this thread Nora

How many have you added to your hotlist?

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By *ittlebirdWoman over a year ago

The Big Smoke

"Love this thread Nora

How many have you added to your hotlist?"

My hotlist is broken… says it’s full

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By *ustlooking1234100Man over a year ago

colchester

Mines filling up nicley from this thread alone.;-)

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By *oppleWangerMan over a year ago

Gods Country

Older (or mature as I prefer) women tend to have their shit in order, they know exactly what they want, no bullshit, no messing around, no talking shit. What you see is what you get - everyone knows where they stand. They also have experience

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

*Searches thread for all the cliches…

Has anyone said it’s just a preference?

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By *o_yeur_eyes_onlyMan over a year ago

Londontown

Dated a (slightly) older lady for a couple of years.

Best sex ever!

Grounded, confident, super sexy, knew what she wanted, no silly games, intellectual, so much fun.

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By *on Juan the MADridMan over a year ago

Lisbon/ North England/ Wales/ Madrid/

Mature ladies turn me on, that’s it, no rational on behind, now but as well years ago when I was much younger.

Mature ladies can’t figure out how sexy they display for me and how enjoyable can be the sex.

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By *unCycleGymRepeatMan over a year ago

Greater London

More difficult to score an older women than a younger one.

I just like the challenge tbh. I seem to be a housewives favourite ATM.

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By *endydick.CumbersnatchMan over a year ago

If it's well maintained, then age is irrelevant

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By *ags73Man over a year ago

glasgow-ish

In my twenties, between girlfriends and befriended an older woman at the bar near my work, she was late 40s, so quite an age gap but we got on great and had a ‘with benefits’ thing for a few months

I learned so much.

It wasn’t a Mrs Robinson sort of thing, she didn’t seduce me, we liked a drink, a laugh and I stayed over.

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By *ora the explorer OP Woman over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"Thanks to Nora for the thread with all of the praise for older women

I didn’t do it for that, I’m honestly intrigued about it. It is nice to read the comments though

. Perhaps we have got a bit longer left in us

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By *ora the explorer OP Woman over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"If it's well maintained, then age is irrelevant "

It?

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By *r SensualMan over a year ago

London

Most times they come with less headache and are able to contextualise their thoughts and feelings in a rational matter.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If it's well maintained, then age is irrelevant

It?"

Vag, babe. Vag.

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By *hesblokeMan over a year ago

Derbyshire village

Perceived maturity and experience I guess.

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By *ora the explorer OP Woman over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"If it's well maintained, then age is irrelevant

It?

Vag, babe. Vag. "

. Ah I see

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Their confidence, experience and also being good company as they have somethingto talk about.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Thanks to Nora for the thread with all of the praise for older women

I didn’t do it for that, I’m honestly intrigued about it. It is nice to read the comments though

. Perhaps we have got a bit longer left in us

Oh I know you didn't! Just a nice bonus

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By *elix SightedMan over a year ago

Cloud 8

The older the better. I’m still trying to find a 99 year old.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"They know what they want and the talc covers up the crusty bits.

. I forgot about talc! Not used it for years

. Used to love white musk talc

You must be VERY moist.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Thanks to Nora for the thread with all of the praise for older women

I didn’t do it for that, I’m honestly intrigued about it. It is nice to read the comments though

. Perhaps we have got a bit longer left in us

Oh I know you didn't! Just a nice bonus

You knew we all loved you already though

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

For the same reason we like vintage wine my dear. You just get better with age.

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By *aitonelMan over a year ago

Liverpool

If I like you I like you. It's as simple as that. Age is a very small factor in that, it plays its part but it's rarely impacting my decisions (legality obviously).

I'm not going to blow smoke up your arse because you (not any single person) are older than me.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Well.it was a older woman sorry mature woman who took my virginity. Yep absolutely fantastic. Always loved a mature woman growing up and a lot of fun .

So you guys try 1 out my advice do complement them and mean it ,

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By *ruceyyMan over a year ago

London

Because it's hot Nora!

I think as well there's something slightlyyy taboo about an older woman wanting a younger guy..not sure why.

Remember in school when girls only date older? It's like that. But a woman being vulnerable to a guy say 10/20 years younger is just *chefs kisses*

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Good question , for me it’s not specifically there age and more that I’m attracted the there personality and for the most part they so happen to older

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By *ongue tastikMan over a year ago

Chorley

Older women more experienced and the way you sound wen you moaning real turn on

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By *eroLondonMan over a year ago

Mayfair

When Nørå becomes a nonagenarian that's when I'm going to make a move on her. Just another ½ dozen years to go.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I agree with most of that! "

I have also asked a lot of people - and get the same response. They say they feel we are more confident about our bodies, have less hang ups, know what we want and like in bed and not afraid to say or ask, less needy and clingy.

I have another theory myself about subconsciously being reminded of someone but won’t share for risk of getting my head bitten off haha

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By *iss DevilWoman over a year ago

Bedford

I agree with most of that!

I have another theory myself about subconsciously being reminded of someone but won’t share for risk of getting my head bitten off haha "

Lol. Some Freud, by any chance?

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By *UGGYBEAR2015Man over a year ago

BRIDPORT

I find the younger ones way too energetic these days, give me an old plodder anytime, we still arrive at the same place but I’m not on the verge of a heart attack.

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By *reative-mindMan over a year ago

Exeter

How old do you have to be for this question because most women on here seem to be older than me.

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By *TG3Man over a year ago

Dorchester

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By *ora the explorer OP Woman over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"They know what they want and the talc covers up the crusty bits.

. I forgot about talc! Not used it for years

. Used to love white musk talc

You must be VERY moist.

. Mmmmmm moist panties

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By *ora the explorer OP Woman over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"When Nørå becomes a nonagenarian that's when I'm going to make a move on her. Just another ½ dozen years to go.

I bet if I google that it’s someone in their 70s or 80s

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By *essaMayWoman over a year ago

Fairytale Wood

Honest i thenk guys think that older women are easy lay. Desporate for young cock as older guys (partners) are not up to it. Also they see it as being uncomplicated where younger women may want to form attachments.

A real question would be to ask these guys. Would they date these older women, take them to meet their friends/parents, to the pub or works do??

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By *ora the explorer OP Woman over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

A real question would be to ask these guys. Would they date these older women, take them to meet their friends/parents, to the pub or works do??

Good point

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

A real question would be to ask these guys. Would they date these older women, take them to meet their friends/parents, to the pub or works do??

I would date older women , I’m not sure why exactly but I seem to atract women either in there 20’s or around 40 but not my own age

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By *sirapMan over a year ago

Manchester

I find older women incredibly attractive and sexy. It’s down to the fact that I also find confidence attractive and I tend to think older women who are attracted to younger guys are confident and are very sure of what they want. Ultimately, that’s what attracts me to older women.

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By *ixed MisterMan over a year ago

London

Personally, I've always made a better connection with people older than me, even before it being a sexual thing the groups I used to be in were pretty much always older. From there it just seemed to develop to an attraction to older women.

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By *ucka39Man over a year ago

Newcastle

Connection and chemistry is totally different including the sex and intimacy

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By *ora the explorer OP Woman over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Thanks everyone. Been really interesting to read.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Thanks everyone. Been really interesting to read.

x"
Yeah. Thanks everyone x

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