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By (user no longer on site) OP    52 weeks ago

Which part of it is the most difficult to understand? The N or the O?

It's spelt out in black and white.

I'm curious

And if you use more words to say NO politely and be adult it's even bloody worse. Far too many letters I'm guessing.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman 52 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

Occasionally I'll put a thanks on the end if it's a minor infraction.

I like to keep my No pretty succinct and clear though

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By (user no longer on site) OP    52 weeks ago


"Occasionally I'll put a thanks on the end if it's a minor infraction.

I like to keep my No pretty succinct and clear though "

Because manners don't cost a thing right?

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By *eordieJeansCouple 52 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

I say “fuck off”. It usually gets the message across instantly.

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By *hunky GentMan 52 weeks ago

Maldon and Peterborough

We're not all like that.

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By *aith SkynbyrdWoman 52 weeks ago

Somewhere else

I don’t say no. Ever.

Maybe.

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By *ensuallover1000Man 52 weeks ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

‘The man from Del Monte….he say FUCK NO!’

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By (user no longer on site) OP    52 weeks ago


"‘The man from Del Monte….he say FUCK NO!’ "

Maybe I should try that one

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By *orny-ShadowMan 52 weeks ago

burnley

I try talking to people or trying to prove a genuine/legit and here for dun but seems it gets ignored and left but if i say tha ks but no thanks if a guy that is bi messages people get arsy, i not bi or gay its ladies all way for me. And id go above and beyond to please befor myself not just take.

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By *umagain58Man 52 weeks ago

London

Yes sadly happens often here. Afraid lot of arrogant guy think they can do whatever they want. Should always respect others and what like or not. It’s very simple really but some don’t get it

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan 52 weeks ago

Glasgow / London

If it gets all the way to the point where I need to literally and plainly say ‘no’, then someone has been reeeally missing the (lack of) signals to that point.

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By (user no longer on site) OP    52 weeks ago


"If it gets all the way to the point where I need to literally and plainly say ‘no’, then someone has been reeeally missing the (lack of) signals to that point."

This completely!

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By (user no longer on site) 52 weeks ago


"If it gets all the way to the point where I need to literally and plainly say ‘no’, then someone has been reeeally missing the (lack of) signals to that point."

Sorry.

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By *empest2KMan 52 weeks ago

Derby


"Which part of it is the most difficult to understand? The N or the O?

It's spelt out in black and white.

I'm curious

And if you use more words to say NO politely and be adult it's even bloody worse. Far too many letters I'm guessing.

"

I joke with my missus that ‘no’ means ‘yes’, and ‘yes’ means ‘harder’

But in all seriousness, a single ‘no’ (or ‘no thanks’) should be enough. Why others can't accept that, I'll never know

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By *aith SkynbyrdWoman 52 weeks ago

Somewhere else


"If it gets all the way to the point where I need to literally and plainly say ‘no’, then someone has been reeeally missing the (lack of) signals to that point.

This completely! "

I say yes. Up to 11.

Past 11, even.

They soon lose their appetite.

I’m a yes person through and through

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By (user no longer on site) 52 weeks ago

No reply is a no.

Problem solved

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By *weet and SpiceCouple 52 weeks ago

Around the Midlands

You need to add a few more o's to it OP (not the o's that some are thinking of)

Nooooooooooo

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By (user no longer on site) 52 weeks ago

Using the forums to vaguely vent must be so cathartic

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By (user no longer on site) 52 weeks ago

Fine

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By (user no longer on site) 52 weeks ago


"Which part of it is the most difficult to understand? The N or the O?

It's spelt out in black and white.

I'm curious

And if you use more words to say NO politely and be adult it's even bloody worse. Far too many letters I'm guessing.

"

Fragile egos?

Maybe fellas that arnt used to hearing no and think they can pick up whoever they want and think itll be easier on here?

Not everyone is gonna fancy everyone, it's not a personal attack. Just accept it and keep it moving.

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By (user no longer on site) 52 weeks ago


"No reply is a no.

Problem solved "

This.

Unless you want the drammmaaaaaa

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By *aith SkynbyrdWoman 52 weeks ago

Somewhere else

Sometimes, when I say yes, it’s really a no.

When I say no, that doesn’t mean yes.

And maybe means, forget it… maybe

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By *aith SkynbyrdWoman 52 weeks ago

Somewhere else

YES!!!

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By *ea monkeyMan 52 weeks ago

Manchester (he/him)

Consent is everything. Even an ambivalent yes is an amber flag. Enthusiastic consent is essential

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By *ellinever70Woman 52 weeks ago

Ayrshire

I don't think anyone has ever not been able to understand me when I say no

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By *imber wolfMan 52 weeks ago

Aycliffe

Depends on them, if they’ve read my profile and made an effort but I just don’t fancy them I tend to have a little sympathy for them and give them a “no thanks”, maybe even chat a little on the understanding we won’t be meeting.

Otherwise I just don’t reply and block repeat offenders.

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